OP, is your problem that you cum too quickly, or not at all?

>>28636673
Can't cum at all. Not great because it denies me the release I want and the gf gets self conscious and feels she isn't doing it for me. There might be some truth to that sentiment because porn has fucked my brain to the point where I'm rarely fully hard with my gf.

>>28636726

This is depressing. I can relate because I think the bf is the same, only he cums really quickly.

You can still cum anon, just try and masturbate with slightly less grip than you usually would. You need to get out of the mindset of cumming only to porn. Maybe look at some photos of your girlfriend or think about her as you cum?

>>28636920
At first I tried masturbating with a light grip, lots of lube and I always finished to pictures & thoughts of my gf. It didn't help as much as I'd hoped it would, however.

I ended up doing nofap for a few weeks. I was able to cum from intercourse finally; however, like your bf, I was cumming too quickly.

I'm really just addicted to porn desu. I'm frustrated because we don't have sex as often as I'd like to and she's averse to giving me lewd photos. What's a man to do? My imagination gets tiresome after a while.

>>28636616
I know that feeling brother.
I think some of the reason is porn and masturbation.
But as for me the main thing was in my head. Everytime I was fucking my gf and she was moaning, I thought to myself "shit man she like it ,don't fuck it up now if you get soft it'll be the worst thing to happen" and then I would ED.
Are you anxious and shit ?

>>28637681
Yeah I do get a little anxious, what with the pressure to perform and all.