>tfw no clingy, needy, insecure gf who is obsessed with you to reassure that you love
>>28322878
good
i can't stand having a sister, i can't imagine what a gf would be like at this point
>>28322878
This is the kind of thing that has appealed to me greatly for the longest time. The older I get the more I wonder if, upon actually finding a relationship, I would discover that really all I've been looking for is a mutual acceptance of each other's neglect to grow and overcome our flaws. I think I just might come to resent that person for helping me inhibit my own growth as person, and lose respect for them for choosing the same for themselves.
>>28322912
Your sister is clingy to you and obsessive anon?
>tfw no gf at all
It would be nice
>>28322936
I'd love to have a gf like this. I'd love her forever and I'd reassure her of this every day.
>>28322942
yes
whenever i come home from college she wont stop clinging to me
my family always comments on how it's weird and say things like 'he isn't going to die if you aren't near him'
whenever i have to take her somewhere in public people think we're a couple
>>28322988
How old are you and how old is she? She probably just misses you, so when you get home of course she's gonna be clingy. Be happy your little sis loves you.
>>28322878
tfw she's not so eager to talk to me anymore
>>28322936
You can still grow with both you faggot. Unless you're some kind of huge faggot that needs someone to push you and can't do it out of love for the other person without their acting.
>>28322878
How does one obtain such a gf? These girls barely even exist.
>>28323057
You could, but then why would you want such a relationship, if not to secure a source of acceptance and approval that won't also encourage you to grow?
>>28322878
Had one. It was terrible. I got sick of her shit and she found another guy who'd prop her ego up instead.
I want a confident, independent girl who likes me because she likes me and not because she's just desperate for validation.
>>28323078
Find a flat girl or one who used to be fat. The latter isn't as likely as the first though.
>>28322878
Girls like that get annoying quick depending on how needy/obsessive they are. I've dated two, one during high school and I'm still close friends with her. I thought she'd grow out of it t b h but at least it's not worse
>>28324042
>dated two
normies get out
>>28324042
>>28323878
Pls greentext details about your relationship.
>>28324042
>>28323878
Fuck off normie faggots.
Go back to tumblr.
>>28322878
OP no just no. It may seem fun from the outside but it can make you pretty miserable, especially when it's taking up every free second you have.
>tfw no clingy gf to constantly be all over you
>tfw no clingy gf to get jealous of other girls and work hard to get your attention
>tfw no clingy gf to kiss and cuddle all the time
>tfw no clingy gf to sleep with at night
>tfw no clingy gf to reassure how much you love her as you look her in the eyes and give her a kiss
>tfw no clingy gf who will obsess over your gains
I have this very kind of gf but it was a bumpy ass road to get here. I met her at 28 after being separated from my first wife for 6 months. Been dating 3 years yesterday.
Historically I was a proto robot. My dad set me up with a 28.8k internet enabled 486DX PC running Windows 3.1 in 1994 at the age of 9, against my mother's protests. They were divorced and he argued and sort of just got the ball rolling against her wishes of installing a separate phone line at my mom's house. I was one of the world's first experiment's in youth shut-in living on the internet lifestyle. Naturally, I stayed skinny as a young male can possibly be without being malnourished, and highly unappealing to women, but I didn't understand the relationship.
Anyway I got fit occasionally in my 20s and sometimes had confidence enough to talk to women. Right now I'm skinny again because I got lazy being so satisfied with my current gf. I think I have a self esteem issue because I can't even fake the self confidence I had when I was fit now that I'm skinny. I hate the way I look and my social skills have regressed to almost zero.
But I finally have a clingy, needy, insecure gf who is obsessed with me, loves when I tell her I'm her owner and tell her she needs to serve me always. She even likes to obediently drink my urine, which was a fantasy of mine from adolescence, from reading lezzie erotica on my old PC at nifty.org.
Clingy Gfs are just emotionally abusive as soon as you don't meet their expectations of attention.
>>28323842
Why would a relationship be the only reason to improve yourself?
Seriously, think about what you said. Even if she's scared of you changing, she'll eventually go with the flow once she realizes that IS what you will be doing. With someone like that you have to lead them to greener pastures. They'll fight back and resist and that's ok, as long as they don't insist on staying on some supposed low point.
If they refuse then evidently they weren't so clingy or needy of you. And that's fine if they weren't that type.
>>28323040
If they think he's a couple maybe she's not much younger
>>28322988
Have you ever given thought to, you know... wincest? My sister always thought I was a creep, naturally.
>tfw I am literally all of these but a man
>tfw literally no woman on the plant wants a big tall man who's a total beta
I just want a non fat white gf who'll love me.
>>28323903
Dead on
>>28326354
Depends on the type of clingy. Plenty of clingy women would want an equally clingy bf, but most clingy guys get really scary and violent real quick. It's also very common for men to turn out to be cheaters when they're clingy. But if you can prove you aren't either of those things you definitely have a chance.
>>28326376
See >>28323903 But it'll never work out with a clingy flat girl unless you either genuinely have zero attraction to breasts, actually like flat chests, or you can convincingly lie about both and pretend to never be attracted to big breasts ever again. Otherwise even the clingiest and most devoted will end up hating you eventually.
>>28322988
Put it in.
oreganos
>>28322878
It gets old really fast tbqh. This isn't an anime where you have a lady-like gf who has a life of her own but think about you all the time. Most girls are boring as fuck by default and the clingy ones are often even more boring than the others because she relies on you to do stuff. It quickly gives you the feeling that you are a baby-sitter but don't get paid for it and, worse, probably lose money in the process.
Tsundere gf who you see once a week at best for some steamy hot sex after doing some lovey-dovey acitivity in the afternoon/evening is where it's at, guys.
>>28326250
How did you even get a gf, let alone a wife, having 0 social skills? I have been improving them by at least 5 years now, probably close to 10 now, and while im not at 10CHA I stopped spilling my spaghetti a while ago. Even then, I cannot, for the lofe of me, find a gf, not even by lowering my standars to the very bottom of what is avaliable to me (an ugly and insecure cunt, and the future philosophy major loonie)
Please tell me your secrets, master.
![1355884526_dawson-crying[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/lDLTMuy.jpg "1355884526_dawson-crying[1].jpg")
>SHE WILL NEVER COME TO SAVE YOU
Genuinely heartbreaking
>>28323903
The most emotionally dependant girls are trans girls tbqh
>>28327835
>girls
tranny/tranny fetishists pls go
I do this.
All it has ever done is scared others away.
I just would like someone too take care of me
>>28327353
It sounds like you want a fuckbuddy that will cuddle you after, not a gf. That's pretty easy to find. What isn't easy to find is a girl that'll do both that and be completely monogamous.
>>28322988
>tfw no cute onee-chan to cuddle with
>>28322878
you're a creepy sexist potential abuser who just wants a personal rape-doll. fuck you
>>28327926
Would you take care of him, too?
>>28326255
Well its a good thing im a masochist
>>28327926
Please be mine.
I want this. I want this so much.
>>28328566
How? I don't want a "personal rape doll," I just want a broken person like myself to comfort and show affection, and this will be mutual. Two damaged people who love each other isn't a bad thing anon. I don't even mention sex in my post, because sex wouldn't be that important to me. Just cuddling all the time would leave me satisfied. I'd never abuse the girl I love. It's not like I wouldn't obsess over her, I totally would and I'd love her forever. If I ever find her.
>>28328566
Projecting much? How about you fuck off instead of making accusations against someone you don't know?
>>28329935
>>28327926
You'll find someone.
So will I.
One day.
I'm that girl and I'm pretty sure my bf regrets what he's gotten himself into, family.
>>28330122
I think OP was speaking of biological girls and not gay guys who pretend to be girls.
>>28330156
Am a real girl with a real vagina, a really great vagina if I do say so myself, that's part of the reason why I can get away with it I guess.
My bf is also kind of a little clingy, but maybe 1% of how clingy I am. I love it when he exudes neediness and clinginess though. It sort of makes me feel even more loved.
>>28330168
>Am a real girl with a real vagina
Yeah. Cool story, bro.
>tfw clingy, needy, insecure gf who is obsessed with you to reassure that you love
>tfw she's posting in this thread
>>28322878
>tfw no gf/bf to endure me being obsessed with them and constantly reminding me they love me
drove the last one that offered me this away because im a basket case that needs to be babied
Does someone here want to be clingy together? I just want to be affectionate with someone.
>>28330226
sure ;-; are you a boy or girl
>>28330226
Yeah, that sounds nice.
>>28330193
What if I'm not your gee eff, anon?
>>28329771
No, I would like to be taken care of
>>28322878
Seriously, fuck that shit. Why in god's name would you want to expend your energy on something that refuses to be fixed? Just do one night stands if you need to touch a girl that badly.
>>28326032
What this guy is saying.
>>28329858
can you take care of me with basically nothing in return from me except clingy love once i get attached because i have nothing to offer and am too emotional?
>>28330226
>tfw there are 50,000 clingy guys for every "clingy" girl
>tfw I'm last in line because I'm physically and mentally repulsive
Haha, funny joke, life
Hahaha so funny
>>28330260
I'm a boy, but I hope that doesn't discourage you from talking to me ...
>>28330283
Please take care of me, I've been told I'm fragile.
>>28330326
That's not a problem. I'm the same way.
>>28330351
We'll be alright together, anon, don't you worry.
>>28330351
i-im a boy too
we can try
I consider myself clingy but people tend to get bored of it once they feel loved enough. >:c
>>28330405
>tfw you throw away someone after getting them attached and watch them fall into despair
>tfw always wanted an obsessive gf like helga
>>28330459
>tfw too solitary to be able to give a clingy partner what they want
It sucks, i wish I could be better at this sorta stuff
>>28330459
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>>28330487
Sorry familia, that feeling is just too satisfying. Who knew tears could be so sweet?
>tfw tiny clingy qt gf irl to knock up
>"my cousin was complaining that her boyfriend was too clingy and jealous, i would love that"
>"you should have dated me then haha"
>>28330510
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kill yourself you cold heartless piece of poop
>>28330288
i'm not talking about you, you anime posting shitlord
fuck off
>tfw want to dedicate my life to research and study
>tfw also want love
I'm too ugly to love anyway... at least waifus exist
>>28330373
I'm not worried anymore when I have you to comfort me. For however long you need, I'll be there with you.
>>28330374
Shy boys like you make my heart flutter. I wish I was there to hold you tightly in my arms. I wouldn't let go until I felt like I've kept you long enough, even if you asked.
>>28330580
Then find someone to research and study with!
>>28330553
Temper, temper. It's not like I've wronged you in any way, have I? There's no harm in having a little fun once in a while. You know, if you play nice I'll even let you be the next one I toy with.
>>28330614
ugh you sound so adorable and cute anon desu
i want to be your pretend internet bf because i couldnt commit to a real relationship
>>28330614
If we're around to carry each other when we need it, I know we can face anything.
>>28322988
>>>28326346 >>28327244 >>28328439
stop existing please
>>28330638
I don't see that ending well
What if we learn at different rates and either one of us holds back the other?
What if they're not as dedicated and still want to live a normal life?
What if they want to study as a pair on one section that I think would be better studied solo?
That seems like a lot of commitment and I don't trust anybody enough to follow through with it
I just want to become a computer wizard ;_;
>>28330806
Have a little faith anon
>>28330806
It's a lot of factors to balance, but so is any relationship. So long as you keep your independence, I trust that one day you'll find someone who will make it work, and for those that aren't quite right, you'll still have learnt something from those experiences!
>>28327835
That's because they're men.
>>28330806
Love is all about sacrifice something for sake of your partner.
I grew up as an egoist piece of shit, so love is kind of taboo for me.
>>28330686
It doesn't have to be real, but to me that's what it will feel like. I hope you don't mind if I take it a little too seriously ... I'm the type of person that will pout if you forget to say you love me a single day ...
>>28330743
I'm a bit of a dependent person, so I hope you don't mind having to carry a bit more weight when you're with me.
id be the needy one desu
>>28330967
i feel like that would hurt you so much though anon... you deserve a real relationship. i'm some pathetic shithead that can't give you anything but a false one. i would tell you all those things but... i am pretty sure we would never meet or be together in real life. I'm almost positive you wouldnt want that.
>>28330967
Don't worry about it, when I'm in a good mood, I can take on whatever you need me to! All I ask is that you're there to pick me up when I fall!
>>28330902
Honestly, I don't see a real life relationship being viable at this point
A case manager from the psych ward set me up with a psychotherapist in the explicit hope that it would allow me to form a relationship with at least one person that I could open up to.
I highly doubt it will work.
>>28330967
It's alright that you need a reminder that you're loved every now and again, and no burden is too much to bear for the sake of it.
>>28330405
I get the feeling they begin to lose respect for you if you're not callous enough. Like if you reveal too much of yourself they'll lose interest rather than embracing and accepting you as it should be. Granted no relationship is 100% perfect.
>>28330459
HARSH
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This shit belongs on a cringe thread desu senpai
>>28331158
>cringe
spotted the redditor
>>28322878
If you are used to any degree of freedom right now you will likely begin to hate that. >>28326255 is dead on and there is probably nobody in the world you want to spend all of your free time with.
It's not worth it.
They have serious issues that will ruin the relationship and ruin you.
>>28331158
>le this belongs on /r/cringe xdDDDDD
>>28331359
Can they break what's already broken?
Or maybe they can cure the loneliness.
>>28330967
sorry i probably drove you away... i love you anon stay strong. you're a wonderful boy
>>28326047
We were brought upon this world just to suffer weren't we?
>>28330646
>You know, if you play nice I'll even let you be the next one I toy with.
Are you a boy or a girl?
>>28322988
>tfw people asked multiple times if i am my sister bf
i dont even like her
>>28330459
that's mean af desu
>>28332259
If I didn't know any better, I'd say that you seem eager to be my plaything. But we both know that couldn't possibly be the case, right?
To answer your question, yes, I'm a girl, but I'm sure that little piece of information won't affect what you say to me from here.
>>28332366
>tfw no loving sister
I got stuck with a little shithead of a brother, I'd much rather be in your position
But i'm brown and obese, OP.
>>28332724
>If I didn't know any better, I'd say that you seem eager to be my plaything. But we both know that couldn't possibly be the case, right?
Why couldn't it be? And in what way do you "know better"? You're not making sense.
>>28333024
do you have autism or is it me
>>28333040
I'm sure we all have autism.
no short afro black clever cute gf
>tfw no girly insecure bf who will let me cuddle him.
>>28333215
>tfw girly insecure boy who doesn't have anyone to cuddle them
>no cruel gf that teases you constantly and lies about leaving you just to see you break
>>28333229
I'd cuddle you. I'm tall, a bit stocky and hairy though.
>>28333238
>lies
It doesn't work if she doesn't actually do it sometimes.
>tfw you will never have your clingy housewife waifu welcome you with a kiss and a snack when you get home from work
hurts desu senpai
>>28333614
why do I want to suffer I dont get it
>tfw no clingy gf to play vidya with
I wouldn't object at all. Spending time doing what I like with someone who loves me a ton would be the best shit. And a lot of cuddling involved.
