>>28473100
No way to fix it, just the way we were raised. I think the best we can do is try to consciously try and minimize the effects.

>>28473128
well if you force it it'll be fake, i couldn't even pretend to be a mouthbreaker. i think culturally in the west there's a real emphasis on the manly man, whereas other cultures are less fixated on macho stuff. if you're in the west you're especially screwed here.

cute girls boys are the best though!

>>28473182
not when they're in their late 20's though

>most friends growing up were boys(with some girls mixed in)
>have no had
>unable to relate with normies(but than again you can find a bit of yourself in everyone)
>haven't talk longer than 2min which a women around my age in the last 5 yerars
>jerk of to almost everything lesbian/incest/trap/loli/rape etc etc
>have never been called effeminate

Honestly i can't relate to you. You seem like a gay in the closet to me. I mean
>used to trap before
wtf

And you just implyed that everyone here is a fag who used to be a trap you fucking retard. Don't try to turn this board into your gay experience board.

You no who is one of the most famost robots? Elliot Rodger if he was still alive he would plan to shoot you to with all the 3D Whores because that's what you are. A 3D whore trapped in a faggy man boddy.

>>28473281
>And you just implyed that everyone here is a fag who used to be a trap you fucking retard
calm down buddy, i'm saying nobody here is masculine at all. there's no lumberjacks here

although i think some people have spectrum disorder too (the kind of people who blow up and misread posts)

>>28473316
I'm more masculin than most man out there. True i don't look strong and even women were stronger than me a few years ago and i even arm wrestling once where one guy only used his pinkie finger.
I like to draw,reading books,watching anime etc etc so you could say on the first glance i'm not that masculin.

But on the other hand who is more masculin. Some guys who goes waste his time with parties and the gym so he can get laid(maybe)
or someone who does his own things.
Someone who knows that it's wrong to live as if you were immortal, someone with goals in mind. Someone who is proactive and works on his skills which give some meaning to him(programming/drawing).

The thing is the word masculin or being a man lost its meaning.
Chads are not masculin compare to real men who work towards their dreams. Getting laid,acting charasmatic,watching sports etc etc is just a waste of time and real man know that.

I guess i'm faw away from being a real man and i know that but i'm on my way to that.
Chads and Fags are just two sides of one coin. Masculin people don't care about that stuff.

>>28473100
Red pill usually fixes this t b h

I was a very effeminate teen, and even in my early 20s.
I had long hair, and hips and ... anyway, I'd have made a good trap, I could pass. I mean, this was in the 90s before there were webcams and shit. So the few times I dressed up for my girlfriend's entertainment doesn't count? Right?

The point is... it really doesn't matter if you're effeminate.
There are all sorts out there.

You don't like being effeminate? Hit the gym?
Don't mind being effeminate? Hit on people who like effeminate men.

What do you want to happen?

https://youtu.be/ThNfrNGdgxs

>>28473525
are you convincing me or yourself here

>loli
are you into anime/manga and all that too? haha

>Chads are not masculin compare to real men who work towards their dreams
thought chad was supposed to be smart, intelligent, self assured. mind you the reason you don't think chad is a man is because /r9k/ is also full of teen angst, chads are in highschool or university right. there's no such thing as a 30 year old chad.

>I guess i'm faw away from being a real man and i know that but i'm on my way to that.
are you sure

you're mad about something bruv, i don't think i understand what. i don't think you'll ever be what you want to be though

>>28473633
>You don't like being effeminate? Hit the gym?
that's the problem, it's mindset and habits and inability to be assertive or project yourself. i could be a body builder and still a bitch

>>28473707
ah... I'm old and slow.
I'm only thinking of physically effeminate.
An inability to project yourself isn't effeminate.
Plenty of effeminate people are very out there, projecting them selves... making themselves seen... being assertive.

You're not effeminate.

>>28473707
Like I said, red pill my man.