How can I help?
I have a few friends that I think would relate to you guys better. Introverted, very shy in front of girls and haven't been with one in years (if ever). They're nice guys but rarely want to get out of their comfort zone of vjdeogames and baby shit. Why? How can I help them experience the world?
I'll 6'3. 205 and have a good face with a pretty good job. Socialization came easy to me. Can I help them?
You can't because guys like this usually think they're too intelligent to go out and do anything other than play video games
>>28141604
One of them very bright, the other two are relatively smart. None of them are "geniuses."
Should I just start making fun of them until they realize they need to hit the gym and get it together?
>>28141575
>How can I help them?
What makes you think they need help? Let them do whatever the fuck they want
>>28141575
Just regular exposure therapy. House party would freak them out at first but if you could make small one like 5-7 people maybe it should work. You really need to address their problems - too intelligent to try, general shyness due to lack of interaction, inferiority complex due to their physical looks.
>>28141637
Because they are getting fat(ter), are uncultured, and never socialize with women. Why would they even have motivation to get up in the morning?
>>28141654
So? What's that got to do with you? Let them live their life.
>>28141687
>Let them live their life
Maybe he cares about them? That's what friends do to each other.
>>28141687
>being this friendless
>>28141654
>>Why would they even have motivation to get up in the morning?
exacly, i do not know too. i just get up soo i can enjoy the small pleasures off life.
get out please. they do not need help. you need help not them.
>>28141703
>>28141728
>My friends do things differently to me and what I consider the "norm", so in order to make MYSELF feel good I am going to interrupt the life style so I can feel like some sort of angelic figure that needs to deliver them from their 'awful' lives.
>>28141739
>>28141749
>never has sex with girls. ever.
>enjoyable
pick one, breh.
>>28141687
>doesn't see an issue with the manchild problem
>actually encourages it
Its people like you that need to be purged from this world.
>>28141575
Jesus Fucking Christ, this woman is in terrible physical form.
>>28141749
>Getting fatter, isolating yourself from socializing and then projecting my faults onto others is the superior lifestyle. Why i should bother thinking that my lifestyle might be wrong? I'm just being myself and friends have no right to criticize me.
>>28141814
>allowing the kardashians to culturally appropriate your brain to the point that you think there is a "right and wrong" lifestyle.
kek.
>>28141814
>My life style is right, theirs is wrong!
They don't have sex and they like vidya, front page news, I'm sure.
Don't you have a car engine to rev loudly in a quiet neighborhood or something, Norman?
>>28141855
don't you have a shrine of the popular girl in high school who you haven't seen in 12 years to jerk off to, autist?
>>28141855
>They don't have sex and they like vidya, front page news, I'm sure
Oh now you're sure? Maybe they are using vidya as escapism?
>>28141871
Good reply, Chad. Hit a nerve?
>>28141774
>yes goy, why aren't you marrying a used up roastie single mother? Aren't you a real man? Better step up to the plate then!
>>28141901
when was the last time you exercises? ate a healthy meal? had a conversation with a woman who you aren't related to, work with, or had to interact with you for their job?
>>28141871
Man, that projection.
>>28141925
>posts pictures of animated cartoons on a message board for shut in losers
>saying someone else projects
ooooo I'm laffin
>>28141923
>or had to interact with you for their job?
lmao pinch me and wake me up
>>28141938
You ARE projecting. Your little spiel about "Stacy shrine" is very telling. None of us do that, you're projecting your retarded behavior onto us.
You showed your hand too early Mr. Psuedo-Alpha. Now fuck off.
>>28141911
As opposed to jerking off to trap porn, playing vidya and never facing their fears? Their lifestyle is cancerous and an embarrassment to mankind.
>>28141963
why are you so worked up? how many times have you jerked off to your high school classmates Facebook profile? do you frequently dream about saving them and making them your girlfriend?
>>28141971
>jerking off to trap porn, playing vidya and never facing their fears?
I would respect a permavirgin who does these things far more than a literal cuckold who is willing to waste his time and resources raising another man's (superior) spawn.
If you are willing to date a single mom you are fucking pathetic, end of story.
>>28141971
It's not like it's really cancerous but non-productive in the long run. They dont do damage to other people but themselves.
>>28141575
You want an honest answer? Get them into working out, try to motivate them. Try to get them to go to a bar, play wingman for them. However you have to recognize that if they don't want to change, then there's nothing you can do about it.
>>28141992
Seriously man, enough with your projection.
>>28141971
And there's nothing you can do about it :^) does that upset you?
>>28142000
Trips dont lie.
If they dont want to change, they wont change. It's better to realize early whenever they want it or not.
>>28141923
I'm not that guy but I'll answer anyways.
>when was the last time you exercises?
Like 2 years ago but I go for walks daily
>ate a healthy meal?
last night
>had a conversation with a woman who you aren't related to, work with, or had to interact with you for their job?
my best friend and his girlfriend came over on saturday night to smoke weed with me so I guess that.
I assume you're trying to ask when the last time I asked a girl out was, and that was 4 years ago and I got rejected. I don't do it now because its too much work, I don't want to act like some dancing monkey trying to impress a girl while 15 other guys do the same. Its embarrassing and undignified and I refuse to put myself through it.
If men and women are as equal as women claim they are then women need to start doing the approaching every now and then instead of making us do 100% of the work.
>>28142013
>this is the extent of your banter
yeah, stay in your bedroom.
>>28142066
>he thinks I care about "bantering" with some wannabe "alpha male" on the internet
I'm just taking a break from writing my appellate brief buddy. Don't flatter yourself
I think the more important question for this thread is, "would you hit it"?
>>28142085
oh you're a lawyer in the sims?
>>28142151
Nah, a law student.
>>28142154
and I'm sure you have a girlfriend too.
>>28142176
No I don't, I thought we established that?
>>28142154
>going to law school
Enjoy an oversaturated job market, Chad.
>>28142176
>I'm sure you will be rolling in cash too
FTFY
>>28142200
>lawyers
>being rich in 2016
pick one.
>>28142196
I live in Texas where the oversaturation has been decreasing the past few years, and I still have 2 years before I graduate so I think I'll be alright.
I worked for an attorney here in town for 2 years before coming to law school and he said he'd always love to have me back so if worst comes to worst I can work with him for a while before looking for jobs elsewhere or starting my own practice.
I'm the farthest thing from a Chad.
>>28141996
I've banged single moms before. There's nothing wrong with dating them because that's good pussy, but I would never spend money on them more than maybe a few drinks.
>>28141575
Have a party, invite them and some other guys and girls and wingman for them :v
>>28141575
>I'll 6'3. 205 and have a good face with a pretty good job. Socialization came easy to me. Can I help them?
Let them wither away, as should be.
>>28142546
>Let them wither away, as should be
Maybe they have chance?
>>28142669
If they had a chance, they would have improved themselves a long time ago.
Even if OP helped them, it would make no difference. He should spend his time in better things
>>28143157
>If they had a chance, they would have improved themselves a long time ago
Some people just need good word or slight push to accelerate themselves.
>>28143201
Those people are not worth it.
The way I see it, if you don't get it right the first time on your own, there is no hope for you.
>>28143297
It highly depends whenever you're forcing him to change or he wants to change but doesnt know how.
>>28141923
>how much you talk to women is an indicator of how good your life is
Sexually frustrated faggots always putting women on a fucking pedestal, as if every male's life is centered around fucking as many brainless whores as possible. Kill yourself.
>>28143378
I agree, but in any case the damage is already done. Even if one manages to get better at social life, he has missed out so much.
>>28141575
Well played op, well played.
go find another board to troll, dick breath
>>28143474
>he has missed out so much
On that one i can agree. You've already lost much but you can regain it if you want to achieve that much. Usually people who are into video games, anime and other escapism methods dont want to change current situation but there's minority which doesnt have any opportunities. For example you'd like to find friends but you're forced to work 12-hour night shift .
>>28143556
I don't think you can regain any of it, you just try not to think about it.
>Usually people who are into video games, anime and other escapism methods dont want to change current situation but there's minority which doesnt have any opportunities. For example you'd like to find friends but you're forced to work 12-hour night shift .
Both of these groups are fucked, either way. People are turned off by unsociable or unattractive individuals, they don't care about the hows or whys.
>>28143701
>People are turned off by unsociable or unattractive individuals, they don't care about the hows or whys
It can usually go two ways - some of them can appear quite normie-like but struggles with close relationships/friendships (i'm talking about cyborgs) and others are rejected on spot due to their strange vibe (robots). Unattractiveness is really in the eye of the beholder but i dont deny that attractive people usually achieve more than ugly ones. However there are many cases where robots achieve /fit/ body but due to character flaws they are stuck in the same level and the exact opposite some unattractive people achieve a lot (it's probably compensation) just to prove to other people what rhey are capable of.
>>28143802
> i dont deny that attractive people usually achieve more than ugly ones.
I wholeheartedly believe that. More often than not, attractive people live more fulfilling lives and I can't blame them for it
> However there are many cases where robots achieve /fit/ body but due to character flaws they are stuck in the same level and the exact opposite some unattractive people achieve a lot (it's probably compensation) just to prove to other people what rhey are capable of.
It's funny because society ends up mocking both groups. However, in the case of the latter, those people can actually offer something in return
>>28144058
Attractive people who live fulfilling lives are usually attractive from childhood. It's self-fulfilling circle where people want to hang out with you because of your looks then you have confidence in yourself because of it and so on. However, there are group of people who become much better looking with age but there comes the biggest problem - they look semi-attractive but they have emotional baggage due to past neglection.
Society mostly mocks up people who compensate their character/attractiveness with material things. Attractiveness compensation with character is somewhat positive in the long run - atleast these people have immense willpower to charge through obstacles. Robots with good body end up in situation where there are so close to achieving next level but they need to come over themselves. With the introduction of red pill a lot of robots are capable of realizing relationship dynamics but up to 5% percent of them are truly capable of achieving alpha status.
>>28144167
A robot is a robot, it can never become normal or even anything close. Others can feel that you try hard to function and it pushes them away.
Like I said above, there is no point in trying. The only people worth living are the ones who have it all and the rest of mankind best serves as contrast to them.
>>28144372
>Others can feel that you try hard to function and it pushes them away
Like you could tell who's robot and who's not just from glance?
>>28144406
I don't. Normal people can though.
>>28144442
indeed they can, they can see if i am a virgin, and they can try to bully me with it. good thing is i just dodge most people and i cannot connect with anyone. you cannot suffer from being alone if you cannot enjoy being connected with someone.
>>28144564
>you cannot suffer from being alone if you cannot enjoy being connected with someone
...you can't?
>>28144372
I get that you believe that, but can you honestly say you've even tried? By trying I mean putting at least a year into physically, mentally or spiritually bettering yourself with exercise, therapy and meditation.
>>28144704
I'll be honest with you: I haven't. I see no point in trying as I believe nothing will change.
I'm not a strong-willed person and the thought of having to begin at virtually square one is killing me.
>>28141575
Don't put too much effort into saving people. They will always degenerate back into their ways. I suppose genetics dictates it.
>>28144881
Well, I hope one day you will begin your journey to happiness and enlightenment. There is already too much misery in the world. Don't be another statistic, anon, I'm rooting for you.
>>28144984
That's so kind of you anon, thanks!
OP here. you're a bunch of weirdos.
>>28143384
bro how fucking mad are you? lmfao
>>28145131
Yeah well it takes one to know one
Fuck you, Chad. You got lucky and now you keep looking down on people who didn't. You wanting to help them is just another form of bragging. Go fuck yourself.
