If you had to blame someone for you social anxeity , who would it be ?
For me it's my older brother , always made sure that I feel worthless since I was a child , kept making fun of me in a hardcore way , kept comparing me to other kids until I grew insecure , he also beated me a lot , he made sure that I know that almost everyone is better than me at almost everything , I don't hate him , I don't have any grudges , but my wounds will never heal from this
sorry your brother was a dick anon. post more katy.
my stutter was a big part of my anxiety. aside from that, the usual suspects of no male rolemodel, growing up in a feminized country, thinking life was about acquiring good boy points, etc.
My parents for having me while knowing they both have tendencies towards mental disorders. Eugenics is a good thing, people.
>>28457431
It's okay man , here some katy for you
>feminized country
What country is this ?
I was the Meg of my family. Don't talk to them now & there disintegrated in so many ways
If you live in America and answer anything other than the police, you're just pretending to be stressed for attention.
>>28457581
What ?
Can't get more original than that botfam
>>28457581
> DUUR POLICE IZ OPRESSIN US KANGS
fuck off, this isn't a Norwegian suburb where the nearest .22 is found with crazy Karl in his shack 12 miles into the secluded forest. Uneducated kids being told by their parents that the gubmint is to blame, turning into adults with guns who feel the same.
>>28457680
when the police can take your property willy nilly then there is clearly a fucking problem. Kill yourself bootlicker
>>28457504
>that knowing smile
that bottom is heavenly
>>28457358
I blame my mommy I hate her she's a bitch
>dad regularly yelled in my face, shook me around, pushed and pulled me about, called me slurs
>scared shitless of all adult men as a result
>never really take on any mentors because too spooked
>continue to be scurred even though it's entirely illogical
>total neurotic
>>28457504
oh my god
i'll be right back after a cold shower
The only one to blame is myself.
>>28457358
definitely katy perry
You guys have nobody to blame but yourself.
>>28457896
Man that fucking suck , I also had a similar story , but now that I'm ripped I wish to meet the guy who did this to me and smash his face with a fucking rock then rape him
here's more katy for a little bit of compensation
My dad, never took his Bipolar meds, so he'd either be yelling at me and calling me worthless, or he'd be acting loopy and not paying attention to me at all. It fucks a kid up to never know whether your dad is going to be dancing around the room or slamming the doors yelling that he wished you'd never been born.
My parents would offer disproportionate, shaming punishments without explanation whenever I did anything wrong, or that they didn't like. Because they didn't explain why, I grew up with the expectation I could be yelled at for any reason at any time by anyone.
>>28457358
sum grill that bullied me
The doctor who cut off my foreskin. Every few hours I remember, "Oh yeah, I'm circumcised".
>>28458018
Same as my dad to be honest familia , my dad wakes up angry as shit and yelling and the evening her returns from the work happy and calm , rinse and fucking repeat , god I fucking hate my family
probably my parents. my dad is his own version of a social autist, i guess i picked up his tendencies. the guy has no friends, he just works and comes home, sleeps, eats. that's it. he's a control freak and a complete sociopathic narcissist though, he only cares about himself and just uses everyone around him. the few "friends" he has had were very strange people that my dad would manipulate and get what he wanted out of them, like money or doing him favors, etc. he's almost like a con man.
so yea, i'd mostly blame him. guy is really fucked in the head.
>>28457358
Myself and everyone who bullied me and made fun of me
>>28457358
Honestly?
I had it to good, people treated me well in my youth, everyone took care of me, people just liked me. Get to the real world and it's just a ball of hate and I jump in fear. I have no idea how to handle conflict and got scared to the point I just leave and hide away rather than deal with arguments.
>>28457358
My parents.
Whenever I said dumb kid shit, they'd get embarrassed and pissed off, and I'd get spanked.
Constantly.
And if that wasn't happening, it was because they were treating me like a huge goddamned joke, while never explaining the concept of manners or etiquette or appropriate speech to me.
How the fuck are you supposed to get over pavlovian conditioning ingrained in you from birth?
>>28458086
It's the worst, and it's awkward because it's not as if he died or my parents divorced. He's still there, he just started taking his meds the last year or so. I'm never sure how I'm supposed to deal with it, like if I'm expected to forgive him for the last 17 years because he's better now . I basically just ignore him whenever I'm home on holiday, unless he approaches me. It's not that I dislike him, I still love him, I just feel angry that most of my mental health problems are a result of him, but he'll never take responsibility.
>>28457358
My parents never socialized me well around other children and never really taught me basic life skills.
I hate to be that guy who makes unsubstantiated claims but I was insanely smart as a child. I had a college reading level before I even left elementary school. All of that went down the shitter when I became an awkward, nervous, shy wreck of a human being.
>Raised by a single mother with mental illness.
>Saw my Dad like once a week but he was incredibly disconnected and apathetic about our lives. lived in a fairytale land where he thought everything was ok because he paid the minimum amount of child support
>Got bullied at school for being the poor kid.
>>28458231
Same right here.
I wasn't allowed to have friends over or go places with other kids until I was in the 6th grade.
All this, and I wasn't allowed to skip two grade levels upwards in the 3rd grade, because my parents assumed that I'd 'get in trouble with older kids'.
Later, in junior high, I got accused of living in a fantasy world because I read all the time.
Later, in high school, for no reason at all, I got accused of being a ticking time bomb because I didn't have enough friends, while simultaneously getting in trouble for having friends.
Later, when my (special ed) younger brother entered high school, my mom got super-cool, and would just buy him and his friends beer and shit, and let them party the fuck up in the house.
I just don't know what to make of it.
>>28458316
You know exactly what to do
This is very original comment botfam
>>28457358
The gang who beat me up when I was about 5 or 6. Violence at a young age really does a number on your head.
>>28458374
I'm in my 30's. That ship has passed, dude.
But holy fuck does that shit have a large, resounding effect on one's life.
I can only truly blame myself and get the fuck over it.
>>28457358
>that blood stain on her knee
Acne in high school.
People were kind enough to never even make fun of me to my face. But I had horrible acne, my insecurity crippled me, I was so good socially.
My face is okay now, but I still can't muster up the courage to make a move on grills.
>>28458404
Idk man , but check out this large resounding effecton my dick
>>28458477
ops forgot pic
Original shit right here mang
Probably my parents? They're both good people, but they don't have a great grasp on socializing. They raised me to be a fat, overly hyper & sensitive spoiled brat with no sense of responsibility, hard work or humility. The kind of little shit you'd just want to punt.
>>28457358
>dad beat/raped mom for no reason
>often heard fighting and screaming into the night
>>28457680
>being antigun
stop posting anytime
My mom for forbidding me to leave my yard as a kid. I was never allowed to go to any friends' houses or anything like that. No camp, no extracurricular activities or sports. Had to always stay home. Now I am a hikki NEET who can't even go into grocery stores or hold normal conversations.
>>28457358
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>>28458374
Jesus Christ she's fucking perfect hhhhhnnnnnnnnnggggghhh
>>28458498
Muh fucking dick
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>>28459787
I would literally do anything for a weekend with her doing what I wanted. She is a goddess
>>28457358
All began in 3rd grade.
I was somewhat of a Chad, but didn't speak up in class. Got pushed by my parents to, and one day in math when that asked what one seventh was, I yelled SEVEN!!
Whole class laughed at me, put my head down in shame, been scared to talk infront of peers since.
Myself. But the best thing is I can change what I have brought upon myself
>>28460406
So you're that faggot ? I never would've guessed you'd be browsing 4chin
My mother would never, ever let anyone come over and my father just didn't like people. Between the two, I learned to be alone and cherish it.
Not strictly speaking anxiety though.
>>28460406
You can't be "somewhat of a Chad." You are on or you aren't. You were probably a failed normie.
>>28457358
My dad, my older brother, my sister, uncles, aunts, cousins, family friends. I'm not exaggerating either. Everyone was an asshole to me and made fun of me for no reason. When somebody asks me why I am the way I am, I'm gonna let them have it.
