>mom locked herself out a few years ago when I was asleep
>after two hours I woke up to her banging on my window and when I let her in she was fucking furious at me
>ever since then I can't sleep comfortably because I'm scared something like this will happen again
>told her this today and she got angry again
>told me that everyone gets mad and that it's never too late for me to just forget about things; also absolved herself of all blame because since she "doesn't hit me" and "doesn't curse at me," she apparently isn't doing anything wrong
>I didn't say anything and just went to my room
Am I wrong in thinking that she's being really selfish and immature? I'm twenty-one years old and have very bad anxiety, a large part of which can be attributed to my mother's passsive-aggressive behavior and meanness. She refuses to acknowledge her role in this and keeps saying it's all on me. That just doesn't seem fair desu. If I were a (((((single))))) parent and I wound up raising a mess of a kid like me, I'd kill myself.
>>28290651
You're underage, so you automatically lose all arguments with your parents until you move out.
>>28290741
This, unfortunately.
I have fucked up parents like this too that have been a major cause for my social dysfunction, OP. I feel for you. Life is going to be a rough ride until/if you can finally be rid of them.
>>28290651
I had anxiety sleeping for a few years when I was a teenager, because my mom would wake me up all the time for dumb shit. Once she came into my room while I was sleeping, screaming at me that I took her pills, literally had no idea what she was talking about and she kept yanking my feet off my bed and shrieking that I'm a "GODDAMN LYING LITTLE SHIT" and slapping me and such. Bad moms can fuck you up. Just move out when you can.
>>28290741
>>28290822
I'm twenty-one years old, lads. I dropped out of college in my sophomore year because I'm a fucking mess and it looks like I'm stuck with my mother until I get my own place. I cant get my own place until I finish college. I can't finish college without going back to college. I can't go back to college until I fix my mental issues. I can't fix my mental issues without getting away from my mother.
This is just a terrible situation desu.
>>28291106
Just keep watching anime and escaping reality
>>28291106
I was mostly NEET with my fucked up parents until I was 27, only graduating community college and the occasional odd shit low pay job until that point.
Then I finally found a 'decent' $11/hr steady office job I could tolerate and finally got out, which I've now parlayed into a decent IT career.
It's not even close to too late for you, anon. Hang in there. The only short-term advice I can give is to try ignoring your awful mother as much as possible.
>>28291202
Sadly, that's just not cutting it anymore.
>telling mom something is her fault
There's your problem why did you think she would care at all or listen to you? Don't even bother from now on
>>28290651
stupid bitch should've just remembered her keys
