I just downloaded tinder looking fora boyfriend.
how do I make myself appealing to guys without being a degenerate slut?
Be my gf pls I have nobody else...
>>28386172
Try killing yourself faggot
>>28386172
Are you in New York City?
>>28386172
Literally just be yourself.
If you are worried about looking like a slut, then stop being a slut.
>>28386172
Why are you asking us? Your pic has everything you need to do
>>28386172
>how do I make myself appealing to guys without being a degenerate slut?
be a girl
There's never before been a better time to be yourself. Social media, and online dating being a part of that, is all about maximizing one's exposure to others. If you're running up against a lot of rejection, that's only because what used to be passive selection is now active. But that rejection works both ways. You're also being spared from the task of weeding out those who don't have an appreciation for your qualities.
>>28386188
where are you from?
>>28386212
nope
>>28386307
check, but now what?
>>28386472
I was totally confused with your comic until I realized I was reading it backwards like a manga.
I guess you're right, but shit still makes me nervous. I feel like a salesman trying to plug a product or some shit, I'm worried about misrepresenting myself. I'm scared I'll go on a date with a guy and he'll hate me. I hate online dating in general, but I'm lonely.
>>28386569
I'm from Chicago. I can move if you want.
>>28386612
I'm actually in downstate IL, Peoria area
>mfw
do you have a skype?
>>28386569
That's okay if you have worries. This is the arena where you can figure out three things.
1. How are you presenting yourself to others.
2. What you are looking for.
3. How you are being perceived by others.
Just keep at it. Persistence is key. Don't fall back on fantasy, self-pity, or anesthesia to deal with the painful stuff. You're going to get shit figured out. The reactions of other guys isn't your responsibility. If you don't live up to someone's expectations, then maybe they're a poor judge of character.
>>28386640
N-No do you have steam? I could've gotten a skype if my phone worked.
>>28386640
Femanon why don't you post a pic of yourself
>>28386640
Ohh shit I'm from Bloomington.
>>28386775
all of my life spent on /r9k/ finding no one closer than Indianapolis and suddenly there's you two nerds, what gives?
>>28386696
I'd rather not post it here, but send me your steam at
[email protected]
>>28386807
My steam is walterwhite911. I have another one but I don't use as much.
>>28386807
But fembot me and you are meant to be
>>28386938
No she's mine femboto
>>28386172
There is literally nothing you need to do to make yourself more appealing as a girl short of using your best photos.
You are being judged solely based on how hot you are and the quality of males who match with you will be a direct reflection of this. You will match with guys who are out of your league, but they will most likely be looking to pump and dump you.
>>28386938
then give me your steam or skype too, I don't know what I'm supposed to do here.
>>28387054
how do I avoid those types of guys? I'd rather not waste my time getting to know a rapist.
>>28386612
Nigger I'm from Chicago too
>>28387158
My steam is walterwhite911
Did you find ybf yet?
>>28386889
>There are no users that match your search.
wooow
>>28387158
Wait no nvm it's fucking trigun420 sorry for being a faggot
>>28387158
But everytime I get a fembots contact info she calls me a Chad and leaves.
>>28387054
To add to this, if you're a legbearded roastie weeaboo whore with le quirky interests, obviously, make sure to advertise these in some way so as to assure relevant males will be caught in your web.
>>28387158
>how do I avoid those types of guys?
Only swipe 6/10 and below males.
When a guy seems too charming, he is. Don't put out easily and you (probably) won't be pumped and dumped.
>>28387217
It's trigun420 im sorry why am i so desperate
Are you a degenerate slut in the first place?
>>28387225
are you a Chad? have you tried not being a Chad?
>>28387244
I'm not a legbeard weeb, but I think I have more "traditional" interests than most people my age.
I put some stuff about that on there and have one match but he won't reply to my message.
I thought this was supposed to be easy T.T
>>28387282
no, but I don't want to come off as boring or too weird, either.
>>28386172
>> tinder
>>appealing to guys without being a degenerate slut?
pick one
>>28387365
Not a Chad nor a robot, technically a cyborg.
Why are you single femanon? If you had to explain?
>>28387403
I agree with this.
Tinder is not the way to go if you want a relationship.
I'm from bloomington as well. What is going on with this 11:00 illinois gathering?
>>28387365
I think being weird is pretty subjective and you shouldn't really care about that. As for being boring, it's simple. Don't sound boring.
>>28387424
I know a couple whose relationship I am extremely jealous of and they met on Tinder. As long as you have self-control and standards, it doesn't hurt to try.
>>28387416
stop hitting on this bitch you thirsty faggots
>>28386172
Post dank Donald Trump memes. Own a pickup truck. Learn to play the banjo.
>>28387521
I don't like when people use the "pls be my gf" meme seriously. I think they are actually begging it for a gf but hiding it behind a joke.
>>28387521
Fight me bro
>>28387569
I feel the same but it makes me laugh
>>28387489
That's so dumb. I'm not saying I wouldn't use Tinder. I don't, and wouldn't date a girl seriously if I found out she was on it at any point.
If I did use it, get real. Who cares what she says it's crocodile tears. When you start using it you already know she's doing it to slut around. If she insists she isn't that kind of girl and isn't going to sleep with you, why the fuck are you even with her??
It's stupid.
>>28387416
I think because I come from a place where I don't fit in, lots of people here are into beer and country and rap, and love America and huntin' and muddin' and I'm none of that stuff.
I dated a boy I met on /r9k/ for a while but things didn't work out between us.
>>28387449
strange shit, I've never found people from this area on /r9k/ or even /soc/ the one time I used it. some people in Champaign though.
>tfw neither of the other anons added me anyway
why even post if you don't want to be friends?
>>28387651
literally what?
>>28387823
>literally what?
If a girl is on a hookup ap, she is there to hook up.
If y'all wanna play fuckfuck games and be cucks that she just wants to date that is your problem.
I wouldn't fall for that bullshit.
>>28387866
I don't know how else I'm supposed to meet people geographically close to me.
except, apparently, by posting about tinder on a tibetan yak-milking forum; this has been surprisingly effective.
you sound unreasonably angry.
>>28387823
Writing down Quran quotes help me out a lot here in Dubai, maybe you should use Paul's Ebin Shitpost
i'm from joliet il
this state, and all states, suck
also love is a lie the only truth in life is our own decay
>>28386172
danae? is that you?
>>28387995
don't know who you're talking about but you have the wrong Illinoisan.
>>28387967
Joliet is such a pretty place, though. how can you be so sad in a pretty city like Joliet?
of course I'm talking about downtown near the train station. all the old brick roads and vintage street lights, it's just like stepping backwards in time.
>>28387932
Do you like Tibetan music?
>>28388146
>
don't know who you're talking about but you have the wrong Illinoisan.
nahh it's you
>>28388146
Post pics of ur face so we can see you.
>>28386569
try super liking some guys who look like virgin nerds, eventually you'll find one that's good enough.
>>28388146
oh you must be a different femanon from peoria that dated an r9ker from indiana..
>>28388163
like throat singing?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JvyhxY54M3Inot particularly
>>28388185
no, thanks though.
>>28388194
super-liking? as if the swipe left/right mechanism wasn't barbaric enough.
>>28388240
>>28388169
I think you're only seeing what you want to see, but the robot I dated wasn't from Indiana.
>>28388146
joliet isn't pretty, head over to the east side and mexicans will cut you. also the west side gets blacker by the day... more and more shootings. and dont get me started on those pretentious monied up WASPs in the historic district. this whole city needs to burn, myself included
i drove past the rialto theater on the way home. downtown is pretty if you like normie places, which i dont, because i don't like anywhere or anyone
