Are there any dating websites that work? I've tried pic related for a few years and cant get any messages.
>You're ugly
I'm told I'm slightly above average/decent face. I am messaging women who border on fucking down syndrome, whales and anyone with a mental disability. They're entitled/being picky or my profile just sucks.Its deleted nowI'm at the point I've lowered my standards to throwing myself at the stereotypical sassy fat black chick. I'm tired of being a virgin who's never even felt a moment of bliss in a woman's embrace.
tl;dr any dating sites work? Is "the best" just shit or am I victim of circumstance/autism/ugly w/e
Bump, I cant be the only robot who tried this. I know there is a normie here who knows the answer.
It might not be because you're ugly. If you're poor that might also be a factor. Odds really are not in your favor if you are poor and ugly.
I think I've had like 1 chic respond to my messages. Honestly if a girl isn't interested in meeting up within like a paragraph of writing you're in friendzone/orbiter territory and she's not interested. Ever.
>>28110480
I'm dating a girl I met off OKC right now. My previous girl of 2 years was also from OKC.
>>28110822
Why the fuck is this shit so needlessly hard? If there were girls in my town I wouldn't have to resort to literal shit.
>>28110877
It's probably hard for you because there are no girls in your town.
I don't know what to tell you I'm a foreveralone. You'll probably just accept it after a while that's how it worked for me.
> m tired of being a virgin who's never even felt a moment of bliss in a woman's embrace.
>only wants a woman so he can be a "man"
>only wants a woman because it's a rite into adulthood and he's a manchild
>only wants a "woman" and think that will induce bliss but will accept literally anything
>completely dehumanises people
OP, that's the reason. They can tell.
Some people just aren't supposed to date
>>28112220
I can see why she would be confused at what a garbage dealer is, tho. most young people have never been in a casino before, and probably never looked at the dealer tables even if they had.
>>28110663
I get quite a few messages. Make sure you have more than one pic. Make sure you look good. Make your profile interesting. Women can tell if you are desperate. So fake it like you aren't. Also message women a lot. It is a numbers game. What do you look like? Are you actually busted? Or just dress badly/suck with cameras?
I've been on OKC for three years, and I've JUST set up my first OKC date. It CAN work, but it takes quite a while.
You also have to not suck at sending messages. I pretty much only have any luck with women who send messages to me, and it's super-rare that I'm actually interested in any of those. (This is literally the first one I've actually wanted to date, out of maybe 50 who've messaged me.)
I can get responses reliably from okc, but it never EVER goes anywhere
>>28112287
well the point is that if you're not a catch, like from a cold disconnected objective point of view, like if you're not a doctor or a lawyer or something, they want nothing to do with you
which is crazy because these women all suck or else they wouldn't be using internet dating. Being on sites like POF should imply that they're lonely like I am and they want company. They use it as some kind of auction platform to find miraculously respectable men. The only conclusion I can reach is that they're all retarded. If you don't care about actually forming relationships, it would be very easy to lie to women on POF and get easy pussy by saying you're important and cool.
I'm not interested in casual sex though and I work in a warehouse and go to community college, so I just deleted mine.
Make a female account with a semi decent picture. Now watch as they get a 200 messages a day. That's why okcupid and similar sites don't work.
>>28112183
yet if he were a woman he could be ugly,fat,mentally ill, lazy, "womanchild", etc. and still find someone.
>OP, that's the reason. They can tell.
nah, the reason is he's a low-mid tier straight male.
Mh i am quiete successful there.
But i only get messaged by asian and black women. No messages from women my country.But i think its cool. I am a ginger btw.
>>28112459
What country?
I'm ginger in the USA and I got messaged mostly by white girls. Sometimes even qts.
It would usually drop off though so I figure somebody more handsome ended up messaging them or responding to them while they were talking to me and it voided the whole thing.
>be on OKC
>see this
swipe left or right?
>>28112376
Don't lie to them. Just put your best foot forward. Look good and make a good profile. Focus on hobbies rather than work. Tell them about what makes you interesting. Also, when you message them, be flirty, make your intentions clear, and ask them to coffee or a drink fairly quickly or they will get bored and move on.
>>28112485
Germany
I think tan is what women want here so i dont really have a chance. Japanese like me often lol
>>28112518
Obvious right, politics don't mean shit if you're just fucking
Make a profile with some chad pics. See how girls react. Realize you are just ugly and girls that blow you off reply within seconds to chad and give their numbers out without even having to ask for it.
>>28112721
This.
Chad can say and do whatever he wants and still get pussy with no problem.
>>28110480
The secret is making your profile a woman and getting a fuck ton of likes etc then switch it back to being a man.
According to a ucla mathematician who hacked it to death the median unsolicited messages to males straight and bi is 0
Thinking of making one. How do you get past the embarrassment of people you know possibly seeing your profile?
Then again to see me on the site in the first place they need to have a profile, So I guess I should not feel to embarrassed.
>>28112785
With Chad, you lose.
>>28112801
You could always put the profile somewhere else and just lurk your city
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>>28110877
macro as much as possible and then personalize stuff to make it less effort on your part
>>28112183
nah its more like every girl from a 20/10 to a fat nigger landwhale has all the fish in the ocean jumping in her boat and she only has to eat one and youre trying to be that one fish.
>>28112220
I would avoid any negative words at all regardless of what the correct term is.
Instead of IM GARBAGE you should say: I work in a casino. Negativity is fucking bad.
>>28112345
this
>hi
>hello
>you like birds?
>sure id fuck one
>plz respond
>>28112393
this
>>28112438
Do you blame them? Why have a shit-tier avg loser bf when rich ugly men throw themselves at you?
>>28112459
everyone hates gingers
>>28112785
I think what you dont realize youre doing here is you are pretending to be an attractive male. You are saying these things and being serious. She thinks youre being incredulous and teasing her. She thinks youre just playing around if you actually showed up with your mom dropping you off, shed lose her shit.
>>28112801
Too many people use online dating for it to be a big deal anymore. As long as you don't put anything retarded on your profile no one should give a shit
>>28112801
If they see your profile, it means they are using the site too
>>28112975
Yeah everyone. Thats why get lots of likes from asians. Honestly i find them kre attractive cause unlile white women they are mostly not trashy sluts anyway so i got that going for me which is nice.
>>28112815
Please post more of these. They cheer me up.
>>28113172
Here is the complete guide that started it all.
