Please recommend me a book or a video or a series of videos which will teach me how to interact with women.
I've told nobody this secret before but i will tell you. if you go to youtube and click the x thats at the top right screen on your browser and press your pcs power button you will be removed from the pc now this is the important part. go outside of your house and go to a local store or wherever else you can buy condoms. buy some. go find women at the bar and ask them on a date tl:dr GET A FUCKING LIFE
That's not how it works
Pick up artist is all shit, just to get peoples money.
There is no magic trick to it, just talk to people a lot, it'll be really awkward at first but the more you do it the better you get. You can try talking online but it's really not the same.
People also say you have to get /fit/ before doing it, and it's kind of true. Being /fit/ can boost your confidence (having confidence in yourself is also a huge part of it) but it's not necessarily going to make it easier.
Trust me, I thought I could just watch a few videos or whatever and become a normie, it doesn't work like that. I'm still >tfw no gf but I can actually talk to people and sort of pretend to be a normie
>>28612040
not all women are the same some will be doing drugs out the ass and others will be watching yaoi anime
>>28612165
This. If you're an awkward abd autistic that redpill stuff will make you even more awkward and annoying. I've seen it live and it's painful to watch, like a really bad actor.
>>28612040
american psycho helped me to cut with women
>>28612040
Here ya go
http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
>>28612165
>>28612130
>Pick up artist is all shit
I know. I can talk to people but I don't know how to push conversation into direction I need. You can't just ask for sex, right? I need something to tell me what topics to talk about, how to be funny, how to tell if a girl likes you etc. Since I am a huge autist this things are foreign to me but I guess I can try to fake it.
>>28612391
Ask what she is interested in and if she asks you what you are interested in never say these
>hentai, loli, anime, vr porn and etc
>>28612391
>>28612165 is right.
All the direction you need is deep inside your mind. You just need to cut the bullshit and understand what you want whilst simultaneously respecting other people. Unfortunately, this will take time and effort. It will take a COMBINATION of experience and reflecting on the things you do. If you just do the former, enjoy being an obnoxious angry piece of shit who just throws tantrums at the world without doing anything about it or trying to understand it.
I've read so much stuff about women over the years (I'm 25 now), and very VERY little has stuck with me when it comes to reality. The brain isn't designed to work that way, just like you can't read about riding a bicycle and expect any results when you jump on it.
Welcome to the real world.
Read No More Nice Guy goddamnit.
>>28612040
Ars amatoria by Ovid
>>28612391
>You can't just ask for sex, right
No
>I need something to tell me what topics to talk about, how to be funny
You can't really choose the topic, it has to come naturally
Say your talking to a female coworker, mention something that's happened at work recently, or ask for help on something you're doing, it's all situational
There is no guide to life, a lot of it is just playing whatever cards your dealt and trying to make the best of it
As for trying to be funny, it's different for everyone, I have a pretty quick wit, I don't know if you can train to be more funny, because a lot of it is based on how quick you can get a joke out
Obviously stay away from edgy humor and stuff, keep it relatively PC until you're more comfortable with the person, don't go cracking holocaust jokes all of a sudden
A lot of humor is being comfortable, so the more you talk, the more you'll be able to joke. If you're incredibly nervous, you're not going to be thinking of jokes, if you've calmed down and are having a normal talk, it'll come naturally to most people.
I used to be pretty autistic but if you just keep going it gets better.
>>28612560
Be assertive but don't be an asshole, a lot of people think this means do whatever you want and they come across as assholes. Just make up your mind and do something, women don't like men who are indecisive.
What do I do if 20 years of being a kissless virgin have made me over-sensitive to intimacy, and therefore absolutely terrified of initiating in literally any way whatsoever?
I've never asked a girl on a date because even when I know with 100% certainty that a girl likes me, I have absolutely NO idea of how the asking-on-a-date process works, and I feel like I would get so nervous and jittery that I would look like a complete freak and possibly even have a panic attack right on the spot (especially if I got rejected).
I've also been in one position before where I was certain that a girl wanted me to kiss/make out with her, and I simply froze in place despite there being so many physical and emotional signs that she wanted me to initiate. I was paralysed like a deer in headlights. I simply could not do ANYTHING because I was so incredibly scared that I would fuck it up, because I've never kissed before.
I just don't know how to get over this hump. I feel like I would need some kind of weird sexual/emotional therapy to overcome my issues. No girl would want to deal with me because I'm scared of everything intimate, romantic, or sexual.
Ignore all advice except for: >>28612514
You PHYSICALLY can't read "just do X, don't do X" and expect any relevant results. If you do that, you fear fucking up. If you do that, you become a fake piece of shit who's scared to express himself freely.
THE ONLY WAY is to go out and do it. You will fuck up monumentally, but you need to fuck up. The fuck-ups create the directional roadmap you're looking for. You will know they're fuck-ups based on how the people around you react. It's the only way. Stop wasting your time reading shit that will be of absolutely no assistance to the task at hand.
>>28612826
Fuck dude im in the sam situation.
>>28612514
>>28612901
Oh fuck sake. I don't have fear anymore in worst case fear can be overcomed with drugs. I just don't know what to do,
like this guy above said
> I have absolutely NO idea of how the asking-on-a-date process works
and also what to do on a date when it is acceptable to compliment women, when you can start joking about sex lets say etc etc
>>28613001
You're not getting it. The way to learn what to do and when to do it is to try shit and see what works, and more importantly see why it does or doesn't work.
>>28613001
Stop deflecting advice. I told you here:
>All the direction you need is deep inside your mind. You just need to cut the bullshit and understand what you want whilst simultaneously respecting other people.
And here:
>You will fuck up monumentally, but you need to fuck up. The fuck-ups create the directional roadmap you're looking for
>>28612040
Neon Genesis Evangelion, taught me everything I need to know about interacting with others
>>28613001
Also stop trying to act like a Level 100 dating expert with the "when to tell sex jokes" shit. You're at Level 1, and if you try fighting level 100 gremlins it's already game over
