I really need help with this. Every time i try to have sex with a girl my penis doesn't get hard enough. No, i'm neither impotent or gay.
It gets kinda hard, but not hard enough for penetration. I can only get rock hard while masturbating. This has happened 3 times already, and i always put the blame on the condom saying it is too small, but i'm getting fucking desperate here.
I'm thinking this could be due to excessive masturbation ( i do it at least one time a day), what do you guys think? And do you know what can i do?
I'm only 19 btw.
Do you death grip?
Cut back and go lighter on your dick
Practice no fap
>>28106215
Performance anxiety you fucking chad.
You're anxious, and blood is rushing away from areas not important for survival, e.g. your dick.
Just try to relax and breath, and communicate with your partner and tell her that you're nervous, and if you could wait until the right time. For example, don't say to yourself "we are going to have sex now", just lay with her until you are horny and try to do it without thinking too much.
have you tried more foreplay and just teasing the fuck out of each other?
>>28106302
this anon has the right idea
OP, have you tried yohimbe? One or two caps of a quality extract an hour before sex and you'll be Dark Souls 3-level hard.
this happened to me for a while. i'll bet you 100% it's the condom
the first time my gf and i tried without a condom, boom it worked
it worked really well for a few months, we tried with a condom again, and it went semi-flaccid
took it off, shot up