I think I fucked up /r9k/.
>Go on several dates with a qt off tinder
>She decides to make it official that I'm her bf
>Weeks pass and she becomes very needy, insecure, goes thru my phone and is annoying as fuck.
>Find out she has a fucking 3 year old son
How do I get ouf of this situation? I was much happier single and neet (she made me get a job). If I break up with her she will go crazy, she is insane. Plus I don't want a damn "wifes son" which is not socially acceptable in my views.
Break up with her, then arm yourself.
>>28282601
Uhmmm. Op its now or never. Its still possible to raise the 3 year old as your son. You dont even have to potty train him. I doubt she is as annoying as you make her sound. Stop being a fucking neet and learn a trade or get a blue collar job. People change over time for the better
>single mother
If she kept her 3 year old son a secret for weeks I'd leave her immediately. That's a huge red flag.
Be upfront and tell her you're leaving her because of her son. You can be as nice or mean about it as you want (I'd be mean). But whatever you do, cut all contact.
>>28282724
The kid will never be "his son" and OP will probably meet the boy's father at some point. Also consider the additional expenses he would take on to keep dating this girl, and for what? The boy will always (rightfully) take priority in her life than OP. The kid will interfere with everything in OP's life, and it's not even his. OP needs to run the fuck away as quick as possible. But do keep working, though.
>>28282601
What are you asking us for? If you want to break up with her, break up with her it's not complicated.
>>28282601
Where did you find work, by the way?
you break up with her and cut contact. why did you need us to tell you that?
hey man, i hope youre aware that its 2016. nothing is wrong with your wifes son being in your life!
>>28282601
Ok here's what you do OP
You shut the fuck up and get the damn job, you have a qt gf and you're fucking complaining? Fuck you.
>>28282601
tell her you can't and won't date a single mom
>>28283069
ignore this memester. oregano comet
>>28282601
You dumbass you can't fix that
>>28283079
evening ms. roastie
Get broken up with
New girl shows interest in me
We bang
She keeps wanting to bang
I go out with friends and get drunk and stoned instead of banging
It's been a week
Let's see how thirsty she is
Mfw can't green text
>>28282601
>>28282601
>meet at public place
>have her sit down
>tell her that it isn't working out for you and that it is over
You should have ended it the instant you realized that she didn't mention her having a child. You could have easily played the "it's not even because you got a chld but because you would keep something that important from me" card. Maybe you still can. If she can lie about that, what else has she kept from you? Just break up and cut all contact.
>>28282601
Quit the job, go back to neetdom.
Play vidya and watch anime (loli, shota, etc) as much as you can.
Forget the word "personal hygiene" for a while.
Be a nice guy to her.
Should not take more than two weeks till you are back at glorious neetdom.
Also, get the fuck out of /r9k/ normie scum.
>>28282601
well, you fucked up OP.
Time for damage control. Don't buy into the memsters, its not bad to raise the son.
Problem is:
She will never trust you. She will try to control literally everything about you. Having friends will be impossible because she is super jealous about everything.
>>28283413
What the fuck are you talking about? He hasn't even done anything yet you fuckin nut. Holy shit what are you on?
>>28283413
>it's not bad to raise the son
it absolutely is bad.
On the one hand, >REEEEEEEEEEEE NORMIE GET OUUUTTTTTT!!!!
On the other hand, as someone who will never find someone, having someone complain about his gf and her cute son really pisses me off. I'll never have a family, and this guy's whining about it. Actually, forget it
>REEEEEEEEE, GET THE FUCK OUUUUTTTTTT!!!!!
>>28282601
Move on with the work. Dump the chick.
Ding dong
Man and grow up you have something good in your hands desu. Grow her son as your own
>>28282724
Look guys, I found the roastie!
>not locking your phone
1/10 OP
Is the 3 year old son the mixed race?Is the father still alive?
>>28282724
>Its still possible to raise the 3 year old as your son.
What the cuck?
>>28282601
Be a fucking man and stick up for yourself?
Leave, and if she keeps giving you shit ignore her. If she keeps giving you shit after that call the cops.
This isnt that hard.
