Why won't my girlfriend hang out with me?
>Be high school senior (18 already so no underage b8)
>Somehow have girlfriend, but she wants to keep our relationship a secret since her female friends don't like me
>Certain classes get to go to 6flags
>Everybody forms groups they go with
>I want to be alone with her and go on rides, like a date
>She FUCKING REJECTS ME
>I do have a group of male friends that I will be with tho
>Start to question whether she really is my gf or not
>high school problems
not a single soul cares
This is a bullshit situation but I'm sure you know that
>>28616522
>Barely 18
>not underageB&
Fuck off, newfag.
>ditching a day with your mates for a lass
Naa you're a fuckin wrong un pal
Never blow off your mates, she wants to be with hers, so stop being a pussy cunt and go and chill with your boys cunt
>>28616522
>wants to keep our relationship a secret
>rejects spending the entire day alone with you at 6 flags where her friends will also be
So what exactly did you think you were getting into?
Why don't her friends like you?
You aren't really in a relationship op
shes not your gf
>>28616522
She probably doesn't like you as much as you like her.
you can either do absolutely nothing and don't show you care in the slightest and de-invest in the relationship emotionally,
Or you can do the exact opposite and when you get the opportunity take her off somewhere alone and really passionately and violently react.
>>28616522
Fuck that bitch hang out with your buds for the day, it'll be way more fun than trying to get poontang. Also if she's so afraid and concerned of what her friends think of you that she won't make your relationship public what's the point of even dating her?
>>28616522
I'm unironically sure she's cucking you or you're just not dating. She's not dating you for popularity/status and she isn't dating because she likes you. Do you spoil her or something?
>>28616655
And by passionately and violently react I mean grab her and start making out heavily despite her protests while telling her what you're angry about and when she answers back just grab her tight and kiss her and maybe fuck her right there.
You need to chad the fuck up. You're being a homosexual beta pussy repeller right now.
You need to be a Heterosexual alpha male pussy destroyer. Stop texting her, start treating her like shit in front of her friends. Lots of back handed compliments and shit. Bring her ego down. Dont get attached to any female. Pump and dump. Rail and bail.
Hang out with your boys and dont sweat bitches.
>>28616592
>Why don't her friends like you?
Idk, they just sort of avoid me. For example, when me and gf were talking and walking together in school, one of her friends saw and just sort of looked back a couple times (she was right in front of us) then all of a sudden sped up her talking and got away from us.
>>28616610
...except we regularly go on dates and shit, just without letting others know. Also, samefag as >>28616614
>>28616656
>what's the point of even dating her?
I've somehow gained this obsession for her and can't stop thinking about her every night. I even have a blue ball pillow I cuddle with every night that I pretend is her.
I'm so sick of normalshitters posting here.
Go to /adv/, go to /b/, go to reddit, leave us in peace.
I would suggest seeing who is in her "group" hopefully not a big black dude.
Anyways OP your living the easy life just accept this is a stupid high school relationship that won't last a year after school ends and enjoy her on the weekends and make some lasting friendships with your Bros at 6flags. Your a normie so your life will be easy anyways
>>28616697
Answer my other question, it's more important than the one you answered.
>>28616655
>>28616679
This sounds like the most retarded and akward thing anyone could ever do. This is real life not a fucking movie, wake up shitlord.
What OP should do is just play it cool and not talk too much to her anymore. If she starts acting crazy or keeps trying to get in touch with you she genuinely likes you, if not it's for the best anyway as you're being cucked harder than Sam from GoT.
>>28616522
I did this exact thing to a high school girlfriend, she doesn't care about you at all, ditch her
>>28616522
>You want to ride rides with your gf so sweet
>Chad slaps her ass and fills her with meat
>>28616522
Consider this OP,
You're in high school OP
You will most likely never have a "long term" girlfriend because you're in high school
My best bet is that she will dump you in a week or so.
>>28616592
>So what exactly did you think you were getting into?
I DONT FUCKING KNOW BUT I STILL LOVE HER AND I WANT HER TO LOVE ME OH GOD BUT SHE MAY NOT LOVE ME THAT MUCH>>28616716
>I would suggest seeing who is in her "group"
SHE'S NOT THAT KIND OF GIRL, IT'S ALL FEMALES, SHE IS NOT A SLUT AND NOT KEKING ME
>She hides you from her friend's scowls of disdain
>she let's chad plow her asshole despite the pain
>she is embarrassed to be seen with you
>Chad plows her bare-assed packing her poo
>>28616550
This entire board is high school problems.
>>28616522
OP do you live in Atlanta? We had a school trip there and I took acid that day. Had 0 friends and when I tried to join groups they all said no. It was actually one of the worst loneliest days of my life, in fact it changed me as a person.
its not going to last. just fuck her while you can and dont get too attached
>>28616883
>>28616883
This. I think
The majority of people on this board are high schoolers.
>>28616522
You're a fucking pussy if you agreed to this and deserve any heartbreak and misery. She's keeping it a secret because she's fucking Chad and all of her friends know that
Fuck off normie
>>28616925
>The majority of people on this board are high schoolers.
I agree with this statement.
>>28616726
It's the kind of hot blooded thing that men from more machismo cultures would do but Northern European men would feel too embarrassed and socially inhibited to do.
>>28616932
>she's fucking Chad
IM LITERALLY HER FIRST BOYFRIEND SO WHY THE FUCK WOULD SHE BE FUCKING CHAD ALREADY
>>28616959
why would she be hiding you and pretending that you are not her boyfriend?
>you cry and wonder what makes her hate you
>Chad slides his filthy rod balls deep in her poo
>>28616959
This has got to be bait
You can't seriously be this stupid
You haven't seen the stories on any of the women hate threads of innocent girls losing their virginity to Chad when they promised it for their beta boyfriend?
>>28617002
There is a reason...she is embarassed for people to find out that she is dating me, who is well known for being a social outcast and wierdo sperg lord. And I fully understand as well, I'm the "can't get a girlfriend" guy at the school, and people will start to shift that stigma and hatred towards her if we are discovered.
>>28616959
OP. I want you to do something important. Ask yourself exactly WHY she would want to be with you. No seriously, drop your ego and look at this analytically. Are you extremely good looking? Popular? Do all the girls want you? Are you in any position of high status? On any sports teams? Leader of anything? Does everyone at school know you as a cool guy?
Chances are, she's not really that into you. Girls aren't really all that attracted to guys on their same level, they want a guy "above" them. She probably views you as decent looking enough to date, but its not serious for her. She probably doesn't want to be seen with you. Your senior year is almost over so your relationship is too. Stop investing in it, it's over. It's dead. Not trying to be a dick, seriously though, you might as well stop looking at her as a gf and just start looking at her as some to fuck a few more times. Start moving on, because she already has
>>28617065
tell everyone that she is dating you and then break up with her in a public place. seriously this chick seems like the biggest cunt around. I can't think of anything more beta than acting like she is the good guy in this situation.
>>28616697
>gained an obsession
This might be late but she's just manipulating you. You have low self esteem and you're just trying to prove yourself to the one girl that gave you a shot. Dump her in front of he friends then go hang out with yours.
Also,
>friends
>gf
>6flags
Fucking leave normie. People like and if you can get one girl then you can get a replacement. You're too normie for this place REEEEEEEtc...
>"Why won't my girlfriend.."
Stopped reading there
When will normies learn that if they are socially adept enough to form a relationship with a female they do not belong on this board?
I hope your bus crashes and you all die
>>28617268
This isn't wizardchan friend. On the other hand this is a shit thread. Instead of bitching about it you should spam it with gore.
Welcome back OP. You're a failed normie so you will fit in just fine once again. Glad to see you home again :)
You gotta confront her about it. Tell her if she really likes you she wouldn't care what her friends think.
If she refuses to change, break up with her. Don't waste your time chasing a girl who doesn't like you back. I learned that the hard way.
>>28617997
She's still willing to date me tho so most likely she is conflicted between my friends and her. In fact things may get stronger between us when I'm in college and she is still in high school since the secret will be kept easier.
>>28616522
stop posting screenshots of your text conversations on r9k and maybe she'll love you, robot.
>>28617268
>I hope your bus crashes and you all die
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>>28616522
Anon this happened to me. She is utterly ashamed of you and you should cut your loses and run.
>>28618135
She's just lonely and can't find anyone better right now.
>>28618135
Please don't take this shit from her and continue lying to yourself. If she really cared about you she wouldn't mind people knowing about your relationship. She certainly is not conflicted between her friends and you, and you aren't gonna like it when she finally chooses them 100%. She may not be sucking off chad at six flags, but she's definitely keeping her eyes out for an upgrade.
A bunch of anons have already told you all of this, but you keep making up fantasies/delusions about how she's not like the other girls and she still likes you. You came here and "questioned if she's really your gf". You know the fucking answer, you just wanted us to tell us about how you're wrong and you'll get married to her some day because she loves you.
I'd call you a normie and tell you to leave, but you're the most beta person I have ever seen and you're letting this cunt walk all over you. You are much worse than khvs.
>>28618373
BUT SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE IS MY GIRLFRIEND SO HOW COULD SHE DO SUCH A THING TO ME.
Also, I prefer that it be kept a secret since my parents are Muslim and don't want me dating a japanese girl for some reason. So we both benefit from the secrecy.
>>28618481
Man
Life's going to have some hard lessons for you, famalam. Brace yourself.
>>28618481
If you're not gonna listen to anything we have to say why make this thread in the first place?
oooh i figured out the problem
you're a nigger :(
>>28618481
like i wrote, you are a nigger. a sand nigger, even, the kind that TRUMP will thankfully deport along with your smelly dirty family...sorry senpai
>>28616808
>>28616843
pottery. simpley, pottery
>>28618481
>Parents are muslim
Kill them in the name of Western Society and our lord and saviour Jesus Christ. Deus Veult.
>>28618515
I know deep inside that you guys are right, but there is still something nagging me saying that she loves me and wants to one day marry me and have kawaii cihldren together.
>>28618520
>>28618534
I am indian shitskin muslim. So far worse than being a sand nigger or nigger.
>>28618562
>and wants to one day marry me and have kawaii children together
You're delusional. You're in highschool. She is in highschool. If she really felt that way, you'd know it. Trust me.
I'd confront her about it. Tell you what you think. If she continues to blow you off for her friends, dump her.
>>28618562
>I am indian shitskin muslim
my fucking sides, did you really think you had a chance?
break up with your gf and go poo in loo pajeet
>>28618591
Yes, and I told her that I want to stay with her when I'm in college and she agreed, so I don't know what to feel. I feel almost abandoned, like empty vessel. And not once has she told me she loves me.
>>28616522
Lmao OP, are you in NJ?
I'm wondering if you're doing this as a physics lab.
>>28619253
How long have you been with her?
>inb4 a month
>>28619394
...we actually have been together a month. I hope things stay strong between us though.
>>28619632
Only a month?! That's not love dude. Love grows over time. You're just infatuated with her.
>>28616522
Because she isn't your gf faggot
I know you guys are usually autists but you can't get more clear a sign than this
>>28616806
>I STILL LOVE HER
eeeeeeeeeeeeeEEEEEEEEAEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAA HAAAAAA AAAAAAEEEEEEE
>>28616932
This board is getting out of control.
>guys my gf had eggs and bacon for breakfast this morning
>she's fucking chad, bitch. kys
>>28619868
> being this new
seriously kys no joke make your parents proud faggot
>>28616522
Yeah dude, I hate to break it to you but this girl isn't your girlfriend, she's stringing you along.
>>28619964
>le newfag meme
Nah, you just have no idea how real people act or think.
>>28620020
> how real people act or think
I work for the largest psychiatric publication in the world. How people act and think is L I T E R A L L Y my job.
Will you go kill yourself now? Please?
>>28616697
You are in high school, you are probably an asspie like the rest of us. Worst yet you don't realize the shit you do is cringe yet.
>>28616679
>Thinking this anon was serious
>>28620047
>thinking OP's gf is fucking chad
>having a basic understanding of how people who act
Sure buddy.
>OH YEAH? W-WELL MY DAD WORKS FOR NINTENDO
lmao Holy shit kill yourself.
>>28616522
She's keeping you a secret not because of user friends, but because she's fucking some nigger on the side. Dump that slut before she does it to you, at least you can have the satisfaction of hurting her ego.
>>28616697
And do you pay for those dates?
>>28620287
OP here. Yes, I've payed for pretty much everything, though she does attempt to pay for stuff I do it myself, especially since I'm the man in the relationship and that is what society dictates and defines normalcy as. She did pay for our popcorn when we watched Civil War, since I payed for the tickets.
>>28620326
Well then there you go, she stays because you take her out for free.
Women are manipulators, she doesn't actually want to pay or mean it, she know your beta faggot ass will continue to cover her anyway and she looks good for "trying". If she really cared she would say fuck you to her friends and not keep you a secret. Man the fuck up.
>>28620413
Actually I'm her first boyfriend, so I'm the first person to ever ask her out. Her family is very traditional, strict, and protective. She is not allowed to have social media or stay up past 9 unless she is studying. And on our first date her dad layed down several rules, took down my address and phone number and threatened to shoot me if any of the rules are broken (he has lots of guns and gladly showed them to me.)
So in other words I cannot go against tradition here, it's pretty much the norm for the man to pay. Plus I have a job and she doesn't, though she may get one soon since she is 17 now.
>>28620226
> my dad
I-I didn't realize how badly I destroyed you, anon. I'm sorry. I think the only solution for you is to kill yourself.
>>28620499
dude you posted last week bragging about this gf
didnt you say you loved her after your 2nd date and she replied with like "thank you"?
>>28620499
She's never had a boyfriend because she let's dudes rail her on the reg. Girls that grow up like that are always super slutty. They don't need a bf to have sex.
And this still doesn't explain you allowing her to keep you a secret. If she is so traditional, why is she secretly dating a guy and ashamed to be seen in public with him? I know this is /r9k/ , but holy shit you are beta.
>>28616522
FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU NORMIES GET OFF MY BOARD
>>28620599
Well I am helping in the secret keeping because my parents do not want me to be dating until after marriage because of Islam. If they find out I am super fucked, so this is best for both of us.
>>28620637
>>28620499
Have you even fucked/made out/gotten anything sexual from her? If not she is just using you sorry to say. Honestly, you are cringingly beta, the honest truth is she doesn't like you but you are the first boy to show interest in her so she feels obligated to see you, also gets free shit and attention too which girls love. Sorry man.
>>28620562
>thank you
Thank you for a much needed laugh
OP, how did you guys even begin dating if her friends don't like you and you're an outcast? Also, do you guys do relationship things like kiss or hold hands?
>>28620637
Oh, no wonder get friends don't like you.
Probably afraid you're gonna blow up the school.
>>28620689
>>28620704
Well...we haven't actually held hands or kissed, but we have hugged, which she never does to other men. She also dresses very conservatively so men don't ogle her, that's just the type of girl she is.
>>28620754
Trust me, I'm not even being a troll and I know this will go nowhere. I'm half Japanese and have fucked tons of Japanese girls and the conservativeness is just an act. If they like you a lot they will spread their legs even easier than American women because they have no societal relgion telling them sexual acts are bad. Sorry to say but she is truly using you, the no physical contact thing should be a red flag. Also, a hug doesn't mean jack shit.
>>28620806
But she is almost never with other men besides me, and I do plan on holding hands with her this weekend when we go to a botanical garden, then lunch, then bowling then dinner, or something. and plus she said she will sit with me on the bus, so she clearly has some affection for me.
>>28616522
That's a hoe quality OP. I know because I was in a very similar situation except a little bit older than you are now.
>gf doesn't want to introduce me to her family because they're strict
>2 years of dating and I've never met them
>Never wants to spend time with me. Literally never wants to
>I realized she was probably being a hoe and flirting with a guy so I gave up on the relationship and just waited until she broke up with me
>Hell I even had to tell her "Are you going to break up with me soon?" just to get her to actually do something involving me
Trust me OP, if they avoid you and don't appreciate you as a person chances are if she isn't physically cheating on you she's probably cheating on you emotionally with somebody. That's what happened to me, my girl met some new guy and was instantly ready to throw herself at him after 2 years with me. At first I thought maybe it was me, but after talking with her friends who all agreed that I was a really good boyfriend and that they lost respect for her because of what she did to me I realized it wasn't me, it was just that she was a hoe all along. I noticed the signals after the fact, but maybe it's not too late for you.
>>28620875
You can keep trying to delude yourself or you can move on and stop wasting your time. Also Indians are at the very fucking bottom along with blacks in Japanese society, so her family will never like you ever and she will be an outcast if she's ever seen with you in Japan or by her Japanese friends.
Worst case scenario you're her orbiter and she's leading you on.
Best case scenario you're her moped boyfriend. Like a moped, you're fun to ride on but she's doesn't want her friends to see her.
Either call her out on treating you like shit and get her to fuck you, or drop her.
If you're going on dates with this girl and she hasn't given you any ass yet, then she's fucked you. You haven't fucked her.
>>28616522
Why are you wasting your time on 3d bitches?
>>28620875
Jesus fucking christ OP, do you have no shame? she's totally using you dude, if she truly cares about you, that type of shit doesn't matter. She should grow the fuck up and treat you like a person, you're nothing but an object to her dude. Fuck that. Grow a pair.
>>28616522
She's probably going to dump you soon.
>>28616585
this desu
Origincl Cuntment
> Not realizing this whole thread is bait
>>28623405
Let us have our fun.
