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>people who are dumber, poorer, less attractive are getting laid
>you cant
WHY
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>>28257133
you are an unpleasant person
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They're getting laid with dumb, poor, ugly girls.

Your standards are too high. This is not a bad thing.
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>>28257154
>Thick Asians

Why are they so rare
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I'm unstable and don't know how to talk to girls (!)
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>>28257133
you are obviously not actually that attractive
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>>28257133
obviously, you're a POS
kys
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>>28257133
Because men are expected to go out there, talk to girls and take risks, but you don't do it.
Your attractiveness doesn't matter as much as you think.
Confidence is the most important thing, which is why you can find ugly, dumb people getting laid while you cannot.
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But what you fail to see it that normies don't care about individuality. Their is no 'more dumb' or 'less attractive' to them; there is only 'dumb' and 'unattractive'. You will never hear a Satcy say
>"you know, Anon isn't as dumb as Carl is"
or
>"Hey, Anon is a little more attractive then Carl is"

Unless they personally know you, normies don't see individuality. For them ever dumb person, poor person, and unattractive person may as well be the same person in their head. They quickly boil you down to a stereotype and catagorize you with the rest of the people in that stereotype. That's how normies work.

I think that is the biggest difference between a normie and a robot 2bh.
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>>28257303
if you're not attractive you don't really have a chance, a couple of my friends are really hot, they aren't really confident, women just flock to them and they talk about boring shit until they start making out
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>>>less attractive

IZ BECUZ MY AUTISM! IZ ALL MY FAULTZ!

There. I did you a favor and gave you a generic, expected answer that reaffirms your just world delusions. Now, fuck off back to >>>/Reddit/ fuckboi.
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>>28257303
I like this meme. Keep up the good work.

I hope you get reported for rape and consequently castrated [\spoiler]
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>>28257198
Go talk to girls. See how fast they mace your 2/10 beta ass.

https://youtu.be/QYAL21jxREQ
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>>28257533

This makes no sense. Of course attractive men will have a much easier time getting laid but the fact remains most guys get laid. Your dad is probably as ugly as you are and he got laid.
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>>28257765
When his subhuman father got laid it was a different time, a different culture.

You can't get away with approaching women unsolicited in contemporary America. That's street harrasment.
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>>28257681
typical trip can't into spoiler
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>>28257828
>You can't get away with approaching women unsolicited in contemporary America. That's street harrasment.
Niggers do it all the time tho.

>yo shawty lemme tap that ass etc etc
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>>28257865
That's because Niggers are 'oppressed minorities' and you're a sic white male.
Welcome to third wave feminism my friend.
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>people still think confidence matters more than looks
No you fucking mongoloids. Looks are all that matter. People can speak about confidence and other spiritual shit, but what's on the surface, what you can see, hear, smell etc - that's what's most important. Someone who's confident but ugly and has an annoying voice won't get laid even if he is the most interesting man in the world.
Looks are literally the only thing that matters, everything comes from it. People judge beautiful people less, behave more positive towards them, sometimes imagine them having better qualities than they do etc.
If a hot person was quiet, girls would think he is a mysterious guy, if an ugly guy was quiet, they'd think he's a massive creep. I want the confidence meme to already fucking end, I know it's not possible in most places, but this is fucking /r9k/, we're not dumb. Sure, a part of us over exaggerates our problems, but we're still closer to the real picture than an average person with his philosophy.
Also, height is a meme, you can be 6ft tall but if you're fat or ugly it's worth shit.
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>>28259043
Legit/10
Redpilled/10

They aren't ready for these truth pills mang.
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>>28259126
Not sure if you're making fun of me, but if you agree with me, that's cool.
What's your info?
I'm a 20 year old ugly guy who's 6 feet tall and in college. While I hate talking with other people as I'm too anxious, I tried inviting two girls out on coffee, the second one made up a poor lie after an artificial laugh, the first one I was more persistent with and asked her the second time after she dodged the question the first time. She said "yes", we agreed on the time and date, but she flaked on me a hour and a half before it started, and now she never greets me and deliberately doesn't look at me whenever I'm close.
I don't hate the way the world functions, as I comprehend it and know why it is like that, but what drives me mad is seeing all the people around me spewing bullshit philosophy and doing the opposite thing. I really wish I could go back to the old days when I spent most of my time in my room, alone. Now I have to be extra social because of the uni, and I don't even have time for my hobbies (reading, watching movies etc), the only thing that makes me happy.
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>>28257303
it just all seems so fake

>go out
>see a woman you think is sexually attractive
>start chatting her up in hopes she'll grant you a shred of attention

she obviously knows what you're up to, i'd feel like a scumbag just going up to some girl i liked
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>>28259223
Nah dude, I'm agreeing with you.
The looks don't matter meme is a blatant lie that does more harm than good (i.e. Eliot Rodger).

I'd rather be told the truth than lied to and left in the dark.
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>>28259388
>I'd rather be told the truth than lied to and left in the dark.
Same.
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>>28257133
Maybe you are the dumb, poor and ugly
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>>28257362
you categorize stacies ...
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>>28257172
This.

Most of you could probably fuck fat girls. Not that you should.
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>>28257303
>just bee yourself

Nah, I don't believe you and never will.
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>there are still people who never had sex yet
>how I envy them

I wish I was still a virgin my wizard powers are gone forever because I gave in to temptation
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>>28259043
No one is saying looks don't matter.
He's saying that confidence is more important than looks, Sure a handsome quiet guy will have a easy time to find a girlfriend,

If it was a competition between an average confident guy and a shy handome guy, the average guy would win 90% of the time, the only time the handsome guy would win is if the girl talked to him first, but because that rarely happens the confident person will be winning all encounters.
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>>28259493
great the shy handsome guy is still leaving with pussy in the end
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the social climate has put most men outside of the top 10% in terms of desirability at an extreme disadvantage.

promiscuity being accepted and sometimes encouraged might in your mind make you believe that they'd be more willing to lower their standards but in reality they're more likely to all bunch together, trading freely between chads and less likely to wait for a relationship or any promise of one before letting chads have their way with them.

the loyalty and stability that less attractive men would normally provide as a way to make up for it is no longer seen as valuable. now we will rot here
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>>28259223
>POS
Just because you are a fucking failure excuse of a human being who couldn't even bother taking a rejection and now bitches about how every girl loves only ''attractive'' guys.

You dumb fuckwit, firstly looks are subjective, just like men can have a variety of different attraction standards, some like chubby some like skinny, some like tall, some short.

I have had multiple sexual encounters in the past. 22, 5'11 and overweight (not fat)
You fail because you are boring lousy anxious creep and sure you like to say confidence doesn't matter because you asked a girl out and she said no.

No, you fat stupid fuck, it's not what you say that defines confidence, it's how you say it.
You probably have nothing remotely interesting about you and are merely a boring fat piece of shit and then you expect every girl to go out with you because you asked them out?

Go fuck yourself, you fedora wearing cocksucker.
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>>28259459
just be yourself works for most people because they're already normal, or more simply put, already corny and fake.

just be yourself doesn't work for robots because robots exist outside of social norms and expectations
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>>28259493
>the average guy would win 90% of the time
Not 90%, and he'd win just because the girl would lose hope that the more attractive guy is going to approach.
Plus, there's a lot more ugly confident guys than average confident guys, and handsome guys are RARELY not confident, unless they were bullied when they were younger or some shit.
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>>28259677
such confidence in this post will suck you off the first time I see you, faggot
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>>28259677
>Just because you are a fucking failure excuse of a human being who couldn't even bother taking a rejection and now bitches about how every girl loves only ''attractive'' guys.
A lot of assumptions in one sentence.
>just like men can have a variety of different attraction standards, some like chubby some like skinny, some like tall, some short
Don't compare women to men, they have different standards. Look at it from a biological standpoint, because that's from where we should look at - women have much higher standards than men, which is understandable as they have to pick the one, best guy suitable for mating.
>5'11
Just like I said, height doesn't matter. Did you even read my whole post?
>overweight (not fat)
>overweight
>not fat
Something doesn't add up here. Are you overweight or are you not fat? You can't be both, unless you're thinking skinnyfat.
cont.
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>>28259752
I know enough about you to not even want to be in a close proximity with you. You stench of shit and failure and I don't even know you yet.

Stop making excuses, you lousy fat fuck.
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>>28259694

Yeah I was just going to say I've never met a good looking guy that wasn't confident as fuck.
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>>28259677
>>28259796
cont.
>because you are boring
Not exactly, while I surely have no success with this stuff and tried it only a few times, a lot of girls in my companionship (when they must be usually (rarely do they seek me out), or when I initiate contact myself) laugh (not in a bad way, to make fun of me etc) and like being around me. Also I am boring in a sense that I don't talk much with other people other than about uni stuff, or I make jokes. I love reading, movies etc, but they're all shallow so I don't want to initiate talk about any of those topics. Trust me, I don't look egoistical when I say they're shallow. I think I have a lot to experience when it comes to a lot of mediums, but these people just know the bare bones, you know how normalfags (I hate using this word) are.
>lousy anxious creep
I'll give you anxious.
>creep
Probably am to an extent, but it's the fault of others seeing me as a creep (if they do) because I don't go out.
>it's how you say it
Doesn't matter how you say it, if you sperg out and you're hot, you're going to be a guy who evokes sympathy, if you're ugly, you're just a failure then.
>fat piece of shit
Not fat at all, numerous girls complimented me on my body.
>fedora wearing cocksucker
Not atheistic.
Your post is extremely immature and while I would like this to be bait, I am almost 100% sure you're some average reddit guy who appeared here. Please leave, you can't comprehend certain things.
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>>28257133
the hair in that drawing makes me sick, it's like some insect legs or something gross gross gross
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>>28259459
This guy gets laid, why can't you?
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>>28259899
This guy gets laid too, why can't you?
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I know this one guy

>Pretty short (at most 5'8)
>Ugly face every girl I've talked to says he's unattractive
>Poor, smokes weed all day
>Not going to graduate in 4 years, going on his 5th despite pursuing a liberal arts degree
>No hobbies other then weed and video games

But he somehow gets any girl he wants. I don't know how he does it, it's something about how he talks to them. It just doesn't make sense to me. He's a real scumbag too, he purposefully goes after girls in relationships. I just don't understand it.
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>>28259796
>assumptions
Except you wrote paragraph of ramblings? a fairly well thought out assumption actually.
Women like men like everyone else have different subjective standards.
Even your ''high'' standards thing is bullshit.
You are more depressed and lonely from all the television shows/movies/ anime you watch of only the good looking alpha males getting all the pussy only and you think real life works this way.
How many women have you actually spent time with and actively got to know?
How many prior relationship have you been with?
You are ignorant, you are living in a delusional world you have created for yourself to escape the reality of your lonely sumg life.

Oh and overweight not fat= a few kilos above the ''standard'' healthy chart, but life is simply not obstructed by it to the point I would bitch about it on the internet.
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>>28259923
How about this handsome devil?
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>>28259450
Sorry but the landwhale is busy with Chad.
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>>28259938
Or this male model over here?
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>>28259938
His hair is bitching. Probably the face he makes for his photos that look bad, otherwise he's probably average.
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>>28259959
What about this highly desirable athlete?
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>Too attractive for awkward chubby cute girls to talk to me
>Too awk and unattractive for the even slightly hot girls to talk to me

Thnx life, that and I'm a bitter and sad all the time makes nobody like me anyways.
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>>28259959
that is disgusting he needs to scrub his tongue or something
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>>28259976
How about this fine young rogue?
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>mfw this thread

what seems to be the problem, chums?
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>looks are subjective

Well, apparently they aren't all that subjective and you're retarded.
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>>28260007
Or this 5'4 tower of manliness?
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>>28259936
>Except you wrote paragraph of ramblings?
Are you being stupid on purpose? It wasn't ramblings, I just wanted to show you that you're wrong.
>a fairly well thought out assumption actually
No, it isn't assumptions if I am talking facts about myself, and doing it to show you you're wrong.
>Women like men like everyone else have different subjective standards
Sure, women have different standards, didn't say they didn't, but they're a lot more strict and their specter is smaller than the men's.
>You are more depressed
I am depressed in a sense that I am going to die, and I hate that fact. Nothing else bothers me though.
>lonely
Not at all.
>television shows
Don't watch those.
>movies/anime
I watch these...
>the good looking alpha males getting all the pussy only and you think real life works this way
...but I don't take them as a life manual. This is an assumption, and a stupid one at that, because it's like you didn't read my first post where I said, let me cite here:"I don't hate the way the world functions, as I comprehend it and know why it is like that...".
>How many women have you actually spent time with and actively got to know?
I have been asocial since I was young, but I did hang out with certain girls a lot (while in school at least, and went out to town with a few, a few times, this one girl even asked me if her boobs are too small etc).
cont.
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>>28260034
hes attractive though.
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>>28259843
You don't go out.
That's all that you needed to say,
Your experiences are so limited that all of what you say is that of a little boy talking about how vaccinations are killing people.

My post is as immature as yours.
Stop assuming confidence doesn't work out for the vast majority of us.
My girlfriend thinks I am the hottest guy in her life when I doubt it. I think she is the hottest girl in my life when she doubts it.

You simply have inadequate social skills, spend vast amount of hours over the internet masturbating to porn and eating Doritos.
To you sex and relationships is not too far from Frodo travelling to Mount doom to destroy the ring.
It's fictional.
You are a sad little creature.
Stop assuming things for the rest of us who actually have a functioning penis.
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>>28260034
How about this pinnacle of male genetics?
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>beta bux posting somehow changes the truth

This board should just change it's name to /reddit9k/. So damned bluepilled.
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>>28259819
Last year in uni, got drunk outside for the last 2 days with my friends and they were fine with me apparently smelling like shit. On Friday a girl whose 180cm tall, she won't date guys shorter than her, told about a time she was with another of her friends how they were hit on by a 170 cm dude and that it was hilarious. She also saved a picture of a fedora wearer from Tinder. Yesterday we made plans to go see the bonfire on the hill, a guy didn't want to go, but a bitch he fucked once was there and when she called him he was all up for it even though she's fwb with someone and the guy was there. The bitch is 6/10 and was explaining how they guys weren't hot enough the day before she was in a club so she turned them all down, their confidence didn't help, then he asked a dude to flirt with her because the other guy was talking to a different girl, she expressed what a bitch that bitch is and how she hates her, she didn't even ask the guy she porked to flirt with her so he was just sad. But why m I telling you this you were probably there because you know me so well.
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>>28260009

d'awww <3
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>>28260060
Or this impressive physical specimen?
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>>28260038
You said looks is all that matters, not confidence.
Idgaf about you, but that statement is bullshit and anyone with half a brain would know you have zero experience in life.
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>>28260098
This supreme gentleman right here?
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>>28260117
How about this plaid coveted Olympian?
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>>28259936
>>28260038
cont.
>How many prior relationship have you been with?
Zero, but that doesn't mean I can't be right about the things that I am saying. This is all based on logic and deduction. You still haven't showed me that I am wrong.
>You are ignorant
I am very open-minded actually, you look like the one who is ignorant and more than mildly annoyed. Do I remind you of someone or are you annoyed that I am telling the truth?
>you are living in a delusional world
Nope, I am one of those people who sees the world how it is.
>to escape the reality of your lonely sumg life.
I don't need to escape reality. I have my own interests, I don't pester people, I am fine with this world. It's not perfect, but I am fine with it. I need no escape, other than escape from death which doesn't exist.

>>28260056
>is that of a little boy talking about how vaccinations are killing people
Wrong analogy. Right in a sense that a boy can think that, but if he knew the science behind it he'd say vaccinations don't kill people. So in this analogy, I'd be the boy who knows science, and you the one who doesn't, even though you go out. In the analogy, you'd be the kid who got the vaccine but thinks he'll die.
>My post is as immature as yours.
I can feel that you're mad (I hate using this word, but it's applicable here), I am just responding to your stuff.
cont.
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>>28257725
>>28257725
If it was Chad cat calling them I bet they would fuck him right then and there on the street. They're just mad the attention they're getting is from guys they don't want to fuck
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>>28260135
It's like looking at a Greek god here
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>>28260155
>>28260056
>spend vast amount of hours over the internet masturbating to porn and eating Doritos
I don't masturbate a lot, and I don't eat junk food. I know you are probably baiting me, but I am not sure why this is so amusing to you. You're a lot more pathetic than you claim I am if this is how you get your fun and fill your time. If you're being serious, then I know that a person like you will hardly change your viewpoint, it's been cemented. Still, know that you are not winning here, as I have a lot of spare time currently and I am using it to talk to you. So, if you're baiting and thinking you're some hot shit, then the joke is on you.
>To you sex and relationships is not too far from Frodo travelling to Mount doom to destroy the ring
A normalfag joke, how funny.
>Stop assuming things for the rest of us who actually have a functioning penis
Again, I said I am making counterpoints to show why you are wrong.

>>28260110
I'm glad not everyone is like you, who thinks it's enough to say "but that's wrong" and be satisfied, otherwise this world would be more shit than it already is.
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>>28260155
''based on logic''
Says confidence does not matter.
HAHAHAHA
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>>28259938
Where is his chin?
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>>28260175
The height of human fitness right here.
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>>28260206
You seriously need proof to ''think'' confidence is practically the most significant thing over attractiveness or anything else?
Seriously?
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wow look at all these men married to fat women

i would rather fuck a pig than a fat woman
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>>28260220
>>28260175
>>28260117
>>28260098
>>28260060
They all are ugly and their women are ugly. Just the way it is. Ugly men get ugly girls, unless both are delusional, which happens sometimes.

>>28260231
Yes, everything needs proof, but the topic you mentioned more than an average thing, because why would confidence be more important than looks? Why would something abstract like confidence be more important than the thing you literally are looking at? You can't deny this. Confidence is an abstract thing. Yes, you can "hear" it in his voice, see it in his moves, but you can't "see" confidence, it's an imaginary thing. There's only particles, that make up our physical look, that's what you see, that's what attracts you, that's what makes you initiate contact/respond to contact in a good way.
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>>28257725
Imagine the horror of being validated as an attractive member of the opposite sex
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>>28260220
How about the long flowing mane on this guy?
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>>28257133
Fuck knows. I get laid on a regular basis with my GF of over 4 years and I'm no chad. Must be my cracking personality and thick cock perhaps? *thank god it's thick cos it ain't that long...* :D
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>>28260155
The boy doesn't know the science behind it just like you don't know anything about attraction or sex and got all of your ''evidence'' from envying alpha males on television and reading guide on getting laid.
You are fearful of failure and afraid of things, you really must have thought you did a big thing by asking those two girls out.
When you got rejected, you started thinking ''hey, I was so confident (despite that you weren't), so if they rejected me, it must mean they don't care about confidence and only want someone who looks like Brad pitt"
Typical fat virgin loser, blames everyone else, but refuses to look at himself in the mirror and strive for change.
A pathetic caricature.
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>>28260060
Why are you posting all ugly men with ugly women?

Fine, many here could probably do that, as well.

So you'll be like most ugly normalfags who have ugly wives, ugly kid(s), shit jobs and continue polluting the world with unnecessary subhuman trash.
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>>28260292
100% unfiltered THIS.
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>>28260271
Because you fedora wearing clown, confidence dictates the way you dress up, the way you smell, your body language, the way you smile, the way you talk, walk or practically anything else.
You just told me you don't go out, and judging by everything else you have said, it's no surprising that you have zero confidence and seek to find external answers for things you yourself lack.
A typical sad case.
Confidence is about believing in yourself, no one in this world would care to believe in you if you don't.
You think you are ugly and a loser, people think so too.
The problem isn't just your face and physique but your utter and zero faith in yourself.
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>>28260322
I thought only 10/10s could get women though.... I mean, you intellectual robots would know best about women and dating wouldn't you...?
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>>28260086

daily reminder to just be yourself <3
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>>28260356
>28260356
They wouldn't. We saw that with a post from a guy saying confidence doesn't matter.
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>>28260292
>just like you don't know anything about attraction
What is there to know? You both attract each other physically...
>or sex
...and you fuck, you put the penis in the vagina and that's it.
>from envying alpha males
I don't envy them, it's just a shame that I'll never experience the feeling of fucking a hot woman, but at least I can live without it.
>and reading guide on getting laid
I'd never stoop that low.
>You are fearful of failure
If I was I wouldn't try anything in the first place. I am fearful though...
>afraid of things
Yes. Not of all things, but certain ones. The world is a scary place, a lot of people are terrible beings and will sacrifice you easily, plus they circlejerk eachother to feel good. I hate living in that world, and I am terrified of it.
>When you got rejected, you started thinking ''hey, I was so confident (despite that you weren't)
I didn't start thinking that. I wasn't confident when I asked, but I don't think I was non-confident either. It was a neutral state, I asked normally, in the same tone I had before that question.
>fat
I'm sure more and more that you're the same guy getting your fun out of this, and I can't comprehend why. But I'll repeat it for the who knows which time - I'm not fat.
>strive for change
I already changed a lot, it didn't help.
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>>28260165
You're right. Women will initiate eye contact if they want you to come over and talk to them.

The beta bux redditor is senile and thinks that because he's gotten some 30 year old that's finished riding the cock carousel, he's a prize wanted for his godly 'confidence' super powers. Or even, worst of all, that he could've got that roastie when he and she were both in their twenties.
Ultimately it's cognitive dissonance from the fact that once he too was an incel and that the only reason women want him is for his money and his submissive nature.

It's sad, but take solace in the fact that his marriage will be a sexless one, ride with adultery and that it is already beginning to fall apart.
I know I will.
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>>28260292
why would he strive for change, your buzzword of confidence is the most important thing, looks have nothing to do about it

>>28260379
are you saying that this guy got her with confidence? if so why does he probably waddle and dresses like a sperg, those things are related to confidence right? >>28260342
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>>28257303
This, to be honest family.

My brother in law married my sister recently.
>roughly 5'4"
>skinnyfat
>French
>bald
>scarred
>lived alone in paris
>most his friends are from school but seem more successful than him
>maybe a 4/10 facial aesthetic

>my sister is 5'10
>fit, exercises regularly
>American
>overall very successful
>7-8/10 overall

Story goes on how they met is she was couch surfing, another girl was there who convinced him to make a move on my sister, and she fell in love with him.

Just be confident, and be sure to make your problems not really vocal, but detectable to the point that your friend could help you out a bit.
Or come here daily and cry about how you are a saintly individual wronged by the world like the autists you are. Odds are you are the catalyst to most your problems.
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>>28260342
>the way you dress up
It's not lethal unless you're literally wearing some MLP shirt or some shit.
>the way you smell
This isn't dictated by confidence, this is dictated by your consciousness when it comes to hygiene.
>your body language
Sure, but I repeat, if you're hot and have bad body language, you'll be funny in a sympathetic way, but if you're ugly, you're going to be a creep.
>the way you smile
Eh.
>the way you talk, walk
I'll give you these, but the same case applies as the one I mentioned for body language.
>practically anything else
Not literally everything, let's not overdo it.
>Confidence is about believing in yourself, no one in this world would care to believe in you if you don't
Yes, and if you don't have it, you're fucked. It's a magical circle. To get confidence you need to get external validation, but to get external validation you need confidence. Plus, the second one isn't true always because...
>You think you are ugly and a loser, people think so too.
This is true in certain cases, but there's a shitton of examples where certain people think they're hot when they're not, and they don't make it. How do you explain this then?
>The problem isn't just your face and physique
It is. I'm not a 1/10, but the face definitely is the problem. Not only do I have an ugly face, I also have acne scars and acne all over it. Just a cherry on a top of a shitty cake.
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>>28260398
All the guys I posted, save for Maddox and Rich Evans, are still in their 20s.

You literally personify the fox and grapes.
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>>28260433
by the sound of it, your sister is a 5/10 slag that gets bonus points for being fit and successful
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>>28260383
Physical attraction has to do with everything from varying body types, to the way you walk, talk, dress, compose yourself. What you do for fun and what kind of a personality you have.
Attraction only plays a certain amount of role.
The good looking people you see that you envy in movies?
Give them the same face, snatch away their dressing and make them wear something that smells, and alongside that get them to avoid eye contact, have their breath stink and be boring as shit, lets see how many ''hot'' girls would still fuck them.
As I said you know nothing about the science of attraction. You sound like a pseudo intellectual who got all of his information from the internet and has absolutely no life outside of your room.
Worst thing is you are a coward and refuse to go out and change and just keep living with these self-limiting beliefs.

Kudos to you, but stop infecting your failure vermin on others here who need help changing.
You are pathetic.
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>>28260458
The only one point I am going to comment on to destroy everything you said is the fact that you said confidence comes from external validation.

No, it doesn't. Confidence comes from inside.
Only you can believe in yourself before anyone does.

And yes, good hygiene and smelling good has everything to do with confidence, if you are a fat piece of shit without a life, you probably would also be someone who barely showers and would barely know what a cologne is.
In that case, no woman could tolerate you more than a few minutes.
Again confidence.
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>>28257172
Exactly. I have landwhales trying to get on my dick 24/7.
I know I'm way to good for them so I keep waiting for the good looking ones to come along
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>>28259976
He's tall and has facial hair.. Not hard to get a woman who you look like an actual man.
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>>28260508
>that you envy
I never said I envy them, I swear you don't read my previous posts, you just skim through them.
>Give them the same face, snatch away their dressing and make them wear something that smells, and alongside that get them to avoid eye contact, have their breath stink and be boring as shit, lets see how many ''hot'' girls would still fuck them.
A lot. Maybe only the smell would distract them, but even then.
Also are you implying I smell? My hygiene is perfect, I wash my teeth every day, shower every day, groom, use deodorant etc.
>You sound like a pseudo intellectual who got all of his information from the internet
Nope, I got my information from observing the people around me.
>Worst thing is you are a coward and refuse to go out and change and just keep living with these self-limiting beliefs.
I tried changing, didn't work. The beliefs aren't limiting. They're true, but I guess they limit me in a sense that I can't see enjoyment in a lot of things anymore because of this view.
>Kudos to you, but stop infecting your failure vermin on others here who need help changing.
I want people here to change, but in a sense that they see the world for what it is, and improve their own selves (especially physically, by working out, changing their diet etc), because that's what's most important, not your buzzword advice to "be confident", like >>28260425 said.
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>>28260322
>tfw no qt 3.14 gf
>why are ugly people mating with ugly people
>ugly people ruin the world
>why don't non-ugly girls find me attractive
Anon, you are what you hate. Girls wont date you because you aren't good enough by their standards.
You literally sound like that screen cap of some ugly roastie complaining about how only ugly men ask her out despite being ugly herself.
If you still think a women should bend her instincts to make you happy, then my best advice is contemplate suicide.
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>>28260461
I don't know who the guys you posted are because I'm not from r/BetaBux you dumbass retard. Hopefully you wake up quickly and figure out you're being used.
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jesus fucking christ.

here we go again

why can't you fuckers accept that you will never bang some hot qt bitch....just accept the fact.

i'm a 30 year old virgin and i'm not complaining, i'm not fat or ugly, i'm a virgin because i decided to masturbate instead of going out and seeking sex.

i can still get an escort though so i'm not complaining.

if you are so sad about being a virgin then prepare to cough up some fucking money and get a prostitute.

oh wait you can get in trouble if you contact an escort...there is something called a "sting operation"

good luck, you'll need it.

i'll just be masturbating happily
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>>28260508
my friend is pretty boring, works for half a day and then smokes weed and plays games, he is as beta as they get and where ever he goes women will

>>28260554
so you can't smell like shit and be confident? I know a guy who stopped showering for a year, for Halloween he went to a house party, when he was asked what he was dressed as, he said that he stinks and he still got laid, went out of the room to his female friend and told her to smell him she did and she went Ewwww and he proclaimed yeah but I still managed to get laid.

>>28260619
It's not about the sex, it's about finding a women that will love as much as you love her and will always be there for you, so that one day you can start a family and try to fuck up your kids less than your parents did
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>>28260601
No they wouldn't fuck them.
They would choose a man with slightly less attractive features as long as that man is well composed and believes in himself.
Because only someone who believes in himself would give enough fuck to take care of themselves and that's where confidence comes from.
You don't and that's why you fail.
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>>28260554
>Confidence comes from inside
No, since the young age you get different reactions from the society, the people around you, and while most people get a healthy balance of good-bad reactions and evolve into functional human beings, certain people get way too much negatives and they can't raise their internal confidence. At a certain age, it's over, and you can try afterwards but never succeed in getting the confidence. If it was so easy, everyone would do it.
>if you are a fat piece of shit without a life, you probably would also be someone who barely showers and would barely know what a cologne is
This is related to your lifestyle, not your confidence. Hygiene comes from lifestyle, other than the quantity of your consciousness that comes with it. Confidence is in no way related to hygiene, that's just a silly thing to say.
>In that case, no woman could tolerate you more than a few minutes
I am not sure about this as about the other stuff we talked, but a personal example - I was sitting in the bus one day, a good looking girl was next to me, she smelled a bit (seemed like sweat), and even though it was distracting, I still thought she was attractive.
I appreciate you being normal though, the other guy is almost 100% trying to troll.
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>>28257133
I don't have a social life.

At all.

It's that simple.
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>i'm a 5/10 on my best days
>dumb as fuck, got an IQ of like 90 and a speech problem
>work at shitty theater part time for small spending cash

I ain't got nothing you guys claim I need to get laid yet i still can go out on a weekend with friends and bang a 8/10 girl.
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>>28260371
I know q couple just like this and it passes me the fuck off.
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>>28260657
forgot to finish it, women will flock to him
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>>28260665
>They would choose a man with slightly less attractive features as long as that man is well composed and believes in himself
Keyword here being "slightly less attractive". They wouldn't choose an ugly guy who is confident. Also that slightly less attractive guy wouldn't need to believe in himself, he'd just need to be almost as hot as the previous guy, and not smell.
>You don't and that's why you fail.
Alright I'm getting really tired of your bullshit, I said I am not fat and I do not smell. I won't respond to anything else you say next. Have a nice day, even though you're a pathetic creature who gets his fun by baiting people on anonymous image boards.
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>>28260657
Smell, hygiene, the way you dress, walk, talk, make eye contacts all are defining factors for physical attraction.
That's all there is to it.
I don't give a shit about your life or your petty examples.
But that's the difference between me and you.
I don't bitch about how I am ugly or this or that like you do, I go out and make things happen because I love myself and believe in myself. Something people like you could never understand.
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>>28257133
You spend your time siting around judging everyone like an asshole, and they talk to women.
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>>28260611
I'd offer a ladder, but clearly those grapes are too sour for you Mr. Fox.
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>>28260699

That's obviously her brother. Do you go outside at all? Every single young couple I look at, the girl is about 1 point or 2 lower than the guy. Women always date up, never down. Men aim straight across but will date slightly down.
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>>28259438

Don't confuse categorization with generalizations.
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>>28260722
Who is ugly?
Do you actually sit there and judge who ''ugly'' is?
Let me give you a little enlightening answer, ugliness is subjective, and as long as you don't look like a lump of shit, you have every chance of getting pussy as the other guy.
The difference between you and that guy is that he actually has enough confidence, balls and courage to face rejection and failure, you don't.
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>>28260776
I actually know them irl though... They're not related.
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>>28260741
you're right, I couldn't understand your a fucking cunt and you love yourself. You're a cock with legs, smashing pussy and posting on a malasyian sewing forum spewing buzzwords like the retard you are
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>>28260747
Reddit, I...
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>>28260657
Maybe you should date an equal instead of hoping one day a fairy will come down and give you a qt 3.14 10/10 virgin waifu.

You're literally sperging out that life isn't fair like a kid throwing a temper tantrum because he got kicked outside a moon bounce because he was just sitting in it doing nothing.
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>>28260814
He's 6"4 though, so I guess no matter how ugly or fat you are.. If you're tall, you'll make women wet.
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>>28260608
I don't think any of that, whatsoever. I have no desire for a relationship, precisely because I know my genes are shit and the family line is stopping right here, finally.

I'm a 3/10 male and I just want to fuck a non-fat female. Unfortunately, in today's society with women having so much power, that is not an option for me.

I knew long ago that I'm dying alone either a virgin or relying on prostitution.
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>>28260828
>qt 3.14 10/10 virgin waifu.
waiting for no such thing, I'm just pointing out that some people have it easy and that some people can smell like shit and fuck women and then there are people like me that make women cross the road because you locked eyes on the bus and happened to get off on the same station going into the same direction
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>>28260804
>*nods head in agreement like a brainless zombie*

It's a just world. It's a just world. Upvote. Upvote.
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>>28260820
I am actually a passionate musician and an artist who has been rejected quite a lot of times in the past who finally grew some balls to stop wearing my fedora hat and dropping the doritos down, shaving my neckbeard and going out of my room for once.
Life changed after that.
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>>28260722
Maybe you should go for slightly more attractive girls than literal 10's. An ugly guy will unlikely get with a cute girl because a cute girl has better options. You don't. So bite the bullet, and deal with a girl you don't find attractive, but will love you more than any cum dumpster yuppie slut would, or keep posting
>tfw no gf
24/7.
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>>28260825
>If I say reddit enough my argument won't be wrong at all!
You keep at it Mr. Fox. I'm sure that apple is just what you wanted anyways.
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>>28260804
>ugliness is subjective
To an extent. Everyone can agree that a 1/10 is a 1/10. There will be variations from 6 to 8 maybe.
>Let me give you a little enlightening answer
Nothing enlightening here, I hear this stuff often.
>as long as you don't look like a lump of shit, you have every chance of getting pussy
Ye...
>as the other guy
Wrong. Stop with this liberalistic bullshit, not everyone is equal. There are the ugly people, and the good-looking people. The good-looking people get girls easier, and they can snatch it from other people too sometimes. This is the harsh truth, and you, like most people, show fear because you think this and can't deal with the facts. No, we are not all special. No, we aren't all smart. No, not everyone has an equal chance of getting the pussy. The world is an unfair place, please realize this. It's better to know the harsh truth than to think that a beautiful lie is true.
> The difference between you and that guy is that he actually has enough confidence, balls and courage to face rejection and failure, you don't
The difference is that he's hotter than I am. To expand the story a bit, you know the girl I asked out two times? She has a boyfriend now, who's taller than me (and I already am six feet tall, what a part of robots claims is good height), more muscular than me (I'm not fat and have some muscle (especially arms), but he's even more muscular than me), and has a prettier face.
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>>28260828
>life isn't fair
>it's a just world

OH NO! WHO DO I UPVOTE!
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>>28260699
I bet the dude has dick like Ron Jeremy.
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>>28260699
Dude you have anger issues.
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>>28260917
I thought you were done replying also I just skimmed through your post because you are a retard.
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>>28259223
>I asked 2 girls out
>I am now the objective authority on women

Get over yourself you're pathetic
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>>28260911
>So bite the bullet, and deal with a girl you don't find attractive
Thanks but no thanks, I don't want to lower my standards, that's why I will be a permavirgin, I realized this fact a few years ago. Granted, the two examples I mentioned were almost 10s, but there's a lot of examples where I liked a girl which is a 8 at best.
>or keep posting
I will, although not often, I don't visit this place that much, only occasionally drop by.
>tfw no gf
I don't post that. I don't care for "love" or a girlfriend, I just want to fuck some good-looking girl (although it would be interesting to see how hugging etc looks like). I can pay a prostitute, but it's not the same as a hot girl willingly giving it to you.
Thanks for giving some actual, realistic advice which I already knew of, though - to lower your standards if you're ugly.

>>28260939
I didn't know you were the same guy, because you didn't talk about smell and other shit.
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The vast majority of you could get a gf today, you just need to drop your unrealistic standards. Come on guys do you honestly think you can compare to the chads and male models of the world? Its time to grow up, work with what you do have and hope for the best. Stop crushing over the super hot chick or cutie in your classes because you're never going to have her, go for her slightly uglier friend that never gets the attention. Go for the chubby chick. Go for the girl with the big nose. Go for the girl with no ass. Or you could not take my advice and die a virgin. The choice is yours.

You're never going to be like pic related so just drop it
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>>28260925
I never said life is fair, but complaining about it wont get you any girls to like you.

Also
>being such a sperg to yell REDDIT whenever someone calls you out on your own faggotry
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>>28260982
Everyone's the objective authority for everything, if you didn't know.
My "opinion" is the same as someone's who asked out 500 girls. I don't need to ask out 500 girls to know the truth. Hell, I didn't even need to ask one out. This isn't a discussion on how something tastes. If we were talking about the taste of a pussy, I'd be wrong on every major point almost because I never tasted it, I could maybe deduct something based on the knowledge of that part of the body, but even then. This shit on the other hand - I see stuff around me, and can deduct correctly the truth.
Keep being mad though.
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>>28260906
>I am actually a passionate musician and an artist
faggot, FTFY

>who finally grew some balls to stop wearing my fedora hat and dropping the doritos down, shaving my neckbeard and going out of my room for once
no fedora, don't eat snacks at home, I go out of my room everyday, had a girl kiss me before, go preach your memes how every1 here is a neckbeard fat fuck
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>>28261050
I'm not that anon that youre talking to, but it seems like he's got his shit together while you sound like an insufferable cunt.
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>>28261004

>go for her slightly uglier friend that never gets the attention

Don't do this, I did and all it accomplished was giving her the confidence boost to cuck me.

It's like helping your fat girlfriend lose weight, as soon as the weights gone that male attention she never got before will trickle in and pull her away.
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>>28261217
I've no troubles in making friends, you're just an artsy faggot
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>>28261004
>do you honestly think you can compare to the chads and male models of the world?
Yes. Yes I do.
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>>28261028
>I don't need to ask out 500 girls

This is the truth, it isn't really a numbers game. You need to ask out only about 3 girls. If all 3 say no, don't bother going any further.

>>28261245

You messed up m8, once she started getting confident you gotta put her back in her place telling her "you're still not as hot as your friend". Start picking out small flaws about her appearance, her ears, her nose, her knees, her legs. Keep picking on it like a scab and she will eventually bleed in insecurity.
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>>28257172
It's not a good thing either, depending on how much you want a gf.

Habitually seek self improvement and reflect on your choices imho
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>>28261217
Same or not both of sound like reddit troll fucknuggets who cant disprove the legitimate observations and grievances of the robots and instead go "hurr durr you creep you eat doritos( seriously?baka) you fat you live in basement you while i get laid cuz i not loser" constantly no matter how said anon disproves your assumptions
>inb4 you skim posts because their author is a loser in your eyes
You are seriously the most insufferable annoying unhelpful cunts to plague this board
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>>28257133
A shitty personality. If the douchebags are getting laid and you also want to get laid, the solution is to BECOME A DOUCHEBAG. Swallow your pride, admit you were wrong.

>>28257172
Also this. Realize your own value on the sexual marketplace and plan accordingly.
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>>28261378

self improvement is a meme. The guy I know that is doing best with girls right now is a HS drop out, 30k in debt, arrested twice, works dead end jobs switching them constantly, has a $120 a week pill habit, lives at home. Pretty much has done everything wrong in life compared to me but is infinitely more successful with girls.

but hey keep buying into that self help shit.
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>>28260842
>be 6'4 with a decent build (broad shoulders, etc)
>I am a KHHV

Sure m8, sure.
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>>28261523
>doing his best
That can be a dangerous attitude. To say that you're doing/trying your best is to put a cap on just how good you can be. It's all about outlook.

Do or do not.
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>>28261004
The girls with no ass or big noses can get laid.

You are basically saying "fuck fat ugly women with dog shit personalities"

no thank you
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>>28261584

Is it putting a cap on life or is it just being realistic? Think about it.
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>>28259680
This, I already accepted that I'm not a normie and I never will be. BUT I do not accept not getting laid, that's why I'm doing a protein sparing modified fast and am obliterating all the fat, I weight train at the gym 3 times a week, I read how to win friends and influence people, and I'm going to read these books later too:

Donald Trump - The art of the deal

Barbara Pease - The Definitive Book of Body Language

John Gray - Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

Robert Cialdini - The Psychology of Influence

Ogi Ogas - A Billion Wicked Thoughts


We will never be normies, but we can trick the normies into thinking we are.
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>>28260508
If your such a fucking attraction master than tell me if this grand plan will work or not:

>be 6'4
>going on a protein sparing modified fast to obliterate all body fat
>full body weight train at the gym 3 times a week to build muscle
>wear /fa/ approved clothes and have a /fa/ approved undercut
>read how to win friends and influence people
>going to read these books

Donald Trump - The art of the deal

Barbara Pease - The Definitive Book of Body Language

John Gray - Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

Robert Cialdini - The Psychology of Influence

Ogi Ogas - A Billion Wicked Thoughts
I know like 7 people from this semester but they all say they are constantly busy because of finals, I plan on doing shit with them constantly next semester (if they aren't bullshitting me then they will have plenty of time), joining a fuckload of clubs, trying to get into a fraternity, and socializing as much as possible in general.


I don't live on campus, I commute. I have a lot more money than the average starving college student (they have nothing I have enough to buy them food and take them places)
How fucked or unfucked am I when aiming to get laid by November?
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>>28260508
>>28261868
Also I've been on the protein sparing modified fast since February 25th
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>>28261689
Realistic is a relative term. A hundred years ago, they never would have imagined we'd have an orbital space station. Anything is possible if you have a good outlook. You can't let yourself get bogged down by saying shit is unrealistic.
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>>28261692
>Robert Cialdini - The Psychology of Influence

Read Influence: Science and Practice instead.
It's his best work family.

Way better than all of those other books since it teaches you how to execute all of the psychological trickeries it mentions.
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