>he isn't dominant in real life and submissive in bed
Why do expect a person can flip this on and off like a light switch? Maybe that's what you need though: Someone who is a switch. Good luck with that.
What if he's submissive in real life but dominant in bed?
>>28346943
>he isn't dominant in real life and IS submissive in bed
FTFY, friendo.
>>28346943
>she isn't a lady in a lady in the street and a freak in the bed
>tfw beta as fuck but the girl you like is an uber sub so you have to act dominant to keep her around
>>28346943
>tfw too much ego and pride to be a sub with another actual person
I refuse to put myself in these roles. I have no interest in making decision for you and you wont be making them for me.
>>28349082
HA! I had this exact situation happen to me. I was dominant over text, but as soon as we Skyped, I just had no idea what the fuck I was doing. Honestly, though, made me realize I like the idea of BDSM more than the reality. Shit is weird as fuck.
