these columns are pretty cool too
>tfw short baby-faced dude who will never have a mommy gf do pic related to me
I like soft femdom a lot. It would be fun to be in a relationship where she's occasionally sexually dominant even if not in every aspect
>>28549210
I feel ya on that. I hate how most femdom porn involves like...literal physical torture. I'm not big on that. I just like the idea of being stroked behind the ear and called a good boy or being tied up when I'm bad :^)
>>28549378
I want to cede control, but willingly. It would be great to have a girl who could take the lead sometimes and make me feel secure.
I can be "in charge" most of the time if that's what I need to do, but it would be so nice to have someone I can surrender to and be vulnerable around.
>>28549210
>>28549378
This is literally every normal relationship.
But being tied up isn't soft femdom you idiot.
Daily reminder that what you want is what women look for in men. Except that women don't love men like men love women.
At best you will get someone who's willing to role-play if you sell your soul to Satan, maybe. But a woman will never lust after you. Give it up.
>>28549454
>But being tied up isn't soft femdom you idiot.
Having your hands tied behind your back during sex is a lot different than hardcore bondage with cbt and a crotch rope. There is a such thing as light bondage or soft bondage, you fucking stupid faggot.
>>28549454
>being tied up isn't soft femdom
Then what is it? Certainly neither are balls tied up so tight they bulge and turn purple.
So goddamn rare to find a honest to god femdom. and most that are "into it" are switches or doing it just for the money.
It's in their biology.
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>>28549680
Whatever, I thought by "soft femdom" you guys meant /gfd/ shit like headpats and the girl being on top during sex.
>>28549698
>it's in their biology.
We'll be able to fix this within our lifetimes.
>>28549817
>headpats and the girl being on top during sex.
Yes, all of that too, but the light bondage would still come as punishment, because it's not femDOM unless there's some sort of discipline.
>>28549698
Switches work too. It would actually probably be better that way.
Is it creepy that I want to be a house husband and be stuck at home being forced to wear a chastity cage and a maid outfit (With girly clothes and shit since I've always been turned on by being somewhat feminized) and spoil my wife and make her the center of all my attention and desire and have her unlock me every now and then on her terms so I can cum in her pussy?
Of course this would all be private as our little secret kind of thing, I would do everything to be seen as normal in public so we can still do normal couple stuff.
>>28549999
Only the girly clothes part is creepy.
Nice quads though.
>Tfw gf slaps, spanks, chokes and scratches me
>spits in my mouth, fingers my asshole
It's alright.
>>28550077
>tfw wish I had gf like that
What does it feel like?
>>28550126
Sometimes it's scary and it hurts but it mostly feels like being loved.She gets kind of insecure sometimes and loses the confidence to top so I kind of have to baby her, I'm fine with that though.
I would never date a submissive male, they are the most selfish, attention whoring kind of guys. Its all about being loved, but they cannot love back.
But I'd fuck a sub, dom one, just never anything serious.
>>28550314
What if he was really dedicated to serving and doing his utmost to make you happy?
>>28550354
That doesn't exist unless he's also extremely needy.
>>28550314
Well "femanon", what makes you think they can't love back?Love needs to be earned.
>>28550440
I'm not. I'm used to looking out for myself, and the ideal I have of a relationship is doing something that makes another person's life a little easier instead of being a self-serving asshole. Maybe you've just not met the right guy. Some people are too hung up on their own fantasies to beyond them.
>>28550495
>>28550495
She just got out of a bad relationship with one would be my guess. I hope it didn't ruin having a sub for good for her. Some people are just too selfish to be good at a relaionship like that, so they come off as needy and mess it up.
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>>28550495
I'd say the same about submissive females. Being a sub is usually an indicator you weren't loved enough as a child.
>>28550891
Women are naturally submissive though...
>>28550891
Not always. I might have low self-esteem but I don't need constant reassurance and my parents were just fine to me. I just don't like being in the captain's seat all the time.
>>28550314
hopefully you'll realize that this is more of a "people suck" thing and you'll give submissives a shot again, knowing that there's a chance that they could be shitty people, but hoping for the best.
it's all we can really do in this life to try to find someone.
