>go to uni anon! It's full of smart introverts like you!
>step outside my dormroom, literally a bunch of Chads goofing off and being loud in my hall
>"Oh hey, you're the kid on our floor that never leaves his room!"
>>28318976
i bet you go to a state school.
>tfw no social opportunities because I'm not at uni
>>28318993
Nope, it's a school ranked in the top 30 in America. Private and costs 65k a year to go to.
>>28318976
holy shit anon I am having the same experience
>>28318993
>i bet you go to a state school.
my school is one of the top colleges in america, same shit
god bless anon
>freshman year
>living in a single room
>three chads live in the room next to me
>they blast music every night
>I never say anything about it because I don't want to look like more of a chump than I already seemed like because I never had friends
>one day i decide to plug in my ps3 for the first time
>normal volume
>5 minutes after I start playing
>knock at the door
>it's one of the chads
>"hey anon, can you turn that down, i'm studying"
>"o-ok"
>its another spoilt unifags complaining about stupid shit thread
>go to uni
>go to class
>go home
>go back to class
>go home
>everybody makes their lifetime friends in uni
>went through a degree and a postgrad without a single friend
haha
>>28319176
Assert yourself by doing the same the next time you hear their music. They'll either realize how rude they are for blaring music or continue to do it, in which case you blare your music when they have to study.
>>28319215
I FUCKING HATE THIS FEEL
>>28318976
>Never leaving your room
>Not spending all your time outside your room, on your laptop, in various places, like library or coffee shops
>Not just using your room to sleep
>Not creating that aura of mystery about the guy that is never there
You brought this on yourself.
I just want a uni friend who is a loser like me who I can talk to without it feeling awkward
>>28319215
My life for the last four years.
>>28319370
it's really scary to sit in a public place alone though
>See all the no friends at uni threads on here
>Take in all the advice and see what they did wrong and what they regret
>Okay, now I know not to do that
>I'll put in the effort! I'll join a club or something
>I know that I'll end up the same if I dont just go to these events or speak up.
>Do exactly the same as everyone else
>No friends
>>28319215
>go to class
>go to work
>go home
>repeat
Saturday is the same only no work
>>28319398
I can never find that person is on par with me.
Everyone is either leagues above me, or below.
>Don't have a single friend in uni.
>I wish i did
>parents said that i will make friends for life
>no friends
>go to class erryday sit thinking about random shit >occasionally staring at small qt girl
>know nothing will ever happen between us chad as her locked down
>leave and go home
i wish i could make friends. i guess people like me are just suppose to be alone.
>>28318976
I won't lie, I kek'd
>>28319943
>laughing at other robots misfortunes
I can tell your one of those normies who visit this board to laugh at other people's misery. Go fuck yourself.
>>28319966
yeah I know it's douchey and yeah I use it to compensate for my sad life
>18, graduating in 2 weeks
>accepted into state school
>no ambitions or goals
>decide I'm not going so I can save money and work for a while
I'm just delaying the inevitability of growing up and all, but I'm a clueless indecisive wreck and I think if I went to college as unprepared as I am right now I'd just waste my time and not figure out what I want to major in.
I've basically decided on going to a 2 year school sometime next year and getting some core classes in but other than that I'm lost. Wat do
>>28318976
>go to college because it's supposed to be the best time of my life
>literally the worst time of my life
God dammit, I am as lonely as lonely gets, I was hoping that going to uni would give me a new fresh start, and make a best friend and get a girl friend, but after going through this thread I see that I will just repeat the same shit I had to deal with before.
>>28320086
So much this. I've never thought about killing myself this much in my life until I started college.
It really doesn't get better. It's basically high school with twice the amount of Chads and Stacies.
>>28319437
Yeah, it's like that for me when I'm first sitting down somewhere, but once I get absorbed into my work those fears usually vanish.
>>28320086
This. My desire for suicide has never been stronger than while in college. At least I got accepted to a well paying job, I guess I'll find out if it was worth it or not in a few months.
>>28320185
oops meant to respond to
>>28319431
origigami fampalamps
>>28320063
oh hey, you just wasted 18 years in public school being taught hardly any real, valuable economic or life skills! Decide what you want to do for the rest of your life now! Oh and don't forget to take a ton of debt and more "schooling" because that really worked out great for you the first time right?
OY VEY!
>>28319011
Just go get a hobby, you're not going to meet anyone, physically, if you are just going to be a couch potato.
>>28318976
I felt this way too. College is basically normie central, high school 2.0, etc.
Hell in a lot of ways its even WORSE than high school, feels a lot more clique-ish. And to get into any parties you need a lot of girls with you otherwise they dont let you in. It's so stupid.
>>28320218
Academia truly is the neural jew
>>28318976
Dude, that's only because all the other smart introverts are sitting in their rooms hiding from Chads too. Look up clubs for your uni for your interests. Hell of a lot easier to meet people at uni like that than it is any other time of your life, please take advantage of that.
>>28320251
What college do you attend? I heard that Corpus Christi A&M is a big party school. What do you mean by "clique-ish"? People are not as open to talk with you?
>>28319038
>costs 65k a year to go to.
I hope you have rich parents who are paying your tuition for you.
Maybe Im wrong, but I feel like if you dont make a good group of friends by the first week or two, you're fucked.
You become that weird guy with no friends. People don't want to hang out with you, if you don't really hang out with anyone else. I tried joining some clubs, because it seems like everyone already has their own social groups outside of the clubs, and I feel like my social desperation is written on my face.
It's amazing how it seems like most people are socially established as soon as they get there. Maybe my perception is just wrong, but that's what it felt like.
Seriously the most lonely place I've ever been, college. So lonely because there's thousands of people around you and it feels like there's not a single one to really interact with.
Am I the only one that is enjoying university?
>go to class kinda boring but it's fine
>go to work, mostly just chill and talk to my coworkers
>go home and play vidya
>hang out with a couple of friends on weekends
Only my first year but pretty comfy so far tbph.
>>28318976
>I used to fall for the introvert = smart meme
>realize I'm completely average intelligence wise
>>28320272
Goylege is FUN! You get to party and explore your sexuality in a studio apartment you share with someone you never met before! Oh, what's that? You're still a VIRGIN?!?!?!?
<gasp>
Don't worry, EVERYONE get's laid in college, er... brah? so that's even MORE reason to come...
Besides...you might even meet a
CUTE
SMART
GIRL
in one of your classes
:^)
Just remember to pay Dr. Silverstein for your gender studies degree at the end of it, and remember...college debt can NEVER be forgiven!
>>28320296
Clique-ish because people have their friend groups and that's it.
Also: people have their "ratios" for parties, their ratio of girls to boys and another guy would ruin it, so you can't get invited to any parties. There's always room for one more girl, never room for one more guy. It's weird because I know it's not the women's fault, but I still feel like they're just so lucky that they can get into any party they want, for nothing.
>>28320086
>Imagining me somehow making it in life, having kids, a wife, and friends at middle age
>imagining when the college experience discussion will come up with friends or kids
>>28320321
>friends
Reee
fuckingoregnao
>>28319370
>trying to look mysterious
>tfw commuting to college from mom's house
>thought it was a good idea cause I'd save money
>literally all of the drawbacks with none of the benefits
Should have gone to robot school OP.
>>28318976
>This feel.
Actually this only happened the year I dropped out cause I wanted to kill myself.
The year before this it was movie nerds and germans who drank a lot and talked about spongebob. Those guys were great.
>>28320474
>live in Georgia
>can't go to georgia tech because I failed pre calc in high school
My brain could not comprehend that class
I felt like an unevolved species
>>28320086
>>28320360
>>28320200
>>28320131
This is why I can't leave /r9k/. You're the only bunch you let me know I'm not alone. This is the first time in my life i've had depression and its because I'm forced to live in these awful fucking dorms with this Jew I hate with every fiber of my being.
>>28320335
Sorry my autism made me
>>28320785
It doesn't get better, but you do grow numb to it eventually.
>tfw transferred from uni to community college
>no more annoying stoner room mate
>no more shitty dining hall food
>get to enjoy the comfort of my own home again
>>28320850
College made me realized I had never truly hated in my life before going there. Whatever flame of compassion was left in my has since been snuffed. I applied to transfer out of my dorm on the first day and nothing ever happened. I honestly believe leaving this hellhole will help.
The worst part is definetly having my porn habits restricted by sharing a room with two fucking people. It's like living as a little kid in a grown mans body.
Don't get me started on sharing a public bathroom and showers with every chad, normie, and retard who can't flush
>>28320302
>no one wants to be friends with that guys with no friends
>because they don't want to be known as that guys that's friends with that guy with no friends
>because they think people will not want to be friends with someone who is friends that's friends with a guy who has no friends
It's a conundrum really.
>>28318976
>participating in a system that is design for women and where you are constantly reminded that you are potential rapist.
>>28318976
>Don't worry anon, college girls love the quiet intellectual types!
>>28318976
>got to college/uni
>meet some acquaintances (friends who I only communicate online with outside of classes, they can never know in not normal)
>go through the college basically getting the social experience through a smartphone screen
>they keep asking me to come to shit
>I keep refusing because my facade isn't strong enough
>college ends
>all of my acquaintances marry and have kids
>they're In thousands of dollars of debt
>they're happy as shit
>reflect on myself
>I'm resonably wealthy from my compsci/elec eng degree
>have anything I ever wanted
>still depressed
>realize my life sucks
>>28321332
Picture of your prized possession?
>>28321422
That seems unsafe...
My momma never told me to post pics on the interwebs
>>28318976
>uni
>full of smart introverts
lol dude
>>28319176
Same thing here anon! My two nigger suitemates blared shitty rap past 2 am last night. Can't wait to get out of these fucking dorms
I transferred to my uni after a couple years at community college and I have no friends here that I didn't already know. I probably could have done well if I had come here straight out of high school since you're basically forced to make friends with a bunch of new people, but I'm so fucking bad at initiating contact with people and keeping up relationships by myself. I would probably have actually killed myself if I didn't have my best friend I've known since 6th grade and his group of friends here (which I've slithered my way into).
>>28322701
>tfw some kids from your high school go to your uni
>they avoid you like the plague
WHY
LITERALLY
WHY
>>28321437
wait how is your prized possession even relevant to your post why did the other anon ask for that
>be tall robot in uni
>lift the feels away every day, try to dress well in the hopes of one day getting a gf
>tfw my fellow robots assume im just a chad and wont befriend me
>>28322885
>>tfw my fellow robots assume im just a chad and wont befriend me
lul i really doubt this
>>28320962
Waaaaaa I can't watch tentacle loli porn I hate my life
>>28320962
>>28322962
>reading loli doujins in class
>>28320785
same famalam
I've tried to leave here before but you guys are the select few that can share feels with me
In a world of reddit and normies, this is the only place I can vent
thats because the rich normies live in the dorms fucktard
>>28322779
>The only people from your high school who went to the same college as you were two tumblristas
>They dropped out after 2 semesters
>>28323290
Do you just not see them again or do you know for sure
>>28323329
I know for sure because I have kikebook
>>28319215
This is a lifestyle I enjoy. Makes contact to a minimum.
>>28322962
I've gotta be careful even browseing /r9k/ because of the filth you autists post. This fucking kike snores like a lawnmower so I never get enough sleep, and theres three of us stuffed into a room barely big enough to be a double. Shits fucked
>tentacle porn
your shit taste is showing.
>>28318976
Did you live in the honors dorm?
I did.
I met the love of my life and some of my best friends there. And guess what, they aren't normos.
>>28318976
Bro, you done fucked up.
But it's not too late.
Pick an upper-class sport that involves hitting people (rugby or tae kwon do). Join a group/team for this at your school.
Train it like it's your job.
This will fix your problems.
>>28323531
>love of my life
>they arn't normos
hrmmmm
>never try to talk with anyone
>make no effort to put yourself out there
>don't even try to practice social skills
>WHY AM I SO LONELY ITS SO UNFAIR
Grow the fuck up and realize that not everything is just handed to you. They're social SKILLS, and like every other SKILL you must practice to become sufficient at it. Quit acting like a bitch and do something about your life.
This does not apply to those of you diagnosed with autism by an actual doctor. If "muh anxiety" is your excuse, go get fucking treatment, you won't get better if you don't face your fears. If I did it you can too.
>>28323883
>never try to talk to anyone
>make no effort to put myself out there
>don't even try to practice social skills
why the fuck do i have so many friends
>>28323928
No one gives a shit, this isn't for you. Fuck off
>>28320355
Random chick - wants to fuck or will bring her friend who wants to fuck
Random dude - will drink your booze and be compete with you for chicks
It's really not hard to see why they don't let strangers in. It sucks, but when you go to the effort of setting up a party would you want strangers fucking it up?
>>28320321
>actually having time to play vidya
How do you have the time? I'm doing work all day, every day. I don't think a single person on my course made it through the week before the spring holiday without losing sleep. One of my friends was awake for 4 days straight getting work done.
>>28324067
>staying awake 4 straight days
Either he's severely exaggerating or a dumbass. Your work quality suffers tremendously under sleep deprivation, so it's more efficient to lose 6-8 hours sleeping and resume than to try to power through it.
>>28324205
It's doable especially with pills.
![mrWuQpn[1].png](https://i.imgur.com/XPDVmqi.png "mrWuQpn[1].png")
>>28319370
he could hang out with the man in the silver coat
>>28318976
Does this shit actually happen in America I just live at home with my mum and go to university.
>>28320450
>commuting to college from mom's house
same
What holds me back from moving on campus (and I'm given the choice to do so literally every semester, fall semester this year will be my 3rd semester), is that the dorms on my campus are absolute dog shit. Tiny, clammy, no amenities, shitty beds, shitty food, its like a cheap motel.
I'm doing decently socially, but its not good enough, and I wonder if it would even make a difference if I lived on campus or not. I know guys who live on campus who stay in their dorm constantly and never leave, I know guys who are huge socially and never stay in their dorm, but I've never heard of someone who lives off campus and is big socially, but I have heard talk of a few guys living off campus and being in a frat which by default means they are huge socially.
So I just don't know. Should I live on campus?
>>28324263
It's possible to stay awake with pills, it's not possible to keep your productivity up. You end up making mistakes and introducing errors that you need to fix later. On top of quality issues, your work rate suffers too, so you spend much longer trying to complete the task than had you slept.
I wish there was a magic drug to negate the need for sleep, but right now brute forcing it isn't enough.
>>28318976
the problem is not that the uni os full of intelligent introverts and muh special snowflake, the problem is the uni is full of even smarter extroverts.
>>28324448
You're definitely not 100% but I've been awake for good amount of time and was able to be somewhat productive.
>>28324445
Dorms are terrible, don't fall for the meme. Its not going to make you more social, just cramped and stressed. If you want to be on your own live rent an apartment with a friend.
>>28319370
lol you fucking hipster goofys are the inside joke of the whole uni.
>>28319215
I've been there except it was a giant trash bag full of whippets not a bathtub
>>28324557
did you really mean that?
>>28324499
There are a number of experiments on sleep deprivation, and people work substantially slower even on menial tasks.
But let's just say you have been up for 16 hours and are working at 50% of your peak. The first guy keeps working 12 hours to get his work done. The other guy gets 6 hours of sleep, feels refreshed and works 6 hours near 100%. The guy who slept had the same output and will be working faster than the first.
If course those are all bullshit numbers, but that's the general idea. If I remember correctly near the 24 hours of no sleep mark your productivity is much lower than 50%, but it's late and I can't be assed to look up scholarly articles on the subject. I may be completely wrong, who knows.
>>28318976
Every day I have to spend at uni my depression gets exponentially worse.
>>28322885
You are me.
Original
>>28324854
im sorry for you both that you still in the mfw no girlfrien phase.
>>28325024
>phase
Orgimani
I'm going to uni next year, worth just taking the train into Wellington from Lower Hutt and doing it from home? The main upside for this is that I'd save a shit ton of money but will I be missing out on anything socially?
NZfag for all those unaware
>>28325197
Victoria? It'll be kind of a hassle training in, then walking from the station to the cable car on Lambton Quay then from the cable station to the university every day. But I wouldn't say you're missing out on anything no, we don't really have that college dorm culture here. Hardly anyone lives at university other than international students.
>>28324712
>being paid hourly
>wanting to put 100% effort in your job to get out sooner
>ever
>not wanting to cost the company millions in both productivity and your wages in order to drive the company into the dirt
>>28320335
That was a rude awakening fucking hell
>get the "you'll find smart introverts like you!" Lies peddled to me
>get to uni and it's wall to wall chads and stacies who are not only as smart or smarter than me but are the beautiful people as well
>near end of second year of college
>still don't know what I want to major in
>no friends
What do.
>get shit grades because I put no effort in
>people with better grades than me compliment me because I'm smart
thanks faggots do my homework for me then
>>28319215
What the fuck else are you supposed to do?
Seriously, I want things to do besides study, browse here, cook, and do laundry. The library on campus is one of the big social areas but I feel weird just sitting there :(
>>28325346
pick a major
just don't plan on the friends thing changing
us robots are all you have anon
>actually staying in halls/dorms
>not staying at home and commuting
Deserved it desu
>>28318976
>first semester of uni
>determined to not be a shut-in like high school
>try to chat with one of the other first years
>going well, he seems alright
>end of the first week, we have a party arranged by our tutors
>turns out two of the people in our class were actually 3rd years placed in our class as a prank
>one of them was the guy I talked to
Fuck
>well, whatever, still doing fine
>we're all told to form study groups and me and 2 guys and 1 woman (around 35) form up
>we all get along, doing good
>suddenly one guy decides to drop out
FUCK
>left with just 3 people in our group, but still doing fine
>the other guy in our group was a pretty sporty dude
>talked to him about working out and going to the gym, since I wanted to get in better shape
>we become gym buddies
>he switches to another class right after
Fuck
>at least I'm having a lot fun with the parties and such
>I apparently dance like a maniac when drunk
>become somewhat known in my class for that and for being a chill dude
>I even manage to chat up chicks during these parties
>suddenly no more parties, or at least major parties
>no more chances for me to dance like a retard and have fun
>never managed to gather courage to ask anyone out
>slowly drifting back into old habits
>probably even worse off now than I was back in high school
TUMBLING DOWN
TUMBLING DOWN
TUMBLING DOWN
>>28318976
>>28319176
>>28319215
>>28320086
>>28320785
>tfw I fell for the tech meme
>currently no drive at all to do anything
>have the same work ethic as highschool, maybe even worse
>play vidya ever single day, even MORE then I did in highschool
>really doing everything last minute, skipping shit I don't like
I just wanted to be a neet after highschool
I guess I get to be a neet after uni as I've never had a job or know anyone
>>28325378
I do that
Just give me a computer and food and I'm set for the rest of my life
>>28325386
low-functioning normie detected
get the fuck out
>Had panic attacks in lectures for weeks, just sitting their tripping my balls off.
>Went home to flat with nothing to do, everybody thought I was weird and made snide comments about me
>couldnt leave the house unless I was drinking
I stopped going to lectures and attempting to make friends because it just wasnt working.
I did eventually pick up jogging which helped my anxiety and improved my confidence in my self (but not socially lol)
4 freaking years and 2 dropouts later I am back at the hometown where I started in a wagecuck retail job
Despite all the shit you get from customers, the aches and pains from manual labour it is 1000 times more bearable than the sloth I experienced at university
>Dude just go outside, you'll make friends and have a good time
Yeah no
>>28325378
>spending 3 hours per day commuting
>spending more money than I currently spend on my temporary apartment commuting
Not really an option.
>>28325358
>hardly ever pay attention and study
>still perform just as well as my classmates that spend 4+ hours each day studying
nice
>"yeah anon uni will be a great a experience"
>it's like school with more work and less friends
>"yeah I guess it kinda sucks now haha"
thx dad
>>28320302
Fucking this.
I was a 'metalhead' went I first started and all of my 7 hallmates were fucking golliwogs, I swear they were the only ones on campus and they stuck them all in the same hall. With me. Fucking typical, so when everyone else was out partying and making mates with their hallmates I was alone in my room wishing I was back home.
4 years later and it's really no different. I've got some polish people I gatecrash parties with, so it's not all bad. But yeah, If it wasn't for those niggers it'd be a different story.
>>28319370
>not having autism
O
>>28324067
How?
Do you just work an absurd amount of hours a week or something?
I'm unemployed aside from being a studen, and I have so much free time it's crazy! Maybe 20 hours each week are spent studying and going to class, and I'm completely free aside from that.
>>28318976
>"Oh hey, you're the kid on our floor that never leaves his room!"
They're literally telling you what to do to fit in and make friends
leave your room
their heckle may even be an opportunity to socialize
go over there and talk to them faggot
>your pic
you literally did this to yourself
how did you think not leaving your room would improve your situation?
>>28325691
nice. listen to this man OP. if i've learned one thing in life, people WANT to like you. if they don't, it's because they made it hard for them to like you
>>28323501
>contact to a minimum :-) :^)
>MUH NO FRIENDS
>MUH NO GF
>MUH CAN'T SOCIALIZE
>FUCK CHAD HE HAD EVERYTHING THROWN AT HIM
>>28325711
*sorry that should say "YOU made it hard for them to like you"
>>28319038
Sounds like Vanderbilt or Dartmouth.
>>28325360
You can do anything you want, anon. The only limit is yourself and maybe money :^)
>>28319038
NYU?
bloggs
>>28325468
Just drop out then
Don't need a degree to be a NEET
>>28325827
The way uni works here (in Denmark), there's hardly any difference between being a NEET or being a student.
It's less than 20 hours a week and I get paid for it, so whatever.
>>28325618
I don't have a job, just a student. Last term we had 23 hours of classes a week and a fucking mountain of coursework that was all due in the last week, one deadline every day.
This term we don't have any classes but we have 8 exams to study for as well as a big essay, a lab report and a presentation.
>half of the people in my comp. sci. classes are Staceys
JUST
>>28326093
Sounds rough.
So far all we've had to do has been read a bunch of stuff and answer some basic questions, then our classes have just been our teachers giving us the answers to the questions and recapping what we've read so far.
>>28325664
How good you are at manipulating who you know
>>28318976
you are too beta op.
they used to say the same thing.
i always told them don't make noise around here.
I AM FUCKING READING
Just start smoking weed you'll find friends instantly
>>28320360
>imagining when the college experience discussion will come up with friends or kids
Now I have something else to think about cheers.
>>28326104
even stacies aren't safe from the computer science meme
>lazy
>underachieve a-level
>have to do foundation year
>make no friends
>still have my lifelong friend here though
>found nobody who shares my interests
>going to start comp sci next year so will be in the class with all the friendless freshers again
My last chance
>>28320321
The only reason I enjoy going to university is that it beats living with my parents. I can do what I want and I don't have to deal with their drama.
>>28326389
i am the exact same
>Go to Uni
>Awesome Roommate, invites me to go places
>fucking autismo and say "you go ahead" nearly every time he asks me, eventually stops asking me
>serious self-esteem issues, feel like if i go anywhere i will get picked on, ppl will act friendly just to laugh at me
>usually just go on here, wonder around campus alone for hours with no direction, or sit alone in the dining hall
>randomly take adderall one night
>Wonder around the bar area, kids invite me to some house party
>Say some autism shit to them, they leave saying something about me
>end up outside on a bench, randomly talk to this kid who is high on coke, smoke weed with him, he says cool ppl hang out here nearly every day before class and i should come too
>another dude comes and i talk to him
>he invites me to go LARPing with his friends.
>wonder around till 6 in the morning
>sleep and when i wake up i never take the risk at going to the bench or meeting the larping kid
>transfer schools cause no friends and depressed
REEEEE, i fucking hate myself! I haven't had a legit friend in along time. GAAHHHH AHHHHH
i did the same thing in high school with girls who wanted to be with me, I just never talked to them cause i thought they weren't serious
WHAT IS WRONG WITH MEEE
>>28326845
Are you in uk?
What uni?
>>28325386
>>28325403
this
fuck off, norm
>>28320302
>It's amazing how it seems like most people are socially established as soon as they get there. Maybe my perception is just wrong, but that's what it felt like.
So much this. I'd be sitting in a room and hear some people having a completely casual, open conversation and think: "well, they must have known each other for a long time".
Then they ask where they're from, or what their name is, and not only does it make me realize how socially inept how I am I also have to wonder what it is about me that automatically repels people from starting a conversation with me.
>>28320086
I dropped out of college, moved 2k miles away, committed a robbery, and went to jail for 9 months.
my life is still loads better than when i was in college
>>28318976
The more I hear about Uni, the less I ever want to go.
>>28320063
Don't go if you don't want to. I went for a year without any idea on my major, failed a lot of classes, and took 6k in debt. Find out what you want to do first, and then attend the cheapest college possible.
>>28324445
only way you'll do well off campus is by having your own place to bring people back to. dorm will only help you if you don't become a shut in. it makes it easier to participate in activities and generally just be a part of campus shit.
honestly i found the people at college to be 100,000 times easier to talk to than people in high school. even if i limped up to them and stuttered out "h-hey d-do you mind if i hang out with you guys for a bit?" the response positive. and i'm an odd looking dude. but putting myself out there like that was a fucking nightmare
After he said that you should have joked around with them. Lrn 2 not be an autist.
>>28326195
>I AM FUCKING REEEEEEEEEEEEDING
>>28328174
>tfw had own apartment
>all i did was drink and do drugs by myself and masturbate
happy senior year
>start comp.sci degree on uni
>commuting
>math is though as hell, low grades
>know basically no one
>hardly exchanged a word with one since the beginning of the year
it's much worse than school, at least there I had a couple of friends and the material was 10x easier
i have an exam tomorrow, im completely exhausted from yesterdays one and cant study for shit and then i have another one in 5 days
i cant eat or shit because of stress, im anxious 24/7 and i hate what im doing
help me
>>28318976
>Secondary medical school starting.
>Secondary meds are proclaimed as high tier schools.
>Medical school.
>No one will smoke.
>Everyone will be intellectual and smart.
>No one will know of wat's marijuana.
>Year later.
>Started smoking.
>Get high on a monthly basis.
>Smartest in class.
>mfw
>>28320251
bring alcohol and/or weed and they'll usually let you in
I've crashed parties in groups of like 5-6 guys with no girls and we got let in because we had a handle of vodka and some blunts.
>start uni
>don't drink alcohol
>don't do drugs
>don't do sports
why did i do this
>>28323886
On the contrary to what most of you are posting, I was a massive fucking sperglord before uni and now I actually pass as a human being. I put myself through hell socialising until I was capable of doing it naturally, and it really paid off. I'm a lot happier now. You guys just either got unlucky in your friends/surrounding dorm mates or didn't try enough to put yourselves in situations that made you uncomfortable.
>>28329087
Shit, meant to respond to OP. Oh well lol
>>28329028
You were tricked into paying large somes of cash to an institution like most other young individuals. You didn't think for yourself you let others do it for you.
>>28329168
Actually I chose to come here because I really liked programming and wanted a degree in computer science. It's a useful degree but I've come to hate programming now.
>>28329228
Everyone who likes programming comes to hate and resent it at some point.
>he fell for the uni meme
>he actually went to school where networking is one of the most important things
>became a shut in
Sorry, you memed yourself hard on this one, pal.
>>28320242
You stupid fuck, all the hobby clubs are literally part of university.
>>28325360
Just go to the library and make it apparent you're playing Pokemon on your 3DS that I suppose you have you fucking nerd. Chances are you'll eventually be noticed by a cute shy girl (shy girls love pokemon) and she'll approach you one day. :)
I'm never going to college, I don't care if I become a loser, at least if I live in a van I can go somewhere else and forget who these losers are
>going to university next year
I-it gets better r-right guys?
>>28330466
True that. I fell for the programming meme.
>>28330787
Hell no. Shit gets worse to be honest. You have to pretend to like people and shit during labs and make people think you're not a lonely sack of shit. Better off just staying home and become a NEET.
-sincerely a 4th year anon
>>28325715
>le one person
>went to university hoping to make friends
>end up living next to two muslims and a nigger chad
>muslims only hang with other muslims
>ask the four guys in an adjacent hall to knock my door before they go out that night to the nearby student bar
>they don't
>go out alone and end up going to a club with another group
>have an ok time and return by taxi to the student dorms
>say "see you guys" and head to my dorm
>overheard one girl saying "what was his name?" in a ridiculing way
>hear the guy I thought I was friends with say "haha no idea"
>next day at lunch
>nobody to sit by so I join the above group
>jokingly tell the guy I heard him saying he didn't know what my name was
>can tell he's uncomfortable
>they all finish and leave quickly
>finish eating alone
>the four guys in the next dorm keep breaking into my hallway's kitchen to steal food etc
>my orange juice is half-full
>piss in it and leave it
>eat in my room from then on
>>28319370
Oh god I just remembered how in my first uni I used to always conspicuously read a book in public places not talking to anyone. Wasn't even trying to be le edgy mysterious guy, just had no clue what to do with myself between classes.
>Over 200 societies at university
>Half of them are just 'We're from the same country, lets go drinking together'
>The other half don't appeal to me
I want to be part of something so I'm looking for a society so next year isn't as shit as this year, but none of them sound any good.
>>28322885
Lol I know a /fit/ handsome dude in my uni that I suspect of being a secret robot (seems insecure for no apparent reason while talking to people). I still hate him because he's driven and not a fat alcoholic like me.
>>28328860
Medical school is the height of degeneracy.
>>28332022
There's nothing degenerate about smoking marijuana.
>>28319370
You know all the normies are constantly judging you and snickering behind your back, right?
>>28330956
>>28330466
>>28329228
3rd yr CS here
>tfw people here struggled af with most math classes
>tfw i passed them with good grades with none-to-medium amount of effort
>meanwhile when home I'm wasting time, playing vidya and lurking
>they partake in programming events, learn shit on their own and do extracurricular projects together
>while I know basic shit like language names, syntax and most common shit they're spouting out frameworks names and boast impressive shit they've programmed, companies they interned for etc
I guess it's kinda uni's fault they don't require real-life important stuff from us but it's annoying watching others when you don't have that drive to put in independent work while they work extra-hard to even pass the required shit and THEN have energy to do their own shit.
>>28332247
First off, yes there is you fucking stoner.
Second, its not just weed. Its coke, molly, adderall, ritalin, acid, etc.
Not to mention everyone fucking each other.
Chad reporting in.
The "chads" you complain about aren't real chads. They're insecure, sensitive little shits that want to bring people down because of their own insecurities.
While me and my friendgroup exceed in work, sports, social life, etc, we welcome everyone, we encourage everyone. Of course there's bants but that only happens once we get to know you.
Bringing people down because of their anxieties or because they're introverted is the last thing we do, and we have legitimately gotten in fist fights telling people to fuck off and leave others alone and that they're little bitches.
They just need to be put in their place. I bet they would cower if you said "fuck off" sternly.
>>28332741
>hurr durr I shall fight for Europa's purity by fapping to tentacle hentai and shouting at black people on the internet
>>28330644
This
A girl approached and talked to me when I was walking to community college wearing my attack on titan hoody
>>28332787
What the fuck are you even talking about? Literally nothing to do with anything i said
>>28332827
Sure /pol/
>>28332849
I say medical schools are degenerate because people do a lot of drugs and have a lot of sex, and now I'm a conspiracy theory /pol/ racist?
>>28332888
Nice trips.
Yeah they're total generates studying shit that'll get them ridiculously high-payed jobs while doing shit that's enjoyable and literally doesn't hurt anybody.
>>28332919
I'm not saying they arent incredibly successful. I'm saying that all the shit people say about college being degenerate (drugs, sex, parties, etc) and full of chads and stacies is multiplied by 100 in medical school. Thats the only point I was making.
Regardless, still dont see how any of that was /pol/ related.
>>28332977
I just hate the term "degenerate" because it's an umbrella term for anything that normies (esp. normies in their 40s +) and /pol/acks think is "wrong" for bullshit outdated moralfag reasons. Anyway yeah, college is shit. I could even get on in the "degeneracy" if I wanted to but watching normies disgusts me and I don't want any of that.
>>28332775
Chad is right. It's a continuation from that high school mentality of "fake it till you make it", which has a surprising number of people following it in the "adult" world. 1 thing I've noticed the older I get, at the risk of self-projecting, is that many people aren't comfortable with who/what they are and will try to hide it however they can.
/r9k/ needs more based Chads like this 1. Pls tell me you're giving advice, anon.
>>28320302
its even more brutal than the genetic lottery- the first year roommate lottery
it will literally define your entire college experience unless you're part of a sports team.
>>28333127
Always willing to help bro, that's what being a leader is all about, trying to bring others to your level and beyond.
Projecting insecurities on others in the form of bullying is the most cowardly thing you can do
But ultimately it all lies within you. You choose to take someones advice or be confident. There will always be someone trying to put you down no matter where you go. People in general are just fucked.
>>28318976
>tfw I fell for the meme and studied for 2.5 years but couldnt complete it because I needed to write my thesis WITH SOMEONE, and do interviews and shit
Don't ask me what I studied I don't want to talk about it. I wish I could've been non-retarded enough to realize what a nervous wreck I was before I went to memeversity.
>>28333212
Tell me Chad, were you a robot at 1 point? Regardless, what would be some good advice you could give to someone who's trying to get their shit together?
If it matters:
>currently work comp repair job
>don't like it
>don't want to go thousand of dollars into debt and deal with uni crap again
>>28333304
>Tell me Chad, were you a robot at 1 point?
tbqh not really
>Regardless, what would be some good advice you could give to someone who's trying to get their shit together?
That whole confidence meme people bitch here about is absolutely true, but it is only half of what matters - not giving a flying fuck.
It can be hard but you have to not give a fuck. no matter what you do. look at how everyone here is so quick to shit on celebrities and shit. think they give a flying fuck?
also, knowing the difference between criticism and being a dick. criticism is amazing. it's how we improve. unfortunately people take it so personally and never improve.
but i don't know enough about you. just be confident and not give a flying fuck, not even to your mother, about what you do. im not saying youll turn into chad but youll be alot happier and better off.
and never, ever be afraid to tell people to fuck off.
>>28333461
Thanks Chad. Best of luck to you
>>28333487
not to mention everyone bitches about their work no matter how good it seems they have it. the grass is never greener. work is just work. you earn money to fund having fun outside of work. thats how you have to look at it. you're there to earn a paycheque, nothing more.
i fucking hate how my employer goes on about "passion" and shit, i wouldn't fucking be there if i didn't need money to support myself. nobody would, anywhere, not even bill gates himself.
>>28333589
>i fucking hate how my employer goes on about "passion" and shit, i wouldn't fucking be there if i didn't need money to support myself. nobody would, anywhere, not even bill gates himself.
That's actually an interesting concept. If you want, care to explain it in further detail?
>>28333714
I mean, don't get me wrong. If work is driving you insane, it's time to leave.
But its perfectly reasonable to moderately dislike work. We would all rather be doing other things. None of us would go to work for 8 hours a day if we didn't have to.
If Bill Gates could be a billionaire sitting on his ass doing nothing, you bet your ass he'd flip the bird at Microsoft and they'd never see him again.
If I could sit on my ass and do absolutely nothing and make what I make, you bet your ass I'd tell my boss to go fuck himself and he'd never see me again. I am by no means "passionate". I possess a skill, and I use such skill to earn decent money.
Work is just work. It's a paycheque. So shut your brain down on the bullshit duties (that literally every job has) that no one wants, think of funny shit, and just do it. Keep the spirits high. Lay the bants on fellow co workers.
My work life has one saying: there's only way to do this job, and that's to just fucking do it.
People who whine about work are the worst. We all have to do it. We all hate it. Boo hoo, that's not the reason you're miserable. And quite frankly, absolutely no one wants to hear you bitch about work. They instantly lose respect for you whether you realize it or not. It shows them you're a little bitch who lets others get into your head. It's the stuff outside of work that makes you a miserable fuckstick.
Sorry for ranting.
>>28333822
No problem, it helped me understand where you were coming from.
Nice dubs BTW
>>28319215
>chug a tall can
>go to work
>go to the airport
>get shit faced at bar
>get on plane with bro worker
>talk to chicks on plane
>buy drinks
>get to job site, do bio decontamination
>after jobs done have drinks
"Hey anon that girl is checking you out"
"Nah bro she's not my type lol"
>HI FIVES
>don't tell him the only girl I've ever loved died two months ago overseas
>never tell anyone how I can't go on
>back at airport, buy drinks
>plane ride 2 more
>wait for shuttle, 2 more
>to the car
>to the bar
>to the car
>back home
>to the car
>to the bar
>to the car
>back home
>>28329228
>doing a mixed it course with different modules
>programming is one of them
>dont understand it and also hate it
>wont pursue it any further
well at least i know i dont like it?
>>28331430
Wtf how is it even possible that it gets worse than high school???
>>28319920
Try and talk to people
>>28333961
What kind of job do you do where your commute involves a plane journey? Is it all expenses paid?
>>28326093
What uni do you attend??
>>28334918
Anon, IDK about you but depending on where you end up, high school will seem like the shit compared to college.
In all honesty college is hands down 1 of the most depressing experiences of your entire life.
You're stuck in an environment where it is much more difficult to make friends since most people are just moving form point A to point B. Those who do talk to you are more interested in "networking" than anything else. The only real way to engage a person in a meaningful conversation is often at parties where they offer drugs and alcohol to loosen up people to talk to those they would never interact with in a million years.
Roommates aren't any better. Some uni's are cool in that they give you choices to better suit your preferences. In all honesty, unless you put, "No niggers, pls", they'll throw you with whomever they can and don't give a shit. You better hope and pray to God they see eye to eye on things like cleanliness standards, quiet hours, and so on.
Cont...
>>28335264
How do people meet people at uni? I always seem to sit alone and nobody ever comes to say hi. I'd like to make a friend but it seems like it's too late.
>>28335658
Cont...
For the first 2-3 years you'll be forced to retake classes you felt meh towards or absolutely hated in high school. Your life will be wake up, go to school, come home, do homework, and enjoy free time. UNLESS you want money to do and pay for things. Then you need to get a job. It'll probably be a job you could've done in high school like waiting tables, library, or whatever. You'll eventually be in a Catch 22 where you can choose between coming home from work and doing your homework right away and killing free time, or, blowing off homework for free time and have to risk getting bad grades.
ALL of this while going thousands of dollars into debt (scholarships are a fucking meme). You better make sure you know what you wanna do whenever you enroll because the longer you wait to major, or if you decide 3 years into your current major you don't like it, then get prepared from anywhere to another 1-3 years of college with 1-3 years of debt.
Honestly, I believe college numbs you to the point where all the shit as an adult you feared as a kid seem like benefits compared to the last 4+ years of stress and anxiety you just dealt with.
>>28318976
>>28319215
>went to uni for 6 years
>never approached other people
>people never approached me
>never went out
>never had anyone over in my apartment
>not even a single time
Why?
>Go to Uni
>Somehow managed to get dates despite being an introvert
>One canceled on the day we were supposed to go
>The other never responded after the first
>Both complained about how I was terrible at conversation
>Only thing they could point out was that they had to call me instead of me calling them at some points
I really pushed myself out of my comfort zone to socialize with these people. Most of our conversations weren't even that bad, but they act like I treated them like shit because I struggled with mild social anxiety. I fucking hate being in this position, why are men always given so much responsibility in relationships? Why can't both of us just talk to each other like friends who also love each other?
>>28335757
This. I absolutely hate uni, depression has worsened massively, have 0 motivation to attend or do well and the people there act like absolute fucking antisocial autists most of the time. Would probably have killed myself if I didn't keep in touch with my social circle from high school and do shit with them often
>>28326104
Don't worry, most girls leave before 3rd year.
>>28320119
Honestly just talk to people, I mean I don't, but if you can do it.
>>28325396
I know that feel anon, my exact situation only I'm not even attending classes right now. I'd play even more vidya and watch more of my animu backlog if I didnt feel so guilty and ashamed of being a worthless being, with no job prospects and no clue what to do in lfie cause I suck at everything.
>Just give me a computer and food and I'm set for the rest of my life
If only.
>>28320450
Literally the only good thing about College is having my own apartment. Sucks most of the time I'm at school or working or sleeping. I wish I had more time to stay up all night and day to play video games and shitposting without my mom yelling at me for staying up late.
>be at uni
>poorfag because shitty job
>decide that, in order to save money, I should eat as little as possible, for as long as possible
>drink only sweet tea to keep bloodsugar up
>pass out in middle of class 2nd week
>wake up in hospital
>no insurance, medical bill is hella expensive
>lose $600
>mfw you can't win
>>28336305
not if you're an idiot, no
>go in ComSci department because I think I'll fit in with the nerds
>filled with either complete normalfags or the fags that play LoL 24/7
>Want to go to college for marine mechanics
>Horrible student
>Bad at math
>Afraid of debt
What should I do?
>>28319038
Cornell pls?
If you luck out and end up rooming with chads/drug dealers like I did your college experience will be %100 times better; especially if your not a sperg. I would literally chill in my room playing vidya on my gaymen PC and chicks would be over all the time asking shit like "Anon, why is your keyboard and your monitor so cool looking?" I cant even make this shit up . I got taken to parties, got to mack with the hottest girls in the dorms, got easy access to drugs I thought I would never take, and social status that I thought I would never have. The whole experience really helped me socially and I cant thank them enough for saving me from being an edgy recluse NEET
>>28335697
Go and say hi to someone else or ask them about something relevant, it's really not hard
>>28336945
Fuck you, anon. I wish I had roommates like that. Instead I got a sperg who had a fat neckbeard friend who would come over almost every night and they'd scream and shout playing FIFA until 1am
>inb4 why didn't you tell them to keep it down
I DID! I did so many times
>>28336945
Lol
Aside from you, has anyone else on this board had this experience?
>>28318976
All the introverts spend all their time in their dorms like you
Also
>America
There's your problem
>>28337040
>>28336945
Yes.
The Chads did what they did to that anon. For me it was a joyous few years...
Chads took me to parties, where I had my first alcoholic drinks (alluded to them it wasn't the first time with success) it sat well with me and 3 years later I was doing the same, I did drugs, I even lost my virginity (sadly it was rape by a prostitute because I was absolutely smashed and high on md) but nonetheless.
They took me away from my PC gaming addiction and shitposting, they didn't know about 4chan because I gave very little away about anything I do besides studying my course and playing games.
They got me into House music, they helped me make genuine friends with other Chads and with Chads there are 10/10s everywhere and you just get involved easily, I know how to hack and people were very interested in it and not just for small talk.
Looking back I could have stayed in my room everyday and saved money, saved my innocence and my health.
But really it made me decide that I'm ready to kill myself, I was ready when I arrived and I'm ready now.
The chads still message me and we go drinking and catchup like genuine friends but I always feel like I'm looking through a window into life and everything upsets me.
>>28337373
>>28337040
Chads have the ability to pick you up like playdough and mold you into something like they are.
They'll get you to like what they like.
You'll do as they do.
>>28336997
If I say that they'll just think I'm a creep, people have already become established in their groups, I'd look like an idiot trying to scrape in.
>>28337373
Does every robot type study cs is uni?
>>28337525
That or English.
CS requires Computer knowledge, 4chan isn't a casual browse for most, you're here all day or night. If you can't be at your PC then maybe it's on your phone.
Freeloader courses with actual hobbyists or CS is what you'll get.
Move along if you want sports degrees and normie courses.
>>28331579
Jesus this a depressing post
>>28318976
>tfw one year since graduation and I'm more lonely than ever and still a kissless virgin
>tfw still think about all of the interesting and nice guys and girls I could've got to know at uni if only I wasn't so autistic
>sometimes I even form fake memories in my mind where we went to cool parties together even though it never happened
I really don't know where to go from here t b h
>go to uni anon! It's full of smart introverts like you!
>go to mediocre uni
>everyone's literally, actually retarded
>go to a good uni anon! It's full of smart introverts like you!
>go to top 15 uni in the world
>everyone's literally, actually retarded, except also wealthy and arrogant
>go to an elite uni for postgrad anon! It's full of smart introverts like you!
>get into Ivy League for PhD
>everyone is a retard monkeycomputer with no soul
>>28331579
haha, at least you got them back anon with the whole piss thing.
>>28319370
>Not creating that aura of mystery about the guy that is never there
holy shit im dying.
are you by any chance the Dark flame master as well
Fuck you, guys. This thread made me even more depressed.
>>28320335
the story of my fucking life.
I still feel smarter than the average normie though, but to be honest they make it easy to feel smarter than them.
>>28338444
Quality post anon. I am proud of you
>>28320321
not just you. I feel the metal falling from my skin and slowly revealing the normie I was always meant to be. It's a complicated feel though. (sophomore btw)
>Turns out since I'm smart my double major has been going great, 3.6 GPA
>met with an extremely extroverted guy my senior who I'm now best friends with.
>he's plugged me into his group, so there's always chances to hang out with people of various backgrounds and interests.
>free gym next to me, so I've lost 30 lbs while also making good gains
>been to a lot of free operas and plays cus of honors society, and to concerts with friends.
on the other hand
>never have enough time to read or play vidya any more.
>still a virgin at 20 (21 in a month)
>still sperge hard with women (I have an unbearable stutter talking to them)
>it's pretty shitty knowing that nobody cared about who I was until I met the dude in a chance encounter.
>the group on the whole is really smart, but it's obvious none of them ever dealt with isolation, and some of them are extremely vapid, which I cant stand.
on the whole I don't regret being here at all, even if I get saddled with a crazy debt. It's probably the first time my parents have ever been proud of me, and this'll actually make sure I have a future ahead of me.
[end of shitty blog]
>>28337494
I'm in the same situation as you and I would be happy if someone like you came up and talked to me while I was sitting alone
>>28319262
you did it to yourself
>>28338709
thanks your post is 100 as well
>>28320131
>>28320251
I wound up at an academically-focused state school that was mostly Asians and Indians, so it's possible to avoid that. I was also a bit older than the normal college age and was already in sobriety, so it was beneficial.
>>28318976
this is my life
i go to a small private liberal arts school
>only 2000 students
>still got chads
>have to move out of dorms and into private accomadation next year
>stuck with one guy I vaugley know from lectures who is constantly berating me for my clothes, intreststs, lack of friends/girlfriend but seems to think we're great friends and is always bugging me to do x or y with him and two people who I know nothing about and have only met once
>no locks on any the fucking doors
Anticipating it being the worst year of my life desu
>>28339379
>having someone constantly trying to get you out of your shell
>thinking this is a bad thing
>transferred after 1 1/2 years at community college so I completely missed out on the socialization and relationship-forming of freshman year
>pick a shit major with zero job prospects
>all they classes that they offer for my major are either SJWshit or completely bland
>family is poor so I never have any time to relax as I'm constantly working my shit retail job so I can afford to eat
>roommates with an artsy Chad that plays his guitar at all hours of the day and a smelly pooinloo who eats like a pig
>constantly see guys that are much uglier than me with qt gfs
>will probably fail at least one of my five classes this semester
>have to write a ten page paper by Friday but I can't stop browsing /r9k/, only one paragraph in
I want to die
>>28325739
What's Dartmouth like? My sister works there and she's a massive sjw and basically a walking meme.
>>28319370
Do you really want people to see you browsing 4chan in public you turbo autist?
>>28320086
College is basically all the loud and obnoxious shitheads from high school in one place. It's basically Chads, Stacies, and the autists who compared their GPAs like dick length in high school
>>28326957
>fucking autismo and say "you go ahead" nearly every time he asks me, eventually stops asking me
Your own fault then
Frigg off
