I need some tips /r9k/ I am told time and time again that women

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2016-05-05 09:41:57 Post No. 28348058
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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:41:57 Post No. 28348058 [Report]

I need some tips /r9k/

I am told time and time again that women find confidence attractive, so I am going to attempt to be more confident in day to day life.

But I am naturally not a confident person by nature, I am quite timid and shy (it's not really insecurities, just a quiet person by nature) and basically I will just be faking confidence the whole time. What happens after I attract a woman? Do I have to keep up the facade my whole life? Or will she like me no matter my confidence level AFTER I get her interested?

I am pretty confused about the whole thing. I am a good guy, but I am just not sure how to conduct myself.

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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:43:38 Post No.28348085
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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:43:38 Post No.28348085 [Report]

>>28348058
The one thing you gotta remember, anon, the one thing is to just be yourself! :)

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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:44:44 Post No.28348094
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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:44:44 Post No.28348094 [Report]

>>28348058
Confidence means not apologizing for who you are or what you say

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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:45:42 Post No.28348106
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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:45:42 Post No.28348106 [Report]

>>28348058
Just say what you feel, and social repercussions be damned. That's confidence, lads.

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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:46:01 Post No.28348111
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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:46:01 Post No.28348111 [Report]

>Do I have to keep up the facade my whole life?

yes
nobody is a quiet person by nature
confidence isnt some magical mumbojambo, it comes from success and being content with your life, feeling good in your skin

how old are you?

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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:46:04 Post No.28348113
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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:46:04 Post No.28348113 [Report]

>>28348058
someone once told me fake it till you make
dont throw yourself in at the deep end
also some people are very good at being confident learn from those people. See what they say, how they conduct themselves etc

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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:48:13 Post No.28348128
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Anonymous 2016-05-05 09:48:13 Post No.28348128 [Report]

>>28348094
>>28348106
Where is the line drawn between being too "brash" and confidence?

>>28348111
I'm 24 anon. Thanks for the advice.