is women enjoying sex mostly just a meme? seems like they could take it or leave it
>>28552672
My gf loves sex. She wants it all the time. That means whenever I'm horny, she's also in the mood, and never says no to sex.
My gf also loves sex, occasionaly watches porn and masturbates
Same my three gfs also love sex lol
>>28552672
They enjoy power games.
That's why they cheat and say you drove them to do it.
>>28552971
That's how women are for a few years, but then they give up the facade.
For women, all they have to do is lie back and moan a bit. No work involved, and because men love sex so much, they'll do it to make you happy.
In reality she only wants it 30-40% of the time but in order to keep you around she'll let you do it whenever you come on to her.
>b-but she comes onto me!
Because she knows you want it always and wants to keep you happy and thinking she is "spontaneous".
>you don't know, you've never seen it she's very honest and I can tell she wants it
Mmhmm, the moans are genuine too huh?
>>28553120
What if she shakes, squirts, and loses the ability to form sentences
>>28553143
Faking it. Like I said, I knew you'd respond with
>you don't know you haven't seen the way she squirms
Here's a hint: think about what you just said. Do you really think somebody will cum so hard that they lose complete bodily control and be unable to speak for 30 seconds to a minute, especially while in front of another person, even by the other person's hand/penis?
If you really think the answer is that you're just THAT GOOD in bed, and not that she might be trying to make you feel good about yourself by exaggerating, you've got some hubris issues to work out.
>>28553177
>Do you really think somebody will cum so hard that they lose complete bodily control and be unable to speak for 30 seconds to a minute
any guy who has had a prostate orgasm knows its true, which are the same as g-spot orgasms
how would I know? amirite?
>>28553284
If you really think someone is rendered unable to speak, you're out of your mind.
>>28553323
Dumb virgin, go get laid
>>28553348
I'm not a virgin, and I know the feeling of being entranced like you are. Looking back I can see how much of a lie it was.
>>28552672
I had a gf years ago that wanted me to eat her pussy at random times and would get quite mad/disappointed if I didn't feel like it.
Hard to imagine she was faking it to make me happy, since people getting mad at me and sulking doesn't make me happy.
The only girl I was ever intimate with was basically a nympho. So I'm not sure if that counts? She lived and breathed sex. She would even sneak me into her house in the middle of the night just to get freaky. She'd also molest me in public, she enjoyed doing that quite a lot especially at restaurants. She also used to watch a lot of PORN and she'd masturbate pretty often.
Fuck I miss her so much.
Women are only interested in your dick size.
>>28552672
Yes. Women enjoy sex so much that one man is usually never enough for them, so it seems like they don't enjoy sex.
Women also have different refractory periods after orgasm than men, so many women can have multiple orgasms. The problem is that most men can't lost that long.
The fact that women can endure sex longer than men leads people to believe that women don't actually enjoy sex.
A woman's voracious appetite for sex and one man's inability to satisfy that desire means that when it comes to sex, most women can take it or leave it, or withhold it to gain power over men, or obtain resources.
http://www.salon.com/2013/06/02/the_truth_about_female_desire_its_base_animalistic_and_ravenous/
>The truth about female desire: It's base, animalistic and ravenous
http://www.theguardian.com/books/2013/jul/05/what-do-women-want-extract
>How to explain the conflict between what the women claimed and what their genitals said?
>As they enrolled in the study, Chivers' subjects identified themselves as straight or lesbian. They were shown images of sex between men and women, women and women, men and men, and a pair of bonobos (a species of ape). The subjects, straight and lesbian, were turned on right away by all of it, including the copulating apes. While they watched, they also held a keypad on which they rated their own feelings of arousal. So Chivers had physiological and self-reported scores. They hardly matched at all.
>>28553485
can u elaborate on that last point my man
>>28553623
When a woman seems disinterested in sex, she's usually disinterested in sex with YOU, or disinterested in sex with only one man. Very few women are content with one man.
Women are not monogamous by nature. It takes years of social conditioning, religion, peer pressure, and civilization to keep women's true nature in check.
A woman's natural state is hypergamous, fucking as many hot guys as possible.
The human male penis even evolved to scoop out the semen of recent sexual partners.
Since many women don't really care much about sex with one man, especially if they've already had sex before, women use sex to obtain material goods from men (which is exactly what she would need to do if she got pregnant, she couldn't go out hunting for all 9 months of her pregnancy, she needs someone to feed her). Women also realize that their vaginas have value in male eyes, so women also withhold sex from men to get things they want (when a guy does this he is "pussy whipped").
>>28553688
>Very few women are content with one man.
That is generally much more true of men, in regards to women, though.
Everybody just sucks. We don't have a culture.
we can come over and over and over again, what do you think
>>28553704
>That is generally much more true of men, in regards to women, though.
No.
There are popular culture images of men being the gender that sleeps around the most.
But studies have shown that women like monogamy even less than men do.
Women are more hypergamous than men.
>>28553177
You've already made up your mind that "nuh uh, women don't like sex, they're all faking it", and no amount of evidence is going to convince you.
Now think about this for a minute: who knows better about women and how much they like sex? Guys with gfs who love sex? Or a virgin like you?
i think it is entirely possible and maybe even probable that women dont enjoy sex at all
im sure people would assign the blame to her sexual partner but its probably something wrong with her if she isnt into it and ive yet to meet one that convinces me they want or like it
>>28553780
Not that guy, but I think men are more likely to enjoy sex than women.
The chances of a guy being unsatisfied after sex are low, but the chances of a woman being unsatisfied after sex are pretty high.
>>28553780
Fucking normie trying to mock him. So what you got sex? You just got lucky and now whatever you say is irrelevant, because you are deluding yourself to be happier.
>>28552672
lets think about humanity for a moment.
men want to have sex with everyone all the time.
women want to have sex when they're baby crazy.
eventually they'll both link up in the end. staying together is the difficult part.
>>28553820
>N-n-n-no you can't be happy! You're just lying!
>Why can't you be a miserable failure like me! It's not fair!
>>28553877
I'm not saying you're unhappy. I'm just saying that to be happy you have to ignore the truth and live in a delusion. And that's why anything you say is irrelevant.
>>28553817
Just because they don't orgasm doesn't mean it isn't enjoyable...
>>28553895
Right. Because a neet virgin in the basement knows far more about life and relationships than adults with careers and gfs.
>>28553902
One important point that a lot of naysayers miss. My gf loves sex, even though she can't orgasm from p in v. Most girls can't. She'll still always take a good dicking. And I eat her out to make her come.
>>28553908
You don't understand(not that I would expect you to). To be a functioning normie you need to have a certain level of healthy delusion. And if you delude yourself, why should I believe what you're saying?
>>28553754
>But studies have shown
>studies have shown
>studies
>study
lol. Nobody on this board studies anything, ever. What do you know about anything except your own obvious biases?
Stop insisting that women are more of a problem than men. Men and women suck. They are both problems. Become somebody who isn't a problem, yourself, first, before you cast judgment on everybody else.There are probably sluts and whores running around out there who are better people than many of the shut in virgins here.
>>28553902
Women say that, but I wonder how often they say that to not hurt a man's feelings.
"It's okay honey if I don't orgasm, it's still good!"
For a guy to not orgasm during sex, it's hard to understand how enjoyable that really could be. Frustrating is more like it.
>>28553920
Well there is the idea, make her get off (like with oral) before you do.
Then again, women will happily fuck Chads who don't care if the woman gets off at all.
>>28553950
>lol. Nobody on this board studies anything, ever. What do you know about anything except your own obvious biases?
Read the book What Do Women Want.
Some of us do read studies. And those studies just happen to confirm our biases (what people have always believed but never had concrete proof of).
Women Struggle with Monogamy More Than Men
http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/05/23/nytimes_on_lybrido_women_get_bored_with_monogamy_faster_than_men.html
>It's women and not men who get bored with monogamy faster. As Daniel Bergner writes in the New York Times, women are far more likely to lose interest in sex with their partners.
>women are much more turned on by fantasies of sex with strangers than friends.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22406875
http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/5-myths-about-female-desire
>another new study by Chivers gave women hypothetical erotic scenarios involving either a trusted friend or a stranger. Though the women claimed to be more turned on by situations with a friend, a measure of genital blood flow suggested they were much more aroused by the strangers.
>>28554032
People can prove anything if they set out to do it.
Duncan Macdougall wanted to find the weight of the soul and he found what he wanted to find.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRlFnl-RJjE
In the same way, if people want to prove that women are promiscuous, despite what women themselves say, they can do that too.
>>28553806
Find the clitoris and she will love you forever.
>>28553932
>facts based on experience
D-d-d-d-delusion!
>projection from imagination because he's never left the basement
Facts! I'm right!
You don't realize how ridiculous you sound. Must be because you're delusional.
>>28554549
That's one of the main memes that robots always use to "prove" they're right.
>anon states fact that triggers robot
>robot quote study and says "see this study says you're wrong!"
>robot continues to delude himself that the "study" is right, despite the anon clearly being an example of the study not being applicable in his case
>>28554810
advice a virgin would give, as if the Internet didn't exist and know guys know about it haha
>>28555211
And you are just assuming about me without knowing anything. Fucking norman retard.
>>28555301
We'll, you're a self-admitted robot. That must mean you're delusional by default. You're arguing just for the sake of arguing, and with completely stupid and wrong arguments. So, yes, it follows that you are a basement-dwelling neet virgin.
>>28555480
>implying I admitted anything
I'm not delusional. Actually the reason why I am miserable is because I am not delusional. Because I don't just ignore things for the sake of feeling better. I don't ignore the truth to be content. I don't do that. Normies do.
>>28555508
>I'm miserable because I'm too smart!
Whatever, dumbie. If you actually were intelligent you'd find a way to not be a robot.
>>28555602
The way is to ignore reality. And I'm not gonna do that, since there is nothin smart about that.
>>28555607
The reality that you're a loser?
>>28555627
The reality that I am inferior. The reality that whatever success I might have through hard work will always be very limited by my inferiority. The reality that people will always treat me poorly for being inferior and that it's out of my control. That reality.
Some women I've been with have a higher sex drive than others. My current girlfriend is multi orgasmic. It's not like she's constantly horny and begs for sex, we could go a whole month without doing it. But once it does happen there are no complaints. I aim to leave her tired, a little bit sore, and completely satisfied. Also you feel a sense of satisfaction of your own after you give a girl three g spot orgasms in a row using just your penis. It's easy enough to do with your fingers but it takes hard work and dedication to get just one using your cock.
>>28555640
>>28555627
You lads are both retarded and are having a retarded discussion.
Seriously, are you two that desperate to win an argument against a stranger on fucking /r9k/?
>>28555652
No I just hope someone will prove me wrong. But that hasn't happened yet.
>>28555659
Are you actually retarded?
Nobody's going to waste their time disproving you because there's no fucking point.
This is an anonymous imageboard for fuck's sake, for all we know, you could be lying, anyways.
>>28555687
Yeah because I have so much to gain by lying about being miserable inferior loser. Sure.
>>28555687
You hit the nail on the head. We come here to argue about anecdotes not to write a fucking college term paper. Take that garbage back to /r/theredpill OP
HOLY SHIT I NEED TO SMASH THAT ASS
LEMME AT THEM LEGS GIRL
I refuse to believe that sex exists. It must all be a ruse.
my ex seemed to really enjoy sex. too bad she was butt ugly so i could only get off if i pretended she was her roommate
how come most women are disgusted by anal when most sissies are not
>all these normalshits discussing their sex lives
i really can't distinguish between this board and /soc/ these days
>>28556341
If there is a single good rule to live by, it's that ugly chicks love to smash. It validates their existence. Attractive girls can live happily knowing that anyone would and they don't have to prove it.
>>28556396
>i really can't distinguish between this board and /soc/ these days
this you?
>>28556396
I was here before this board became I'm sad because I'm a virgin general. I stayed here during that because I was a virgin and I was sad. I stayed after because I'm still a fucking loser even though I've had sex. I hope some day you get laid and learn that it doesn't solve all of your problems.
>>28556414
fucking lol. she also had pretty much only guy friends which is another slut stereotype. she ended up cheating on me
>>28556414
A corollary is fat girls. If you can bear it, picking up fat girls is very easy. Nearly all of them are huge sluts. And in general, average-looking girls are more promiscuous for that same reason. The hottest girls actually are often the least slutty.
>>28553284
>any guy who has had a prostate orgasm knows its true
I've had them in conjunction with stroking, which should be stronger, while they feel amazing never enough to render me speechless for that long. Maybe while it's happening but that's not for more than fifteen seconds max.
>>28556497
That often goes hand-in-hand with ugly though. The only exception: fat chicks with incredibly huge tits and good style. They often develop self-esteem (aka orbiters) which blocks the cock.
>>28556666
a TYL for mr quads
>corollary
>noun
>a proposition that follows from (and is often appended to) one already proved.
For the most part, yes, its just a meme.
Women are hormonal beings functioning on chemicals and basic human instincts. Its the real reason theyre always acting irrational and crazy. During ovulation (roughly 3 days) is the only time they will actually want sex and physically be able enjoy it throroughly. Orgasm can be reached outside of this window, although it is nowhere near as powerful. Desire for sex outside of ovulation (and occasionally their period) is greatly reduced, sort of like the feeling after a good fap session, and get worse closer to their period as the sex hormones begin to diminish.
Their libido, unlike ours which is mostly constant and intense, is fickle and changes by the week. Most girls dont really want sex often, only attention and affection from the man of their choice.
With foreplay the parts of the female brain that induce the proccess of releasing the sex hormones can be stimulated into temporarily causing her to want sex, but doing that properly can be hard. Most girls despite not often reaching orgasm during sex or even wanting it will still have sex tho as a means of keeping the affections of the man of her choice, rather than let him become sexually frustrated and find sexual release elsewhere with another woman.
>>28556666
The rare girl that is fat, but also with a pretty face, carries her weight well, and has smooth skin. I know one girl like that. I ended up friendzoning her, but now I'm not sure if that was a good thing or not. I'm kinda curious how it would have been if I'd hit it once.
>>28552971
>>28553348
>>28553069
Goddamn it, this place really is AskReddit 2.0 now....
Maybe you're just a bad lay, after the first time with you they could leave it.
>>28556751
that last one was obvious sarcasm though.
>>28552672
they enjoy it but they dont crave it as much as men due to it being so easily accessable, and the risks of pregnancy etc.
Women do indeed enjoy sex
Even when I feel my so-so efforts could be improved I get the same girls repeatedly wanting my cock
Tbh I wish most weren't so hard to actually get off. Some girls are really sensitive but most don't react to much except hard dickings. I thought the clit was supposed to be sensitive but I get lukewarm reactions with some women
>>28556767
I'm usually good at catching sarcasm but I missed it because I honestly didn't know if it was or not.
I wish I could leave this faggot ass board but it's what I look at when j wake up in the morning . At least I'm going to hang with friends today lucky me
>>28556387
because men have prostates
>>28556844
>Even when I feel my so-so efforts could be improved I get the same girls repeatedly wanting my cock
I think this is because women have much higher standards for letting a guy sex them than guys do for women. Thus, if a girl lets you hit, it's a fair bet she likes you quite a bit.
Oh goody another thread to post this
http://www.science20.com/science_amp_supermodels/would_female_orgasms_kill_men
>mike's comments
>>28556418
>calling people retarded pepes unironically
my goodness what kind of a newfag are you?
>>28556845
>friends
REE NORMIE GET OUT
Seriously, stop being a hypocrite. Just because some people have had sex doesn't mean you should get all butthurt about it.
>>28557135
except that's the entire point of this board
women only really want sex when they're ovulating
other than that they are all lying
>>28557163
To get butthurt about everything?... Well, yea, that sounds about right.
>>28556604
thats not a prostate orgasm tho that occurs without touching your dick, thats was still just jerking off. The difference between the two is profound really.
>>28553908
Reddit username?
>>28557176
for men to express feels. it's the only place we can really do it. even the rest of 4chan hates this board
>>28552672
yes because homosexual men have more sex then straight or lesbian couples. also women use sex mostly to control you or manipulate you. If she wants something from you she will tap into your desire for sex to get what she wants.
>>28557306
>lesbians
>sex
the clam on clam jam isn't sex
>>28553532
>salon
>guardian
hahahahaha
oh wait you're serious
>>28557242
>le reddit meme
You must have been living under a rock if you think that's anything but the most worthless, pitiful retort. You're obviously a newfag. Did you first come to 4chan in 2014 or 2015?
>>28556906
you have been posting this retarded bullshit for like 2 years. if you unironically believe a female orgasm can kill a man you are just beyond retarded
>>28557346
he's right tho. stop reversememe this shit, like you made everyone hate atheists, now you want everyone to stop hating reddit here, calling it "aay lmao, le reddit". no. reddit was always this shitty
>>28557360
u retarded? he said to read mike's comments, not the actual article
pic related is u
Women LOVE sex, they just don't like the social stigma associated with it (being a slut)
>>28557475
>actions have consequences
wheeheehoooo
>>28557471
i read the same shit years ago....because he/she keeps posting it like it actually confirms anything
but i guess i'm the retard for not believing some random fucking person on the internet
>>28552672
You are the epitome of stereotypical robots. Are you fucking serious?
>>28552672
yes, sex is much better for women. Men only get off to the fact that we are fucking women and the visuals of the act, but we get very little pleasure from it. Women mostly get off to the actual sensations of sex itself
>>28557529
i know. he's a fucking white male as well
>>28553120
this if females really liked sex then the lack of sex should drive them to become shooters like elliot because their drive is that strong.
>>28557631
Women aren't as violent as men.
>>28557631
>females
>lack of sex
>>28553688
>The human male penis even evolved to scoop out the semen of recent sexual partners.
This is pure conjecture on the part of the scientists who posited the idea.
There's no actual evidence for it. It's simply a hypothesis.
And it mostly applies to circumcised dicks, because in an intact guy the foreskin often settles into the coronal sulcus and thereby makes the glans far less of a scoop/hook.
>>28555242
>not understanding the reference
Underageb&
Finger them and rub their clits as well as general foreplay before sticking it in, guys.
>>28557764
Thanks, I'll remember that the next time I convince a girl to have sex with me.
>>28557506
Mike is right tho.
>>28552672
Women DO enjoy sex as much as men. Nature is just rigged so that it takes a man in the top 10-20% of the local male population to satisfy her the same way a woman with a fit body can satisfy a man
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>>28558359
i suppose you don't
>>28558372
Here ya go, annudah one
>>28558392
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>>28558405
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>>28558421
I find these flag colourations to be both aesthetically pleasing and sexually gratifying
>>28558437
This is quite a funny one
>>28558445
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>>28558462
Ah no but of course, it's Australia, what an idiot I am
>>28558462
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>>28553177
I cum so hard I shake and can't speak for around 10 or 20 seconds and so does my gf. Its just like 10 seconds of shaking, clenching her hands and toes and then having no energy to move.
If you think a girl a faking it ram her deep as fuck and check if all her moaning has sounded the same. If she's moaning and then you ram deep and its the same moan it's real. If she's moaning and then a different sound comes out when you ram deep she was "faking" or panting.
>>28557685
yeah but the pumping of the dick helps get it out, why even should there be pumping like that if there's no need for it
>>28552672
>seems like they could take it or leave it
basically this
>>28558462
It's Australian you fucking idiot
>>28558502
You haven't been with many girls, or only with fakers.
Some girls get nothing out of hard or deep ramming. (Most WILL moan when you do it, but that's mostly because it would be super awkward if you'd show all of this effort and she wouldn't at least acknowledge it - not because it's actually more pleasant.)
Most women require some degree of persistence; and the actually sensitive parts are all much closer to the entrance of the vagina than anything you'd need to "ram deep" for.
Unless you have a 2 inch penis.
Don't take this as representing an entire gender, but I've never liked actual intercourse in itself. I do fap and feel sexually attracted to people, but I've never had an orgasm to any porn that had actual sex in it. Nope, it's always weird fetish shit that often actually qualifies as technically SFW. The only reason I don't completely hate sex is because I am attracted to my partner and get horny if I cuddle with them enough, and it's nice to be close to them and kiss them and yadda yadda... but I still need to be thinking about some seriously weird shit to get off.
>>28559412
>I do fap
You're a man then.
>>28557495
>actions have consequences
not if you're a man
>>28557764
>convince
ctrl f convince can't find my post, I just know this quoted one doesn't work. don't fucking fall for it.
