>dad tells me to tell him all my problems so that we can solve them as a family
>tell problems
>he belittles them, tells me they aren't real problems and I need to try harder
>acts surprised when I don't talk to him any more
>>28575407
Hes right you tumblr tier faggot
>>28575407
>inb4 muh oppression/muh genetics
at least now you know you don't have real problems so you can fucking move on you little bitch.
>inb4 muh laziness gets in the way of my intelligence
>>28575407
He's right to be fair relative.
My dad is the same way dude.
He'll send me texts sometimes asking how I'm doing or inviting me to do things but I just don't want to be around him because it never feels good to talk to him anymore.
wwhat aare yyour pproblems?
>tfw my dad is proud of me
So, what are your problems, op?
>>28576620
My gf moved in with me as equal paying roommates and she's no longer self sustaining
I'm underemployed with lots of college debt
Idk I'm pretty high on the hierarchy of needs I guess but if I was okay where I was I would stop climbing
His advice is so out of touch and dismissive I might as well not ask him for help with anything.
>>28575951
>>28575965
>>28576229
>>28576564
How would you morons know? His problems sound legitimate. Op's dad is most likely an entitled baby boomer who got a good paying job right out of high school and didn't have to deal with exorbitant rent prices or student loan debt.
>>28575951
>>28575965
Holy shit you dumb retards im not taking of tumblr reasons like "hurr I'm being oppressed", I'm talking and shit that legit fucks me up.
Who am I kidding? You're all normies and disgusting underage kids here
>>28575407
I know that feel too well anon.
>Dad has always been distant with me
>For EVERY fucking little thing , he plays the "I work, you don't, you ungrateful sod" card
>since I was 5
>biggest factor of why I fucking hate myself
>Can't be near him because of some strange fucking atmosphere of shame on me
>would get annoyed at the little things I did{like fucking whistling, playing with my dog, etc)
>Still, I would always try to talk to talk to him about stuff
>it always feels like he just wants to end the conversation as fast as possible
>then I try to get into the things he liked, which were /o/ and /fit/ things
>Still wanted to end the conversation ASAP
>Still nothing
>for one glorious moment, we would play Gran Turismo 3 together
>felt so fucking happy
>then one day to another, it stopped and the same shit continued
>Recently over heard my parents talking
>mom was talking about me and dad and why he doesn't try to make things better
>he says" why? he never tried"
And that my friends, is when I stopped giving a fuck.
>>28577347
Are you my clone? Who implanted all these memories in you?
Holy shit this is my story, my dad is the fucking same. Its very uncomfortable being around him
>>28576663
>dad is proud of me
>even though there is literally nothing to be proud of
It feels bad man
>tfw dad loves me
>tfw he's very proud because of muh GPA
>"Anon why don't you have a girlfriend? You don't seem annoying"
I love him but he questions about gf more and more
>>28577347
>>28577391
Are you guys britfags too?
this is very classic britdad behaviour, the older generations were raised by testosterone machines that thought feelings were for women and queers
>>28578553
Yes, britbongistan resident here
