How do i act confident if I dont know the concept of confidence since I've never once been confident in my entire life?
>inb4 /fit/ faggots I worked out, eat healthy, it didn't change a thing
>watch movies that portray the protagonist as confident and manly
>mirror his actions and mannerisms
There ya go
>>28535546
I already tried that. it isnt much help because movies are scripted unrealistic portrayals of interaction.
mannerisms are inherently subconscious and I can't control my subconscious behavior.
You develop a since of goals, hobbies, virtues, and outlook and remain adamant on them, and when someone tries encroaching on them you stand your ground.
>>28535607
Confidence stems from completing a goal that is important to you, as well as the things you learn along the way. The more difficult the goal, and the better you complete it, the higher your confidence will be. You have to want it badly though.
>>28535669
I know. But I've never completed anything worthwhile in life because I'm stupid and have no talent so that's why I wanna fake it, but I also cant do it because apparently my psyche can only be confident because of a real achievement.In both cases apparently I'm fucked.
>>28535519
It's easy.
confident = being sure.
Just have a firm set of believes and opinions that matches what is popular in your area.
Have no doubt about stuff.
That's why stupid people are confident because they just believe what most people believe and act like them without questioning it.
90% of people are the same dude with different faces and slightly different schedule, hobbies and life goals.
I can go out and be a successful chad but i would just feel like a brainwashed idiot and hate myself for being a asshole to robots.
fuck the police
imagine that you're wearing the skin of the people you talk to and that they're wearing your skin