Why does it seem like every femanon I have talked to has been cheated on? The record is 4/6 atm and only because the others have never said so.
They lie for attention and sympathy. They want you to say something like "omg, I'd never cheat on you!" and that's when you fail their shit-test
>>28633450
Femanon here.
I've been cheated on.
Spoiler: Girls are attracted to the kind of guys that treat others badly and cheat on their gfs
You want a gf? Become what you hate.
It's okay for men to cheat occasionally because our sex drive is distinct from our emotions. I've cheated on every girlfriend I've had and it didn't mean anything. Even when my gf found out a couple of times, she didn't care enough to end the relationship. On the other hand, if a woman cheats on me, it's over. It means something is fundamentally wrong with the relationship.
they only go after alpha chads of course.
>>28633450
everyone has been cheated on. People are fickle.
Loyalty is a dead concept.
>>28633450
what a qt
shame about those horrible, monstruous tits.
>>28633511
Pretty much this. All femanons date 2-3 points up and get mad when Chad cheats on them and dumps them.
>>28633534
its a photoshop. Head was pasted onto the body.
Most have been cheated on.
People in general are shitty. Human nature is shitty.
Tis the nature of things.
>>28633497
>>28633536
>>28633511
Except I was cheated on when I dated a guy who was unemployed and living with his mom at 30, who was fat and short and looked almost like eggman. How do you explain that?
>>28633500
Nah, you're just a bad person dating stacey sluts that don't care/are golddigging you/shallow/etc
>>28633550
has the original one a dfc?
that would be the PERFECT woman :3
>>28633590
>How do you explain that?
nobody else would take you.
Chances are that if they were cheated on they were dating Chad. Try to find girls who aren't used goods next time.
>>28633590
>Except I was cheated on when I dated a guy who was unemployed and living with his mom at 30, who was fat and short and looked almost like eggman. How do you explain that?
How the fuck does a guy like that get into a relationship, let alone in a situation where he can cheat on someone?
>>28633590
>Except I was cheated on when I dated a guy who was unemployed and living with his mom at 30, who was fat and short and looked almost like eggman. How do you explain that?
Yeah no, at least try next time you try to pull a shitty troll you stupid retarded asshole.
>>28633609
Except now I'm dating a guy who doesn't cheat on me, who is basically Chad compared to my ex.
How do you explain that?
>>28633615
just bee yourself
>>28633590
>How do you explain that?
You have shit taste. If a guy like that is cheating it probably means he has a terrible personality.
>>28633615
How does eggman have a gf?
>>28633634
>Except now I'm dating a guy who doesn't cheat
I'm sure. Let's see if this lasts, I can't imagine you know how to pick em.
>>28633634
>who is basically Chad
>compared to my ex
>>basically
>>>compared to
Nice choice of words there.
>>28633514
>everyone has been cheated on
>being capable of being cheated on
pls normo
>>28633494
That's a huge red flag. Shows that you're a bad judge of character. No thank you.
>>28633450
because they only date tyrone and chad. tyrone and chad can fuck any woman they want so they do
>>28633646
He viraled the shit out of his shitty ass life and became soft e-famous. Women crave status and attention, which he can sort of provide. Either that or someone took pity on him for whatever reason. There's also the just exposure effect and many other possible reasons but you're probably too retarded to even begin to comprehend them.
>>28633634
1. you are lying.
2. your new bf is ugly as fuck probably
3. kill yourself
>>28633666
I don't get it
>>28633699
whatever helps you sleep at night
>>28633728
your choice of words hint to you doubting your own perception of him being a Chad.
>>28633479
>>28633511
these bnahen
>>28633743
she was probably gonna call him chad and then remembered his small dick
I've never been cheated on but I've cheated twice. I'm not proud of it, but there it is.
>>28633743
He isn't literally Chad because I wouldn't date a stupid normie/failed normie/any variation of the sort. But he is physically attractive and neurotypical. I just wouldn't want a guy who has fucked a hundred different barsluts prior to me, sorry.
>>28633497
>Girls are attracted to the kind of guys that treat others badly and cheat on their gfs
this
it doesn't even have anything to do with being physically attractive. They're attracted to the personality traits of guys who can't care about them. They don't want to be cheated on, but they want guys who will cheat on them.
>>28633783
topkek, I bet you never even told them
or even better you kept running with the lies
>>28633450
Guys cheat a lot, especially when they're young and ruled by raging hormones. Because almost everyone on this board is 20 or younger, they fall into the "ruled by raging hormones" category and so would their romantic partners.
women deserve to be cheated on
>>28633821
Girls just want a guy that's "better" than them. The easiest way to convince them you're better is to treat them like shit.
>>28633634
>How do you explain that?
pretty easy, you're just a guy rusing as a fembot
If I was cheated on my initial response would just be sheer bewilderment because my bf is a fat autistic neet.
He is very charming over long periods of time, but I don't know who he would even know to cheat with me on.
A clerk from the weed store?
When you can snap your fingers and have a boyfriend more or less at will, there's a pretty good chance that one of them will cheat on you just by sheer probability.
>>28633838
No, but they knew. I'm sure they knew.
>>28633494
another femanon here, me too. it was awful
>>28634371
Sending hugs to you, sis. Hope it doesn't affect your future relationships.
Chad's a dick!!
..That's kinda the problem..
>>28633940
That's bs m8! Girls want guys that are worse than them, but who at the same time,>>28633977
treat them better than they treat anyone else
>>28633590
>How do you explain that?
you're lying, that's how.
>>28633977
This desu, just some troll kid.
never been cheated on, but I cheated on my ex :)
>>28633534
>monstrous tits
>horrible
>>28633550
What does the original girl look like then?
>>28633450
Women have a fluid definition of 'cheat'. It does not mean just oral or intercourse. On the other hand, they also maintain a fluid definition for themselves, which often discludes things like 'well we had sex but i wasn't really in to it so it wasn't cheating'.
>>28633450
Because men don't actually like monogamy unless the woman is a 10/10.
t.porn, strip clubs, and "female friends"
>>28633450
Yep I've been cheated on
It's because men are scum with false expectations?
>>28633511
This
>>28633500
Degenerate
>>28636384
>>28636404
This
>>28635883
>>28636309
>someone redpills you on what men are really like
>B-B-BUT ITS JUST A TROLL!!!
Nah, men can't commit to anything that isn't a perfect young virgin.
If you're female and get cheated on, then you personally fucked up by going after Chad or a wanna-be Chad, end of story.
>>28636482
>implying
Most male cheaters are middleaged fat men going to stripclubs. Or does that only count for women according to robots?
>>28633494
You probably deserved it
>>28636381
This.
Women are strict with men but very forgiving on themselves. If her bf gets a hug from another girl then his gf will go batshit and accuse him of cheating. If she openly makes out with another guy, she'll wave it off and say it doesn't count.
>>28636830
lol no
Stop hanging out with sluts you dumb fuck. Men are the ones saying "it doesn't mean anything" "it's just sex" "it's male biology" Going to stripclubs is normal for the average guy. If robots could fuck every woman they wanted they would too.
I got cheated on. He fucked my only friend and then when I caught them he just left and eventually married her. Only guy to ever ask me out or show interest in me and the whole thing was probably because I had a hot friend.
>>28636830
jesus. why is this horseshit even a thing and allowed?
fucking whores deserve the worst.
>>28636894
Generally, men are more loyal to the women they love.
Also, the average guy does not go to strip clubs.
The only men who act like what you're saying are the ladies' man type of guy who isn't in a relationship and doesn't want to be in one. He just pumps'n'dumps. If one of his ONS thinks she's his gf, that's not his problem.
>>28636943
she wasn't a friend if she did that to you.
>>28636943
at least you had a bf. I can't even get a gf without ripping my own arm off and jumping through flaming hoops and it's never worth the hassle.
that genuine love I want and could really make good use of and build upon? I don't believe women can even provide me with that because they don't want to. they are not even thinking about me.
>>28636359
Hello Sarah
>>28637077
That's something that's become very clear to me. My biggest question since has been how long they were doing it. I was with him for about 6 years. I can't stop asking myself how many of those years he was fucking her.
>>28636943
When I got cheated on, it was with a girl I knew too, she and I were always very nice to each other. She was 15 and he was 28, to put it into perspective.
>>28637046
They aren't ladies men. Just typical "my wife doesn't give me a bj everyday so she deserves it" or "my wife has small tits and I have needs". When I say average men I mean it, not chads or robots.
>Generally, men are more loyal to the women they love.
Exactly and tons of men just settle into a relationship they don't care for and stop loving their wife once she won't neglect their children to fuck them exactly how they want or start sagging and getting wrinkles. Besides most men don't consider anything they do to be cheating.
>>28637143
Er, wow. That's rough. We're all the same age so there wasn't any weirdness like that.
>>28637180
Yeah he cheated on me with other people too but that was the one that stood out the most, not because of the age but because I knew her, and I introduced them basically, so I felt responsible for the longest time.
>>28637208
Yeah, it's not easy when they're both close to you. I expect there were probably other women in my case, too. But that's the one that cuts deepest.
>>28636830
>it was just a blow job, I swear, I don't love her, it means nothing baby
Things your average dude will say.
All I know, is that I gave my virginity to one of you, "r9k genuine good guys" and he cheated three times, and we're talking about actual penis in the vagoo. Absolute garbage, I can't fucking trust any male anymore, he was such a strong believer in monogamy/love/NOT FUCKING CHEATING.
>>28637432
It's not cheating when a man does it according to robots. That's why they're always bitching about women cheating. They're just projecting what they would do if they had options. See traps for even more proof.
>>28637432
Posts like this scare the fucking crap out of me because I'm dating a good guy from r9k. He doesn't call himself a robot but he claims to be very into monogamy and not fucking cheating
How screwed am I on a scale from 1-10
>>28637545
Robots are some of the worst because they try to justify it with "that roastie slut is probably fucking behind my back, might as well get even". If you're too loyal and sweet it's because you're making up for cheating. If you don't drop everything for him immediately and beg for attention it's because you're getting it from chads.
>>28637432
>>28637545
I think women go after the same guy, but tell themselves that he was "different". I also notice that people love bragging about their relationships, everyone does that around the beginning of a relationship but things change and both parties get fed up of one another or jaded.
>>28637432
No-one would say that outside of a tv/movie scene where the guy was supposed to be a complete cunt and they needed to make it 100% obvious to the viewer.
I always figure women to be more likely to cheat. If a man wants to cheat then he has to actively go out, find a girl and do it intentionally. Women tend to let themselves get carried away with the moment, if an attractive guy is hitting on them. She'll get turned on and just go with the flow and forget she had a bf until it's all over.
So I can see more women cheating simply because it would be harder for men to do so.
Both people are cunts in that case, of course. Both are disloyal wretches.
>>28637612
I don't think it's like that
>>28637621
You're shifting blame off of the cheater and onto the person being cheated on
>>28637432
>All I know, is that I gave my virginity to one of you, "r9k genuine good guys"
I'm sure that the vast majority, if given the opportunity, would've done the same, but just to be clear, whoever you dated was most likely a normalfag pretending to be a robot.
There are only two pieces of advice that can be given regarding this; one is that you should improve your looks as much as possible so as to minimize the chances of someone being willing to drop you for another girl.
The other is to just deal with it. You can't realistically prevent it from happening. You don't typically know people enough when you start dating to be able to predict this, at all, and if your looks aren't that good, as it is with most women here, it's even more likely to happen. Better read some cuckqeaning H-manga.
>>28637648
This what I mean. They'll say men have to work for it and women can and will do it at any time no matter where she is. They only ever say they won't when they think they can't. As soon they get a chance they'll take it because they figure women are all doing it anyway.
>>28637734
I guess if men are going to cheat anyway I might as well get chad to come over then. Is it really being cucked if both parties do it?
>>28637774
>Is it really being cucked if both parties do it?
Not only is it getting cucked, you're gonna be very unfulfilled with a relationship like that. You do get whatever sex you get, but I really wouldn't expect any serious emotions holding you two together. Cuckqueaning works in practice, but if the guy allows the girl to sleep around, their relationship is most likely fucked. This isn't really a matter of double standards, it's just how it works out.
>>28637869
That was joke. If a guy even hints about anything that isn't completely monogamous I'm dumping him. No if, ands, or butts. I'd rather die alone then let someone I hate even get near me much less let him get away with pretending to have any affection or respect for me.
>>28637734
>if your looks aren't that good
That's a really weak excuse, m8.
>>28637774
>she's going to cheat so I'll do it first
>he's going to cheat because he thinks I'm going to cheat so I might as well cheat
It's just a loop.
Regardless of what the other partner does, don't cheat. Never cheat. You don't want to be that person. Break up before you cheat. And give it a couple weeks to a month before you get with someone else.
>>28637481
It's only cheating if women do it, if men do it it's biologically justified. I know.
>>28637545
Honestly, screwed but it's not like we have a choice. I hope he doesn't do it, and it works out well for you. I hope it's not my ex, lol.
>>28637621
Didn't tell myself nothing. He said he wanted a friend, I provided, I ended up falling for him and apparently he did too (can't really believe anything he said now) so we started dating, mind you it was a 3 years relationship.
I don't think in terms of "different", we got along, he liked me, it clicked.
>>28637648
Oh, boy, do not let me get started on the nonsense movie quotes he gave me. I know what you mean, but still, it exists.
At the end of the day, it doesn't matter if you get out of your way to cheat or get carried into it. I'll agree neither is excusable and both are trash.
>>28637734
So my looks were good enough for him to fuck repeatedly, and kiss me and tell me I'm pretty but not good enough to make him stick to his words? I think he was plain trash as a lot of men are, and he had the oppurtunity to do it, so he did, as most men would. That's all. I started dating him when he was a neet living with his mother, the minute he got a job, it was too late.
>>28638093
See >>28637966 I was making fun of what the robots say and think. I'm never going to cheat, but most of the men here saying they won't will as soon as they can. It's easy to say you won't when you think you can't.
>>28638154
>It's easy to say you won't when you think you can't.
And you're sure the same doesn't go for you? You're 100% sure you would never ever cheat?
>>28637966
>let him get away with pretending to have any affection or respect for me
That's the one part you're wrong on, it's entirely possible for a guy to love you but still want to fuck other women, not even possible, it's the norm. Now, acting on it behind your back when you've made it clear that you really hate the idea of it, that's a different matter, but it is solely a matter of respect, not one of affection.
>>28638027
I'm not saying it's okay because the girl is ugly, I'm saying that it's more likely to happen if the girl is ugly.
>>28638135
>So my looks were good enough for him to fuck repeatedly, and kiss me and tell me I'm pretty but not good enough to make him stick to his words?
In part, however even 10/10 looks only decrease the chances of cheaitng, they don't eliminate it altogether. It's largely a matter of how principled a person is, and no shit, most people aren't principled at all, a neet loser is certainly not going to be the pinnacle of it, they only won't cheat if they don't get the opportunity.
Also keep in mind that people usually lie about appearance, and that you appeared a lot hotter when he was turned on from kissing you, not that this has a lot of impact on the situation, just pointing it out.
>>28633450
Sir, it's called FemFeel.
A female always femfeels she's been cheated, even if it ain't true.
>he fantasizes about cheating ---> she femfeels he cheated, and obviously it's his fault
>she cheats ---> it's again his fault, because she femfelt he cheated.
>>28638206
Yes, there's literally no reason for me to. Emotionally or otherwise. I've been single for years out of choice. Mostly because my options were absolute shit, but I could get casual sex extremely easily and I've never even considered. Sex is absolute shit for women anyway unless the man does proper foreplay and casual hookups will never bother. I could easily get a harem of betas for emotional support on r9k too but I've never done that either.
>>28638268
If he's dating me it's impossible. Again no if, ands, or buts.
>>28638135
He wasn't your ex because he was a virgin before me. So probably not. But still spooky.
>>28638319
See >>28637155
>>28637432
>>28637481
>>28637612
>>28637734
>>28637735
>>28638268
It's the opposite and you know it. You're just projecting what you would do if could.
>>28633494
I hate fat fucks that watch anime and are unemployed, should I become NEET and then get girls?
>>28638331
>Mostly because my options were absolute shit
Well there you go. If you got another bf and then a new guy came along who was also a good option, can you be sure you wouldn't?
I'm just as certain as you are that I wouldn't cheat.
>>28638423
Were shit, as in 50yo neets and black guys. I love my bf now and we've talked literally every single day but once for hours since December 14. I'd be happy even if we never got to meet irl tb.h.
I'm not saying you specifically would. I'm saying that the men who complain about women cheating the most and say literally all women do it are the most likely to jump on it if there's even the tiniest chance.
>>28638331
I'm not talking about your reaction or preferences or whatever action you will take after the fact. Even if a guy loves you, actually loves you, he will still find other women attractive and will want to put his dick inside them. Whether or not he tells you this and whether or not he acts on his impulses are a different matter. All I'm saying is that the "I only have eyes for you!" thing is not real.
Do girls think it's cheating to fap to porn while in a relationship?
>>28638555
I'm talking about cheating. If there's any sexual or romantic impulses he acts on no matter how small he's gone. A robot shitposting on r9k of all places isn't going to suddenly convince me I love seeing my bf fuck other women. Good luck trying to get your harem. I'll stop giving you (you)s from now on.
>>28638617
Not unless it gets obsessively or it effects the sex. If he he'd rather jerk off he's pretty useless at that point. Men who get that far deep are always assholes in a relationship anyway, even if they didn't start out that way.
>>28638268
Just terrible. And here I am, actually caring about morals my parents thaught me.
>>28638332
Alright, well, I'm a little bit salty, even when it's been over a year since the breakup, but they're not all garbage. Don't sweat it.
I tell girls pretty much straight away that I'm not looking for something serious, so when I end up fucking two girls, it's not like I break a gf/bf spell. I actually lost interest in sex, to some extent (although I still need to cum at least every 3'rd day and it's good for the ego if you cum in a vagina once a week.) So at the moment I'm with one girl and I'm not looking for another one. Still, I won't give her the "gf" title. Today you can bf/gf for months without calling it.
The issue with girls past 26 is the kids and settle down things.
And today people don't marry and the dating pool never seems to close.
I'm 30 and there is no problem matching 18yo's on tinder and meeting for cinema and fucking - that's kinda cruel for women my age, I supposed, by why wouldn't I act on it?
So as a relatively good looking guy who can live by myself, there is no reason in 2016 to make a baby before I'm 36. I'm not a better father at 26 than at 36, and I'll 100% be better positioned stability wise. So like, literally, why would I do it earlier?
>>28633450
What bugs me more is women who've been in "abusive" relationships. THAT I've heard from all females. I wonder how these men hide their shitty personalities and come off as an acceptable partner.
>>28639063
The same way certain women stay skinny their entire life and gain 100 pounds in a year of marriage. They plan it out and wait until they've trapped you..
>>28639063
Women love abusive men. The guy looks strong to them and it makes them feel safer.
This thread isn't very nice. Nobody deserves to be cheated on.
