Because they have a nice and cool side then snap when something doesn't go their way and you see their fucked up abusive side.

>>28332217
Women get off sexually to being dominated. The also want to be protected and safe.
It's pathological that they be drawn to violent men.

But either extreme is bad. Being with some loser dork who wouldn't defend his girl or himself from anything is a massive turnoff and doomed to failure.
Being with a violent thug is plain awful.

With a bit of thought, every man can achieve a midground and be calm/aggro goldilocks.

>>28332217
>why do girls date violent alpha chads and then cry when they get a beating?

Daddy issues.

Because that shit comes barreling out of left field after the chad establishes systems of mutual dependency.
With enough time, anything becomes forgivable when the alternative is a clusterfuck of a separation that dicks your social circle, schedule, property, living accommodations, etc.

>>28332217
As long the guy is attractive, he can do whatever he wants.