Should I just swallow my pride and join a dating site? I don't want to be 4ever alone
Are you alone because you have bad social skills? Or is it because even with that taken away you're still an undesirable creep? Answer this question carefully before you decide.
It's kinda a waste of time unless ypu're decently attractive as well as witty with your messages, and even then you'll just be one of hundreds for a woman to choose from
>>28127512
Not OP, but people assume I'm a creep because of my bad social skills. They go hand in hand
>>28127512
I have terrible social skills anddon't have the balls to approach a girl irl and feel more comfortable behind a screen or phone
>>28127546
>>28127585
Here's the fucking thing though. If you're literally a sperglord a lot of your issues are socializing face to face. Having the internet layer can help you a lot. You can also do a lot to actually build the foundation of the relationship online so that when you actually meet you'll be way more comfortable and normal (lol normal) when you interact in person.
I've met 2 people I knew for years online and it was like having access to an entirely new fucking personality. IRL I was always super quiet and had zero socializing energy and extremely awkward in conversations to the point of cringe and self hatred but I could be around these people and yes, still be a bit of a weirdo, but for the most part be personable and somebody actually worth befriending.