Why do women have such an easier time getting relationships than men?
I'm not kidding. Pretty much every girl I know is in a LTR and has a huge social circle. This is such a common thing that millions of guys believe this. What I'm saying is, it seems to happen often enough that guys irl and the Internet think single women don't exist.
What is with the massive disparity? Why do girls have it so much easier? And don't even start with the "only neckbeards are lonely" line, any honest person will admit they know average guys who are lonely.
that image pisses me off so much.
I have had an okcupid for the longest time and have only ever gotten 2 likes. Just 2, and I am mildly attractive.
>>28152248
women don't like to do the approaching
![51W5TK8AKAL._SX316_BO1,204,203,200_[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/YTWQjJD.jpg "51W5TK8AKAL._SX316_BO1,204,203,200_[1].jpg")
>>28152248
Men are disposable anon. Everybody wants to get into Stacy's pants. Nobody wants to get into yours.
I dunno I get nervous around guys I like.. I prefer it when they speak to me first
>>28152634
Decent guys get nervous around girls they like too, which unfortunately will leave everyone with a shittier pool of datable guys.
>>28152634
Don't worry femanon, that's normal for all genders.
Also, would you be interested in giving a little bio about yourself? Maybe we could hook up.
>>28152248
If you were to approach a woman as many times as a woman is approached everyday, you'd have a GF. Try it.
>>28152248
because men LOVE fucking also as much as they HATE not fucking
>>28152248
What's typical for guys as far as likes/visitors? I've had a profile for a couple months and only have 5 likes and average like two people a week.
Christ, what does it feel like to be wanted by 1833 people?
>>28152248
because guys really want to come inside of girls
like really, really badly.
>>28152782
How in any world could I possibly get the confidence to approach 15 women per day, much less withstand the social ruination of being known as the campus creeper?
>>28152634
First off you're not a biological girl
>somebody come save me teehee
I don't know what's worse-this entitled attitude or the independent woman bs
>>28152708
>Decent guys get nervous around girls they like too
obviously they aren't decent if they're shy...
>>28152871
I-... I have no comeback. :/
>>28152924
pls check out our compatibility score
https://www.okcupid.com/profile/probably_robot
>tfw only 109 likes
who /ugly/ here?
>>28153031
>atheism and it's important
>broke but free
>non monogamous
>>28153031
>Classic Paul Dano profile
>>28152924
beeeEEEE_E__ (E( EEE ee_)my are gf
>>28153031
stop making a face like the camera is bullying you
>>28152248
women are allowed to be passive in dating.
Men aren't. Men have to be assertive and do most of the groundwork, because well.. hell if I know, culture?
>>28153135
I'm sorry I am just not very photogenic and all I could do was my real actual emotion
>make okcupid almost 2 weeks ago
>answer over 700 questions throughout 2 weeks
>update page daily
>add a picture every few days
>3 page views
>0 likes
Is there when I give up?
>>28153031
You look like a McPoyle.
>>28153165
that guy would look fucking badass if he cut his hair
>>28153165
Same thing happened to me senpai, and I look like this: >>28153124
>>28153031
This is a troll account, right?
I feel bad for 95% of robots here but this guy clearly DOES NOT deserve a girlfriend.
>>28153031
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7RgcNMpQ1ME
>be black
>make OKC account
>answer 600+ questions
>have about 50 girls who like me
>keep getting catfished by the FatGirlAngle and OldPictureGirls
>hit on trannies while drunk
>bang like 4 chicks and 2 trannies
>the rest of the unsolicited messages I get are from single moms (fat) and black chicks (fat)
WAKE ME UP
>>28152248
>Why do women have such an easier time getting relationships than men
Because they put forth an EXTREME amount of effort on their appearance and also usually have decent interpersonal communication skills . . Which unfortunately is the basic basis for relationships among ANIMALS
If you did the same more people would want to be in a relationship with you as well
>>28153251
What the fuck? What kind of cretinous barbarian never says "thank you" to wait staff? I always say thank you to wait staff, no exceptions.
>>28153333
Quints of truth. For once, there's a clear reason this robot does not and will never get a girlfriend.
Girls are born with value, men are born with none and must cultivate our own via status, wealth, or charisma unless we are exceptionally physically attractive.
Even 50 said woman are born stars, men must become stars.
>>28153360
Those are quads you fucking faggot please kill yourself
>>28153333
>>28153360
Perpetuating useless little traditions is for idiots
>>28152248
It all boils down to humans being a sexually dimorphic species + supply and demand.
Basically, men want more sex than women do.
There's an abundance of horny men on any given day and a relative scarcity of horny women on any given day.
This makes females vastly favoured in the sexual marketplace and allows them to be comparatively VERY picky.
As an example: imagine you're a hiring manager at a firm. You get quite a few applicants for a vacant position. You're going to pick the best one, right?
That's how it works for women. They literally have men going after them constantly.
This also fucks with their self-perception and often leads them to ascribing a far higher value to themselves than is really present. Usually higher tier men who give attention to meh or average girls only want sex, but the girl doesn't realize that. UltraChad fucked her in the bathroom at this club one time so therefore she deserves that kind of guy for a committed relationship.
Because all they have to do is wait for men do come to them.
>>28152910
>somebody come save me teehee
But isn't that what most male robots here want? Some girl to come save them on her own accord, because they can't get up off their beta asses and meet new people.
>>28153381
You are correct
>but getting this butt befuddled over a simple error.
It's overreacting faggots like you that make it impossible to take anything seriously, even if I did actually say something legitimately retarded.
>>28153396
>That's how it works for women.
Only attractive women, and even then they're only attractive because they actually put time and effort towards it
>>28153124
>>28153031
what a classic face
>>28153403
It's hope.
But most are aware it's a pipe dream and it's more a discussion of venting and frustration rather than an actual practical outlook.
The "tee hee" save me mentality from a lot of girls actually ends up coming to fruition.
>>28153444
Roastie detected.
Also top kek
>time and effort into looking attractive
Sure, but not even a tenth of the time and effort required for a man to be attractive in this day and age.
>Lift 5 times a week
>Work and study hard to make a very solid salary
>Dress well
>Work on social skills and confidence, have lots of friends
>Approach and don't look "creepy"
>Have a large penis
>>28153444
bullshit, just don't be fat
>>28153438
I know, man, I was just dicking around. For some reason it made me chuckle to myself to "fly off the handle" from this little mistake.
You're an okay guy, anon.
>>28152248
It's a fair trade off desu. Women have periods, give child birth as well as spend several minutes and mad cheddar on make up.
>>28153496
Not him, but pretending to fly off the handle over tiny details really is funny 2bh family
>>28153391
*flicks up trenchcoat collar and tips my fedora respectfully towards you*
>>28152248
Daily reminder that there are literal handi-tards have it easier than we do.
https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/4gkos7/iama_girl_with_cerebral_palsy_future_sex
>>28153444
You may have gotten trips but that doesn't mean you're not dumb as a fucking brick.
>>28153522
I know that you stupid bitch I just said I chuckled to myself what the literal fuck is wrong with you
>>28153612
Well well well, if it isn't an internet tough guy. *I stamp on the bridge of your foot* "ahh what the fuck!?" heh, you like that? there's more where that came from...*teleports behind* "what the fuck how are you so fast?" oh, does my speed impress you? *picks you up over my head* lights out, kiddo. *I throw you into orbit* nothin personell
>>28153548
that girl is cute and probably has a qt shy personality from being a wobbly freak growing up
>>28153681
*it was a hologram*
Pshhhh... too easy, kid... You're not even worth my time... *vanishes into mist*
>>28153391
>this is a board full of wagecucks who talk daily about how gruesome wage work is
>they turn around and say "no, I refuse to show appreciation to wagie staff, that's a useless little tradition for small-minded idiots"
>>28153444
Firstly, no. There's ample anecdotal evidence showing fat ugly women getting mountains of attention from men.
Secondly, for women to be attractive to most men they literally only have to not eat like a pig and be blessed with a non-hideous face.
For a man to be attractive to most women he has to have won the facial genetics lottery, lift at least 3 days a week, strictly follow a diet, be dominant sexually and socially, make decent money, etc.
Hmm, so many qts to choose from. I guess this is my life.
>>28153893
icyangel07 is pretty QT, plus you have a high match percentage. Go for it, anon
>>28153970
Ehh, I don't really use this site and don't want to make a full profile.
>>28153893
Get the fuck out of TX moron.
>>28154028
At some point, but my whole family is here.
>>28153970
>tfw I looked her up to see if she visit tags me
I will then chat her up because she has nice titties
>>28152360
It claims that I have 117,but I've had it for a few years
>>28153396
You've got it mostly, except this is mostly because society rewards relatively chaste women and punishes chaste males. This is why being queer rocks fyi
>>28153492
>not even a tenth of the time and effort required for a man to be attractive
I was talking about appearance, and men don't need muscles to be attractive. What's attractive is subjective, but men choose to not be at the same level "appearance wise" as women (cosmetics, hair, and fashion).
>>28153495
Most men don't want a relationship with a "plain jane" unfortunately. Most of the girls you like IRL undoubtedly wear some form of cosmetics/visit salons on the regular
>>28153817
>attention
We were talking about having relationships not sex
>>28153088
Dude I had a profile for over a year and only got 1 like the whole time.
>>28155633
parasite be my gf
>>28152248
>Why do women have such an easier time getting relationships than men
I feel like people who ask this question are retarded or something. There's one reason for all of this:
>relationship dynamics make it easier for women
It is the nature of men to be the approaches and women to be the receivers. My god, even our biology is this way. A woman literally just has to stand there if she's attracted and maybe have a modicum of a personality if she's ugly. Women SELDOM (and I stress this A LOT) ever approach men, even digitally via dating site messages. This is the natural relationship dynamics at play again. Human males need to compete for mates, and on dating websites the necessity for having actual confidence is lessened because it's not in person so women will then start to go by whoever is the most attractive (ie: hypergamy). Any less-attractive men are at a disadvantage here unless you have some sort of major advantage over more attractive men, like more money.
>>28152248
Gender ratio.
>>28155796
more like attractive to ratio.
>>28153403
Nobody can save anyone fembot, we just have to find people to suffer with.
>>28155814
If it was acceptable for men to wear makeup we'd all look just as good as girls do.
>>28155908
The whole girls are never single meme only applies to attractive women. If you really wanted a women then go after a land whale. The ratio of male to female is still around 50/50.
Question about okc.
Does it tell them EVERY time I visit their profile or just the first time? Does it update the "when they visited you" or is that just for the first them they go to your profile?
I've been mad creeping on this girl and it would be embarrassing if she saw that I visited her page every 15 minutes.
In my town at least I feel like for ever good looking girl there are about 5 good looking guys. The competition is fierce.
>>28155455
Yes, that's another part of it, but why? Due to sexual dimorphism. Sluts are looked down upon for good reason - they're inferior partners.
I agree with you about being gay. I wish I was gay, honestly. It's a shame that the gay community is so shitty.
>>28155633
Attention from the opposite sex leads to relationships. It's easier for women to find both sex and relationships. 'plain jane' is a meme. Any woman who has a decent body (EASILY achievable as a female - just don't eat like a pig and do some HIIT twice a week) is attractive to men.
The problem for women is that men they're not attracted to are literally invisible to them sexually. Couple this with women's self-perception (and therefore standards for potential partners) being greatly elevated by attention from men and you get the classic 'where have all the good men gone' fallacy. Your standards are higher than your own value and you literally don't notice all the beta bills who would kill for a chance to be with you.
>>28152634
>i prefer it
Just so you know. Practically everyone does that. Getting nervous in that situation is completely normal.
Men just have to deal with itm
>>28152924
This is supposedly the attention whores picture, she whores it up in r9k everyday. And is a complete normal fag.
http://desustorage.org/r9k/thread/28056601/#28058258
http://desustorage.org/r9k/thread/28119843/#28120080
>>28156028
>If you really wanted a women then go after a land whale
I'm not a land whale myself so no.
I asked a girl out through an email today. She gave me her number and we've been texting.
I'm pretty sure I'm gonna sperg out if I haven't already and ruin it, but this just goes to show girls are being bombarded from every angle.
>>28152248
Because men have a higher sex drive that makes them seek women and women evolve exactly to extract resources from men because they become handicap during pregnacy.
>>28152248
Because men are thirsty animals, that's why.
Even on 4chan, you have the QT threads, Meet up threads etc.. every single time men don't get any replies, emails, messages. Women on the other hand just sit back and enjoy the show, watch their inbox slowly get filled up. They don't even have to look around, look at peoples profiles, or thread posts since everyone replies to her.
Regardless of the weight, looks, or if she put any effort into her QT chart it still gets replies and men saying they are her perfect match.
Never the other way around.
MEN ARE THIRSTY
MEN WILL DO ANYTHING FOR SEX
>>28152782
enjoy your sexual harasment charges and enjoy your creep status.
Well essentially you already know OP, now some will say it is due to a lack of feminism, and some will say it is due to a excess of feminism. There really is no wrong or right answer, it is just reality, and it has always been that way, in fact, that was the main reason wars were created to get rid of the disposable men.
>>28156240
>men have higher sex drive
Men have a longer distance to sex generally.
>>28156249
To be fair we're not 50-50
But regardless I'm pretty sick of them crowding every girl. Have some restraint. It's a more effective strategy to only respond 2-3 at a time at most.
>>28156290
This has nothing to do with feminism. It has to do with egalitarianism/lack of egalitarian values in society.
>>28156361
Even then, you never really ever see women initiate the replies and say something to a man like;
>wow we are perfect
>wow we match
>etc..
Never, they just sit down and watch. But otherwise it's fucking pathetic how crowded one fucking girl gets.
>>28156031
every single time you visit it tells them.
You're gonna get blocked lmao
>>28156391
Yeah. Makes you almost think that crap is bait.tbqh senpai the real issue is that women prefer to date friends. So they check you out that way. Girls say they look for friends but they're exploring their options. The annoying part is even women in relationships do this.
>>28153031
>I can't imagine how bleak my life would be if I couldn't escape into an exciting alternate reality from time to time
>reading for plot
pleb
>>28152248
Actually I'm a girl and I'm moderately attractive like a 6 at worse even though I'm almost in my 30s.
I know I'm going to get tons of shit and hate for this inb4 etc etc, but believe me when I say I think it's just as lonely as a girl. I get messages on okcupid but they are 100% soulless vapid moronic absolute shit.
I am NEET shut in but I HAVE managed to make cool male friends but not through dating sites. I completely gave up on dating sites. I just pretend to be a guy in an irc channel or during vidya games, I dont outright say I am but it's assumed that I am and if I get close enough to someone they need to know I'm a girl they already accept me fully for what my personality is rather than based off how I look immediately.
I'd suggest every girl reading this go for that same method please. It works.
I'm just that level of average that every asshole on dating websites thinks that I'm obtainable and you literally can't win period. Dating websites are absolute pointless bullshit. In fact the entire dating game is. It's a rat race fully of superficial shallow assholes.
>>28156557
>I am NEET shut in but I HAVE managed to make cool male friends
Because you're a women you old sack of shit.
>>28156405
Shit.
>visit peoples profiles multiple times even throughout the day
>still not a single click on my profile
I've visited well over a hundred girls profiles in the past two weeks. Many of them I've clicked on multiple times and all I've gotten were 2 profile views.
I didn't think I was THAT bad looking.
>>28156757
My only hope is that they don't have A-list or premium or whatever and get more than 5 different visitors a day.
>>28156557
be my gf now pIs
will love you even if you're a roast
>>28156557
>soulless moronic shit
Please explain what makes for non-souless moronic shit? I just want to spew my moronic shit on people's account properly.
Also appreciate examples of moronic shit. Copy paste is enough. I'm not some 'evidence' prude that cares for screenshots.
>every girl should do this
YES. Except apparently lots of girls find games boring without chatting on voip. Just my experience.
I FOUND MY WAIFU.
WHAT DO I SAY TO HER??
>>28156901
SHE LOOKS SO LONELY.
SHE NEEDS ME.
>>28156901
>>28156925
>YOU LOOK SO LONELY DO YOU NEED A [insert relevant anime reference here] THAT CAN...?
>>28156925
damn she pretty qt in a moody kind of way. don't fuck it up senpai
>>28152248
what do you mean why do they have it easier. its because everyone wants them you idiot. and they get to select what they want. its the opposite for guys.
>>28156901
how does it feel to know youll be the 100th person to message her today?
You've been lied to about demographics. It's impossible for every man to be in a relationship at your age because there are literally not enough girls at your age.
1. There are more boys born than girls, by about 5 %. Don't believe me? Look up your country's population pyramid. The claim by feminists that women are a majority is only true because women are a majority past middle age.
2. Dating happens at the margins. Using the figure from 1., let's say there are 100 women and 105 men in the room and 80 women are in a relationship with 80 men. Then that leaves only 20 single women for 25 single men. 5 % more men than women becomes 25 % when you exclude people in relationships.
3. Mass migration to Western countries throws the sex ratio off balance even further. Hardly any single women migrate to your country compared to the hordes of single men.
4. The "surplus" men in older age groups are going after girls your age. If you're 21 and going after 21 year old girls, those same girls are being hit on by 28 year old guys. Those 28 year old guys probably have more money and status than you so you'll lose out.
>>28152248
why do people ask this question so much here. Egg>sperm thus women>men. That's really all it is. You'll never be worth more than a roastie.
>>28157216
This. And there's also the girls that are effectively out of relationships because they're some Chad's side bitch (and are waiting for him to come around and leave his gf/wife for them)
>>28152913
Shy guys does not at all mean that person is not decent. That's like saying those who are not shy are all decent. Not true at all.
At first I thought this was something to do with our generation in particular. I mean any girl can swipe right and get a Chad. But when you think of your parent's friends, all of the women will/would have been married at some point, while a handful of the male friends have not.
>>28152751
Lmfao this faggot tried and failed so badly
>>28153316
Fuck off, Tyrone.
Real blackbots are virgins
Anyone remember when someone shooped eggman's face onto a woman and he got hundreds of likes and messages?
>get okcupid
>start sending messages
>start receiving messages
>get banned for being a white cis hetero male
>moderator tells me to check my privilege
>Create okc profile 1.5 years ago
>0 likes, only small talk, no dates whatsoever after months
>Forget about it and move on
>Start over when I move to a new town
>4 likes after some months, but again only small talk and perhaps some phone numbers
>Just recently met a really cute weeb girl and I can tell she really enjoys my company.
Don't give up hope, robots! Be patient!
>>28159454
There are ten robots for every weeb girl.
