>tfw I will probably become the beta bux to my gf
>gf is a ex-slut stacey with a partner count in the 20's
>mfw I thought I beat the system by getting her
>have been dating her for close to 2 years now
However, the sex is still frequent and hot. I can fuck her anytime I want. She's very compliant and not bitchy at all. We fight occasionally but its over small stuff. She's molded herself into this "lady in the streets, freak in the sheets" type as well. Most of her clothes now are pretty conservative, except when home. The thing is, I have a pretty decent job with good pay, so I can't help but think this is all a ruse in order to get me in the future. She's a 1st grade teacher.
What do you robots make of this? Am I being taken for a ruse cruise and 50% of my shit later on? Or can I say that my gf has legitimately reformed?
If she's hot, not a bitch, std free and will be loyal, there is literally no reason not to keep the relationship going.
take her on a ruse cruise and don't marry her. if she leaves you you should hopefully have gained the confidence needed to fuck other whores.
>>28646347
When you give in to her and get cuckhold by a big, beefy Jamal with girthy, juicy cock. Make sure to upload it after you are done filming
Just make sure you pass every shit test
Never knuckle under and become a beaten down "yes man" to your wife, women hate that. You have to establish dominance like you would with a dog or a horse.
Keep dating her if it makes you happy, I wouldn't marry someone with 20+ partners though, so don't take the relationship too seriously.
>>28646347
She probably likes your personality
Anon thinks his relationship will last
But Stacy just yearns for the cocks of the past
>>28646391
Fuck you, shitter.
Don't listen to them, OP. Marry the girl because you need to make babies.
>>28646347
>I have a pretty decent job with good pay
>She's a 1st grade teacher.
>>28646529
>She probably likes your personality
sounds right
>>28646347
It works like this:
They go for popular in highschool.
They go for Chad and Tyrone up until their late 20s.
They go for a stable paycheck after all that.
You haven't beat the system, OP. You have just fed it.
>>28646691
If what you write is about maximizing enjoyment, then she gets to enjoy life, he gets to enjoy life, nothing wrong here?
What sense is there for anyone to willingly choose the suboptimal choice.
The only sense it makes is when the suboptimal is the only choice, or when the person does so to get some agency in their lives, since they feel powerless.
>>28646868
I'm not judging OP for getting sloppy seconds from 20+ guys. I'd prolly do the same thing if I were him.
Just informing him on the system he's feeding. It's likely better than being alone.
are you okay kissing the same lips that were wrapped around endless cocks?
how about her using those lips to kiss your children to sleep?
20? probably 80.
#nohymennodiamond
Just don't marre. You can have the whole spectacle of a wedding if she insists, but never sign any legal documents.
>>28646347
You shouldn't be worried
If she's still with you after 2 years then she feels the same way about the sex as you do
Honestly if you're good for each other than you should stay together and possibly get married
Partner count in the 20s is really nothing to be alarmed at these days
And as people get older they do change, the old party times are long gone and new values take their place and it's clear that your gf now values you, a lot
As for you getting rused, women can't pull off the long con so that's not what's happening to you
>>28646347
>partner count in the 20's
that's not fucking normal anon. no matter how much people here say women are this slutty, they aren't. your gf is a grade A whore.
>>28648274
>Partner count in the 20s is really nothing to be alarmed at these days
lel.
top lel.
top fucking cuck.
anon, just use her to increase your self esteem, get fit then dump her slutty ass.
>that feel when no mommy gf
http://i.4cdn.org/gif/1463306722455.webm
I would happily be beta bucks for webm related
>>28648274
>Partner count in the 20s is really nothing to be alarmed at these days
Maybe if your a whore
OP, if you wanna risk losing half your shit then go for it my man. Tread lightly is all I'm saying.
>>28646433
>>28648336
As beta as it sounds, I was so scared to lose her when we first started dating that I took up lifting immediately. I lifted for girls. I knew I couldn't be needy or anything so I faked being a normal person around her. Obviously I couldn't keep this up forever but she doesn't seem to mind.
>>28648353
wtf how have I never seen this before when the age of gbp and tendies was so long ago?
>>28646372
>will be loyal
This is the main shit right here, if she has ever cheated especially with her more recent bf's huge red flag. If you get tied down then she is going to take your shit.
Right now it's all or nothing, either A you make a slam dunk and get a 10/10 grill or you get fucked in the ass.
GL anon
>>28646347
what about asking her and honestly telling her your opinion?
If she acts offended, then there is a prove, you are not delusional worrying about something like that.
you can go for a "bad times phase" and the see how she acts.
>>28648414
The age of GBP and tendies is eternal. Also I think that clip is relatively new, some guy from /tv/ paid her to make it. I know they were considering crowdfunding her to make an entire meme-porn (there are screencaps of the emails with her) but nobody ever wrote the script. Her name is Xev Bellringer if you want to watch more of her stuff. She gets really into her character and makes tons of incest porn.
>>28646347
It's called settling down, anon.
>>28646347
somewhere there is a virgin cutie who desperately want to love you but you chose the whore instead.
>>28648491
cheers mate. I honestly yearn for that age, it was right before the normies infestation.
>>28648531
of course not.
And you know this is isn't true.
On the other hand, I can see how if have lifted for 2 years and have the validation of a staecy other girls, probably less whoring and cutter would like to be with you op, you have proven validation from an atractive woman, woman fall for that.
>>28648316
>>28648369
For a woman who's been through college and is in now 20-something years old it's really not that high and it's not a problem unless she's still doing it
I spent my college years partying every single night and fucking around like crazy, I don't do that anymore because I have more important things to concentrate on now
Every does stupid ass shit in their youth unless they spend it inside on the computer (which is stupid in and of itself as you're depriving yourself of vital social development)
Sorry but your pure virgin waifu doesn't exist anywhere but the Middle East, maybe head on over there and join ISIS and take a child bride or 5
If OP is happy and she's happy then there's no reason to break it off because a bunch of /pol9k/ memelords called him a cuck
>>28648614
>roasties the post.
women are disgusting, this proves it, just never married.
there is nothing to win but to loose.
Man I feel so disgusted.
>>28648614
women lose the ability to pair bond after lots of casual sex. men don't.
sorry, no pussy is worth marriage unless it's pure.
no hymen no diamond!
>>28648678
Get laid some more yourself then you won't care about it as much, fuck maybe getting off 4chan alone will be enough to do the trick
>>28648684
That's only if women base their identity around sleeping with as many guys as possible
People change all the time and it sounds like OP's girl has changed
Again no reason to throw away something good unless there's warning signs like "I only have guy friends cause I don't like drama" but so far as I can tell OP's girl has her shit together and genuinely loves him
>>28648770
>Get laid some more yourself then you won't care about it as much, fuck maybe getting off 4chan alone will be enough to do the trick
As if I could, doy you where are you posting?
>im so sad.
>hey anon why not trying NOT being sad.
WoW what an epiphany!
women are so empathetic,
just getting more disgusted damn.
never marry op take this as an example.
>>28646347
if you marry her without a prenup then you deserve whatever comes your way for being foolish enough to think of the concept of love is anything other than what it is.
>>28648614
>everyone who goes to college is a whore
Most people settle down between 5-8 partners.
>>28648770
>Again no reason to throw away something good
Agreed
But a used up slut isn't something good
>>28648614
This is exactly why degenerates should date each other only. When one of you cheats on the other, they can understand why they did it.
>>28648825
It all comes down to applying yourself
Instead of spending your time on 4chan you could spend it at the gym, reading books, learning a musical instrument, fuck there's a million productive things you could be doing
I'm not saying "just bee yourself," I'm saying the opposite
Change yourself into the person you want to be, it's hard and it takes a lot of time but it's way more worth it than wallowing in self pity
If you have legit mental illness then get help for it otherwise you have no excuse not to be successful in all facets of your life
>>28648886
>prenup
Those shits are relics anon.
OP, just don;t marry her. If your state has that law where your married after living for a certain time. Break it off and get back together or some shit.
>>28648922
She's hardly used up, yes she slept with a lot of guys in her past but she's only 20 something years old and clearly had a good head on her shoulders being a teacher and dating OP who seems like a good guy as well
She has clearly settled down as people do when they age
>>28646347
It's hard to say honestly, you really have to look at her and decide whether you trust and believe that she only wants you. I don't think her partner-count determines whether she's trustworthy or not, you have to look at her as a person. Example of this is my ex, the looks of a Stacy but she was a virgin and I was her first boyfriend. After two years she met some guy, 4 months later she kissed him (she never told me this, found out from her friends) and eventually broke up with me. I literally had a virgin 10/10 that couldn't be a normal, loyal person. And looking back on it I saw the signs that she was a very selfish and untrustworthy person, but I ignored it because I figured "She's a virgin, virgins can't be roastie whores." And it's hard man, some people are very good at lying and acting. So you have to just look at her and do your best to tell if you really trust her. The regular sex part does make it sound like she's still into you so you've got that going for ya.
>>28648987
>settled down
The description of someone who is used up
>>28648987
>clearly had a good head on her shoulders being a teacher
I honestly feel bad for those kids...
OP answer this fucking question.
What do you do for a living and how much do you make?
>>28648929
so I am not my reading books, playing my musical sax, and going to the gym, just because I am not out being betacuck like I should?
I probably don't know how to be the person I wanna be.
But One thing I don't wanna be is the sloppy second of 30 tyrones, and settle to cuck my self just because that is the way I should behave and accept late life Stacey and her past. and then loose the half of my cake.
I know I am not perfect, but damn not that disgusting.
>>28649017
Not really, just because you partook in the usual activities of youth and don't anymore doesn't mean you're used up
>>28649080
There's nothing beta about engaging in activities beyond video games and imageboard posting
And if you don't want to settle down with Stacy that's fine, you don't have to
All I'm saying is that some self beneficial activities and socializing goes a long way in formulating a healthy image of yourself and of society
>>28649147
I feel we have reached an impasse.
Call it whatever you want but I don't want that shit.
>>28649147
>There's nothing beta about engaging in activities beyond video games and imageboard posting,
You just implied I am this sick creepy bastard for the mere reason of you thinking I don't do my things such as lifting or reading, which I do, and many more. this isn't my blog.
but yet >you don't want to settle down with Stacy that's fine, you don't have to.
Nobody should, Not even op, nobody should be the last option for sloppy second of 30 dudes. nobody.
And anons like op HAVE to stop falling for this roastie trend, is disgusting, don't value men lives so low.
>>28646347
My sister is a Stacey believe me girls who have fucked a lot have no faith in not only marriage but love. They marry out of utility. What is her general attitude towards men.
>>28648770
>People change all the time
People never change.
>>28648306
>omega social retard detected
Thank fuck you omegas won't breed and your stupidity will disappear from the world.
>>28646347
It's likely (although not certain) you're being taken advantage of. I honestly could never fully trust a partner witht that high a fuck count, even if robots would have you believe that's average for a stacy it isn't, most normies peak at 5-10.
If you really want to marry her insist on a pre-nup.
>>28649223
OP's girl clearly values him, a lot
>>28649272
I changed, I was a fucking wild child
Partying every night, drunk driving all the time, doing any drug that was put in front of face, got a couple arrests
Now I spend my free time playing golf and fishing
I have no desire to engage in the behavior that I once did because I changed
>>28649344
Not her, but it's very hard for people to change, even then what changes usually are your habits not your core personality.
>>28649344
>OP's girl clearly values him, a lot
of course as betabuck and late life provider. just because.
>>28649274
enjoy Tyronne second cummies.
>>28649344
>OP's girl clearly values him, a lot
Gee, I wonder why$$$$
See you at the cuck funeral
>>28649401
A change in behavior is indicative of a change in personality traits because behavior is a manifestation of personality traits
>>28649419
>>28649448
She clearly enjoys the sex just as much as he does since they're doing it all the time and as hard as this may be for the /pol9k/ crowd to swallow, most women don't just sink their hooks into a man for his money
>>28649451
Not really. I don't feel like arguing psychology with you but you can change your behavior without any personality changes, it's just called learning what works best.
>>28649344
>I changed, I was a fucking wild childPartying every night, drunk driving all the time, doing any drug that was put in front of face, got a couple arrests
So now you want your betabuck after you went full roastie so you feel threatened by guys telling him to not go for the norme meme, and Hopr op to fed this shit so you can feel you have the chance of getting your own betabuck cuck, right?
>>28646347
It really boils down to a simple question, OP. Have you ever been her single financial supporter/provider?
>>28649476
>She clearly enjoys the sex just as much as he does since they're doing it all the time
yes because never in the history of humanity women have been exchanging sexual relationships and favors for economical and status quo.
Is never been heard of, not even with the implied stacey past.
>>28649476
Gee, I wonder how much that will change once he pops the question.
sigh* its a ruse OP
the second she gets the marriage license she will shut sex down and there wont be shit you can do because she can divorce rape you
when guys like you wife up whores you are justifying everything they have ever done and they will feel no remorse in sucking you dry and leaving you a walking corpse.
alot of "successful" guys who were beta in highschool suddenly find themselves with an aging stacy and think they have "made it" you didnt.
>>28649483
I'm a dude, I'm just hoping OP doesn't get meme'd into ruining something good
>>28649521
If a woman is just doing it to get something she won't enjoy it and as a man you'll be able to tell
>>28649525
Good sex is good sex and it will keep on coming
Best way to tell if a chick is really into you is if she wants to fuck all the time
>>28649887
>ruining something good
yeah, getting cucked, and rape divorce is so fun and games.
>>28649887
>If a woman is just doing it to get something she won't enjoy it and as a man you'll be able to tell
broscience; not even once.
>>28646347
OP, can I just say that the way you've phrased this means you're are only going to get angry NEETs telling you it won't work. Unless you give us paragraphs of information and anecdotes, you are the only one who knows the answer. It could work, it could not. You are the one that interacts with her on a daily basis, and you have to pass judgement yourself.
>>28649925
This doesn't happen to all men
Never go full MGTOW
Also it's not like his girl is a leech she has a job as a teacher which isn't big bucks by any stretch but it's certainly enough for one person to live comfortably on especially since it includes healthcare, sick days, etc
Plus you have 3 months off every year so it's not wagecuckery
If youre worried about losing half your shit cant you just write up a prenup?
>>28649200
>self beneficial activities
>healthy image of yourself and of society
>I don't want that shit.
Never change.
>>28649344
> No, you didn't "change" insofar as that implies a rational free choice. Rather, you were FORCED to ADAPT to the fact that you were rapidly losing your looks and your biological clock was ticking ticking.
>>28649943
>Learning from experience
Everyday of my life.
>>28648614
Damage control: the post
Doesn't mean that you should be relieved from the reprecussions of your actions, you're either a slut or a bad judge of character, neither of which is positive in a partner, gtfo this board
>>28646347
It all changes when you get married. Don't ever make that mistake.
>>28650160
>wahhh! muh safe space is being violated!
It's you who needs to fuck off
>>28649945
As far as I can tell, she has never cheated on her boyfriends. Her high partner count comes from ONS and Chad fuckbuddies. Its just a high partner count that bothers me. Aside from that, she isn't crazy (maybe just a tiny bit), has no mental issues, and her parents are still together in a happy marriage. My gf is also clean, no stds of any sort. She isn't trying to trap me with a baby either as she has an IUD. No major red flags aside from the fact that she's fucked a lot of guys before.
>>28649674
Can women really keep this ruse up? Let's say I keep dating her for 2 more years. If she's still the same way, is it really a ruse then?
>>28646347
1st grade teacher? Who can she possibly be teaching if she's only in 1st grade? Pre-school retards?
I think that you are having irrational fears and that, no matter what the fuck happen, do not ask /r9k/ for such advice. everyone is going to tell you to dump the bitch out of jealousy and spite.
>>28650499
Seriously, nigga, you're asking yourself WAAAY too many useless questions.
It's like saying "I've been friend with this dude for 2 years, but what if he's a fucking murderer and cannibal?" There's no objective and safe way for you to know this. Love is based on trust. If it went well for those two years and that you're not a total fucking bitch. Chances are that she respects you. a good sign that the relationship is going well is frequent and energetic sex.
No relationship is guaranteed to last a long time. IT's impossible to know how long and only naive fucks on /r9k/ still believe in the pure eternal love waifu meme. For now, as it seems to be going well, ride the wave for as long as it can last without asking yourself anxious questions, you're gonna scare yourself into doing something stupid.
>>28646347
>ex-slut
she still a slut for you though?
I was literally in the same type of relationship with you.
>Body count in the 20s as well
>Babe gf
>cared about me, too good to be true
>dated for ~3 years
It fucking was, she's always going to be a selfish bitch. Get out before you go deeper man. Im glad I did
>>28646347
the question is are you hot?
Could you possibly become hotter? do this, the increase will be worth more than if you had always been that attractive to begin with
20's is very high but seriously you just forget your life, its not 'true change' but you just forget it
if I think about high school now... it may as well have been a movie
>>28646347
Sluts are incapable of love. Dont let her get pregnant.
>>28646347
She do porn?
