I like a non-Chad but he only likes me as a friend. My only flaw is that I'm overweight, but as you know, it takes at least a year to get to average. I'm not a feminist and am trying to change, but will it work? What if he moves on before?
I really would appreciate honest and genuine advice.
Also, he is very slim, but usually the slim guys go for me.
Also, no overweight or fat guys in my area. One of the lowest obesity rates in the US around here.
I don't want to be miserable for an entire year and only focus on losing weight- it will drive me insane
>>28542485
If it's going to take you a year to get to average, you're more than just overweight, you're obese.
This sucks to hear but most guys aren't going to go for a girl that big unless they're utterly, completely, and totally desperate.
Take that year to get in shape and focus on yourself. Then when you're in better shape physically, you will be emotionally more confident and will have any guy you want.
how overweight are we talking?
>>28542721
The thing is, when I was on the lower side of the average bmi, (skinny but not underweight), I couldn't get the guys I wanted. But they were chads and not long term, but I finally found some long term and they don't want me :(
Thank you for your input though. I will probably take your advice
>>28543041
Maybe your focusing on your weight too much and its more about who you are and who you are going after.
What is your height and weight? This will inform the situation.
"anon-Chad"
>>28543041
Women in a nutshell. Maybe don't be a whore in the next life.
>>28543041
>my only flaw is my weight
it's your dating behavior, not your appearance. i'm glad this guy sees you for what you are
https://youtu.be/f3ejRaXXhCI
