>just be yourself bro confidence is all you need
Is there a bigger fucking lie?
Why is le confidence meme always the go to answer for dating advice? Why do people feel the need to lie?
>>28243966
the unstated assumption is that you will be attempting to date women on your level.
in that case, then "just be confident" is correct.
If you just be confident and approach 3/10s because you're also a 3/10 then you will get success eventually
if you don't want to date 3/10s then raise your level to 5/10 through self improvement
>>28243966
Confidence works. It's just hard to pull off if you've got no reason to be confident. Some people who don't have a tangible reason to be confident can delude themselves into being confident. The rest of us end up here.
just world fallacy. normies can't handle the fact that ugly people will never have as good of a life as beautiful people, it scares them that random chance has such a large impact on one's success. they lie to themselves and think if they were born a midget they'd still get mad pussy cuz of their shining personalities (that they don't actually have)
You're probably misunderstanding it.
Be confident doesn't mean actually be confident. It means project confidence. For normies that's the same, but for us it's different. If you're an omega, being confident will isolate you further from society. Shit like maintaining eye contact, having a straight posture, being well dressed, speaking loud and clear, etc, are key points.
But being confident in who you actually are? Fuck that, hide everything.
Like everything, it only really works if you look semi decent and dress well. As long as you have at least average looks confidence can take you far.
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