I'm going to turn 23 very soon.
I don't like this feel.
I still don't know what to do with myself or what I'm even capable of. I'm stuck in perma neet man child mode and I think my personality is solidified as shit forever.
I'm just really scared, but also stuck in habits within habits and an extremely negative mindset.
I don't know what to do.
>>28576099
turning 23 in july, haven't done anything since I turned 16 and went NEET
no social development or any experiences, exactly the same feeling of being powerless
I'm turning 27 this year and I know this feel OP
>>28576099
>>28576124
Then as someone who has already turned 23 and is still a huge loser, let me tell you that nothing changes. The only difference is that you're starting to feel even worse about yourself. I'm going to turn 24 in less than half a year.
Life sure is great.
Just going to try and get a grip.
>>28576186
You know what I always say? "All's well that ends well!" And so I've decided to kill myself in a spectacular fashion, as you should as well. My life will then be retroactively satisfying.
>>28576099
In a similar situation.
Turned 23 couple of months ago.
Lonely NEET since my teens with literally 0 friends.
I wonder if there's any way out for people like us.
>>28576268
I don't want to kill myself, though. I want to live and experience love and all that stuff. The only problem is that life seems determined to prevent that from me.
>23 in two weeks
>all i've ever wanted is direction in life
>just something to feel passionate about and work towards
do other robots have a decent safety net? i have enough money to get through a few years of neetdom if worst comes to worst and my trust fund activates at 25 so maybe i can just live the rest of my life cheaply
Is it possible to start your life after 23?
Or are we doomed to be lonely losers for the rest of our days?
>>28576475
It's still possible I think, but also difficult obviously.
>>28576099
More shit like N.H.K?
suggestions are welcome
>>28576438
my country technically supports neet life style by providing anyone without income 35euro daily financial assistance... yeah, thats gonna do wonders for the job crisis we have
>>28576186
24 in June here. luckily I'm going back to school for my master's this Fall, but i've been a complete NEET for about 5 months now and I absolutely fucking hate this. i'm only going back to school because the job market is balls without any relevant experience or connections (something i failed to acquire throughout 5.5 years of my bachelor's because i'm a shut-in retard). i'll at least be volunteering as a writing tutor at my campus (missed the deadline to apply for a paid position there because i didn't think i'd have to apply four fucking months in advance for a barely above minimum wage job). the money's not that important, i can supplement it elsewhere as i volunteer for experience and take afternoon/night classes. but it's nice to have some sense of purpose and something to look forward to for myself because sitting at home all day every day with nothing to do and no incentive to improve myself is complete hell.
i'm turning 25 in a month and i'm just here to chime in that it doesnt get better
>>28576099
I'm NEET at 32
Let everything fade into dust
>>28576099
Join the army. Just force yourself to do it, and you'll thank yourself later in life.
Gotta make the big change OP. I was in your situation when I was 23 a year ago. Ended up moving across the country to work with my dad doing hvac. I went to school to get certified, got my first year ticket, and now I'm making 20 bucks an hour to start.
Before that I was depressed, working a shitty security job that required nothing of me other than to show up and play video games. Had barely any friends and shitty ass social skills. Working with older men whips people into shape I've found.
You've gotta make a big change, choose something that remotely interests you and just go for it. Even if you fail, it's better than just doing fuck all.
>>28577479
How much further can you realisticly go?
>>28576099
I'm going to turn 25 soon and it's the worst feeling. My life has gone no where and I'm a fuck up that everyone hates. The years of my youth flew by me and now I'm in a constant state of anxiety and panic that things have slipped away from me. I have no idea what to do, but I think this next birthday might send me over the edge and make me kill myself.
>tfw your parents made you a loser NEET
>you never had a chance
I was also 23, 3 years ago. I watched a show called Clannad and it literally changed my life. Don't get me wrong I still have some issues, but I think that's normal for most people. I went from doing nothing, my existence just floating around taking the days as they come, to now working towards a degree to work and live abroad.
I don't get you, guys. How can you handle NEETdom without drugs/alcohol? I would probably suicide if I didn't have money for that shit.
It's my 29th birthday today. I just want to crawl back into bed and not have to handle these feels.
>>28579440
Same here. I have a decent job and my own place but I still feel hopeless about the future. There's a pressure to buy a house, find a woman, and settle down from my family, but I don't know if I can do it. I have serious anxiety about my job and never being good enough too, so the idea of instability makes me reluctant to try anything in the first place.
>tfw currently 23
can i pay someone to kill me pls
i have 500 GBP save up
>>28579508
At least you have a decent job and your own place. I have nothing. Everywhere I look people managed to do better than me, even on /r9k/. I really should kill myself.
>>28579508
>There's a pressure to buy a house, find a woman, and settle down from my family, but I don't know if I can do it
Literal normie problems.
To all the neets, don't lose hope you can still change. Go to college, get a degree,get a job, get money, get a girlfriend, get a life and become a productive member of the society.. It is not that hard as it seems, it is very easy.
>>28577317
bump for this.
I wan't some relatable anime.
>>28579789
>tfw went to college and got a degree
>tfw still can't get a job, gf or a life
It's not easy if you're a robot. Society only wants normalfags.
>>28579558
500 good boy points? What a good boy you have been!
>>28576099
Personality isn't solidified until 30.
It doesn't take long to change when you put your mind to it, you got lots of time OP.
>>28577317
Yahari
>>28579494
Internet/pirating media
>>28576099
I'm turning 23 soon as well. Chill, 25 is the cut off for fixing yourself. You have two solid years to sort yourself out! Don't post the same message when you are 25 or you WILL have fucked it!
>>28580044
>it's ok I'll fix myself before I turn 21!
>fuck I'm 21 and still a fuckup
>it's ok I'll fix myself before I turn 23!
>fuck I'm 23 and still a fuckup
>it's ok I'll fix myself before I turn 25!
>fuck I'm 25 and still a fuckup
>>28579494
Escapism, video games/anime
soon to be 29 here, NEET is perfect for me, but for many it isn't a lifestyle they'd choose.
>>28579981
Yahari is shit desu. It's full of slice of life anime tropes. Very uncomfy desu.
NHK was perfect because it's some loser sitting in his room all day. Just like us.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZGvnI37mxk
Why do people hate being a neet? If money is not the issue, then what is wrong with staying like this the whole life? Internet is big, there is all sorts of entertainment from video games to anime.
Stop comparing yourself to others and be a different person. If the extreme need arises, you can always work at mcD and be a wageslave.
>>28580142
The protag has a robot mentality, but yeah it's a rom com.
There aren't many anime like NHK. Maybe Tatami Galaxy?
>>28580199
Never heard of this one before. I'll give it a shot.
>>28580199
anon, they speak way too fast ;A;
>>28576374
>you will never experience life to its fullest
>you will never wake up every day feeling positive and surrounded by plenty of people you love and can do things with
>your schedule will never be booked
>you will never find oneitis and experience exciting love and romance with them
Turning 20 soon ive been in my room for months without a drive to even get out of bed, i feel you, but i cant help you
>>28577317
Kaiji is a different genre than nhk but still has a loser protag
Just turned 23 this past Wednesday and I've been feeling shittier than usual. I don't know what the fuck to do with my life. I'm working a labour job right now and have no friends, no gf, no hobbies. I go to sleep and I go to work.
I should do what this anon suggested...
>>28578275
