Post humiliating stories that you were a part off. I'll start
>20
>a manlet
>get a date through my mom
>talk to her over text's
>think she's fat
>finaly on the day of the date we met
>she's not fat but really cute 8/10 at least
>we go to the local restaurant
>we eat
>after she suggests we go to a party of some of the people she knew
>about 50 people there
>we start drinking
>all of a suden this Chad comes to our spot where we've been drinking
>he asks my date if she would like to dance
>since I'm not a dancer I let her go
>he says to me "I'm gonna bring your sister right back" with a wink
>they keep dancing for two songs
>I get sad and alone
>I decide that I'm gonna leave
>as I'm almost out of the door she grabs my hand
>"Where are you going anon?"
>"I'm not feeling well so I'm gonna go home"
>"Oh, I thought you would like to dance with me"
>"It's ok, I'm not much of a dancer anyway"
>"Do you want me to walk you to your car?"
>as I was about to answer this same Chad comes to us with his friend and asks my date if I'm bothering her
>He said it just loud enough so that most of the people are looking at me
>whatthefuckdoIdo.jpg
>after a few moments she says no
>but he interrupts her and says I should probably go
>I just leave without saying anything
>my date stays
>come home (I live alone)
>next day see my phone
>my phone is blowing up with texts from most of my family and some friends
>why did you harass your date anon?
>aperently this Chad posted this on his facebook and my mom saw it.
>never responded to them I just texted my date
>she says it's cool and she will tell them what happend
>she did
>it was two years ago
>I'm still the guy who harassed my date at the party and nobody wants to be my friend because of it.
>my city only has about 50-60k of people to make this even worse.
I'm 22 and a virgin, I only had this one date in my life. I just don't see a way out at the moment. I guess I'm destined to be alone.
Wow you really fucked that up
>>28693383
Stop blaming the victim you prick, he did nothing wrong.
>>28693404
Shut the fuck up shit lord, blaming victims is my indigenous culture
>>28693383
How did I fuck that up? I didn't do anything
>>28693596
Precisely
Doing nothing fucked it up.
Jesus you are a man, not a woman. You are meant to be active. Inactivity and passivity is cause by your low testosterone levels, get them checked.
>>28693596
You got cucked. In fact, I'd say you proactively cucked yourself.
>since I'm not a dancer I let her go
>he says to me "I'm gonna bring your sister right back" with a wink
First fuck up. Learn to be assertive.
>"Where are you going anon?"
>"I'm not feeling well so I'm gonna go home"
>"Oh, I thought you would like to dance with me"
>"It's ok, I'm not much of a dancer anyway"
Cringed hard here and here. Turning your date down for a dance is way more humiliating then trying to dance when you don't know how. You could of asked her to help you and it could of been a cute funny moment.
The Chad/facebook shit isn't your problem.
>>28693719
>You could of asked her to help you and it could of been a cute funny moment.
wat?
have her teach you how to dance. It might of been a little embarrassing, but worlds better than just fucking walking out on her.
>>28693781
Actually OP was probably right to walk out on her.
Why would she run off to dance with some other guy?
>>28693353
How do you think people learn to dance?
Do you think they stand in front of a mirror and practice for hours before stepping onto the dance floor?
Even if you didn't want to dance, you could have just said "I'm not really into dancing, want to grab some food?" since you have a car.
She stayed not because of Chad, but because you gave off a strong implication you didn't want to spend time with her.
>>28693810
>Why would she run off to dance with some other guy?
Because he gave off strong signals of disinterest, and a generally negative attitude?
She really wanted to spend time with him and he didn't give her a chance, she even offered to walk him to his car, the ultimate "get me alone so you can make a fucking move you pussy" from her, and he even blew that.
>>28693810
>>28693815
Both partially true, you should have spoken up for yourself when Chad was trying to get your date, but she also shouldn't have gone off to dance with some other guy so easily while on your date
>>28693837
>She really wanted to spend time with him and he didn't give her a chance, she even offered to walk him to his car, the ultimate "get me alone so you can make a fucking move you pussy" from her, and he even blew that.
>oh fuck my pussy you big cuck
>im so glad we're alone i been waiting for you to make a move all night
>did you get it hot when i ran off with other guys
>those others guys really got my pussy went
>be me 16 and in high school at the time
>have had one girlfriend ever, my current girlfriend Jessica
>Chads make fun of her and call her 'Bowser'
>idk how chads know about mario but shes basically as fat as bowser
>we date for a few weeks and she keeps making subtle hints that she wants to have sex
>finally get the courage, meet over at her house one day after school
>her mom is gone, iguessthisisgoingtobesex.exe
>come up to her room (let myself in)
>shes naked and sprawled out on the bed, but it kinda just looks like someone dumped out tan-colored cotton balls in a lump on the bed
>she says somewhat hushed, "im so wet right now, if we are going to do it we should do it now. I've been fingering myself for like 30 minutes."
>I respond, "Alright, but let me go to the bathroom first."
>spend 45 minutes locked in her bathroom, idly brushing my hair for some reason.
>shes knocking on the door worried about me
>finally open the door and proclaim, "okay I have to go now, thank you."
>leave and never speak to her ever again for the rest of eternity
>whatever im gay anyway i guess
>>28693879
>I just leave without saying anything
The only thing she could possible take away from that is he wasn't interested in her, there's nothing wrong with having fun with someone else when your date blows you off like that.
>My date doesn't want to dance with me
>he's being really mopey
>he's constantly trying to leave or generally not be a part of the night
>now he's leaving without saying anything
>oh look a guy who's actually showing interest, why the fuck wouldn't I?
There's no excuse, he fucked up and she made the right choice
>>28693922
I don't know where you got that I was mopey. The first time Chad came over to us, we were drinking at the counter and talking to some other woman (her friend). He just came in and ask her while I was in the middle of talking with the other girl. My date didn't even say yes but she went with him anyway. The reason why I wanted to leave was because I didn't think she would come back, so I sent her a text saying I'm leaving, the next thing I knew was her grabing my hand at the door. I guess Chad was angry that she came back to me and didn't stay with him, so he wrote that on facebook
>>28693961
>I get sad and alone
but then
>I don't know where you got that I was mopey.
I bet the sadness was palpable, like everyone who glanced at you suddenly felt uneasy.
>>28694025
But she didn't see me get sad and alone. That happend when she was out dancing. That happend just before I sent her the text.
>>28693903
>kinda just looks like someone dumped out tan-colored cotton balls in a lump on the bed
i demand you go back and fuck those cottonballs
>>28693719
could HAVE*
fuck this triggers me like no other
>>28693353
I'd say she was a cunt, but all women are like that. When they're bored of you they'll just throw you in the trash and never look back.
There's really nothing you could've done in that situation man, its not your fault.
>>28693353
>letting chad take your girl
>letting chad talk you down
letting chad near your woman
>letting chad near you
>>I just leave without saying anything
jesus christ, how old where you? 17? i hate saying this but man the fuck up
should had fist fighted him, or at very least said
>you dense mate? u retard or something?
called him for a fight, bluff, grab a glass bottle, your pocket knife etc
>>28693815
>Do you think they stand in front of a mirror and practice for hours...
This is exactly how I learned to dance and I had a great time doing it.
>>28694165
I probably shouldn't have asked that in r9k i guess
most people just go out and make mistakes, learn from them and learn to laugh at themselves. people from r9k aren't that good at taking a joke or public displays of any sort
>>28693815
>She stayed not because of Chad, but because you gave off a strong implication you didn't want to spend time with her.
nice meme, m'lady!
>>28694148
Oh ok I'm gonna fight a dude who has atleast 5 inches on me, I'm gonna fight a dude who had all of him friends there and even if I beat him they would go after me.
>>28693353
don't drink and drive faggot
>>28693922
>he fucked up and she made the right choice
>running off with chad
>a good choise
>woman making a good choise
trying to defend your brethen heh slut?
>>28694214
>>28694212
OP BTFO
>in an original manner
>>28693353
there's no way on this earth that this actually happened
>>28694212
>called him for a fight, bluff, grab a glass bottle, your pocket knife et
>bluff
you should had learned by now, kid, it's better to be hated than invisible(or in your case, laught at)
better than stand and watch anyway
>>28694243
what part didn't happened, normie?
the only part would be she comming back
>>28694218
>stay with a guy that will most likely tell you to get fucked if you tried to make a move on him
>gives off a school shooter vibe
Why should she keep on trying to make it work with him?
If some bitch is constantly shrugging you away you should let her go. That's just what she did to him.
It's never to late anon, find out where she lives/get back into contact with her and then re-explain how you want to talk things over from that party
>>28693404
stop blaming the victim of being blamed for victim blaming you victim blamer victim blamer
>>28694263
>constantly shrugging you away
he didn't, roastie, he is just shy.
If he had not interest he would not go with her to a party.
>gives off school shoter vide
you just pulled that social shamming outta your used up ass
>>28694263
You're right man, if I was with some boring flat chested no ass girl and an outgoing hot stacy wanted me I'd do the same, I'd dump her instantly for the hot girl. It's a doggy dog world.
>>28693353
>can't even say: No, I'm not harassing her, I was just leaving
how much of a upsylon can you be?
>>28693815
>Do you think they stand in front of a mirror and practice for hours before stepping onto the dance floor?
Literally yes, you moron.
>go to party sober
This is where you fucked it up.
>>28694263
>>28694350
both of you animals disgust me
>>28694358
OP said she told everybody that, but they belived Chad
>she suggests we go to a party
This is the exact moment you fucked up.
>>28693596
Literally. Honestly how did it feel to be cucked? I'm surprised she even remembered it was a date with all that
>>28693353
this shit here is why beta male rampages cansort of justified.
>>28693353
The older I get the more I realise nothing is worth fighting for,
>>28694606
>>she suggests we go to a party
this, she wanted to meet chad the whole time
>>28694638
>The older I get the more I realise nothing is worth fighting for.
post spell list, fellow wizard.
>people blaming OP when the whore agreed to dance with Chad herself
fuck off you stupid normalcucks, OP did everything right. Dropped that shit
>>28693353
holy shit you fucking beta ass faggot
and I don't mean robot
I mean a fucking passive fucking little shit
man the fuck up you fucking had it and just let it go by
you just fucking want to be miserable get the fuck off this board
this place is for people who don't get everything in life handed to them on a fucking silver spoon like you ungrateful bastard
>>28694664
>>28693353
ok fuck im upset now. she fucking wanted to be with you that's why she wanted to dance with you.
a girl was actively trying to make you part of her life and you just let some guy piss all over you.
you deserve any unhappiness that has spawned from this event.
>>28694682
But you cannot deny the Blatently obvious fact she wanted Chad more
>>28694700
no that's why she went out of her way to ask why OP was leaving
she's just not a little introverted manlet like him so she likes to go socialize
girls dance 90% of the time cause it's fun for them
guys only do it to impress/make a bond with the girls they're with
he even said he just let her go dance with chad cause he doesn't like dancing
guess what fuck that chad doesn't like dancing either
he likes grinding on girls. Do you like grinding on girls?
Go fucking dance with her.
>15
>First day at new school in new country
>Made it to lunch time without speaking to anyone or making eye contact with anyone
>See my cousin I know while walking in circle see around the school
>She was pretty much a stacy but only acted nice to see like she was a good person to others, that kind of stacy.
>She opened her arms to give me a weird half hug while holding her books
>At my school in my old country girls and guys hugging was not a thing and was seen as weird
>So I took this as she wanted to give me a hi five
>Slap her five pretty hard
>All of a sudden screaming
>Turns out I broke her wrist
>Rest of the day I was the new kid who broke the popular girls wrist
>The next day I go to my role call classroom with the while class glaring at me
>I 180 out of the classroom after my name is marked off and go hide in a sewer pipe for the rest of the day
>I did this for the next 3 years without any teachers knowing I exist
The social isolation at that age from hiding in a sewer pipe for 8 hours a day caused me to become very attracted to 15 year olds.
>>28694721
I was taught growing up that dancing is fcking weird, and unacceptable
>>28694738
lol okay faggot i guess you hate women then
>>28694752
I don't hate them I don't know any or
Have any communications with them, ever
>>28694664
And what would you've done?
Punch Chad in the face and kiss the girl and make her fall in love with you forever? Lol get the fuck outta here, real life isn't a disney movie.
>>28694781
>nah we were just about to dance
>she backs me up
>we both go up and dance
>i rub my chub on her
>we go sit back down after getting both of our hearts are racing
>start getting a little more handsy to see if she's into it
and I've never even been on a date in my life but i know that most confrontational guys especially around women will crumble quick if you were there first and adamantly stand your ground
>>28694664
And what would you do in his place? Fight the Chad dude and his friends? Yea no, you would have done the same as OP.
>>28694801
That's not how dates work anon. Not every girl is a slut who will let you feel her up.
Imagine you did that and she screamed? What would you do? She screams and beta and aplha Chads come to her rescue. They force you to leave and shame you on social media. Your life is ruined.
>>28693719
>could of been a cute funny momeny
Life is not disney
The real problem here is that you are a 22 year old virgin. You need to change this because you are seriously fucked right now.
>>28694829
she's on a fucking date with you she wants to rub bodies together while dancing get a fucking clue
you're not just some guy walking up to her in public
if she wants to dance that's a good fucking indication that she's up for maybe some more
you gotta fucking feel the waters
>>28694833
that isn't disney that's how shit actually fucking happens.
>>28694829
How the fck do guys get the Energy to date/confront Chad, the whole situation just sounds like pure hell, I get bored after 5 seconds of talking to someone
>>28693903
But...why?
What could have possibly compelled you to do that?
You should have fucked her and then left I mean come on. I don't care how fat she is, for Christ's sake you should have done that.
>>28694858
The fuck do you think this is? A high school comedy from 2000s? Real life is much different.
>>28694877
if you talked to a girl enough to get her to go on a date with you and you weren't lying out the ass where if you went "I don't know how to dance wanna teach me?" would be out of character it'd work out fucking fine
you're just a fucking cynical asshat
>>28694877
In real life girls like and will fck guys who weren't tormented during childhood, that's all girls look for, if u were called ugly continually by family friends and teachers , from experience nothing has removed that damage
>>28694833
No but there are moments when it feels like anon. Have you had any of those moments? I have.
>>28694727
Is this a fucking Dickens novel? You can't be real dude.
>>28694895
OP said he got a date because of his mom.
>>28693353
Oh fuck you. Why didn't you go and dance. Why not? You could have just gone and say how crap you are, make a joke about it and have fun.
You decided to be a grumpy cunt.
>>28694908
he also said he talked to her
if she didn't like what she heard she would've canceled the date
if she liked him enough to go to a party that's real and not her just going "ugh my mom is making me stay out with this FREAK I can't believe this"
>>28694928
For all we know they could have just said where they would meet
>>28694920
this is what i've been saying the whole thread
>>28694938
but still she's out there and they're 20 year olds they're not fucking 13 year olds stuck at a place cause they have ride or something
>>28693404
"Victim"
People have personal responsibility. Half the problem with /r9k/ is that people take no responsibilities for their actions. He acted like an idiot.
And yet instead of taking responsibility for that he blames everyone else. It is pathetic.
>>28694948
He did the best he could with the perception of reality he had, we are products of our environment there are no choices , we didnt choose the robot life
>>28694903
I have told my stories before in more depth but yeah, very real. Moved to America from Australia at age 15 and pretty much had the worst time of my life.
After that event I would go to role call, leave school, hide in sewer pipe until it was time to walk home after school.
I would play my Gameboy DS most of the time or draw in the dirt with a stick.
The pipe is still there, its more of a rain water pipe now that I look back on it. I am 25 now.
>>28693769
have you been on a date? I have cute shit happen all the time
>>28694994
of course they've never been on a date they're redpilled little betas who can only see the worst in the world
I've never been on a date either but at least I can see cynicism and strive against it
>>28694664
>man the fuck up
wew
>you fucking had it and just let it go by
that's why she wanted to go to a party and dancewith chad IN FRONT OF HIM amirite
girl don't like to dance, they like to show themselfs and grind- oh wait
>>28694975
>He did the best he could with the perception of reality he had, we are products of our environment there are no choices , we didnt choose the robot life
Fuck you.
Seriously. I do not deny that /r9k/ has many people with awful mental health conditions. But the vast majority do not. Most of the time it comes down to bad routines, bad teenage experiences and the like. And these things can be combatting. It is not an easy process. It takes time.
What is the right attitude to have? Blaming the Universe for everything bad or taking responsibility to change things? Sure, life will shit on you. But when you blame all your life events on those things then you destroy your capacity for change.
Man is one of the only species that actively changes his environment. We weren't born to an urban landscape.
I challenge you and the OP and others who know in their heart of hearts that their problems are not as serious as they think, to defy the odds and try to change.
>>28695010
I do with I knew how to see the world with a happy perspective, but it's been along time and I forgot how too
>>28694948
You're opinion sounds really stupid. If the girl liked him should wouldn't of ran off to dance with another dude. That's a massive slight.
Chad started getting confrontational with him if the girl liked him she would of told him to leave them alone. She probably spent the rest of the party with chad after OP left. He probably would of been worse than a cuck if he escalated the situation with Chad because a fight means cops are going to get called which means the party is over for most everyone, host doesn't want people fighting in their place and their shit getting wrecked, and probably most of all it's totally beta as fuck to fight over a girl, she gives zero fucks if either of you end up and jail with something on your record, or if either of you get injured.
That was pretty humiliating for OP though. He should probably tell his mom that girls not the type she thought she was.
>>28694752
>i guess you hate women then
>he says that on r9k
>>28695034
>complains about being a KHV
>hates the thing that will propel him out of that state
literal autism
>>28694975
K I'm sorry about that then
>>28695027
>You're opinion sounds really stupid. If the girl liked him should wouldn't of ran off to dance with another dude. That's a massive slight.
People ask other people to dance. It happens.
He decided:
1. He would refuse to dance.
2. He would let her then go off instead of maintaining her attention.
3. To leave instead of improving the situation.
Sure, you could make the argument that she was rude but I think you are forgetting something:
SHE CHOSE to go on a date via a set up. She wanted to enjoy herself. And the OP clearly sounds like he wasn't in the mood to do so.
I am not saying they would have become the ultimate couple. But OP could have tried dancing, made a joke about it, had her show him how to do it and enjoyed himself.
>>28694982
Brutal bro. Why not come back if you've still got some family here?
>in school
>finally manage to get some self confidence and ask a girl out
>next day literally everyone laughing at me
and people wonder why i dont have a girlfriend
>>28695061
Holy shit you just love to talk in circles.
Why in the flying fuck should OP want to dance with her when she literally ran off with some other guy without a word moments ago.
She asked him to dance after he said he was leaving and he made a very good judgement call.
That girl can't even go on a date with one guy at a time, literally running off to dance with a second date.
You must have some serious autism. Not memeautism real autism. OP stood up for himself. There is only so much someone can do to improve a situation, there is literally nothing he could of done to improve that date she wanted to run off with other dudes. Big red flag. Go see a shrink about your social autism.
>>28695083
I never asked girls out because they continually called me ugly and laughed at me with Chad I was 13 then now 22
>>28695027
>would of
>would "of"
>"would of"
I wish you would of paid more attention in school.
>>28694942
>>challenges me to a wrestling match
>>hesitant (and worried) but do it
That's where you lost. You win the fight and you beat up a girl, you lose the fight and you got beaten up by a girl. The only way to win is not to play
>>28695073
I have moved back to Australia when I was 19.
I have no family here anymore so I am here alone.
I have been in university for 6 years, my life is hell and I plan on killing myself if they cut off my student money or access to loans.
>>28695098
I honestly believe the situation is the girl has respect for OPs mom (maybe girls mom told her to be nice etc) and didn't want him to go off crying to momma, but she really wanted chads huge schlong
>>28693769
Holy shit there is no saving you.
>>28693353
im not gonna read all the replies, i just have to tell you that you are one autistic bastard and i feel fucking bad for you man
>>28695098
You're the one talking in circles. It is all about blaming someone else for everything, isn't it? And I think you find you are the autistic one.
Everything OP said inferred he was acting like a miserable cunt. The girl was rude, sure, but that doesn't absolve himself of his actions. He was rude as well.
Your the one with social autism because you defend this cliched crap.
Answer this: why didn't he ask her to show him how to dance and have a cute fun moment. Why didn't he do that? OP would have shown ore guts to do that. OP would have been standing up for himself doing that and getting her to dance with him instead of that other guy.
Yet your autism, your circles, for you it is all about the fact that you guys cannot be blamed for any failings. It is always someone else. Well it takes two to tango. And you need to see that.
I really think that some of you are becoming beyond saving. I am not going to give you cliched advice of "get confidence bro". All I am going to say is you need to start seeing a larger picture.
>>28695111
Who gives a shit about that, I got my GED.
School was a low security prison.
>>28695127
I don't know what you mean because at best OP would of went for a pyrrhic victory with that girl while she banged chad. OP would of been like a side guy, except side person implies action he wouldn't be getting and other guys clearly would.
>>28695179
If u think about how fcked up robots think they are young women think they're more fcked up if they're not banging Chad, they really believe something is devistatingly wrong with them if Chad isn't fcking them,
>>28695158
IT WAS OP'S FIRST DATE. Have you ever been on a date? Have you ever been in a room of more that 50 people and decided that even though you never danced in your life you would be good at it and nobody would make fun of you? No. Op did the right thing by leaving when he did. You don't just go dancing in front of normies. The way I'm imagining it Op would have danced the walc to the beat of 50cent. Those two don't get along anon.
>>28695158
>You're the one talking in circles. It is all about blaming someone else for everything, isn't it? And I think you find you are the autistic one.
That's a lot of words let me fix that for you
>no u
>Everything OP said inferred he was acting like a miserable cunt. The girl was rude, sure, but that doesn't absolve himself of his actions. He was rude as well.
>Your the one with social autism because you defend this cliched crap.
OP wasn't rude, please try to contain your autism. r9k might not be the enlightened cultural area of debate like a lot of NEETs like to meme but we can at least attempt to be civil about this you cuck.
>Answer this: why didn't he ask her to show him how to dance and have a cute fun moment. Why didn't he do that? OP would have shown ore guts to do that. OP would have been standing up for himself doing that and getting her to dance with him instead of that other guy.
He did stand up for himself, girl slighted him he pulled dread game. It would of worked but she was more interested in chad. In fact I think OP did even better than pulling that chic because chad wouldn't of started bitching on facebook if he got anywhere significant with the girl. Chad didn't get his dick wet, girl should feel guilty, op still got humiliated but he'll live.
>Yet your autism, your circles, for you it is all about the fact that you guys cannot be blamed for any failings. It is always someone else. Well it takes two to tango. And you need to see that.
>I really think that some of you are becoming beyond saving. I am not going to give you cliched advice of "get confidence bro". All I am going to say is you need to start seeing a larger picture.
The larger picture is you're either a certified cuckold, or you're actually a female and think that other girls behavior was acceptable which it was not, and she lost out and burned a bridge with OP.
>>28695207
>I'm 22 and a virgin, I only had this one date in my life. I just don't see a way out at the moment. I guess I'm destined to be alone.
Exactly. It was his first date. And instead of making it count he rolled over.
Instead of having a drive to at least try, to try on HIS FIRST DATE he just bent over and let it end.
He had an opportunity. He should have tried. Not saying he wouldn't have made a fool of himself but at least it would have been better than giving up.
>>28694942
>Anonymous 05/20/16(Fri)07:10:19 No.28694942 [This post has been deleted]
> >about a year ago
> >have group of friends who play destiny
> >girl who is friends with a friend starts playing with us
> >plays more and more
> >hate girls who play vidya
> >tolerate her less and less
> >half of the group is orbiting her more or less
> >she is really good and I am last or second to last in games
> >always get in arguments with her, but end up looking dumb because I do bad in games
> >resort to sexist and misogynistic insults
> >look her up on Facebook, she is pretty athletic looking freshman in college, seems to be a stacey, 8/10
> >plays volleyball and seems outgoing
> >get even more angry that a stacey is outdoing me on the only thing I do
> >only play with them when she is not on
> >get invited to a little get together at friend's house
> >girl ends up coming over too
> >she brings up my insults and tells me to put my money where my mouth is (I said I'd kick her ass in real life)
> >challenges me to a wrestling match
> >hesitant (and worried) but do it
> >apparently she used to do judo
> >gets me to the ground quite easily and on my back
> >puts me in a camel clutch
> >puts me in a choke hold using her arms
> >shushes me and tells me how I can't talk shit anymore
> >let's me go
> >I storm out
> >Drive home while crying
> >Haven't talked to them since
why did you deleted it?
>>28694727
Hey anon, I heard your story before.
>>28695230
When I read this I wonder how I became so fcked up, I'm 22 and woundnt ever consider going on a date, i would be so embarrassed
>>28695053
>>complains about being a KHV
when?
>hates the thing that will propel him out of that state
>implying my only problem is lack of sex
holy shit you are new
>>28695229
I am trying to be civil. You're the one spouting your autistic memes.
We differ in opinions. I fundementally think the OP failed to make the most of an opportunity. Let me just get down to it, boil it down to the roots. People cannot get by on just blaming others for all their failings. OP had options. And as his first date he took an option that ended it.
People have said multiple times that he could have asked her to show him how to dance. Or tried to make the best of a bad situation.
And you keep saying OP stood up for himself? He left himself open to ridicule and won't even solve it or stand up for himself.
It was his first date. A massive opportunity. /r9k/ constantly talks about "what ifs" what if a qt dropped on their lap. What would they do.
Do you not see that? Come on. Be civil. Try and see my point of view. I have even said in my previous posts that she was rude. Sure she was.But you can't blame the whole world for your problems.
>>28695273
It's all I got because now I am just an autistic weeaboo older aged university student who never leaves his room at a share house.
You did nothing wrong OP, if she wasn't a vapid whore she wouldn't suggest you to go to a party. It's unnevitable that a Chad would try to steal her, because Women are the true evil and their animal instincts can't resist a Chad even if he is a thug, also, she didn't think twice before leaving you and then made your agressor a victim. If you ever got another date don't go to a party.
>be 17
>kissless virgin
>we are watching history videos in class
>the "girl I like" is sitting right next to me
>I have a running nose because god hates me
>have a sudden urge to sneeze
>sneeze
>cover most of my arms and hands with goo
>freak out and try to hide it fast
>remember cute girl was sitting next to me, turn right to see if she noticed my shameful display
>she noticed and is giving me pic related look
>freeze and keep looking straight to her awkwardly smiling and thinking of something to say
>she covers her face with her hands and I can hear she say "oh-my-god!" muffled
>wakemeup.jpg
>I just turn to the tv and pretend that nothing happened feeling the worst feel ever
>can'twakeup.jpg
>she says: "hey, pssst!" "hey!"
>I pretend I'm not listening because panic
>"hey!!! psssst!"
>I keep looking straight because spaghetti
>"c'mon man, don't be gross, go outside and clean yourself"
>I get up and go outside
>as I am leaving I look back and see she whispering something to her friends
>>28695313
Wow lucky she didn't send Chad after you
>>28695295
just want to let you guys know this is a roastie
logic and common sense does not work with her, she cannot understand that.
she will defend other roastie to death
she will talk in circles forever and the only change from a comment to other is the amount of insults and shamming
Nothing will bringe her to reason for she is unable of that, after being btfo so many times even a fa/tg/uy would had admmitted being wrong by now
she and other woman cannot possible be wrong, it's the fucking bitter virgin faults always and forever
>>28695310
My toughts exacly, well said warlock.
>>28695230
>. Not saying he wouldn't have made a fool of himself
Yes you are. Are you too autistic to realize the social implications of laying down and being a cuck after she runs off with another guy?
That wasn't a dance floor it was the friendzone after that. Now let's check my scouter
>>28695295
>He left himself open to ridicule and won't even solve it or stand up for himself.
>autism level over 9000
He didn't bring it on himself, she did inadvertently perhaps but none the less going off with another dude without saying anything. No resistance. It might not of been a big deal if there were some talk of it other than "I'll bring your sister back" she knew full well and could of said something like I'm on a date with him.
We don't have a difference in opinion you just seem to be okay with being the friendzone. "Mr. Nice Guy" Gotta earn it if I do stuff right she'll reward me.
Here's you're reward, you get treated like shit and she'll take every advantage of it she can and you get nothing.
Grow up.
>>28695295
Ok from your point of view
>Chad comes over and asks Op's girl to a dance
>Op says she's with me bro
>Chad say cool
>Op and girl continue to drink
Is this the fairytale you wanted? Or is it this next one
>Chad comes over
>asks Op's gril to a dance
>Op says she's with me
>Chad says let the women decide
>she decided that it would be better to go with Chad and not make a scene
>they dance
>sees them dancing and gets hard
>Chad and girl go to some room
>Op follows
>they start fucking and OP jerks in the corner.
>>28695361
the first one is pretty realistic, donnt get why everyone in here thinks that they immidiately have to fight chad and all of his bros when they deny him something
>>28695162
I dropped out too. I just get triggered by "would of" and when people say "nookyoulur" instead of nuclear.
>>28695347
I'm a bloke. Not that you will believe it.
>>28695361
>>28695349
/r9k is like a group of thirsty men in the desert. When one guy spies an oasis he goes up to it. Then what? Some guy comes along wanting to drink and OP leaves. Then OP says that oasis was poison and all the other thirsty men agree.
>Yes you are. Are you too autistic to realize the social implications of laying down and being a cuck after she runs off with another guy?
He was a cuck. He laid down and gave up so quickly. Is that not being a cuck? Everything from OP's post suggests he was not enjoing himself at all. Like he did not try.
I think that he should have done more. If that hadn't worked then sure, leaving would have been an option. But he didn't try. And that is the point. I completely think OP was well within his right to leave whenever he wanted. But he could have done more.
>>28695361
You know full well that is a strawman. I do not believe in fairytales. Why didn't OP try more? Answer that. Why didn't he?
Instead of insulting me with ad hominems just say why OP didn't try more?
It was his first date. Sure he was nervous. But he found out he was set up with an 8/10. Some people on /r9k/ would give their right arm just for a chance. Sure she was rude and it made him feel uncomfortable. But can't you concede that the OP could have at least done a little bit more? His first date.
Stop the memes and insults just answer the questions.
>>28695433
Okay well how would of you pronounce Nevada then?
this thread is stupid, everyone can continue talking shit about op, saying how much of a cuck he is. but the matter of the fact is most of us are robots and probably wouldn't stand up to the chad for a girl who didn't noticed she was on a date with op in the first place. i empathize with you op, because i know in that situation, i would probably would have done the same.
>>28695361
well i know chad and if they do not get what they want they will try to undermine you and they will suceed because we are simply robots.
>>28695472
I'm:
>>28695447
Even I empathize with OP.
But there are people on /r9k/ who would never even have this opportunity. People should make the most of it.
>>28695447
I see that you haven't met any Chads in your life. Those fucks wouldn't stop until they got what they wanted. They only thing Op could have done were
A) leave the girl and go home
B) stand up to Chad and probably ruin the party and probably get beaten up by Chad and his friends.
>>28693922
I'm not going to deny op had a bad attitude but
>it's perfectly acceptable for a woman to run off with another man in the middle of a date
Nah. I would never stand for that shit. And neither should anyone else.
>>28695426
Because most people here seem to assume the worst case scenario is the mostly likely outcome, which is why we are NEETs and KVs.
>>28695447
>/r9k is like a group of thirsty men in the desert. When one guy spies an oasis he goes up to it. Then what? Some guy comes along wanting to drink and OP leaves. Then OP says that oasis was poison and all the other thirsty men agree.
That's not what OP said at all, clearly he wouldn't of made the thread if he thought he could of done something different. Well was poisoned though. Girl totally fucked up the entire night running off with Chad. Girls do wreck dates, of course you're a normieshit so it doesn't matter as long as you get laid and it's all OP's fault people are horrible and he didn't act like a fake horrible little shit of a person to get his dick wet.
>He was a cuck. He laid down and gave up so quickly. Is that not being a cuck? Everything from OP's post suggests he was not enjoing himself at all. Like he did not try.
>I think that he should have done more. If that hadn't worked then sure, leaving would have been an option. But he didn't try.
You know in life you get some small windows of opportunity to act sometimes. His window was when Chad took her to the dance floor. You're right the night shouldn't of been wrecked because he missed that, that was on her.
Keep trying to act like a white knight about it because you're intentions of why he should of done it really isn't as pure as what image you imagine gets conjured up when you hear white knight applied to your motives normieshit.
>And that is the point. I completely think OP was well within his right to leave whenever he wanted. But he could have done more.
Could of should of would of. 50-60k people is small town he's from but there's still a large amount of other females.
Sometimes being a man means walking away and losing face. I can say that from experience. OP did just that. I think he'll do fine if he doesn't give up because of one bad night.
>>28695464
Shit nigger I was born in Las Vegas.
"Neh-vah(like the ma in mad)-duh"
Moved to the east coast, everyone here says it like they're speaking spanish with the aahda at the end.
>>28695426
>donnt get why everyone in here thinks that they immidiately have to fight chad and all of his bros when they deny him something
because you're a woman, you ignore all teh wrongs he does(see the sister in love wth brother's bully image above) and don't understand how man work
>>28695447
>implying we want a woman
>and that badly
>implying we not right about woman
we could marry a single mother you know, or pay a whore
>stop insulting me like i'm doing with you and addmit he didn't try enough
i hate woman so god damn much, wish i could beat and piss in you
wtf is a bloke
>>28695521
You're reducing it down to too few choices! Life isn't black and white.
OP could have talked against going to see her friends. Suggested somewhere else. He could have tried to dance earlier. Or ask if she wanted to. He could have asked her to dance after she had danced with that bloke.
Sure, some of these options are harder than others. But there is more choice than leave or stand up to Chad. There was options of how to act before, during and after.
>>28695560
>You know in life you get some small windows of opportunity to act sometimes.
Exactly.
>Keep trying to act like a white knight
How come just when you are being civil you have to call me a white knight?
I have said on multiple posts that she was rude. I am not defending her. All I am saying is there are more options. Even you have conceded that there are small windows of opportunity.
This is not a circular debate, or autistic, we've thrown that all away and are getting down to the roots.. It is about choices. And there are more choices than we think there are.
>>28695598
>wtf is a bloke
A man.
>>28695598
Bloke is brit speak for man, guy, or even fellow.
>>28695498
i understand where you're coming from, but I am easily intimidated by people. I've grown up being bullied and had a really shitty childhood with my parents as well. It could be my dream girl, and i probably would have given her to a chad who wants her more, simply because I know i don't stand a chance. and im not putting the blame on the girl as compared to the other robots but rather on myself. because it takes courage to actually want someone, to actually want a woman enough to oversee your own flaws. It's difficult when you can't get any self confidence from any part of your life at all when all you've been getting is failure. I also know it's difficult for the girl to remain by a man's side when the guy doesn't seem confident of his own abilities, which is probably why the girl left in the first place. in this case of op, we should cut him some slack, its the fault of both parties. one should been more proactive, and the other to stay with the man to at least give him a little bit of respect, as its a date.
>>28693353
You deserve everything you got if your not even assertive enough to protect am "8/10" then there is no hope foe you, grow some fucking balls man, should've just said "sorry Bro this girl and me are on a date so would you mind not interrupting?"
>>28695572
I heard people were particular about that pronunciation. Mid west here so I probably do the aahda thing too without knowing it.
I actually been wondering about that for a long ass time.
>>28695533
op was the one running off tho
>>28695472
>"lets go to a party, i want to meet chad."
>"You worthl... sure bb, just wait in here for a sec."
>*leaves*
>if she ever contact me tell her you don't do that in date, slut.
that's what i would do desu
but honetly as much as i want to defend Op the cuck got a free date with a hot slut, sure it is hopeless but... now as i type this comment i see how futile it is, there is nothing he could have done other than drug and rap the girl. hes a robot for a reason(genetics) that cannot be hid or changed
still i wish he would had killed chad with a broken glass bottle, would be much better for everyone
OP, get a gun and get revenge
>>28695614
The way I see first dates, men should do what women want if you want the second date. OP did what the girl wanted and went to her friends party with her. The girl left him and went with Chad. Op's only choiches were leave or fight. He chose to leave.
>>28695125
I think you're right, she probably whined to chad "omg that weirdo gonna rat me out to his mom" so he slandered him on Facebook to make her the victim.
>>28695614
>I am not defending her.
Yes you are.
I'm all about personal responsibility.
Really sick of duplicitous people that try to pawn it off and shitbags that go along with it. Not everything is always someones fault when it happens. I shouldn't have to explain this to people lacking autism but as far as choices go, it takes a lot of autism to completely ignore people acting like shit toward you on purpose, if you're out on a date and you're date does something fucked up like that and you keep up the Mr. Nice Guy routine you're not going to get as far as you think. Good luck trying to hang on to relationships with people that act like shit toward you. You're gonna need it.
>>28695703
You're not all about personal responsibility because you only criticise one person and both.
You're the one that will need luck because all you'll do is blame everyone else and not apply your logic to yourself.
>>28693353
This whole thread is one humiliating story. People are actually defending OPs behavior jfc.
>Be in high school
>She fucking stunning girl
>Decide to sit next to her to get to know her
>Over the weeks we become friends, play vidya, do homework together had the same lunch period etc.
>Start falling for her
>Tell my friend I like her
>He fucking tells her
>She goes "No way anon likes me haha, we're just friends"
>He goes "No really, he told me"
>Her smile and optimism gone.jpg
>Cuts all contact with me
>Later on see her making out with some skater faggot
That day fucking ruined me, I was depressed for a good 2 years, no idea how my friends dealt with me. I'm better now, but the scars are still there. It's very hard for me to peruse a girl now.
>>28695721
I criticize people constructively.
It was criticism when I told OP I think he did the right thing walking away. As for his date, well I should probably be a lot meaner about her.
Now that we've settled that.
About this autism meme, I'm certain it's not a meme for you. I'm trying not to be rude about it but consult a professional.
>>28695730
t. alpha beta Chad Stacy trans black alien
>>28695207
>Op did the right thing by leaving when he did.
Apparently not because OP didn't defend himself at all and now his whole town hates him. This is what I hate about this thread. OPs life turned out all bad, self admittedly. We have a metric by which we can say he failed, and you idiots keep defending his behavior and saying he did the right thing.
>>28695792
pretty similar to my story
>family and friends instantly assume his side without even consulting you
You did nothing wrong by acquiescing by the way, you put defusing the situation and keeping up civility over escalation, but you really should have responded to the texts or talked in person even if it was a complete shitcunt move on their part.
>>28693353
>had posted this on his facebook and my mom saw it.
>>never responded t
holy shit you got BTFO by Chad
this is some intense high level social dominance shit going on at a level we can't even fathom
op's story is a perfect example of why i don't do dating. it's all one stupid game for a wet hole
>>28693404
>Victim
Okay dude. Sure Chad was a douche but he could have very easily unspaghetti'd that whole situation by saying about four words.
>>28693353
Umm, you should have danced with her. That dude's a douche yeah but don't let it ruin your life and get on a dating site or something.
>>28695795
You re hilarious. And no you didn't criticise OP. You can't even apply your logic to other people.
Honestly ou are pretty pathetic. And I bet you'll be i n therapy for a long time.
>>28695862
>the wet hole meme
Have you never experienced non-platonic and mutual love anon? It's better than sex
>>28693353
First red flag was her suggesting to go hang with friends. Dates are supposed to be 1 on 1. Sorry it went so sour for you Anon.
>>28693353
I'm with you on this OP. I'd be pissed if some girl did that to me. Doesn't matter if she tried to make it right after.
>>28693769
Like dance, you know?
>>28695898
>implying you won't be used and abused and most likely cucked in the future
>>28693810
What the fuck? She even asked him to dance. How deluded are you.
>>28695533
That happens a lot but you're supposed to stand up for yourself or not let it get to you. OP clearly isn't able to do so.
>>28695123
Lol, just man up
If you would just be yourself, you wouldn't be hated, even after that. Hell, you'd probably get the stacy vagoo.
An autistic virgin like you would never be enough of a man for that, though.
>>28695123
Dont do it :( we can be friends and I am psychologist/writter
>>28695807
Well_Memed_My_Friend.frog
>>28695816
His town doesn't hate him, they're gossiping.
Apparently you would think it's good for him to get into a situation where the female is going to try and cause situations like this regularly. Chad is talking shit, most people there probably know he's full of shit.
What do you think he should do, go dance with the girl and then suck chads cock?
>>28695098
>Why in the flying fuck should OP want to dance with her when she literally ran off with some other guy without a word moments ago.
>all of a suden this Chad comes to our spot where we've been drinking
>he asks my date if she would like to dance
>since I'm not a dancer I let her go
>since I'm not a dancer I let her go
i bet youre the type who blames everyone else instead of looking at yourself
>>28695893
>coming from a guy that doesn't understand the definition or application of criticism.
Stay in school kids.
>>28696058
No dude I'm just saying he could of saved face by sticking up for himself even a little.
>>28694588
He still should have said it at that moment.
>>28695934
>implying it wasn't a pity dance
How deluded are YOU? If Chad was more attractive than OP (which he probably was), he was fucked from the beginning.
>>28693616
typical normie doing nothing and leaving cause the lady danced with a chad and cucked him is harassment now? wooow
>>28695924
Better to have loved and lost than to have never have loved at all.
congrats on discovering only aggressive organisms survive in this world
>>28695650
well aren't you a fucking cassanova
>>28695898
>le mutual love meme
Kill yourself, blue pill junky.
>>28696062
Are you retarded or did the next part where she left without saying anything not fit your narrative?
You're a real shite judge of character.
>>28694868
>You should have fucked her
>I don't care how fat she is
this.this.this.
this is the pill all botfags need to swallow on this board. start with fatties get ur confidence up. pussy snowballs
>>28695880
>unspaghetti'd that whole situation by saying about four words.
Please cuck me chad?
>19
>ask cute 7/10 out
>"let's go to church on Monday at 7, anon"
>she didn't say if it was 7 am or pm
>wake up at 6 am on Monday, dress nice
>text her asking if she's ready
>"anon, we're supposed to go at 7 pm"
>"you know what, you don't have to go anymore, anon"
>get back home
>my mom conforts me
>my aunt laughs at my face and tells everyone
>every time I bring someone to my grandma's house she thinks it's funny to tell this story while I'm dying on the inside
Fuck English mistakes
>>28696175
That's my date.
There ya go there's three words. Entire situation resolved.
>>28696107
>better to have meme'd with autism and lost than never to of meme'd at all
>>28696204
You could've, oh I don't know, asked for the fucking time?
>>28696206
Not necessarily. Chad could've pushed buttons further and drop shit tests like there's no tomorrow.
Something like, "She's a grown woman. She can take care of herself." would've worked better. Especially for Stacy.
>>28696206
Chad: sure thing small fry, now please leave before me and my bros make you leave.
While everybody else is pointing fingers, I'll throw out a what little knowledge I have.
>she invited you to a party
She doesn't want to go to a party to just sit at a bar and talk. If that's all you were down for op, just call it a night, set up another date for something you're more comfortable with.
>once you decide to go
You have to mark your territory, early and often, to ward off chad. Just talking at the bar isn't enough. That's what girls do with there brothers and orbiters. The best way to mark at a party is dancing. When you aren't dancing, it's light touching. I'm not saying grab that ass, but you can't be afraid to touch her. It's the easiest way to know if she is into you, or your wasting your time.
>you're going to have to dance
The earlier the better. It's not hard and you will look funny, but everyone does(in white people parties atleast). You need nothing more than a two step. Your job is to make her look good, so the simpler the better. If you're lucky, she gets a little freaky. If she does, pull her close to a wall, lean back, and enjoy the ride. If it's a song with its own dance, ask her to teach it to you.
>dealing with Chad
If you have been marking your territory, bro code chad, will have notice, and won't approach. At least to your face. Mister steal your girl chad, is harder to deal with. Let them dance, but don't be to afraid to cut in. You have to stand your ground, if he gives you shit. You might even have to take that L, but you have to show some heart. Don't start a fight over it, but don't back down or show fear. You might get a sympathy lay out of the deal, or if he does steal your girl she was never yours to begin with.
>>28696220
Who the fuck goes to church at night? But it was my fault because the event was more like a party.
>>28696107
Fuck that. It's not worth it. The hurt you feel after a girl stops caring for you is pathetically awful, especially when she branch swings like it's nothing.
>>28696259
The example you gave would've incited conflict faster than simply saying she's your date.
Most Chads respect other people's dates and back off unless they're mega douches. If that's the case it's up to her character if she sticks around or not. Unless you want to get in a fight which I doubt anyone on here would ever do.
Saying she's a grown woman and can take care of herself would just kick in c had's white knight mode and make him want to protect her and call you a creep. Thus furthering conflict.
>>28693353
>he asks my date if she would like to dance
>since I'm not a dancer I let her go
anon, if i was there i would have punched you in the face
>>28696289
Good point if you're not a regular church-goer. I've been going to church since I was a kid, so church activities at night is not weird to me. Now you know.
>>28696296
>If that's the case it's up to her character if she sticks around or not
Wow guess what, it was up to her character. She didn't.
>>28696296
How would that make you a creep? A creep would be considered a dude that suddenly gets all jelly that his datey is dancing, to which Stacy would respond: "But anon! It's just a dance!"
The response doesn't have to be said passive-aggresively, either. It's more of a joke type of thing. If Chad gets all simian on you, you tell him to calm down because it's just a joke.
>>28696021
le just mane up meme
greaaaaat
>This whole thread
I may not be a chad but holy fuck I'm glad I'm not a robot who believes half the shit that's said here.
Why don't you all go to /r/MGTOW
>OP posts an embarrassing story
>r9k jumps on him with nearly 200 posts of psycho analysis
L m a o.
As if you fucking idiots wouldn't have done EXACTLY THE SAME THING in his situation, or worse.
>anon who has trouble with social situations
>gets into a social situation
>scared of chad starting trouble
>gets humiliated by chad at end of night
>comes to post feels on r9k and maybe people will relate
>gets attacked the entire thread
I guess all of you guys are such stand up, outgoing & confident people huh? :^)
>>28696471
>projecting your betaness onto a whole board
>>28694868
He could have gotten her pregnant.
I cri for you anon
Probably every time I got bullied in 12th grade and almost killed myself because of it. These two underclass girls were mad that a Chad would sit with me at lunch and not them, so they tried to emotionally destroy me. They called me names and would pick apart the slightest thing about my looks, but never call me a slut or bitch because I wasn't. I always ignored them which got them mad.
>always ask the principal to stop them
>tells me to stand up for myself
>do such one day by telling them to fuck of
>they're in shock
>they sneak up from behind me and try to beat me up
>one holds my hands behind my back to the other can beat me up
>I'm pretty fucking strong so I squirmed away and fled before punches were thrown
>go to the principal's office crying
>tell him I stood up for myself like he asked
>"femanon that's harassment, I'm going to give you a pink slip. Don't EVER come back to my office" (Pink slip is a detention form)
>what they did wasn't harassment but standing up for myself was
I went home that night and planned out killing myself. Steal rope from gym class and hang myself off a bar in the basement. I decided not to and in glad I did because I would have missed out on so much in my life. It's been 6 years and I'm thankful every day. I still have my old diary with my suicide note, when I found it last year I wrote on the bottom how much time passes and how things got better, like I was writing to myself. Funny things is that last year I fulfilled my dream and had a one night stand with that Chad who I haven't seen since graduation. Turns out he likes to choke and slap so it ended here, but if I killed myself I never would have done it. Felt like I won, in a way.
>>28695251
this is so incredibly pathetic. the grill seems cool, she gives you the chance to change you horrific attitude and even gives you a lesson that you can't talk shit without bearing the consequences. you should actually be thankful to her
>whole elementary grade went on a field trip to a summer camp over the weekend
>kind of nervous because my mom sent me there before and I shitted my pants multiple times
>luckily didn't shit my pants
>all the classes meet on the last day for an assembly
>teachers talking to everyone over microphone
>started feeling like I needed to fart
>holding it in with all my might
>ripped the loudest fart amplified by the microphone
>room turned dead silent
>then everyone started laughing at me
>cried going back to our cabins
>>28693353
>you will never be this pathetic
Thanks for giving me these good feels. I'm pretty beta and sad as it gets but thank god my parents actually taught me to stand up for myself when someone tries to step on me. Your date probably got turned off at how easy it is to step on you and how weak you are.
Even if you feel weaker, stand up to him you pathetic fuck. Chads are so used to being intimidating and getting their way they will be shocked someone actually tells them to piss off he might either get scared or angry and beat your ass but I guarantee you that he will never step in your way.
My advice to you anon, go work in retail or customer service where people constantly shit on you and you'll slowly learn how to adapt and respond to that with assertiveness.
If I were you I'd hunt down chad and get some revenge. You might as well, he's completely fucked up your life, may as well return the favor. Follow him to his car at night or some shit and beat him to within the brink of his life.
>>28696471
This
Most of the people in this thread are normies who have no idea what OP is going through, and their advice is
>just bee yourself man
>>28693353
i'm with you OP, i would have probably done the same due to my fear of commitment and some other things
>>28696662
Why didn't you go to the police or something?
i don't get this thread
if the girl wants to spend time alone with him so much why doesn't she just say so
why does it have to be some fucking mystical hidden shit like you're translating hieroglyphics ?
why not just say what you want/mean ?
>>28694682
>a girl was actively trying to make you part of her life
then why would she dance with the other guy ?
>>28697468
What are you talking about? I don't understand this post :(
>>28693353
Wow, OP, that story hits right in the feels. Reading that really grounds me back to reality.
I feel sick, i think i just turned asexual. I hate women so much right now.
>>28695251
stuff like this annoys me
why do I have to be inferior at every single thing I do ?
>not smart
>not physically attractive
>mentally ill tranny faggot
>never shown any talent or skill at anything I've ever tried
what's the point?
why even bother to try to live when I am inferior to other people at every single thing I attempt?
>>28696021
Nice meme Chad
>>28696055
Doubt you would enjoy my friendship. I have been told by people online and off that I am a nasty person to be around. Even by my teachers at uni.
Also
>Psychologist
I see 2 and both are useless cunts who havent done shit besides give me a card to call when I want to kill myself.
>>28697468
Because people ITT don't like the harsh reality that she didn't like op and would rather spend time with Chad, so they would rather believe that she secretly wanted him but it's all his fault and he could've had a happy ending if he just did the right thing. They like to think that they have control, they are optimists.
Wow why won't women just be honest and say that they hate shirt men, it would make everything easier.
>>28698992
shirt men? You mean short men?
>>28693903
>had a girlfriend
Please don't come on this board ever again
It really isn't nice to mock us
>>28699383
No. Men who wear shirts, e.g. Non-Chads
>>28699436
I don't get it. Maybe I'm not understanding it right. I'm not a native english speaker.
>>28693596
dude you always dance.. even if you are a shit dancer
>got bullied for years
>had a relatively dehumanizing nickname, making it clear I'm not on everyone else's level
>throughout the years, slowly but surely get some people (mostly friends) to call me by my actual name
>this takes them some time to get used to, they also take a bit of time to say my actual name as habits are hard to get rid off
>English teacher notices one of my friends called me by my actual name in class albeit with a bit of hesitation
>"What's going on? Why do some of you suddenly start calling him by his actual name? Which one is it now, will you people call him by his actual name or his nickname?"
>entire class starts yelling/chanting my nickname in unison
>have to hold back tears while having thoughts of spraying bullets all over the place
Normies can be rather soulless shits. Also, fuck that teacher.
>>28695229
You guys say all of this as if OP accomplished something, but all he did was get cucked by Chad and sent home. If he'a going to get humiliated either way, why shouldn't he try to dance with the girl, or go back and talk to his date'a friend at the bar? If your going to die, does it matter if it's beautiful or ugly?
>>28699418
it's your fault for even staying here. leave for wizardchan if you're going to be so anal about it
>>28696522
>i forgot what board i am on
>>28699509
Even after she danced with someone else and would rather spend time with him and is only asking you to dance out of pity?
Nah fuck that, waste of time, OP already failed, there is no salvaging it.
>>28693353
Just think to yourself, what would Donald Trump do?
He has been in numerous embarrassing, often humiliating encounters on the campaign trail. Where his credibility, his knowledge, his past....everything have been questioned. During the presidential debates, he was turned into a literal laughing stock with the entire shill audience booing him and cheering his opponents.
And what did he do? He swagged it out.
Eventually he had entire legions of fans cheering and chanting his name
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJAiwPVQ984
Seeing the way he handles himself has been such an inspiration to me. It's basically just all about confidence. You can be a fat ugly blob with a rat's nest for hair, and you can rise to the top of the world simply by speaking your convictions and defending yourself from your enemies.
>>28699769
>Just think to yourself, what would Donald Trump do?
Yeah I'd do what he does if i was tall, rich and popular.
Most of us aren't so the only thing we can do is just leave.
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>>28695721
OP was on his first date with someone out of his league and like clockwork Chad comes along and aggressively steals his date to the point of later falsely accusing him of being a "creep" when he saw her with him again. Chad knew exactly what he was doing, OP's date knew exactly what was happening and she went along with it. OP is now a pariah in his town and Chad never apologized or took the messages off his facebook so obviously his date only told his mom that he wasn't a bad person to mend the relationship with her own mother and that was it, you know she was gossiping about him with her Stacy friends and convincing others to alienate him.
What planet do you have to be from not to see what is happening? Society goes into hysterics at the idea of a beta male wanting sex and relationships like everyone else. They start acting like a bunch of chimpanzees and this is a classic example of this.
If Chad was on a date with Bertha and some Stacy hit on him and he went to dance with her leaving Bertha to look pathetic sitting there alone, you'd be shitting yourselves in rage at how chauvinistic patriarchal and misogynistic Chad is. It is only because OP is a beta male with inferior status in society that you think this is ok and "ugh, what an asshole" because he was upset by this. OP was upset, he had no control over how he felt, but he didn't flip out, he stoically accepted it was a pipe dream to believe normies would ever treat him like a human and made his way to the door.
After all this your argument "stop blaming normies!" is obviously bullshit.
>>28699857
But why is Donald Trump popular?
You know who else is tall and rich? Jeb Bush, the relative of two former presidents.
And yet when these two forces collide, who comes out on top?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MdIri5ji68
Did you see what he did? It's not about what you say, it's about how you say it. The force behind your voice. The confidence you exude, almost unconsciously through your pores. Men are attracted to it, women are attracted to it.....everyone is attracted to it!
You need to eliminate self doubt and stop seeking approval from other people. Once people sense that you're desperate for their approval, they sense that they have power over you. They subconsciously consider you weak and have no respect for you. Ironically the less you desire the approval of others, the more you get.
>>28699557
I think the teacher was just incredibly stupid. Trust me nobody becomes a teacher because they want to.
(except for idiots, which just puts us back where we started)
>>28694579
you're the most disgusting one khhv
>>28699933
Yeah i suppose you're right.
If you're secure and comfortable with yourself and don't care what anyone else thinks about you, it will make you alpha and attractive,
but the problem is trying to get people to like you and not care what they think about you is impossible.
>mfw I go around armed wishing chad would try something so I can kill him and see roasties cry "waaahhh its not fair :((((" right after they tell me "well life's not fair anon, deal with it!"
All I really look forward to desu
>>28696776
Whenever something of this nature happened/happens to me, I just crack a random stupid joke and hope people find it funny.
If I was in your situation I'd say something like "Sorry, didn't know Taco Bell put gunpowder in their food"
>>28699418
Judging by his description of the beast and the fact that girls that age bite everything that looks masculine, I doubt it really counts.
>>28700208
It's not impossible, it's something you develop over time. Like learning to play the piano, or learning a trade. As you get older you build confidence and self assuredness. The more you work at it, the better you get.
You just need to change your mindset. Instead of bemoaning the fact that other people don't respect you, examine why that is and work at fixing it. You'll have their approval soon enough.
It's a skill you can train within yourself, just like any other.
>>28693616
>You are meant to be active. Inactivity and passivity is cause by your low testosterone levels, get them checked.
Ehhhhhh nah. I don't wanna. And also, whatever.
>>28699918
LIFE IS SUFFERING
WHAT'S THE FUCKING POINT IN ANYTHING?!!?!?!!
>>28699557
what was the nickname?
>>28700435
Eggman
Origerino
>>28693596
>I just leave without saying anything
there is where you sperged out and fucked up OP
>>28700577
What is he supposed to do?
I'd do the same. Being left alone and humiliated like that I'd just leave and forget she exists.
>>28700597
Get some drinks and meet some decent people who aren't assholes. Pro-tip: most normies dont like chad either.
