How do I mentally train myself to stop being attracted to women who I don't have a chance of ever being with and lower my standards to something more reasonable?
I don't think it's possible but I recommend you stay away from 2D anime girls because that would just raise your standards even higher.
IIRC it was scientifically proven that you get attracted to people of the same rough attractiveness level with you.
You must be handsome.
>>28440178
Maybe you're right, maybe under all my flab I'm secretly a Chad and I'll gain confidence. You know what just because of your comment I'll hit the gym.
>>28440178
so my mom was right. I AM a handsome little boy
>>28440178
So this is why I can appreciate the beauty of but don't feel genuinely attracted to very aesthetic people...
>>28440178
that doesn't make any biological sense. you always have false perceptions of yourself and what you are attracted to is also a response to your environment. if you got shit on by hot girls then even if you turned out hot you would hate them and favor the BBW. if the fatties were obnoxious while the cute girls treated you well then even if you become a slob piece of shit you;ll only want the cuties.
and porn/media really fucks your shit up if you never have a real environment in the first place. you'll just develop cues as if you're someone else entirely. attraction is hardly magic. you'll go fuck anything over time, that's part of the success of humans along with fucking all year long and sticking around to raise kids.
Focus on the worst aspects of the woman. Imagine her in 20+ years: flabby arms, face crinkled with wrinkles, cellulite, chubby. Think about how she bullies and cheats others, as most people do. Remember that she, like virtually all people, has vomited and experienced terrible diarrhea on at least one occasion, and every month filthy drips from her cunt (which must be shaven - girls have body hair too, some even have to shave their faces). She has probably fucked many men, and even if you could have sex with her she wouldn't think about you. If anything she'd probably wish one of her earlier lovers was with her instead because you'll never come close to him either in size or technique.
If you have any associated fetishes then avoid those steps.
>>28440065
>tfw fapping to 3D porn
>can't get hard for gourgous girls
>only get horny to fat ugly bbws girls.
>not because I find them attractive but because I feel like the gorgeous girls think i'm disgusting and all hate me and the bbws don't.
This is why I fap to mostly 2D, 2D is a fantasy a fantasy that no one can fulfill even Chad. There are people out there that can fuck non fat girls easily but i'm not one of them.
>inb4 you should just fuck a fat girl.
I don't want to fuck someone just because they are desperate and as lonely as I am. Why is it people think robots should just settle for anything and not be happy?
Fap to nothing but boyish traps and bara for a year
>>28440065
rape someone so the courts will chemically castrate you
>>28441046
bara is tumblrized yaoi for fat, lumpy queens. no fucking thanks
>>28441075
Courts can't order chemical castration, can they? That's cruel and unusual punishment.
>>28441172
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chemical_castration#United_States_2
why am i googling things for you
>>28441046
>bara
muh nigga
>>28441110
>he doesn't like masculine men
I bet you're not even gay
>>28440178
Absolute fucking bullshit. I demand a source.
>>28440965
>/thread
but Ill add stop watching porn. you gotta unlink that (see girl ---> horny tingles ---> must orgasm) chain.
>>28441304
I google things for people all the time. That's just part of how the sharing of information goes, anon. I'd heard of it being used as a potential option for sex offenders on parole and that kind of thing, but it's hard to believe the state could really mandate or enforce something like this. It seems barbaric, but recidivism rates are so high among this group of offenders maybe there isn't much choice other than that or to lock them up and throw away the key. Anyway, maybe OP should go on medroxyprogesterone acetate. No more sex drive!
>>28440065
in the first place you have to realize that physical attraction isn't everything. if you want girl only because how she looks like you are going to fail so hard. you will oversee any flaws she has and endure so much suffering while trying to keep that relationship going on.
also they look good on picture. but they ain't going to wear make up all the time. make up and cuddling / sex doesn't get together very well.
and worst case scenario, cut of your balls and it will stop.
