How old are you virgins and have you given up yet?
>22
>almost
I've been looking through tinder and even though I haven't gotten any matches, I realise I don't want any matches because all these women repulse me. None of them are what I want in a partner. I know tinder women aren't exactly representative of the female community but they are a common denominator of sorts.
18
I think I could get laid if I really wanted to, but I've taken my vows as a Wizard.
21
it only enters my mind when i visit this board
/justturnedlegal/ still have an ounce of hope because im still in hs
>>28415132
19
idk
I haven't stated in any way that I've "completely given up", but I find it pointless to bother looking for love and just let what ever happens come naturally, even if it never happens, I guess that's what never having a gf does.
right now I'm getting my life together and looking towards trying to be happy without a gf.
19 (two months until 20)
Two decades already. Holy shit.
I am two strikes away from getting kicked out of the most important University in my country, mostly for being a fucking lazy faggot. This is making internal conflicts in my family.
I am working my ass off on the video game of my dreams, turns out I'm pretty good at this (the ONLY thing I'm good at).
I swear if I get kicked out and/or my game flops I'll contemplate committing sudoku.
>>28415132
24
Given up almost completely
Maybe a miracle can still save me, but as far as I am concerned I will most likely die alone without ever anybody loving me. It's fine
22. Need to figgure something out. I don't want to be a wizard.
24. I lost my desire for a woman roughly 6 months ago, I don't know what caused me to lose that desire as it happened pretty suddenly, like from one week to the next.
Logically speaking though, its unlikely I would have found what I was looking for in a partner anyways.
>>28415132
18
Yeah I've given up, having been too anxious to ever REALLY try
>>28415575
If thats you, you'll definitely find a qt. Dw about it m8.
>>28415619
Keep in mind that that was a "good picture" of me that I tried for, I usually look much worse (and normally wear glasses). My horrible hair isn't visible in the pic thanks to the hat
This pic is what I more normally look like...
>>28415132
>24
>pretty much
I'm a lot thinner than I was a couple of years ago and I'm in training for a potentially good job, so hope isn't quite dead yet, but it's on life support.
>>28415132
I'm 22. Honestly I've never really found the idea of casual sex very appealing. Sex should be something shared between a couple who love each other in my opinion. I've never really come across a 3D girl who has caught my attention in that way though. There's also the fact that I am genuinely more attracted to 2D girls sexually and aesthetically. When it comes down to it I'd rather masturbate to a sexy anime girl than try and have disappointing sex with a woman I don't love and don't find particularly attractive.
I think I'm just a bit of an oddball in that I don't really care about being a virgin. I can't crave what I have never tasted, in this case romantic affection / attention.
>I've been looking through tinder
That is probably the worst place to look for any kind of decent relationship. It's just male sluts looking for female sluts so that they can engage in casual sexual liaisons.
Also you have excellent taste in 2D girls OP.
28
It's a wizard's life for me.
>>28415132
22 years old khv. Gave up about half a year after enrolling in a university(between 18 and 19)
>>28415673
You look like a shitty cosplayer. Get a better cut you fucking mongrel. And lose the headphones. Be a normie and take a bathroom selfie.
>>28415673
Yeah still nothing to worry about tbqh. If you can get confident, you'll have no problem. I guess the confidence is the hardest part for most of us here though!
>>28415568
>>28415716
I was a 24 yo virgin too. Then out of fucking nowhere I met a girl that I started to "date", or whatever you call it. I basically never made any moves other than ask her out for drinks etc because I was way too scared of doing something awkward. She basically took all the initiatives, first kiss, sex, everything.
Now she's my girlfriend from 6 months. I told her a few months in that she was the first one I've been with, which she was surprised to hear, but after telling her that, our relationship got even stronger as she felt happy that I could tell her something like that, she really trusts me now.
So try to see you virginity as something positive, when you do meet a girl and tell her, she will most likely think you're brave rather than a weirdo, at least mine did. Plus, it's not as bad as you think, sure most people have had sex when they're in their 20ies, but it's far from as bad as you guys think, it's all in your head.
>22
Unless I can unfuck my shit by losing weight and getting a job I can't see it happening. Even then its a big ask.
>>28415819
Thanks dude. This makes me feel like I've still got a chance. Your gf sounds wonderful.
>>28415819
>I was a 24 yo virgin too. Then out of fucking nowhere I met a girl that I started to "date", or whatever you call it. I basically never made any moves other than ask her out for drinks etc because I was way too scared of doing something awkward. She basically took all the initiatives, first kiss, sex, everything.
I'm happy for you, but I don't fancy my own chances of this happening.
>>28415132
>22
I already wrote the story of giving up yesterday, but I'll write it again.
>approach a girl at 13
>get BTFO to the next level
>basically made one of her roastie friends tell me that she's not interested
>(didn't even get put in the friendzone, it's just straight up 100% rejection)
>never been interested in a girl or a relationship since then>pic is mfw i get proxy-rejected
>>28415819
You must be really good looking.
>>28415878
>>28415895
There's always a chance, much bigger than you think. You'll both meat someone, I'm sure of it.
>>28415989
I'm not very attractive at all, which I know she doesn't think I am, however I've always been a very nice guy and caring. My gf had only been with douchebags etc before and been treated badly, she always says she never thought a guy could be as nice as me.
>>28416036
You have literally settled for an ex slut who's decided to "settle down".
Why would you do this to yourself?
>>28415459
What's the game about?
>>28416051
I'm happy and she's happy.
>>28416066
post a pic of the two of you?
>>28416064
Can't say atm, but I'm pretty confident of it. I've honestly never seen anything like it before.
>>28415132
20, given up.
29
Haven't given up, but the hope has turned corrosive and is eating me up from the inside.
20
I currently have a gf tho.
Does it make me asexual if om a virgin still at 21 and im sexually attractive to women but i dont want nothing to do with them and i really dont care if i ever get a gf right now? I couldn't care less about women or sex but i still fap to porn. I'm just too happy being alone, it's all ive ever known. If somebody tried to seduce me (lol) i would not ever care.
19 and yes. If it happens then awesome, but I know already that whenever I meet someone new they aren't going to be somebody who would be a good match. What is the point in getting my hopes up anymore? At least now I can move past it and work on getting a better personality, if anything it would increase my chances and maybe it would have more impact on me as a lesson, me being sad and single and alone
>>28415132
>20
>Nope
I made a tulpa gf, so there's definitely sex in my future, but she wants to wait until we're married.
25 in less than 3 months and conformed that I will die a kissless virgin.
>>28416149
I know that feel. Some people say you can be considered asexual, because you don't feel sexual attraction, some say you can't be considered ace because masturbation is basically sex with yourself (imo this is a bullshit meme; if masturbation is equal to sex, i must've lost my virginity at 11)
I generally ditched all the labels because from my experience, someone will always be triggered when you call yourself asexual. (I find that rather ironic because it's usually exactly these SJWs who say that sexual and gender identification is up to the individual)
In case you don't care at all, I'm sorry, I just needed to vent a bit.
>>28415132
>22
>Yes/No
I only say that because I still have a few dating profiles that I check every now and then and might message a girl if i'm drunk enough, I still have them but I don't take them seriously in the slightest.
But for the most part I really stopped caring, I know i'm not fir for a gf and I could never get one that i'm actually attracted to. So I just stopped caring, also there are much more important things in life to worry about anyway.
>>28415132
23 and honestly i'm pretty okay with it
I dont even fap any more
i guess my sexual drive is just gone
18
I'm only four months after becoming /legal/, and I've already realized the reason why most of you are thinking that women are all evil and loveless bitches is because you're trying to force relationships. When I was 16 (which wasn't that long ago considering it's only been two years) I too had the whole "I GOTTA LOSE IT" mentality, but it just doesn't work unless you're a natural Chad or pickup artist. I had friends who would say they would try and get me a gf, but as I got older I found the whole concept to be really shitty (and the oldest lie from the start) especially considering the people I've met IRL are nowhere near as desirable than people I've met online. It's just a matter of knowledge and similar interests.
Nobody was ever meant to "engineer" sex - it's like creating a fake relationship that will certainly not last long, which is where the whole cuck thing even came from. Sexual relationships nowadays are unfortunately about status. No matter how dramatized people make them out to be they are still about status. Neither man or woman was ever meant to enter multiple relationships unless either of them knew they were the one. Sex was about reproduction long before contraception was invented - this is where the concept of martial sex came from in the first place.
You know that realm with all the nigger memes, the baes, the emoji and social media? Any "relationship" there is just friendship with sex. Contrary to popular belief, virginity ages like fine wine for both genders - the sweet spot is probably between the ages of 17-25 - when young adults have found themselves and have entered the truly adult world. Don't waste your time looking for sex unless you're a Chad. If you're not ugly and unlikable just get on with life - assuming you're going through college / university / work where you interact daily, you should meet someone eventually.
They have to be attracted to you too, you know?
>22
>pretty much given up
should I move onto wizchan? is it better for real virgins than this normie infested cesspit?
>>28415132
>21
>given up for the moment
I asked 2 girls out recently and got turned down so I'm just kinda over it for the moment. I'll just work on getting my life together and try it again when I got a decent income.
>>28416427
>tfw too "normie" for wizchan
>tfw too robot for /r9k/
Where the fuck do I go
Almost 24.
I'm getting increasingly angry as I see people who can get sex easily and the biggest difference is that these people got lucky when being born to be tall, good looking etc. It's not fair.
>25
>gave up when I graduated high school a KHV
Never tried to even speak to women. I've accepted that I will never have a relationship and decided that even if women approach me, I will reject them. Gonna die how I lived, alone. Already made peace with that.
26, female.
KHHHV, only got eyes for onii-chan.
>>28415973
I saw you post this yesterday, can you elaborate on
>BTFO to the next level
What did she say?
>>28415973
Something similar to me happend in high school.
>Its homecomeing week
>School always has some break during this week to where you can walk around the school and hang out for a couple of hours.
>made plans to ask out crush during this time.
>told some of my friends so they can help convince me to do it.
>after about an hour of finally putting it off during the break muster up the courage to do it.
>Looking for girl throughout the school and find her landwhale freind.
>Landwhale makes fun of me asking me if I asked her out yet.
>mfw I didn't tell her that I was going to do it since I never talked to her.
>one of my friends somehow leaked the info.
>landwhale and crush were best friends so crush definitely knew too.
>Chicken out after that, go to the court and wallow in self pity.
>freinds come to console me.
>crush walks up to me looking for her friend doesn't even acknowledge me.
>couldn't look her in the eye, so my freinds helped her find her friend.
>fast foward a week to that monday.
>crush is in my 1st period class with me
>she sits beside my desk and flat out rejects me without me ever asking where other people cam clearly hear her.
>I wanted to literally die inside.
Granted its my own fault for not makeing a move on her, its not her fault i'm so beta that I couldn't of done it sooner after I had liked her for 2 years prior. Also its my fault that I told a friend and the info ended up getting leaked.
But that still didn't make me want to die inside any less.
21 here.
Anyone else here literally NEVER tried? I'm a total introvert and I'm not great looking but I work out and try to take care of myself, but I'm just generally not interested and figure that if it happens it happens. I'd imagine its not hard to pull drunk sluts on a night out if you actually wanted to. There are always desperate people looking to tongue anything that moves.
>>28418051
How can you say its easy if you have literally never tried as you stated.
Its soul crushing,Makes you feel like shit time after time and when people say its not that hard or u just gotta bee urself Its like getting a slap in the face.
When beeing yourself gets you no where its a tough thing to realize that the other side doesnt even give the single bit of a glance towards you.
>22
Deadline is 25, probably sooner.
24
Actually decided to bite the bullet and make arrangements to lose it to a friend of mine. We'll see how I feel about it afterward.
i was an alpha as fuck chad and had boned 4 girls by the time i was 15
from then on i have never touched a female again
>>28415278
20
Same
Kinda upsets me that so many people think of sex so much
23 year old female virgin. No chance of me losing it now, it's too late
>>28418051
Yeah, I'm >>28416745
Never tried, so I assumed I'm ugly as fuck. I don't go out of my way to speak to women. I figured if a woman was interested in me, she'd come talk to me. And it hasn't happened yet.
>>28418458
>No chance of me losing it now
You'd be suprised
25 here.
I plan on seeing an escort soon, so no, not given up. But I have given up on losing it without having to pay.
>>28415132
Just turned 20.
Had opportunities, but I'm basically asexual so never really went for it.
If I'm going to have sex, it will be with a girl I've been dating for a while and even then only if she asks me to. I'd only do it to be nice really.
>>28418492
Being a virgin is only cute if you're a teenager. Being a virgin female in your 20s is very undesirable
>>28418529
Just go tell Chad you want to fuck if you want to lose it so dumb, dumbass roastie.
Then get off my board.
>>28418529
>virgin female in your 20s is very undesirable
It would be weird but not undesirable, a virgin female in her 30s would be undesirable, though.
>>28418529
I'm sure there are lots of guys who have a fetish for taking virginities.
Plus I'm sure you could get just about any bot on here to rail you.
>>28418529
I would want a virgin. For marriage and spending eternity together of course. Not just sex.
>>28418546
could you please fuck off to /adv/ you god damn NORP scum
>>28418529
As long as you work at making yourself look your best and have a nice personality most guys would love to have a girl thats never had dick in her, it's not like you're 28 or some shit.
Don't delude yourself.
>>28415132
> 23
> female
> never even kissed a guy
> given up
>>28418581
>never kissed a guy
>has kissed plenty of Chad dicks
tricky roastie
>>28418581
Look, it's a simple fucking solution.
Just hook up with one of the faggots whining about their virginity in this thread.
Meet up, have a few minutes (or seconds really) of terrible virgin sex and move on.
Women that are virgins are desirable, men that are virgins are not. If you're a woman and still a virgin, save it till you are married. All guys appreciate and love that.
>>28415132
These fuckers are mostly18-22; stupid little bitches whinging about nothing.
>28, almost a real wizard
>>28418541
I've been turned down by plenty of men because of it
>lose it so dumb, dumbass
Okay anon
>>28418576
I'm not going to embarrass myself again. I'm not attractive enough for sex
>19
>no, but close
I almost got laid last night. She was naked. I wasn't hard. I know I'll get other chances, but maybe I'm too far gone.
>>28418660
Just lose weight, you fucking idiot.
The only thing a woman has to do to have sex is not be fat.
>>28415132
Almost 25 and I've given up.
I'm far too ugly for anyone to have sex with let alone fall in love with. I don't even care that much about sex. I want a loyal partner to spend my life with, but I'll never have it so I might as well kill myself.
Idk, whenever I feel "strange" I masturbate and then my mind turns to other things.
>>28418698
It would be amazing if weight were the issue
>>28418660
I've fucked (albeit the same girl) hundreds of times. I'll be more than happy to bust your hymen.
>>28418617
Any takers?
No?
Okay.
It's not that easy. Besides I bet none of you even live in my country.
>>28418749
If you're not fat or black, I'm in.
See, it's that easy for a woman.
>>28418660
>I've been turned down by plenty of men because of it
This this the neverhappenest thing that never happened ever.
>mfw almost 25
>mfw I can't even bring myself to look at women'a faces in the street anymore
The fact that I also have no life goals or hopes for this world left doesn't help... I might an hero pretty soon.
>>28415132
>22
>I've given up on life entirely
Once you realize that you've never had a friend and that interacting with people terrifies you, it's all over, all hope is extinguished.
>>28415132
23 I feel similar to OP
>girl seems like we would be compatible, she is vastly more successful than I am
>girl is attractive but nuts/retarded
>>28415132
not that I given up
I rather just stay a virgin for those sweet azz ultimate grand wizard powers.
Turning 27 this year. My attitude is that someone pretty much have to forcibly take me if I get to be intimate with someone. Started getting myself in shape to better the odds before I am 30.
>>28418529
I want to murder whoever put that thought in your head. Fuck it makes me so angry to see teenage girls fuck some random guy because they think being a virgin is a bad thing.
>>28418782
I'm not black, I'm fat. - sorry bro.
I have no problem meeting guys online, I have a really nice face. I get tonnes of chads liking my profiles. It's my body that is fucked up. I'm tall and wide ( 1.8 m and weigh 93 kg) yes, I am working out and losing weight but I have no social life so I'll be a virgin forever.
>>28418739
Won't work if you're on the other side of the world
>>28418855
But it is. Losing your virginity as a teenage girl means you're desirable
>>28418895
>Won't work if you're on the other side of the world
Where are you from
>>28418887
Then just lose weight. Stop stuffing your face with McDonalds.
The only thing that prevents a woman from getting laid is her weight. There's about 10+ things that prevent men from getting laid. I have absolutely no sympathy for you, piggy.
>>28418908
>Where are you from
Russia but in Ukraine at the moment
>>28418928
Yeah, that's fine, I am losing weight and working out twice daily. But it's not the only thing. Im shy. I can't even make friends. So I have 2 things. Im solving the one.
>>28418887
fuck 180 lbs and I'd fuck ya for sure, goddamn more cushion for the fucking pushing. by the way you were talking I thought you were 250 or something
>>28418962
Fly to US and I'll fuck your brains out for free
>>28418838
To add to this: I've been propositioned by a couple of nice looking girls in my time but every time the situation has been problematic either socially or I've not been brave enough to return the interest.
24. And yeah I have.
>>28418887
Facepic?
All that's important to me really since you aren't a ham planet.
>>28415673
The picture without your glasses prove that you can look good if you changed some things,
The main things to change are to cut your hair and change your glasses (Your glasses play a huge part in how you look, good glasses will make you look much better).
>>28418887
I know you got shy and deleted the pic, but you are gorgeous and I'm not entirely sure why you think being a virgin in your 20's makes you undesirable.
>>28419552
You look like the average slavshit. You should be fine. Have more confidence in yourself.
Try to understand that there are actually ugly people here that are actual losers.
>>28415266
you still have time
>>28419703
Thanks :) guys generally like someone more experienced ( the ones I have spoken to online) and in real life I don't meet people. I work at a company that is 95% female and when I'm not working I'm studying towards my degree.
>>28420487
I'm a KV and I'd rather prefer her be the same tbqh, but I'm almost certain that is impossible.
the more experience meme is modern bullshit to try and justify sluts
25
my hope has been gone for years. i still have panic attacks about it though
>>28420699
I'm KV as well. I would prefer him to be the same or at least not that experienced. A guy I spoke to online had slept with/had oral with More than 14 girls and said that he wasn't sure how many girls he kissed because he was almost always blacked out drunk. I don't want to be judgmental but it was a huge turn off.
>>28415132
I'm 24, I gave up a long time ago when I was 15 I kind of always knew I would never have a gf because I saw what people around me highschool who get gfs were like and knew I didn't have the mindset that it takes.
Because JUST fuck my life up family.
>>28421102
>>28421102
It's like you used the same camera everyone uses to capture " paranormal activity"
But you don't look bad dude. You could get a girl. I like chubby brunette guys.
>>28421205
Well I only have a shitty 8 year old phone for a camera.
>>28420885
You spoke to Chad lel
24
I'm doomed
also can I use tinder without a fb account
>>28416678
Try being a cyborg, bro. Can't talk about my life because I get REEEE'd at and called a failed normie, even though I'm a KHHV. Wizchan would run me out of town as well. Feels bad man.
>>28415132
19 turning 20 this yr
almost completely given up
>20
>pretty much
I take some pride in being a lonely HKV. I love when friends/family ask, "Anon, met any nice girls lately?" And I just nonchalantly reply with a simple no. I like to wallow in my own despair, helplessness, and self pity. Sometimes I daydream about having a girlfriend, but I know reality would be far from the idyllic fantasy I have in my mind.
>>28415132
>35
>long time ago
Seems the older I'm getting the more I tend to stray off into my own little world kek, mayhap the destination is a rather somber place, but the trip so far has been very pleasant and effortless.
>29
>haven't exactly given up
i'd still like to lose it just so i don't become a wizard, but it's probably not going to happen.
i'm extremely lazy and autist, so i figure the only way i'm going to lose it is if pussy falls out of the sky and lands directly on my dick
>>28421595
>19
I feel quite like you described. Slowly I'm starting to feel like I'm getting memed into "le giving up on women".
>>28421653
Believe me, once you graduate college and settle into a job where you're working with old women and men, you will never have a chance at meeting women again.
So being less than 24 and giving up is retarded.
24 years of age monsieur
>>28421693
Yeah I had to learn that the hard way. All you guys that are trying to rush into a "career" need to slow down if you don't have a serious gf, because out in the real world its extremely fucking hard to meet available women. Bars are pretty much your only option at that point.
19 (20 soon)
No job
Still live at home
Not yet, but I probably will
>30
>khv
I dont care anymore if i lose it or not (never did care much about it). I rather focus on my job, vidya, chinese cartoons and saving some money to buy a second car that i can take for a drive on a sunny weekend.
>>28421598
>Seems the older I'm getting the more I tend to stray off into my own little world kek, mayhap the destination is a rather somber place, but the trip so far has been very pleasant and effortless.
I'm a year your senior and I have to confess I've always envied my fellow wizards who have been able to find some peace with their situation. It's something I hoped I would attain given sufficient time and disappointment, and yet that sort of nirvana continues to elude me.
As time has gone by, the Spirit of Nature that drives one to desire sexual affection hasn't diminished in me. Rather, the passage of year upon year has done nothing but made it sick, twisted it into something malformed, mean, demonic. And I don't think there is an exorcist skilled enough to drive that demon out.
I gain a bit of respite with liquor, but as I continue on my current trajectory, it takes more and more alcohol to achieve those fleeting moments of peace.
The best a demoniac can hope for are chains to bind him. It's no small concern for me that even my chains are beginning to rust and rot. On that day they finally fall away for good, what recourse does someone like me have?
I'm 24 and almost gave up. it wasn't until shortly after my 24th birthday 6 months ago that I finally got laid. Moved in with my friend and his gf because they needed a roommate to help with expenses. found out after I moved in that they kinda have an open relationship and she was dtf. So I awkwardly lost my v-card to my friends gf and been fucking her and screwing around with her ever since.
19 turning 20 in 3 months.
I'm so engrossed in my escapism that it really doesn't bother me anymore.
I'm currently convincing myself that 2D women are better, hopefully that can soothe me
31 in july
gave up (very) early on in college
>>28415132
22 next month
I don't know.
I message people on okcupid but never get replies
>2 people like you
I didn't try (relationship wise) at school and hoped college would do something.
Then I hoped something would happen at university.
I've got a job, but there's no qts or anyone even close to my age.
There's been a few meetup.com clubs I've been thinking of attending, maybe.
>>28415132
21, given up four years ago.
There is no happiness at the end of it.
25, gave up when 12. Considering un-giving up and signing up to okc. Refuse to tinder because jewbook.
>>28415673
Just get a haircut and lose the glasses. At least buy other.
24, yes. I'm small and not very social (will probably lose all acquaintances once I'm finally done with uni), there is no reason for a woman to pick me when there are so many better looking and more successful men out there.
22
Still trying but seeing that Im becoming more and more of a socially inept shut in retard by the day I should just give up and stop pretending there's any hope
>>28415132
19
I have given up. No one wants to fuck me
>>28415132
I'm 26, I haven't given up, but I definitely feel a lot less than I did in my late teens and early 20s. I don't find myself caring very often at all, which has its pros and cons. I honestly think if I really couldn't form a relationship I might just pay for a whore at 28. Things aren't actually so bad but I have been drinking everyday quite extensively this year. At least I still have friends even if no one lives here anymore. Good relationship with family as well.
22 here. I've given up as I've used up every method I've had to meet women and they've all said no.
>>28421102
Did you rub chapstick on the lens?
I'm pretty sure if I become a wizard I'll sort of act like a wandering cleric and baller around converting people.
>>28422864
Nope, sitting next to a window.
>>28422905
Move away from the window and get a better pic
21
>implying I tried in the first place
Fuck that, I'm not letting bitches get any of my mana.
>>28422094
>The best a demoniac can hope for are chains to bind him. It's no small concern for me that even my chains are beginning to rust and rot. On that day they finally fall away for good, what recourse does someone like me have?
When you hit that point, which if I'm interpreting you right may be your final moment, maybe you'll ask yourself whether it was worth sticking around all this while, hopefully you'll see values beyond your involuntary celibacy.
>>28422930
Well shit, picture still looks fucked up. Don't know what more I can do. My phone is shit.
>>28415673
Grow out a beard without a moustache and you'll look like pic related. I'm telling you man, maybe you can be like those guys imitating Ryan Gosling in Drive and get a gf imitating Gendo.
22
Don't think anyone's worth my time, so i give up
>>28415568
I can understand. It's just that no one seems to be worth living with
26 and was pretty much born giving up. Sure, hugs and cuddles would be nice. But a relationship is too much for me, having kids is too much, etc.
>>28423196
Original commentaru, senpai
>>28415132
29. I kind of gave up around 27. Still, hope is almost impossible to get rid of. If I could see into my future and confirm I will be alone forever, I could finally move on and possibly be happy.
>>28423060
>hopefully you'll see values beyond your involuntary celibacy.
The thing of it all is that I recognize that even now. During those brief periods of lucidity when I can evaluate life rationally, I recognize there is so much more than sex to be enjoyed and valued. There are beautiful works of literature to be read, works of art to be appreciated, lofty thoughts to be contemplated and all of that.
The problem being is that Mother Nature cares very little for those rational moments, and she has proven time and time again she is stronger than any of them. Yes, she often presents herself as a blind and idiot goddess, but she is a goddess all the same. No man can kill a goddess. How much less hope a man has of ever driving one out!
There may be some chance of exorcising a demon that comes from Satan, I suppose. But what if that demon comes from God?
>>28422094
You are the only tripfag I truly love.
>>28415132
23, I stopped using online dating websites and apps like tinder.
I keep interactions with women to a minimum ( if they are in the same society groups as me) and only nessasary interactions to the women of the wider world.
Learning to accept myself for who I am and to be okay with being alone has brought me more innerpeace than a women could ( as they may give me happiness and peace for a time but they can also take it away)
>>28415533
I lost it at 24; don't give up
>>28423518
How did you lose it?
Meeting new people at 24 is impossible unless you have friends or tinder.
>>28423535
Reconnected with a girl from high school at a mutual friends funeral. Fast forward a month.
>20, but turning 21 in 2 months
Yeah, I've given up. Don't get matches on tinder and other apps (I've tried them all), I'm below average in looks, and all girls I've approached laughed me off after I speak.
>"b-but try talking to girls to get better at talking to them."
Kind of impossible if none will give me a chance online or off.
>"get /fit/"
I'm average weight, and somewhat muscular. So that's not the problem.
Now something that will actually help me out, is telling me where to sign up for the future wizards registration. I'm gonna need that.
Does anyone else here frequently imaging a potential life that runs alongside your own?
I think back to the opportunities I had and either turned down or messed up, all the things I could have done and the forks in the road they may have been, and I imagine what I myself could be like now, happy and fulfilled and on my way to success rather than the person I am now. It really is depressing to think this way.
>>28415132
22
I gave up at around 19, then I un-gave up and now I might lose it soon if I play my cards right. I've completely given up on tinder, okcupid, any kind of online dating because I've had no luck with it and I fucking hate conversing through text, I do way better in person.
>>28421102
looks scarily like me
>>28415132
>How old are you virgins
21
>have you given up yet?
I don't know...
I can't bring myself to believe that anybody would ever be attracted to me yet I can't bring myself to be completely hopeless. I think I'm just being irrational by holding on to hope but it's the only thing that keeps me from being suicidal.
>>28416087
>I've honestly never seen anything like it before
keep telling yourself this, the higher you get with it the harder you'll fall and the harder il enjoy
>>28423754
Wow rude!
Of course I don't think it is a GOTY just because. In fact, I don't think it's that fun to play.
>19
>about to go to collage
>there is a hope
I hate you thirsty white knight fags ITT so much.
>>28424042
I'm in your same shoes, but I have this lingering fear that things won't change. I haven't even talked to a female peer for so long.
>>28424094
Very butthurt
>>28415132
I'm also 22. Bought an onahole.
I'm embracing the dark arts of wizardry.
Contemplating trying to do one of those tulpa things. Even if it's not real seems like a good excercise for my purposes of wanting to train my memory, mathematic computation, and creative writing skills.
>>28424809
>onahole
wich one did you get?
tought about getting lilith uterus, but im not sure.
>>28424991
Lolinco Virgo. It's the only one I own and I've only had it for a week. It feels nice I suppose. I think it's mostly the lube though. Get plenty of good lube.
>tfw I wanna fuck anime girls
>>28425087
VR and sexbots, my friend. The future will save us!
>>28425146
I'm too poor though
>>28415132
>26 in less than a month
>Long time ago
I'm not attractive. I don't relate to the vast majority of people I know, or people I meet. It's been long over for me.
>>28425256
Just become a wizard. Why would you want to give up fantastic magic powers for some whore?
>20
>yes
I gave up at 17 when I realized my dick wasn't going to grow past 3 inches. Also what stopped me from getting into social situations and going to parties because if I could somehow get a girl to fuck me I'd be too embarrassed about it.
>>28415132
>20
>Nope
Honestly, I haven't even attempted to get a gf, if I get some good pictures of myself then I might get matches on Tinder, I'll try oneday.
30 years unloved,
where my wizard broskies at?
Drank a 40,
my wizardry is OD! (Kill me lol)
The pain really hits me when I am out in public
and see happy couples, or meet people that
presumed I have had sex, because all adults
have had sex right, if only they knew my
disparity. Also, my life isn't going anywhere,
oddly enough, I am not suicidal.
>>28415673
you have no chance, give up
>>28425256
Wait until you get your wizard powers before you lose your virginity. Of the billions of people currently living in this world, very few can claim that title.
I could probably end up fucking someone or getting fucked if I wasn't such a fucking retard
>>28425475
The creed of /r9k/ everyone
>>28425475
>l could probably end up fucking someone or getting fucked if I wasn't such a fucking retard
>>28425516
What?
It is original, you cunt
>>28415673
Don't listen to the fags who want you to becone a normie. You're perfect the way you are. You seem like you would be a pretty good friend of mine tho...I-I wish I had a friend.
>19 here
>haven't ever had a gf, still a virgin
>Christian
>low self esteem
>have tons of friends
>just looking for a virgin girl to fall in love with
>>28425659
>Christian
Why should that come into the equation of virginity?
I'm 24 and I love being a virgin because self pleasure is much easier and fun than sex. I can fantasise about any guy I like and touch myself to erotica/dating sims/smutty novels. Additionally, no one will ever confirm my body insecurities. Worst case scenario I can imagine is a guy dumping me and reading a list of all the things he finds gross about my body which are true.
>>28425688
Because I am practicing abstinence until marriage, but I still get those sexual urges and it's tearing me apart from within my soul.
>>28415132
27, 28 in tho months.
Yes, I have already given up on having sex, I don't think it will ever happen. Tbh, I just want to find a girl that loves me, but I think there is 0 chance of that happening, since I'm intoverted, and never having had a girlfriend I would not know how to get one now.
Maybe when I'm older I will just pay a cute clean escort for the girlfriend experience.
>>28425705
Don't worry anon, you can vent here in peace.
>>28425659
tfw no christian 'wait until marriage' gf
>>28425796
Vent here in peace from what?
>>28425779
If all else fails, at least Jesus loves you. Can't get physical love from him, but at least the thought of someone loving you will hopefully help.
>>28425705
Orbiters in
3...
2...
>>28415132
26. I gave up at 23. No point in trying anymore. The only opportunities I have had the last few years are 400 lb women and single mothers. I would rather die a virgin at this point.
>21
Yes
In a relationship with someone who I feel doesn't love me, fat, ugly, useless. At least my job is easy and gets me through a month. Sometimes I feel like I should kill myself but I just don't have the balls yet so I'll keep going until I have nothing left to lose.
>>28425838
From the over sexualized society we live in. I am pretty much depressed from not having any gf but I just want to make others feel better. If I can't be happy, I just want others to not feel this pain inside. Better that I prop someone else up than die alone and selfish.
>>28425833
I know someone on my campus who is a virgin Christian girl....but she rejected me last semester because I was a bit awkward when trying to talk to her.......it hurts
>>28425855
> not shlicking with a crucifix
>>28425855
I'm an atheist
not original
>>28415673
even an ugly piece of shit can get a new gf every fucking week if he has enough self confidence desu
>>28425934
I'm a male tho, I can't do that
>>28425855
piss off with your fairy tale bullshit
>>28425939
Well, then just know that I'm rooting for ya. I don't think you are hopeless.
>>28425988
Hey, please be nice to me, I'm just trying to comfort others.
>>28425739
You realize most of the rules of christianity were put in place to govern ancient societies, right? The abstinence before marriage thing is not some holy soul saving practice, it was just to prevent STDs and bastard children from being as much of a problem. But we have these things called condoms now that you should try out, they pretty much accomplish the same thing.
Fun fact, you know how jews can't eat pork? That rule was put in around the time when people couldn't properly cook pork, it was banned to protect people from spoiled meat. Same deal with christians and sex, there's nothing spiritual about most rules in religion.
>>28425993
I don't even know you, Son of Man.
>>28425900
IKTFB. I just want social relations to be like they were before puberty with no sexual connotations whatsoever. Just people hanging out enjoying each other's company without thinking about sexing each other or competing for sex.
>>28426041
I would rather save my virginity for a virgin than lose it to some wretch that has already lost it to someone else.
>>28426071
It hurts being in this world. At least we have this chat to talk
>>28426041
>I'm 14
Thank you for enlightening us Johnny. What else did you learn at school today? You learn about how Washington didn't actually have wooden teeth? So interesting, please continue!
>>28426077
Hey, if that's your thing that's your thing, I'm just letting you know that you're probably gonna be waiting a long while, and in the meantime you're gonna have to suppress a powerful biological urge that you don't need to suppress.
>>28426147
Well at least you care enough to give me replies. It helps.
29yo neet. fat, live with parents.
it ain't ever happening. I try not to think about it.
>>28415459
28th of July here, also turning 20
I'm actually kinda a Chad, but I don't feel the need to loose my virginity. We'll see over the summer. Maybe some qt will talk to me.
>>28424042
Things will only be worse in college.
>originalo
>>28426133
kek I'm 22 and I learned that a couple months ago, I don't really pay attention to religious stuff but a jew friend of mine told me about it in conversation.
Just saying if your sexual urges are getting too strong there's nothing wrong with going out and trying to satisfy those urges. Your immortal soul will be just fine if you lose it before marriage.
>>28415132
24
No
After being a NEET for the last 6 miserable years contemplating suicide multiple times daily I decided that I need to at least give it my all to fix myself and improve my life before completely giving up.
Fuck videogames.
36
I gave up years ago, anon.
19, American college student. I've put effort in trying to become more attractive in the past year, including exercising and losing weight. That alone has made me feel better about myself, though there's more work to be done (I'm currently 5'8 tall, ~175 lbs, I'd like to get down to around 160 and kiss my man titties goodbye). But I'm also mixed race, which puts me at a disadvantage with a lot of women that aren't into dating outside their race (e.g. most women). It doesn't help that I've never even dated before and have no idea how to approach a girl and let her know I'm interested in her without coming off as a perverted bastard.
Ah well, worst case scenario, I'll just take a two week vacation to Vietnam and get in on that yellow fever
>>28426411
Why don't you go to wizardchan, ojii-san?
>>28426560
>175 lbs
>man titties
This is confusing me.
Do you have no bones or muscle in your body?
>>28426580
Be patient his time will come
>>28426580
Never really felt the need to. I've been coming here for about 10 years so I'm used to this place, I don't really have any interest in other chans.
Wizardchan looks depressing, honestly. I'm not upset about being a wizard. Not anymore at least.
>>28426611
My peak was 190 lbs, and while my man titties were never large enough to pass for those of a fanny granny, they were there. Granted, between running and lifting they're much smaller now, and hopefully they'll be gone by December if I continue as I have been doing
>>28426675
You don't really want to go there anyway. Half the people that go to wizardchan are in their 20's and think they can relate to us.
>21
I lost interest but I am also in poor physical health so my sex drive is gone. I figure ill get strong and if I discover a girl who interests me ill try it.
>>28426675
They literally have a board dedicated to depression so you would be right.
>>28416036
>I'm not very attractive at all, which I know she doesn't think I am, however I've always been a very nice guy and caring. My gf had only been with douchebags etc before and been treated badly, she always says she never thought a guy could be as nice as me.
I was so happy for you until I read this
>>28426560
To follow up on this, I also admit that my desire for sex would be a major, if not the primary motivation for me to pursue a relationship. However, I feel that this would be unfair towards any hypothetical girlfriend that I may have, as in they would more likely be interested in having an actual relationship instead of just having sex.
I would like to find someone with similar motivations to me in this regard, and when we are ready for an actual relationship, we could test the waters with each other or move on as friends, as unrealistic as that seems.
25. Never tried and I'm not that interested in trying.
I've accepted dying alone for the time being. The only way I can see myself losing it would be if I had some mid-life crisis in my 30s where I felt compelled to pass on my genes.
>>28415132
I'm 21.
I've got a small glimmer of hope left, but my main plan at this point is to attain enough material wealth to fill in the emotional holes that companionship normally would.
>>28426982
>emotional holes that companionship normally would.
You mean dragon dildos, right
>>28427105
I haven't reached that level of degeneracy yet, but I'm sure I'll get there soon enough
19. I didn't give up yet.
But now I struggle everyday to know if I actually need a gf or not. I mean, I guess it would feel good to have a partner and someone to share stuff, but I'm not into all of the stuff people charge in relationships. I don't wanna give up my freedom or having to choose where to eat.
All that judgding from other people relationships, I'm still a kissless virgin.
Fuck this shit.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTze9tOF3ow
>>28416149
I've stopped fapping or using porn in a pathetic attempt to preserve my 'dignity'
>>28416688
I'm not tall but I get laid easily and frequently
5 10 master race btw
>22
>high school grills try to sit with me
>became the "cute shy guy"
>college comes around
>am very proficient in countering any advances at this point
>qt 3.141592 grills throwing themselves at me
>afraid to leave the house because of wimminz now
Why?
>>28415132
27
I never tried because I knew I wouldnt achieve anything since I'm 5'1'' and ugly.
