Looking to get over mine because she's ignoring me, and it's not the first time either. We would talk, which would make me extremely happy, and then she'd just ignore me for a week until she's ready to talk to me again. I'm tired of this. I'm just going to ignore her until she's begging me to talk, otherwise I'll just cut her off. No point in a one-sided relationship.
Some motivation:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA
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how is that not original
You have to realize that you are just a side character in her story, she's the protagonist in yours.
She probably likes you as a person, considers a good friend etc but nothing more.
Either accept this or move on.
>>28423996
This is exactly why I'm just going to ignore her, not because I'm mad and want to get back at her, but to see whether she cares enough to keep me around
>>28423125Josh?
better to just ignore her completely and remove her from your life, yes it will hurt like a motherfucker but eventualy you will forget and get bored, its way better to be completely alone
>>28424162nope
Honestly if that's what she wants then I see no reason not to remove her from my life
>>28424209
Does she know how you feel?
Is she doing this to piss you off or for your own good?
>>28423125
My girlfriend is kind of like this. She's low-maintenance to the point of frustration. It's always tempting to give in to self-doubt, but I know she just doesn't need to talk as often as I like to. There are a lot of couples where both are like this and they only talk every few days.
Basically, don't doubt yourself if you know she's into you.
>>28424225
I don't even act like I have oneitis. She probably doesn't know, and has just became distant these past few weeks. I see her around campus a lot, and it's almost like she's spending less time with me and more time with her other circles, which means that she shouldn't have an excuse for this. It also feels like she's become more uncomfortable around me, again, for no reason.
>>28424277
>My girlfriendfuck)off_nigger
>>28424335
Have you tried asking her out? /originality/
>>28424225
I should also mention that we haven't done anything together. We are just good friends. I'm not an orbiter either.
>>28424375
see
>>28424388
I've been considering it this past month, and then she decided to start ignoring me, which means to me that she's not really into me.
>>28424430
>>28424388
well fuck i cant really help with that anon since mine straight up denied me when i confessed
i could give you advice on how to "get over" her but you dont seem too troubled
>>28424681
Yeah, I'm alright. Was hoping for some /oneitis/ stories but nobody is replying. Used to be a pretty good general thread.
>>28424775
well i could post mine i suppose
>was childhood friend and crush but went to another town
>met her again 7 years later (when i was 19)
>quickly fell inlove and depression because she was (and maybe still is) taken
>enter orbit obsession mode
>also forsed to wageslave hard physical low pay labor at the same time
>while her chad was just living comfily with her thanks to wealthy perents
>eventually spill my spaghetti and get denied
>by this time alcoholism spirals out of control
>she cuts off all contact
>become /JUST/ incarnate
>several months later she decided to check up on me via chat (probably validation)
>chat with her a few times but one day she doesent reply and i decide i should not try anymore since i was starting to feel worse
>never write to her again, since our parents are neighbors, i always try to avoid her like the devil
and thats pritty much it, its been over two years , i am still alone, i am still sad, but life can be good aslong as i dont think about her or get any ideas about other girls
BUMP
PUMB
>>28425009
The key is to differentiate between abundance and scarcity. I'm not really into PUA but these guys really make some good points. And as the other anon said, make sure that you're the protagonist in your life. I usually wake up thinking about her, fall asleep thinking about her and throughout the day, when I'm not busy, she usually pops into my mind and I find it difficult to get her out. You have it much worse than me though
>>28423125
I got over mine pretty quickly
Probably becauseI'm a faggot and there's a close to zero % chance, but also accepting that I am not worthy of anything helps
I go on /r9k/ after all, enough proof that there's something wrong with me. If I was normal, I wouldn't know what this board even was.
>>28425186
>If I was normal, I wouldn't know what this board even was.
Fuck.
Hey OP,
It's been 21 days since she spoke to me and the maximum was 71.
Just letting you know it doesn't get any easier
>>28425545
it does when the last time you spoke was march the 8th 2014
>>28425545
Yeah you should just cut her off. You're in the no-hope zone.
Watch the video in the OP, it should help.
I've had it for the past 3 years.
I've known of her for like 6 years and always thought she was attractive but actually got to know her 3 years ago and instantly fell head over heels.
We got along so well. We would talk 24/7 even though I was an awkward fuck with awful social anxiety at the time, she was the only person I felt comfortable around and the only person I enjoyed talking to.
2 years ago I moved to the other side of the planet. I really regret not kissing her when we said our goodbyes. I haven't seen her in person since but we've kept in close contact and talk literally every day despite the time difference and distance. The distance has arguably brought us closer, as weird as that sounds. I never lost feelings for her.
It's gotten to the point where I think she may have feelings for me, but I'm terrified of my feelings for her and I'm too afraid to tell her. Especially considering we live so far apart and I'm not going to see her for another year and a half minimum.
Forgot to mention that we dated very briefly like right before I moved, so there is previous chemistry, but it was very brief so not much at all. We didn't really do anything because I was an awkward fuck.
>>28425836
And your relationship is still fine? She's still into you?
>>28425926
We're extremely close.
>>28425953
Ah, good for you then.
![f53ab9226509a8546e3f0d812d832c7f[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/GexP2IP.jpg "f53ab9226509a8546e3f0d812d832c7f[1].jpg")
>meet qt
>hang out with her after class a few times
>one day she asks me to go out for dinner and drinks
>try and kiss her at the end and get rejected
>cool off and stop trying
>still see her in class
>she begins prying if i'm dating anyone
>give vague answer that implies I am
Still don't give a shit. If it was going to happen it would have happened months ago.
>>28426112
Well it's pretty shite because I'm pretty much stuck in love with her, terrified of my feelings for her, and knowing that a relationship with her is near impossible.
>last time I said anything to her was "hi" at a bar
>that was two years ago
>still think about her almost everyday
>pic related every time I attempted to "talk" to her
