I just failed nofap again. I don't want to masturbate anymore. I want to get rid of all my sexual desire. It's disgusting.
Nofap doesn't even change anything. I'm still miserable. I'm still a failure. No increased confidence or motivation or anything.
Should I keep trying? Should I give up? My life is a mess and not touching my dick is probably not gonna fix it.
>>28400108
>turn off your internet
That's how you do it
don't force it either way or it'll stress the hell out of you
if you feel like fapping just fap, just sort of try to not do it as much
>>28400108
>try hold out nofap
>week so far
>dasitmane
>weather starts beibg summery past days
>stuffed trains with sweaty woman wearing pic related literally everywhere
I HATE YOU FUCKING CUNTS SO MUCH FUCK YOU RRRREEEEIIIIII
>>28400108
Shaking the addiction is hard work, its very often worked in to your mind as a normal thing reinforced by people and the world as it is. Youll discover the mind have cunning ways of rationalising giving in, im often scared of my own capacity to work against the goal ive set. Start over do your own best.
>>28400108
>I just failed nofap again.
I've failed nofap like 50 times this year.
A couple of weeks ago I failed it 3 times in one day.
I failed it, I swore to nofap for real this time, oath, and then an hour later I fapped. Then I wrote it down, stickied it on my wall, deleted all porn, banned 4chan, and I fapped from my mobile phone in bed later that evening.
I just can't. I need to bust.
>>28400130
I actually did. I turned my internet off for almost a month and I ended up lying in bed all day. I barely got out of bed to get food.
Are you sure that internet addiction is the cause of our problems? I think most of us got rejected in life and an addiction is just a way to cope with that. It would probably be beneficial to stop, but it's the only thing getting me through the day at the moment.
I'll just keep trying not to fap. It's better than nothing.
>>28400108
Try chemical castration.
>>28400394
If he is too much of a coward to go have sex, do you think he has the balls to castrate himself?
>>28400394
THIS.
I'd rather you took away your ability to reproduce.
You're a failed human if you can't even enjoy sexual gratification. I'd rather another human not show up in this world with your failed genes when someone else could've made a child who doesn't suck. :^)
Can we just cut the bullshit about this whole nofap/fap erryday mentality?!
At the end of the argument what matters is what gives you emotional catharsis (i.e nofappers who feel more 'alpha/powerful' vs the compulsive mastubatuer connoisseur who feels less inhibited and relaxed talking to girls after fap etc..)
Seriously the only thing I think that really stands a chance at helping robots are /comfy/ threads
Source: A fetishist who wants to exist within a normie definition of reality and willing to compromise within the constraints that realistic sexuality consists of.
>>28400108
>I just failed nofap again
>Nofap doesn't even change anything
How would you know? You failed.
>>28400459
What fetish is it?
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>>28400108
>rejected countless times by girls and generally stomped on emotionally
>feels awful to even fap
>start leaning to gay stuff to try satisfy myself
>sucking cock is great
>continue to nofap whilst sucking big floppy cocks and only become hornier hy the day
tldr; if you want to avoid weird fetishes just jerk off retard
>>28400509
I've done 3 months+ of nofap before. Something should've happened at that point, right?
>>28400108
I'm doing nofap and it's working great for me. Less interest in roasties, which are a waste of time either way, as is fapping. Keep going. One fap doesn't ruin it, it the habit of fapping that needs to be eradicated.
Keep going, persevere, become the person you want to be one step at a time. This shit doesn't happen overnight, not over the course of a year. You're a work in progress, try and better yourself every day.
>>28400790
How can you pack that much motivational normalfag bullshit into one post?
>>28400836
I tried making it seem unpreachy, but with this kind of shit you gotta realize for yourself. No amount of advice, motivational speeches or posts, success stories, etc. will do any good, if the person doesn't do their part.
Normalfags are the ones who fap, btw. Few are the ones that have the discipline or willpower to break free of bad habits and further themselves.
>>28400513
pic related, inflation, balloon fetish degeneracy.
Just do what keeps you happy, regardless of what everyone else thinks about you behind closed doors. I'm not looking for acceptance but I'm also not looking for an artificial construct that supposedly guarantees happiness.
Try fapping with dry orgams. Just flex and hold your pc muscle when you are about to cum. This will keep your sperm in leaving you less drained afterwards
>>28400987
Why are you on /r9k/ if you have willpower and discipline?
I successfully did 5 months of nofap once. No touching, no porn and nothing changed. I was and still am miserable piece of shit. Porn and the internet clearly aren't the root of my problems.
I know I have to move forward somehow, but I can't. I sit here and time flies by, while I grow increasingly frustrated and bitter. I hate myself and I blame myself for everything that's wrong with my life. I don't even know where to start.
>if the person doesn't do their part
What is my part then? Most motivational bullshit just consists of the same old "jus be urself" and "live a meaningful life bruh". What am I supposed to get out of that?
>>28400108
Try it for a while, and if it doesn't work, stop doing it.
I did Nofap for a week, I couldn't stop staring at women in public and had raging boners all the time, it was suffering.
>>28401061
>inflation, balloon fetish
This is the first time I've met someone sharing my fetishes on /r9k/. Awesome. Hope you have a good day.
>>28400108
>I just failed nofap again
honestly the only time you fail is when you fall for the nofap meme
>thinking not masturbating will solve your problems
>thinking masturbation is the source of your porn addiction
>thinking masturbation is whats making you more horny.
Solve your diet.
Solve your sleep pattern.
That's whats messing with you, not fapping.
Fap all you want. You sexual addiction does not step from it.
Combat your sexual addiction in order to fap less, don't fap less to combat your sexual addiction. That's not the problem.
Try lifting instead anon. It's not a sure fire way to feel better about yourself, but it's worked a bit for me. If nothing else you'll have actual, visible results after only a month of regular lifting and eating better, unlike nofap.
>>28401784
we are quite numerous here.
>>28401869
how do I correct my diet and sleep pattern
>>28401959
Here's the deal. Nofap mostly and used to stem from people wanting to fap less to clear up time but more important make their orgasms better and cum more as time went on. It's now evolved into some holier than thou "fix yourself and fix your sexual addiction" thing when it doesn't do shit except make you more sexually frustrated and horny until you finally crack and fap and end up feeling like shit because you couldn't do it, even though in the end every guy has to have release at some point.
It actually stems from two things, boredom and messed up chemicals in the brain.
Boredom is solved by exercising, it gives you something to do rather than the recurring habit and releases serotonin, it also helps with number two.
Fixing your fucked up wiring. Diet and exercise will help with your energy levels and also your emotions in general. Even something as simple as cutting down on alcohol and cutting down fizzy drinks in general. Just go for water.
To sleep well, which also helps, use this website - http://sleepyti.me/ Try to get 7 - 9 hours a day and you will wake up energized no matter when you go to sleep.
>>28402140
sweet tea is just as bad as fizzy drinks right?
what about fruit juice?
>>28401690
I don't communicate with other people much. I like reading about other people sometimes. Greentext stories and memes.
Being overwhelmed is normal or to be expected, there's literally shittons of stuff to do at every moment. Start somewhere, the first step is always going to be the first step, you'll organize your next actions as time passes, but not doing anything isn't going to help.
By 'do their part' I meant that you have to do something if you want something to happen, making a conscious effort. Life is shitty, nothing good is free, easy, cheap, etc. You have to work to be happy.
'just be yourself' is horrible advice, I don't see how it's advice at all. Most people don't know who they are because they're affiliated with other, friends, family, community, tied down basically; thus losing their identity and just regurgitating the opinions, dreams and desires of other or just the mainstream. Pic related. I spend most of my time alone and for good reason, I know myself very well, I'd recommend it to all people.
'live a meaningful life'- Everybody has a different definition of 'meaningful' if at all. Life is inherently meaningless, you yourself give it meaning.
I don't know your current situation, but consider this- it's never late to start, you should feel shame for not starting at this very moment, rather than feeling shame for not having started already, i.e. the past, i.e. shit that's passed, irrelevant, can't be changed, etc.
>>28401959
>>28402187
From a person who has type 1 diabetes, also the nofap guy with the rambly posts, I'd like to recommend to you the ketogenic diet. There are books about it, check out those by Volek for lots of references if you have access to papers or have a rudimentary knowledge of medicine. Shittons of info online, but suffice it so say it works, keeps you at stable low weight, keeps you satiated, isn't very restrictive.
Sleep pattern is more tricky. I take 1-2 g caffeine in powdered form every day, and this for about 2 years already. I got to bed around 2-4am and sleep anywhere from 4-8h. Going to bed tired definitely helps and exercise also definitely helps.
If you've got the cash, there are these activity trackers or even a phone app, which wakes you up in the last phase of sleep. There's evidence showing that if you wake up in of the deeper phases, your brain is still 'asleep' and it makes you feel groggy and takes you more time in the morning to get shit done.
