I'm about to hit 19 and I'm still a virgin
>inb4 I'm X years older and I'm still one
I get it, it sucks, it must suck even more than being a 19 year old one
And its killing me inside, I wanna hear from guys who have already done it:
Cut or uncut?
Ever done it bareback?
Describe as best as you can how good it was on a purely physical level
youre very obsessed about it. stop it
>>28548367
popped a viagra since alcohol and cigs fucked my dick up... screwed this woman 3 or 4 times throughout the night then used sex lube to give each other massages on the floor. then morning hit and my dick wanted more so I gave it to her again. Had a cold sore on my lip after so much pussy eating when I finally looked in the mirror to take a shower. All good though it never returned, I dont think I have the herp.
I lost my virginity at age 22.
I'm 24 now and my number is still 1. The only person I've had sex with was my ex-girlfriend who was someone I met through a mutual friend.
It was tough at first. I had a lot of performance anxiety. We ended up just fooling around the first few times just touching each other. I mainly would finger her, but she seemed satisfied. Eventually we got to fucking and it was amazing.
My advice is to go in with the right mentality. Focus on how great you're about to make this girl feel. Drinking can help you relax, and drunk girls are slutty as fuck.
19 here, lost at 17. Uncut. Wore protection, didn't really feel that great physically desu (maybe because of the condom) but just knowing you were sharing that experience with a girl you really liked was what felt so good about it. Haven't had sex in 2 years and have never came from sex. Then again both me and my partner were very inexperienced. It's good man and its a natural desire for guys to want to have sex, but it's not something to die over man.
>>28548390
no
literally building my life up in the pursuit of it
lost 50 pounds since february 25th via starvation
go to the gym 3 times a week and building muscle
wearing normie clothes
have a normie undercut
reading these books
Donald Trump - The art of the deal
Barbara Pease - The Definitive Book of Body Language
John Gray - Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
Robert Cialdini - The Psychology of Influence
Ogi Ogas - A Billion Wicked Thoughts
Dale Carnegie - How to win friends and influence people (read two more times and space it out with the other books)
Allan Pease - Talk Language
To try to learn how normies work and how to get them to like me
Sex is my everything
>>28548367
Don't worry friend, I lost mine at 19 and I have absolutely no problem with women nowadays.
Uncut (Britain whoop whoop)
Barebackalmost always, I should get myself checked out
Physically it actually isn't all that great. I think I can get a better feeling from masturbating than I can from sex, though blowjobs are nice. Condoms make it feel even worse. However, sex to me is a lot more about the emotional connection with the girl, which you can't simulate on your own.
I actually lost my virgininity at 19 around this time. I wore a condom and busted inside her. It was the most intense orgasm I've had and no other orgasm with any other girl has come close to that.
The chick who I banged was even ugly but I felt superior to her so I got extra off to that and the whole time she was moaning and rolling her eyes back. After I busted we kinda layed around until we.fucked again but I couldn't get it up anymore so she just blew me until I came in her mouth. She swallowed.
>>28548367
I have only ever done it bareback. I'm 25 and have had 7 different girls, mostly gfs. Don't make a big deal about it. Don't worry about 'performing' because she is probably just as nervous as you are. It feels amazing, but waaayyy more amazing if you really care about the girl.
On a purely physical level it feels...warm and wet
>>28548545
m8, the irony of sex is that you won't get any until you stop caring about it. It's the sorta thing that just happens - you can't really force it, since desperation drives women away like nothing else.
I will never understand why people want to stick their peeny in a wet hole so much they obsess over it and kill themselves over it.
I do understand wanting sex because you're missing out on something a lot of others have. Perhaps because I grew up in a religious household, but to me sex is something plenty of people don't get until later. While some, a lot, do lose their virginity at or before eighteen not everyone does and there's nothing wrong with that.
>>28548367
Uncut
Feels nice. I've been dating the same girl for three years. Don't use condoms anymore.
Sex is very warm. When a woman gets aroused her vaginal muscles relax and if you're big you can go really deep. It feels pretty fucking empowering.
>>28548628
I'll take "bitter and in denial" for 200 Alex
>>28548548
I'm from the US and miraculously I'm actually uncut
Your telling me your the same and you've done it bareback and you think you can get a better feeling from fapping?
You were drunk or high or something at the time?
>>28548686
No, not at all. If I were bitter about it I'd have no trouble admitting it. There are a lot of things I'm upset about not having that others do--i.e., social skills and fucking FRIENDS, and I admit I'm bitter about those. I couldn't care less about sex. I'm content masturbating.
>>28548703
Yeah, I am. Don't get me wrong, I love the feeling, but if it was just a purely physical thing for me I could get away with just masturbating. I guess I'm more used to it or the girls I've been with aren't great at sex or whatever.
>>28548485
>>28548577
>>28548578
>>28548678
I would say just kill me now but I can't have what you guys have if I'm dead and I still feel like I can pull it off.
>>28548367
Cut
Went raw for like one pump cuz i had problems cumming at first (lord knows that problem went away)
I sorta fell ass-backward into her. Met her at a camp university had for engineering majors. Helped that we were both out of state and only knew each other. Too bad she was a crazy drama queen. Sex is nice tho, but blowjobs are A+ fanfuckingtastic
>>28548367
between the ages of 17 and 25 I had sex with like 5 girls.
I'm not jewed and I think I wore a condom possibly twice during all those, all the girls but the last one assured me that they were clean and I believed them.
I finally got tested after years of ignoring it and turns I just had HepBbut it was cleared so yay, I guess.
I've also gotten a fleshlight in the past and it's not even comparable. With sex you get the whole body experience, not just the physical sensation on your dick and sense of touch but also the sounds and smells, and you're sharing it with someone else.
With even the world's most expensive fuckdoll, you're still stick your dick in a lifeless piece of silicon rubber or whatever it might be made out of.
With sex it's just.. can't compare it. Your whole body and your mind is involved as well.
and honestly being a virgin at 19 is not a big deal at all.
>>28548812
No that's not good enough, see I have fleshlights too and now you've piqued my interest:
Do you know what model it is and if so which one?
Ever warm it up?
How close is it to bareback just ***physically***
Also if you still have it it will tell you what type on the bottom its imprinted in the little circle on the base
>>28548367
>Be 19
>Worry that you're a virgin
I'm 19, and I don't even care.
You're an absolute fool for caring so much about something so insignificant at such a young age.
>>28548898
>insignificant
>>28548367
>Describe as best as you can how good it was on a purely physical level
Pretty good. Like there's nothing wrong with it, and yeah, overall it's fun and something to do. It's better to be getting it than to not get it, but there's definitely a cost/effort ratio when it comes to the whole thing as well as how badly its going to tank your relationships with your shared acquaintances/friends.
Would recommend, but if you expect it to give you any sort of long-term satisfaction then you should probably just off yourself now before you end up a virgin at 30.
Lost at 22. At least after that was like opening the floodgates. One of them was the girl I had the longest relationship in my life, like 6 months. She was on pills so we always did it bareback. Was amazing, the feeling is barely undescribable. Some kind of warmith, and the tightness. Its like you're returning to your mom's womb, but just your dick. One day her period delayed 3 days, I became so nervous that prefered remain still virgin than pass throught that situation. The others was always with condom. It messes the sensibility. Sometimes I can't even cun on following rounds. The best part is seeing the girl's face of pleasure riding your cock, or during the foreplays she literally begging you to fuck her.
Just a little story of mine. Your time will come soon OP.
>>28548743
The irony is once you stop giving a fuck is when the girls will start to like you. Work out, get a decent job, become someone that you would like. And stop caring. Lie about being a virgin, just so you can mentally stop caring. Women can smell that desperation
22 year old kv reporting
I've made my peace with the fact I'm gonna die a kv
Am I the only fucking person here who is purposely saving their virginity? I want to date a virgin and I'd feel bad if I wasn't one. I just can't comprehend the appeal of sex if it's not the person you want to spend your life with. Maybe I was born in the wrong time...
>>28548945
just fucking end it just fucking end it just fucking end it everyone keeps saying its gonna happen soon but it never does i lose so much weight i put on so much muscle people like me so much more now than they used to but i cant have it and you guys can end it end it end it end it endit
>>28548963
20 year old KHV, I know that feel brother
>>28549036
>maybe I was born in the wrong time
Yes. The older you get, harder will get the search for a virgin at your age range. A average girl at 18 nowadays had miles and miles of dick thrusting her.
I dont even want anything for my birthday, I dont want shit, dont even wanna acknowledge it, just wanna pretend it doesnt exist
I cant take the pain of being such a fucking failure that everyone and their dog has gotten
>>28548485
>>28548577
>>28548578
>>28548678
>>28548945
and here I am still a fucking virgin
I would probably get drunk as fuck for the first time if I had anyway of getting alchohol just to numb myself
All I have ahead of me is the rest of spring and nearly all of summer of controlling my diet, extreme weight training, reading social books, and feeling miserable
And then I get to HOPE that everything I've done and learned will make it so I can actually integrate into college normie society and somehow pull off getting pussy
It's great, but porn will likely ruin it for you
Ask me anything you like, here's my stats
>28
>lost V-card at 15
>still with same woman
>she's fat
>I make her cum every time we fuck
>We have done everything except anal
>I get bjs on the reg
>have a kid
>had pregnant sex with her
>turns out lactation turns me on
I'm ready for your questions.
>>28548896
>Do you know what model it is and if so which one?
the "stamina training unit" bought it in 2009.
>Ever warm it up?
Yeah almost all the time otherwise I'm really aware that I'm just sticking my dick into a coldish thing of plastic filled with lube. Just the whole process of warming it up, getting it lubed up, getting naked at least from the waist down and trying to contain the inevitable lube-drip on my floor or elsewhere was a huge boner-killer. it was more useful while in the shower but then I always had to make sure that no one saw me going to leaving the washroom with a rubber pussy in my hands.
>How close is it to bareback just ***physically***
6/10, if I'm being generous. The actual material and tightness is quite nice, but just physically it also lacks the entire body of a woman that you have sex with. At the end of the day you're still just sticking your dick in a plastic thing.
Maybe a 20 000$ fuck doll comes closer to the whole body experience, but it probably feels like you're fucking a corpse more than having actual sex.
>>28549201
I'm still able to, but fuck it's so damn disheartening... I've been trying to meet this type of girl, and every time she turns out to just be a generic Stacy I lose a little hope. If I can't by 25 I guess I'll just accept that I'll be alone.
>>28548367
>Cut or uncut?
cut
>Ever done it bareback?
yes, I've never worn a condom
>Describe as best as you can how good it was on a purely physical level
It's okay but I honestly prefercuddling
>>28549308
>mfw I have the same one
>mfw I warm it up every time
>mfw you sya 6/10 max and thats being generous
Fucking
End
It
>>28549308
Also do you mean 6/10 dick wise?
What is it dick wise
>>28549394
yeah 6/10 dickwise. The outside doesn't feel like a real pussy at all and half the fun of sex is sliding your dick ON a girl's pussy before going
>>28549374
I mean it's not the worst thing I've put my dick into for sure, and it does feel better than beating off for sure.
Too bad that I forgot to clean mine out one time and left it there for a few days and it was ruined forever.
>>28549578
What's the inside feel like x/10
>>28549202
Jesus dude, we get it being a virgin sucks but holy shit take some time for yourself and do things you enjoy and try and be happy
>>28549709
I don't enjoy anything anymore and I can't be happy until I get laid.
And no fucking condoms don't count.
>>28548545
Bro, I lost my v card at 17. I didn't become this obsessive about it until 21.
Take it from me, you're gunna fuck up your head reading all that self help. I know this place gets a lot of shit for "normie advice" but everything you need to know is in a wikihow article somewhere.
I'm pretty sure this is bait, but part of every bait thread is a grain of truth.
Find a subculture you like, assimilate that subculture.
For me it is pop punk. I wear snap backs, skinny jeans, vans, etc. I have no trouble finding girls.
Whatever it may be for you. Do that. Be nice to girls. Compliment them. Never insult them. Have good hygiene. try to smell nice. Chase after a lot of girls but never let them know you're talking to other girls. If they do know, don't let them think you're chasing after the other girl. Tell them "I'm a one girl kind of guy, I never understood that player lifestyle. It just isn't for me"
Please don't read all that bullshit. It will make sex not enjoyable. It took me years to realize I learned everything I needed to know by age 16.
>>28549709
Yeah but I'm permanently depressed and petrified of going outside too, so there's not much I can do to take my mind off my KV status.
It's not so much the sex that bothers me, more the fact that nobody has ever found me remotely attractive and I don't talk to anyone.
>>28549721
>I don't enjoy anything anymore and I can't be happy until I get laid.
this mentality will never get you laid holy shit what girl would let someone like this stick it inside them
seriously find a hobby you like and immerse yourself in it, even if it's fucking collecting anime figurines, literally anything is better than this
>>28549739
This 1000x
Just try and be a Chad for a bit.
I wear snap backs skinnies and vans too. Just try and fit in. Don't read all those books man. Social intelligence can't be learned from books.
Just be nice to girls, make sure you wear some decent clothes, brush your teeth well and wear some cologne. Smile alot when talking to girls too. That helps.
>>28549739
>Be nice to girls. Compliment them. Never insult them.
cuck
>>28548367
>Cut or uncut?
uncut
>Ever done it bareback?
yes
it's really not worth all the hype, and im not saying that as a joke. I prefer to beat off.
>>28549739
>will fuck my head up
>will make sex not enjoyable
So your saying it will get me laid but your trying to say its not worth it? Seriously?
>>28549741
faggot when your in someone elses thread and your gonna post something that could easily be mistaken for them you need to include something as simple as "not op but"
>>28549801
I dont think you get that I'm not letting the girls know any of this and its not like they have some kind of crystal ball to know any of it either
>>28549853
Win friends and influence people has already helped me loads
>>28548367
You need to stop obsessing. Ive had sex with only condoms on so your experiences may vary but its not that special. I find the feeling of being wanted better than the actual sex itself.
>>28549946
>I dont think you get that I'm not letting the girls know any of this and its not like they have some kind of crystal ball to know any of it either
people who aren't autists can sense this kind of stuff. I have a feeling they can read you like a book
>>28549946
ok man I guess you have it all figured out :) .
I'm not saying that no book ever will help you but generally speaking, you will learn a lot more from actual interaction than from reading a book.
But hey, maybe you can read yourself into some pussy. jajjajajajajajaja
Good luck getting laid with your adult virginhood oozing from your pores and your shit personality, limp dick.
>>28550008
>implying I'm an autist
Aren't all of you saying that being a virgin is no big deal? So that means that being one doesn't make you chris chan
>>28550079
Burn in hell
>>28548367
>19
Oh fuck off please. You're allowed to complain once you've hit 25.
Also stop giving a shit about virginity
>>28548920
That's exactly what it is.
It isn't going to make your life any better.
It isn't going to make you rich.
It isn't something that'll make you happy.
It doesn't fucking matter.
It's like being upset you've never driven a car before. Once you do, you're not going to be beaming for months afterwards.
Holy shit man.
I'm a 19 year old virgin and I don't really even care OP, you should try online gaming
If you don't try to get laid you can't really feel mad about it
>>28550273
Then why do all of these guys say this
>>28548485
>>28548577
>>28548578
>>28548678
>>28548945
Sounds 1000x better than driving a car
Damn I wish I could go work for some mafia boss or something and turn down all money drugs or alchohol and just get payed in girls
>>28548367
>uncut
>have never worn a condom
I've tried putting a condom on twice. Both times were extremely awkward; it's a mood killer to pull out a condom and try shimmy this thing down your cock, and i couldn't stay hard with it.
So, after those attempts have always gone straight to bare back.
>how it was on a purely physical level
if you don't care for the person or they're not exceptionally good looking it's pretty meh. However, cumming in a pussy bear back is one of the greatest sensations there is.
>fuck in the spooning position
>cum
>leave your dick in her as you canoodle until it is flaccid enough to slip out on its own
>>28550145
there is a fine line between being a virgin and living a happy life versus being obsessed with it to the point where it's all you think about, and you kinda hopped skipped and jumped over that line awhile ago
>>28548367
It feels a lot like being yourself inside of someone else.
Was a virgin until I was 23.
>Cut
>Only ever had sex bareback
>It is pretty good. Not so much amazing as satisfying. Resets the stress clock.
>>28550492
>cut
>it is pretty good
>>28550462
Yeah but I'm making incredible self improvement gains that everyone is stunned and in awe of.
>>28548367
>I'm about to hit 19 and I'm still a virgin
Wow,, fuck off. You haven't earned the right to complain unless you are within 5 years of hitting wizardry.
>>28548581
>desperation drives women away like nothing else
Absolutely right.
>>28548545
Too bad women are attracted to men who don't give a fuck. Effort turns women off.
>>28549946
Why are you being so defensive, OP? You started a discussion, now listen and be chill.
>>28550688
>effort turns women off
No it doesn't. Effort for the sole purpose of getting laid turns women off.
People put effort into getting a good job, dressing well, staying in shape. You should be doing things for you and not for the possibility of some skank's stank
>>28550594
that's good, now realize shit like this takes time, months even years
just fuck a prostitute if you're really that desparate man, jesus
>>28548367
I banged a chubby when I was 14 cause I just had to get the poison out. It has always been awesome, but at the same time it's 95% just a means to an end and is kind of hollow in that regard.
I enjoy making my gf feel good perhaps more than I enjoy finishing myself. It is also very fun to play games with my gf involving sex. We play truth or dare sometimes with sexual shit and it's a lot of fun.
main point is sex is cool, but a hollow pleasure without the companionship of a good woman. I would take a great partner over a great fuck any day.
>>28550655
That's why you have to hide it
>>28550688
Anon, you don't understand. I used to be 307 pounds, I used to not bathe for 4 days at a time. I used to have a bowl cut, I used to wear clothes that looked semi-chris chan. It has taken effort to get rid of all of those. Women will have no idea about all of the effort, they will only see the results and just assume I was always like that.
>>28550696
Cause some guys chime in with their "kill yourself XD" tier shit
>>28550730
Well hey I started the serious balls to the wall level improvement in late February and I got till late August when the next semester starts so thats 6 months
And anon I cant get bareback from a prostitute and if what some anons say is true if I get sex once and am then cut off its hell
>>28548581
This seems like bullshit advice.
I mean, desperation is one thing. Certainly OP is desperate and may come off that way.
But you still have to put some effort into getting a relationship. You can't just fall into those so easily, especially as a man.
>>28550746
Forgot to add I went 5 years without having sex from 20-25. And the lack of sex didn't bother me at all, just jacked it 5 times a week. I did miss having girls around who were interested in me in that way, but I was also a manchild.
>>28548367
Dude, don't worry about it, just pay attention to the picture.
>>28548367
>virgin
>alone
Why must these to have to be related so inherently!?
You all have fall for the beasts scheme
>>28550760
Dude, fucking right on losing 50 lbs in 3 months. A doctor might advise against it, but it's also incredibly mentally unhealthy to be a pariah due to your weight so I'd say lose as much as you can as fast as you can.
I don't know you, but I'm fucking proud of you. Don't ever give up no matter how hard it gets, or how much you want to say 'fuck it'. One day you'll be 200lbs of lean muscle and it won't solve all your problems, but you'll feel damn good about yourself.
>and it will solve a lot of them
>>28550911
Heh, I don't know if I already said or not but I'm actually 220 pounds as of today.
I was 307 at my all time high back in August 2014, was 270 in February this year, gone from 270 to 220 since then
And thanks anon, sometimes it gets hard when it feels like the entire planet is coldly indifferent to you and a few people even say "kill yourself you autistic sub human virgin faggot"
>>28548581
>It sorta just happens
This is how people become wizards. They never try, hoping one day things will change. You HAVE to force change, or it won't happen. I'm only 22 but I've at least learned that much in college.
>>28550962
damn man you gonna lose 100lbs in a year...impressive shit
lol just reread your post, what's your style like these days? you dressing better/reasonable haircuts/etc.?
>>28550992
The Tao disagrees with this assertion. There is action without action.
>>28550992
Literally this, I'm so glad I realized it when I was 3 months from 19 rather than who knows how long later.
"Just beeee yourself" is a fucking shitty meme with 0 basis in reality
>>28551038
Have an undercut and am growing the hair longer to make it look better, I don't really know the name for the style I have but I guess prep is the closest I know of? It doesn't matter though, none of my clothes fit anymore not even with belts, I am way past even the 6th and final hole on the belt. Just gonna get a totally new wardrobe once all fat loss is done, gonna rely on mens fashion magazines, sites, and /fa/ to figure out what to get
>>28551060
The Tao never accounted for modern day 2016 millennial women's culture
>>28551038
Also its not 100lb in a year its more like 70
Took me from august 2014 to february 2016 to lose fucking 30
Then I found the protein sparing modified fast and everything changed, it was like the catalyst for all other self improvement
Thank you /fit/
>>28548367
>I get it, it sucks, it must suck even more than being a 19 year old one
It doesn't have to. It is what you make it. It's mostly social stigma, which is overblown in pop culture with virgins in movies and tv generally being your stereotypical basement dwelling repulsive geek, or overly innocent and clueless men. That's not real life. Those kinds of people are more likely to be virgins, but being a virgin doesn't automatically make you one of those people either.
When I was 19, I was worried about being a virgin with expectations of people automatically assuming I'm some kind of worthless social dud because of it, but when you get older you realize that no one really gives a shit. It might be an awkward hump to go over if you find yourself in a relationship, but it's not a defining factor in what most people look for.
If you get to a point where you really must know what sex is like, and you can't seem to get it on your own, then buy a hooker. Seriously.
>>28551146
How many times does it have to be posted ITT before you get it?
Condoms are shit.
And you can only do it with a hooker with a condom.
>>28551106
sounds good man. undercut is a good look. When you're ready for clothes I'd recommend brooks brothers and h&m. They have good stuff on sale all the time. BB can be expensive but is nice, H&M is dirt cheap and effective with the ladies. But you still have to know what kind of stuff to pick out. /fa/ can help, and as gay as it is you should read about what colors work for your complexion/hair.
Don't forget shoes. They are critical and the easiest aspect to fuck up and it ruins the whole look when you have ugly shoes. Get help with shoes. This held me back for so long.
>>28551196
Then don't fuck a hooker, I don't give a shit.
>>28551214
Also to add to this. If you're going to be fucking anyone other than the woman you want to have your babies, you'd be dumb not to use a condom. If she "forgets" to take her pill, you're fucked.
>>28548367
>letting societal norms that normies decided on consume your life
Top fucking jej
>>28551201
What's h&m and BB?
Also this is kind of random but any tips for getting accepted into a fraternity?
What to say/do/ etc?
Do I need to make them see me drinking beer?
Dunno if any of this sounds stupid but I don't really care
>>28548367
Go see a few escorts.
>You won't be a virgin anymore
>You will get to fuck a variety of women
>They will teach you how to have sex
>You will now have increased confidence.
>You will then learn that sex isn't really what you crave but relationships with people(both friendships and sexual relationships)
Best investment i've ever made.
>>28551201
Undercut looks really faggy to me. But my hairs kinda meh, and I'm no fashion expert (but then, I'm male and not a fag).
Honestly, your putting too much stock in looks. There are tons of bad-average looking guys/girls that are in relationships. You don't have to completely change yourself to get a relationship. Its more how you are socially.
This is why there are tons of people on here who may have kickass bodies, but still fail to get girls because they are socially retarded.
>>28551383
See here >>28551196
>>28551196
>>28551196
Unless I can somehow convince one of them that I'm not lying about being a virgin, they somehow agree to not use a condom because of that, and I can somehow be confident I'm not gonna get ruined by who knows what STDs, then there's just no point.
>>28551351
>Do I need to make them see me drinking beer?
>Dunno if any of this sounds stupid but I don't really care
Jesus christ, dude.... Yes, it sounds stupid.
No, they don't need to see you drinking beer... Just be cool man. Maybe the reason you haven't got laid yet is because you overthink everything. Stop it.
>>28551394
I understand that looks alone won't get me laid, they help a lot but they are part of the equation, it takes physical body + clothes + hair + social skills, the first 3 are easy, its the final one that's tricky and that I'm working on and getting better at.
>>28551425
Well last time I rushed one guy was pretty hell bent on "I wanna see you drink a 40" but I couldn't because I had to drive back home (I commute)
Also I think about things like crazy because when I don't you get this >>28550760
>Anon, you don't understand. I used to be 307 pounds, I used to not bathe for 4 days at a time. I used to have a bowl cut, I used to wear clothes that looked semi-chris chan. It has taken effort to get rid of all of those. Women will have no idea about all of the effort, they will only see the results and just assume I was always like that.
>>28551409
>wants sex
>wont do it with a condom
Good luck with that, you fucking moron. No one, hooker or otherwise, is just gonna let you fuck them without a condom on unless they want your children. Didn't you take health class?
>>28551351
Brooks Brothers and H&M are just clothing stores man. They have everything you need to dress well.
I was offered a bid my freshman year but turned it down cause I didn't want to pay the $500 a semester. Basically my roommate and I went to the frat's party our first night (they were inviting anyone they met on campus) and some guy in the fraternity came up to us and told us we were shotgunning beers with him. I had never done this, but played along and watched them do it then imitated. The guy knew I had never done it, but liked that I was willing to do it just because he suggested it. We came back to a couple more parties and went to a couple events during rush week. I really wasn't that cool or extroverted, but somehow I got a bid.
I think a lot of it depends on the fraternity, and just whether or not they think you bring something to the table. I would talk to some guys on campus and maybe get invited to something. Definitely go to rush week events and find the guys you fit in with the most. Probably gonna have to fucking drink a lot. My roommate pledged his 2nd semester and was drunk all the time and had to be drunk for a week straight to get initiated.
>wew lad lotto text
>>28548367
Tbh ive done it alot, lost my virginity when i was 15 on a cruise, only reason was cause i was drunk as fuck so I didnt have my crippling anxiety.
around 10th grade i started getting good at sports, got laid a bunch
all in all ive probably had around 19 girls
im uncut,
i have busted nuts inside of 2 girls so far, both were on BC
it was pretty fun desu, but now im 22 and just hate women because i can jerk off and my need for them goes away
>>28548545
i read how to win friends because my socially awkward dad suggested it for me lol cool idea man
>>28551394
I'm just going based off my personal experience of dressing like a retard, then asking my cousin to help me shop for clothes and grooming tips. There was an obvious difference in how women looked/treated me overnight and nothing else changed. Perhaps it was placebo confidence or something, but much more likely chicks saw I took care of myself and assumed I was having sex with other chicks so I must have something going on.
>>28548367
>purely physical level
not memorable
waste of time and energy
about the same as jerking off after a few day/weeks of not doing so
If you find someone you love i imagine its different, but nothing changed after i got laid, and nothing changed after i had sex a few more times, just to make sure it counted
since then i have abstained, what I want now is not sex, but someone who understands someone who doesn't annoy me
Getting laid wont solve your existential crisis, the same can be said for everything you do in this world, from mushrooms to vaginas, that boulder will just roll back down the mountain
you should learn to enjoy pushing it up the hill
>>28548367
Cut or uncut?
Ever done it bareback?
uncut
2 times with a condom ehhhh around ....... mate i dont count probably 400 times bareback
when my gf visits me we usually fuck around 3 to 8 times a day
>>28551479
Always kinda figured all hookers were on the pill just in case and were only afraid of STDs
>>28551514
I remember last time I tried to rush one guy offered for me to stay with him if I got drunk and couldn't go home, he was with the frat, in hindsight I should have said yes
Whatever, I'll get my chance this August/September, so much time will have passed since they've last seen me and I will have changed so much what with my total overhaul of my life that even if they remember me I'll be like a totally different person to them
This is my last chance though, I really hope I can pull it off, if I can get in then I'm basically guaranteed to get laid
>>28551558
So how do you feel about it after having read it?
>>28551692
>Always kinda figured all hookers were on the pill just in case and were only afraid of STDs
Yes, but they still wont let you fuck them without a condom. The main reason being that they don't know you and you could give them an STD. There's also the possibility that they could give you one as well.
>>28551734
I know, that's why I was saying I was just wondering if I could somehow convince them that I really am a virgin, a virgin can't have any diseases.
Or maybe I could bring them an std test paper from the same day as proof, I dunno, it still doesn't gaurantee that they are clean
And all of this is moot anyways when I realize that I'd run out of hooker money in no time and then I'm back to square 1
>>28551752
>it still doesn't gaurantee that they are clean
Theeerrre you go.. Finally clicked for you.
>>28551780
I already said that here >>28551409
>>28551409
Stop skimming all the posts and actually read them top to bottom
Lost my virginity a few days ago.
Sex is overrated desu.
>>28548545
How much did you weigh at the start?
>>28548367
>Cut or uncut?
Cut
>Ever done it bareback?
Yes
Not worth it in my opinion to fuck with a condom. I rather masturbate or get a blowjob. I would never fuck someone or be in a relationship with someone I wasn't sure didn't have an STD. I haven't gotten laid in like 5 years but I don't fret. I experienced good sex. I know there is better sex but I don't lose sleep over it.
Fucking a vagina raw or a blowjob is great. Anything else I don't really care for.
Ratings:
Raw Sex: 8/10
Blowjob: 7/10
Masturbation: 6/10
Anything else: 5/10
>>28551817
Read
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>>28551850
>starving yourself after 250 pounds
No wonder you can't get laid, you're a fucking idiot. Enjoy your fucked hormone levels
>>28548367
first got laid at 13-14 (8th grade), lost my virginity to a slut when i ditched school with her to go get high at her house. dont really remember my first time (pretty fucked up on whiskey and weed). i was a metalhead/punkrocker/thrasher so i hung out in that scene and went to every show i possibly could to get fucked up and meet sluts from all over the city ( i live in hollywood, CA) had one serious GF (lasted 11 months) boned her on the first month through when i dumped her, i can speak on this experience with this gf since it was my longest relationship and probably fucked her like 100+ during those 11 months. im uncut, raw dogged her plenty of times (pussy, ass, mouth) it felt good, thats why people fuck all the time. feels like your fapping but imagine your hand being warm and covered in lube. the thing that mostly turn me want the sex alone but how eager a girl can get for dick, specially when in public. fucking in public is the best rush i experienced. just wait for it man youll have your day, one word of advice is make the effort to get laid and never turn down a chance to fuck, youll end up regretting it
>>28551953
Faggot I still have fucking visible fat on me, its not over yet, what the hell do you know?
i take 100mg of amitriptyline a day
i need amphetamine to feel any strong libido, then you've got stimdick etc.
>>28550273
>It isn't something that'll make you happy.
Wrong
>>28551692
it was a pretty good read with a lot of advice. one of the tips i focus on most is the most interesting people are the most interested and i've seen this in action and it's magic. i talk to a youth pastor (even though i'm not even christian) every once in a while and he just seems genuinely interested in my views and that shit makes people want to stick around.
Alright OP, I'm reading over this thread, and you sound like a fucking prick. And a fucking autist. No wonder no one wants to fuck you. You just seem so hellbent on getting laid on a purely superficial level, you don't even understand how empty your life will be once you do get laid, cause literally nothing can be as good as you're making losing your virginity out to be. You're gonna fuck some girl raw dog and you're gonna cum and it's gonna feel pretty cool for a while but then you're gonna feel pretty empty cause you're gonna realize how you were building it up to impossible standards. I know you're just going to post something like
>see these replies saying sex is really really good
despite the fact that half of these are saying shit about how you have to really care about the person to make it super good. And you know what? That's probably why no one wants to sleep with you. Because they can sense that you don't really care for who they are, you just want to see how they can help you reach your goal of getting your dick wet. So fuck you OP. You honestly sound like the typical "nice guy" that people love to complain about. You honestly sound like such a fucking tool. You're probably just going to ignore this and continue going off about how your life will just continue to be unacceptably shitty until you get to fuck a chick bare back, but I hope that on some level I strike a chord and you get a damn hobby to distract yourself or at least chill the fuck out and just live your life
lost v-card at 19 and a half. I mean of course it was awesome but the girl knew what she was doing and just rode me. I didn't really feel like my life had changed so much, but I was more confident after getting it over with. Went several months afterward with no sex.
Now I have a girlfriend and we bang a lot. Always bareback, never used a condom. It always feels pretty good, but if it's particularly hot sex then it feels a lot better. I wish she was more enthusiastic about anal.
>>28548367
Uncut.
Yup.
It was awesome. Took a girl's virginity and her pussy was so tight it was like a wrench on my dick, she was wet too, like pussy juice was dripping down my dick onto my balls. Crazy sex tho.
Also, another time i fucked this one girl with a fat ass and i just got so into it, i grabbed her by her ass lifted her into the air and punded the fuck out of her. She started freaking out and cumming but i just kept fucking her lol
Never used a condom and never pulled out
I just want to cuddle with someone for hours. The physical contact is way more important to me than the sex.
>>28552222
checkeddddddd with my virginity
>>28552222
ayyy nice digits senpai
Hi OP. I had banged 13 women by the age of 19 and I'm now 21, about to get married.
I'm cut.
Yes I've done it many, many times bareback. My first time was bareback because I was stupid. Another time the girl had one of those contraptions inside her where she couldn't get pregnant. Another time was a mistake and I had the girl take the morning after pill the next day.
And most recently, of course, my fiancee and I do it all the time because she's on the pill.
I will say it is far, far better with people I care about or am intimate with. It feels really good on your dick. That's about it. And seeing her face cum because of you is also really good. Just feels really manly and fun. Also, it's really hard to hold in and control when you cum if you are trying not to cum too early. You have to find a way to not cum too early or it'll ruin it, but if you've done it a few times already that day and you actually are having trouble cumming, than going too long can be just as bad. It's just about performing and finding that balance and enjoying yourself, and lying naked together and holding each other's slightly sweaty bodies afterwards is the best part.
>>28552222
my numerology number is 111
>>28552214
good thing you're descriptive so i can turn this into a manga
>>28552150
I think you think I've turned into a prick as a means to an extremely misguided end that you think I will obtain even though I'm a prick, I think I am right about everything and am going to be vindicated in the end.
I don't know what else to tell you, you know where I stand on everything. If we lived in some kind of Victorian eqsue society then I wouldn't even know about sex or how godly it is, so blame society for letting me know about it and drilling it in endlessly in the form of tv, movies, vidya, music, in real life, etc.
And blame normies for acting like such bastards to me growing up, treating me like human garbage, for turning me into such a machiavellian person. I know from experience that if I let people know what I'm really like then they will hate me. So I have to put on a total facade, clothes, hair, way I act towards people. all of it.
>>28552214
I wish I was you.
>>28552319
Psh. Please. This guy is lying. What he's saying is ludicrous. The only good thing about sex is emptying your bowels on her bosoms. Sex feels terrible on your penis, it gets all scraped up and bent, but you have to do that part before she lies still enough to receive your BM on her chest. It also doesn't matter at all if it's with someone you care about or whether she gets off. The only thing that matters is regular, healthy digestive habits and using a woman's warm body as a toilet. And then cleaning your filthy ass with her hands and face.
>>28552612
I promise you I'm not lying. I think we just have different ways of going about this.
I'm 26 and i've banged about 20 women ( most of them hookers)
Feels pretty good man while you are doing it or before. You will feel bad after finishing with a fattie or low-average girl when doing that make sure you can gtfo quick.
Should you decide to loose your virginity to a hooker make sure shes really attractive to you and also not a bitch.
>>28552651
Fine, but OP seems way more like a BM guy than a penetration guy. Penetration's weird anyway, tell me you at least BM on her chest, it's just not your favorite part, right?
>>28552685
The fuck are you on about?
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>>28552685
Have I cum on her chest? Of course.
And in her mouth. I prefer her mouth.
But sure.
>>28552520
blaming is poison. if you want to get anywhere blame yourself
>>28548367
>le describe sex for me becuz i iz virgun and want to know what iz like so i can feel worse abot myslef :((((((((((((((
these threads are cancer
should be law to drink a quart of bleach for each shitpost thread you make
>>28552701
BM
>>28552708
Not cum, BM. BM!! Although taking a BM in her mouth is even more satisfying than on the chest, just figured we'd let OP discover that gem on his own. Can't give it all away. Well, you can.
>>28552709
>if you want to get anywhere blame yourself
not really senpai
there is such a thing as blaming yourself too much;
its being a fucking sucker
really easy to become somebody's pawn this way
>>28552150
And another thing, don't feel too bad about the whole "nice guy" thing, these girls are no one to feel bad for. They wouldn't hesitate to call me a loser failure no life piece of shit if they knew I was a virgin, so why should I care about manipulating them into sex?
>>28552709
I am without blame song related
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qg_TRaiWj4o
>>28552731
Literally 0 interest in scat get out
>>28552719
BM!!! THAT GIRL MADE A BM AND IT GOT ON HER PUSSY TEE HEE HEE HEE HEE HEE
>>28552746
I'm not actually the guy who was talking about BM before. Like I swear I'm a totally different guy. But I'll answer for him. There is a LOT of interest in BM in this thread, and if you aren't interested in BM, you're the freak. Maybe make a non-BM sex thread, we'll see how many replies that gets lol. Right all my BM bros?
>>28552771
yeah i love this guy! i'm totally with him! BMs are the best!
i'm a different guy, i haven't said anything in the thread yet but to piggy back on this post, i love BM esp. sex BM
i'm also another guy, just consolidating all our posts into one, we all started skyping about BM and so now we're all getting in on the same post because we're all in communication. we love BM
keep up the good work smellin' bad, BM! hi i'm the second guy's wife. point is, women like me love BM and hate any other form of sex. in fact our moms teach us this rhyme when we're little:
he BMs on your chest
tell all his friends he's the best
BM on chest and in mouth sex is the only sex. everyone agrees but you, fag.
>>28552745
it's like you read my life like a book and diagnosed my weaknesses
>>28552875
That's why you have to be as cold and hard as iron, "bee urself' is a shitty meme with no basis in reality and expecting normies to ever like you for you is just as bad.
We live in a society that ***naturally*** rejects us, so we have to put on a facade to make it through and get what everyone else gets handed like fucking candy but when we want it we are the devil.
Fuck em all.
>>28552746
good song ohmy
>>28552901
people assume im a pothead because of my anxiety
>>28552907
Yeah and it sums up how I feel to the letter.
Oh I'm such a horrible person see here >>28552901
>>28552901
God forbid I don't just roll over and accept being a perma virgin NEET because society says that's what I deserve just because I'm not some pound symbol spamming duck face making rap music idolizing normie.
>>28552925
can we talk about crushes?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=05um2VS9iWs
moi picenio
23
Cut
Have fucked 4 girls, 2 of which were virgins (current gf included)
Only do bareback with current gf.
Feels nice but like other anons said, feels way better when it's with someone you genuinely care about. Purely physically speaking I think blowjobs feel better. When I cum from a bj it feels like a fucking hose spray of cum coming from my dick, like my gf is physically forcibally sucking semen out of me. Some girl I fucked after meeting at a club gave me head so good I swear I almost passed out.
>>28552150
I even screen capped your post just so that I can use it as motivation to keep going, the more and more people try to dissuade me from the path the more I feel confident like I'm doing good. People have switched gears from "your a loser virgin who's never gonna get any" to "your a selfish prick and even once you get laid you won't feel any different", which means that they feel like I am actually going to get laid.
And if the people who hate me think I'm going to get laid then how many more signs do I need that I'm going in the right direction?
>>28548367
Jfc you're still a kid op you shouldn't be worrying about this shit right now you still got your whole life to fix everything
>>28548367
16 with my girlfriend, it feels really good senpai. Especially if she's got a great body. Mostly bareback with gfs would never fuck a random raw.
>>28553498
Underage. Enjoy getting b&.
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orginal fqwtasd
>>28548367
im 19, ive done it once.
i was so drunk i dont remember how it felt. :(
i dont know the girls name. i dated a girl in high school for a year but furthest we got was oral.
makes me sad, but idk. i don't think i've fully come to terms with it.
>>28553550
you know, once you fuck someone, you don't cease to age, you utter fucking tard.
>>28548367
I'm an autistic 26 yo chad that have had sex with 5 different women, but since my autism demanded it i've splerged out after sex with them maybe after 1-4 times.
>They liked it, why didn't I like it enough to stay with them?
== feel like an asshole
Anyway, all of them enjoyed the sex except my first, I think and I've lived on the internet so my knowledge is from there.
Honestly just touch her while doing stuff, be vary that your penis can go in different angles and speed in her.
Her clit is your penis head, except it wont erect itself the same way. You gotta warm her up doing small talk rarely and eating or fingering with 2 fingers on the upside wall.
Tbh I think one big reason there are no fembots is because they don't have to "perform/act" during sex/relationships and men do. The men with jacked confidence will shut out of society partly because of it.
It's quite good but I myself think women are pretty vapid, but I've gotten really attracted by a shy girl at work so maybe it's not true for all. We'll see.
>>28548367
Also a 19 yo KHV
Man I don't even give a shit anymore because I make decent money and do drugs so I get my emotional fulfillment. I kind of gave up on women.
The best part is that they still dont give a fuck because I'm not Chad, so it's no skin off my back or theirs, and none talk to me or hound me or anything.
Life is much better when you give up on the vaginal jew.
>>28548628
The reason is literally evolution
Homosapien bros whatever amount of years ago (and really this goes all the way back to when we were still fish and amoebas) that didn't wanna fuck, probably didn't fuck. Over a long time, this results in a whole species that wants to fuck really crazy all of the time, because if those were the genes you had in the olden days, you were more likely to survive
>>28550992
>They never try, hoping one day things will change
27 and never had sex because of this
>>28550992
This can't be said enough. Sex doesn't just fall into your lap for 99% of guys, you gotta actually try. No risk no reward in this world. It's not going to just "happen"
>>28548545
wow, what a dork
Lost it at 22. Im 26 now and i've had sex with 5 girls one of which was a relationship of 3 years. I'm cut and i've had sex bareback.
It feels fucking amazing. The closeness, the warm, wet pressure around your dick and the sight of a woman on top/under you as you feel her breasts bounce and body move as she moans. The feeling of hugging her body close to yours as you thrust deep inside her, her breasts pressing against your chest as you kiss passionately. Seeing her ride on top of you and being mesmerized as your dick disappears into her over and over again.
Or being an extra super degenerate and having her in the Missionary position. Thrusting into her deep and hard so her whole body rocks back and forth with your motion and marveling at how her breasts wiggle at the motion (that's my personal thing so each to their own). The passionate embrace when you lean down to suck her breasts/kiss her and she wraps her legs around you to pull you deeper.
A lot of the pleasure for guys comes visually and the feeling of being desired. Even bareback we get far less out of the experience than girls do, sure it feels great either way, feeling her muscles squeeze your shaft, but most of what i enjoy is the feeling that this individual trusts me enough to allow herself into her most vulnerable state for a mutual bonding experience of pleasure. Thats what robots desire the most, the 'yes, i want you' look and the noises that say "Please don't stop doing this, i enjoy the feelings you are creating, i feel happy doing this with you".
That is the best thing, the closeness you get after a good session with someone you care about that all barriers just melt away and your confidence with that person skyrockets. You cuddle on the couch afterwards and watch TV naked, drape your arms around her and trace circles over her breasts, or just lie in bed for a while admiring her naked body thinking "i was inside her, she trusted and accepted me as a male".
>>28556224
As an addendum since OP said to describe on a purely physical level, there isnt much to say. You can litteraly get the same physical feeling by sticking your dick in a good quality lubricated onahole or jelly pussy, but I am sure any robot can attest that after you ejaculate there is nothing more to be said.
Actual sex carries the pleasure far beyond the time you cum in her/on her/in the condom. I'd say it 80% emotional and only 20% physical. You cannot sustain a positive mindset through only fapping or through emotionless sex with some drunk starfishing slut that has no idea how to properly have sex with a man despite being with 50 guys before shes 30.
The only good sex is with someone that is willing to do it with you at least mostly sober that cares about you and you care about them at least a little bit. Its not worth it unless you see yourself enjoying being around the person.
Lost it at 19 to a girl I loved who "loved" me. Cut with condom. I unironically did not feel one fucking thing. Nothing. I put my head on her shoulder so she couldn't see my face so I could stop pretending to enjoy it.
It did get better the more we did it, and once and only once I began to feel something, but I didn't cum. It was a pretty big let down, the only enjoyment I got out of it was the intimacy I shared with her at the time.
>>28548367
I only ever did bareback. Fucked some huge sluts. Think I might have an STD but I don't want to go to the doctor..
>>28556224
the gayest shit i ever read
>>28548367
dude i know plenty of 19 y/o chad types who get girls regularly but are still virgins. its literally no big deal stop thinking about it.
>>28548367
Was 22 when it happened. Senior in college. Honestly jerking off is better.
>>28558336
In addition, I have never came while having sex with a girl. I am also pretty normal looking. Went to parties, have kissed a few girls but somehow never managed to have sex until my senior year.
>>28548367
Went over to a girl's house when I was 17 and we ended up having sex. She was not very attractive though and even though I was bareback, it didn't feel that great. I can't even remember exactly how it felt because it was 2 years ago but I couldn't cum so there's that.
>>28551106
You losing your virginity doesn't necessarily make the world a better place.
>>28551060
You must learn to infest the divergent circuits of a woman's mind, so to speak.
You must make her think you're implying "I want to fuck you so hard" and "I'm only lightly interested in sex" at the same time.
You must make her feel you're delivering the message "you're the only girl for me, ever" and also "you're the minimum standard of barely interesting or attractive female" at the same time.
It's when a woman feels the wavering of these sentiments and wants sureness out of them that she gets mega ultra horny.
My words seem cryptic but they really explain how the vast majority of women get endeared into sex or romance.
>>28559085
Top kek. I've read the Tao de Ching and this is the exact format that it is written in. Thank you, anon.
>>28548367
My first time was when i was 17 with a girl i met the same night
She was short, blonde and chubby with a big ass and F-cups
I am not cut
I have done it without a rubber with my ex gf and my current FWB
The feeling of a pussy is pretty difficult to describe. But it's pretty much like the inside of your mouth, with a little extra texture. It's also warm and wet and attached to a moaning woman. Feels great mang :^)
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Man I don't understand these wildly varying thoughts on what its like coming from everyone ITT:
It ranges from greatest thing in existence, to pretty good but an onahole or fleshlight is the same, to couldn't feel anything at all.
I know that being cut vs uncut and condom vs bareback effects things but I am even seeing this variance amongst guys of the same group (cut guys saying different things, uncut, x with condom, x with no condom, y with condom, y with no condom)
I really don't get it
But thanks for all the input though its been a really informative thread so far and thanks to that one anon who was super encouraging towards me about my self improvement and thanks for the clothing tips will check them out
hfh
orgimn
>>28556224
>>28556344
Also I screen capped your stuff too just like I did for this guy >>28552150
I dunno why I feel the need to do it even though I don't agree with either one, I guess I wanna prove it wrong to myself? Use it as motivation to not believe the lies/deception/other people not knowing what they are talking about?
I dunno
Im gonna make it eventually
