>as a kid, all the other kids got invited places
>they had friends
>they didn't have to make an effort, people just mingled together
>nobody invited you to anything, nobody asked you to hang out with them
>if you did try to befriend someone, they'd just not give a shit about you
>"oh, anon, those are just kids. they're like that! high school will be better - they're more mature!"
>it's not different
>"oh, anon, college people love quiet reserved people! you'll see!"
>it's not different
>"anon, when you work, people have to mingle with you! you're sure to make some buddies"
>it's not different
What the fuck makes me so unlikeable that nobody has ever taken a chance on me?
Thanks for giving me a glimpse of my dystopian future.
>>28393246
Is that really the situation though? I'd be surprised if you don't have a Facebook messenger app on your phone right now with a whole long list of conversations between you and other people. That's right isn't it you filthy liar
This is a world made for the natural extroverts anon,we just don't fit in it.Don't blame yourself.
>>28393287
I don't have any social media because I have no friends. I have 5 numbers on my phone (my mum, my dad, my aunt, phone company and some girl that I met in my final year of class that only texts back once to any conversation I start with her)
>never have any friends
>it's everybody else's fault
did you ever consider that you aren't pleasant to be around?
>>28393318
A-ha! A girl you say? That my friend, makes you a full blown, raging, blundering, normie. Now; away with you.
>>28393347
>did you ever consider that you aren't pleasant to be around?
we found sherlock!
>>28393246
Post pic of face please.
>>28393246
It's because this world is shit that's why
>>28393246
It's too late.
Your brain was undergoing it's most critical growth phase as a kid and teenager. Because you had no friends, the social parts of your brain never developed properly.
Now as an adult, your brain has stopped developing. You are permanently socially disfigured.
Was it your fault? Nope. It is fair? Nope.
>>28393246
It's mostly just because you're an ugly guy. Ugly people have to make an effort.
>>28393246
i dunno op, let me project my issues onto you instead
you're either autistic or your family were awful role models with problems socialising themselves
>>28393647
This isn't correct
An adult's brain doesn't learn as fast a child's, but it can still learn new things and change old habits and undermining beliefs
Find some losers to practice on
>>28393246
Remember anon. The biggest lie I was ever told was, "things will get better".
It never does.
>Everyone in your group of friends has their own mini group
>You don't.
>You only get to do the big group stuff.
>If this were a TV show, you'd be in a supporting role despite being part of the group
>>28393246
Idk, you would have to outlie your life/personality
>>28393347
>people didn't give him the same respect he gave to others
>hurr durr it's his fault
>>28393725
>you're either autistic or your family were awful role models with problems socialising themselves
I am much like what OP described and i think this is correct, when i was a kid i couldn't realize this but now as 26 year old it's pretty obvious both my parents are autistic as fuck and also terrible people, i was raised in poverty too
life is really unfair to people like me, i was doomed from the beginning, there must be some sort of qualification to be allowed to have children
