the first step is to lose weight and groom yourself, find a nice pair of clothing and wear it.
work on your social skills, decide to talk about anything.
work on yourself non stop, you will be the life of the party
a lot of people can't make that first step, for example most of us are stuck here being neets
>>28259242
I'm losing weight at a ridiculous rate, and I can reciprocate in conversation well enough, but I don't really want to change my identity.
I like being a reclusive dork. I think it suits me.
I don't have a problem.
>>28260127
then you're doing something right, you're losing weight, being of average weight or slim can open up a new world of clothing to you, you can dress in style and not be some sperglord
What a beautiful lie.
>spend years forcing yourself to normalize
>have to consciously not look at the ground, not have a shitty face, maintain eye contact but not too much to be creepy, not have fingers/hands in a weird position
>throw away all high school clothes, buy a bunch of conventional shit you think looks okay
>get normie haircut, listen to mediocre music that other people can be comfortable with
>talk to people you don't want to talk to
>absolutely no fucking difference from when you were an edgy retard
Normies will see if you fake it. Either you are born a normie or you don't stand a chance.
this won't bring me happiness. in order to be happy i need to become proficient at something i love.
>rob pensioners
>fuck 10/10 escorts
Much easier than all this improve yourself retardation.
> the first step is to lose weight
Why, so I can stay healthy and continue living in this shithole?
> and groom yourself, find a nice pair of clothing and wear it.
Why, so I'll look nice and sensible to people who I don't give two shits about and who don't give two shits about me
> work on your social skills, decide to talk about anything.
Why, so I can shoot the shit about "oh the weather's so nice this week" or "what did you do this weekend anon? i didn't leave my bed for two days."
> work on yourself non stop, you will be the life of the party
Fuck that. Work on myself? Work on myself? To what end? Everything is shit, everything will remain shit, no matter how much I make or how I look or who my friends are. The joy of life has gone out of my life yet you thing just going to fucking Macy's and throwing together a polo and some khakis will make it all better? Suck my dick you pompous cunt.
>>28259242
>lose weight
yeah, losing weight sounds like a fantastic idea when you're 120 lbs
