A girl at work has been joking around how I harass her. I used to send her some funny links when I was bored at work and she told me to stop it. That was in September but she has recently brought it up and actually talked how she could go to HR because of it. We were on a coffee break and my boss and everybody in the office heard it. Today my bosses boss came to the office and said to me how I should behave when a new female intern comes in and that he will be watching me closely and he doesnt want to hear anything bad.
I am 35 years old and never had a gf and have no life outside work so this really hits me bad. If I will get the boot I will probably kill myself. Why women are such whores that cant handle the banter?
Stay professional.
Go get an escort if you need female attention/satisfaction
>>28117368
man this massively sucks
worst part is she might well be flirting by making those comments but I wouldnt touch that wasps nest with a 11 foot pole
I think I know who u are lol.
you can't do anything to a female co worker without being branded a creep unless you are chad and even then you stand a 50/50 shot at best. be nice? creep. be mean? jerk. stare? weirdo. no eye contact? freak. flirt? rapist. don't flirt? loser. you literally cannot win. women should be purged brother. they have no place in a man's world besides being between the sheets.
>>28117368
That's the reason I try as mch as possible to ignore them. You'll avoid such things doing this way. Train yourself doing so and you'll be fine. At least this as far as now has worked for me.
Hahahahahaha. How are you so creepy and not know it?
>>28117368
what were you talking about or doing that caused her to bring this up again? obviously it was something that offended her womanly sensibilities. need more details OP. what did you do or say this time?
>>28118509
Obviously because he is sending her non professional texts and being a creep.
>>28117368
Sounds like you're accidentally being yourself.
Do as this anon says >>28117415 stay professional. never be yourself. Work is bullshit but if you wanna get those promotions and earn big bucks you gotta stay professional.
Find a life outside work. b urself there.
>>28117368
Don't interact with her again. She will hate that you won't be giving her attention, and there'll be nothing that she can do about it.
>>28118372
What letter does my first name begin with?
>>28117368
OP, you can send me funny links when you're bored :3
>>28118516
he said that was back in september. what happened in the coffee room is my question.
>>28118509
Nothing really. She is cheating her boyfriend with another guy from the office though.
>>28118551
he's fucking with you or stupid. the equivalent of those normies who always claim HEY I KNOW HER in other threads
>>28118576
did you bring that up or something? her only recourse is to peg you with some dumb shit you did forever ago if thats the case. you can't win this battle. best just let her be and tread lightly from here on out.
>>28118624
They hooked up in a company get to together and everybody saw what they were up to. It isnt like I outed them. I did make a few jokes about it but so did everybody so I wasnt any different.
>>28118725
she just felt like she had to come back at you with something as socially crippling, if not moreso. you call her slut she calls you beta edgelord. the problem is there is a double standard in the work place and her being permiscuous is going to do the opposite of make her lose her job. just wait til it blows over. apologize if she makes herself vulnerable to you in the future about the weird links. just try to write it off as you having an odd sense of humour. don't mention her hooking up with dude or u guys teasing her about it again- that will make her angry. if the opportunity doesnt present itself then never mention anything to her that isn't work related again. u should be good though. silly links won't get u fired as long as this isn't a recurring issue for you. don't give her anymore ammo regardless of whether or not u 2 make up down the line.
>>28117368
35 fucking years old and still don't know that you NEVER try to get friendly with any cunt that has ANyTHING to do with your workplace? You only ever keep it professional, and short as can be. Never get stuck with one in a closed room without at least one other person present, preferably two. Anything else, you open yourself up to losing your job, and even getting raped in prison.
C'mon man, its 2016.
>>28118972
Bitches like this are rare. Most of the women at work are okay and I have no problems with them. But yeah in the future I will keep it strictly professional and will not joke with them etc. that might backfire like this.
