How long is it expected for a guy to wait before sending a first message on Tinder?
> 420
> Sending a message
The only expectation is that you send the first message. You can wait one week or 2 minutes, the girl already knows if she will reply.
>>28046986
What does 420 have to do with this?
>Geeky
>Independent
>Freedom Loving
>Adventerous - bitch cant even spell adventurous right
Besides her 9.5/10 looks I doubt shell actually have anything to talk about.
>>28047098
>expecting intellectual conversations with any bitch
>>28047029
she's a degenerate "lol i'm so geeky, i hang with bois cuz they r less drama" bitch. she's probably sucking dick right now...
>>28047276
So? It means she'll know what to do when she gets to my dick.
>>28047300
>wanting a whore
Burn the heathen!
>>28046941
That woman is beautiful.
>>28047098
Like this guy metionned, at least 9.5 in looks, really. Wow.
>>28047098
>complaining about spelling errors
>not noticing all of them
She spelled independAnt wrong too, the dumb roastie
>Social Drinker
>"I only drink out with friends, I don't want to seem like an alcoholic
>420
>"Smoke weed erry day"
Easily the most cancerous of all the drug users.
>>28047475
Exactly, so I don't want to mess this up!
>>28046941
she's alright
contact her immediately if you want her
>>28047533
How immediately? I don't want to come off as desperate.
Hey this girl's profile looks neat
>>28047659
Wait a second. Somethings not quite right
>>28047098
>9.5/10 looks
More like 6/10
>>28047659
>Hey this girl's profile looks neat
No it doesn't.
>>28047690
Fine. How about this girl's profile does she look neat?
You're supposed to wait a bit before messaging? I just assumed the sooner the better since most girls expect you to message first and there's no point in waiting since the app shows you liked each other
>>28046941
what state OP? looks nice
I've heard that you should wait a bit if you swipe first and she matches you later, but should message immediately if you get an insta-match because she swiped you first.
>>28047728
No. There isn't anything that would make me swipe right.
>>28047730
This is also the correct approach. No sense in waiting
>>28047730
The deal is usually 3 days so you don't seem desperate.
>>28047659
Would drop acid with her.
Also:
You people are disgusting for using tinder. Subjecting to you weaker inner primal "needs" instead of projecting your energie into something more productive.
It is pathetic to you corrupt and mangle the beautiful ritual of human mating, into some vile and dismal like tinder.
I know you will get what you deserve anyway. You will get your hopes up, desperately trying to sway a women into responding to you. You do not realize that everyone if these girls is chatting and playing about 10-20 guys at once.
Tinder is disgusting because it fits to the female-perspective on dating. It empowers them more and more. Now they can let all their beta orbit worship them trough a single app. They don't even need the real world anymore, they can digitally satisfy their needs of feeling wanted. Only to pick a chad that will use and abuse her in the end anyway.
You will leave tinder, bitter and disappointing and confirmed in your previous disappointment with the whole dating scene.
You will never find a girl or a mate, because this is not how human dating works. We are of lesser genetic material. So we are either completely out of the whole pathetic circle of people trying to fuck each other. Or you are a beta desperately trying to appeal for Chad's sloppy seconds...
Can you please just move on with your live and dedicate yourself to something better and greater, like god?
>>28047803
But in those 3 days she could've started talking to other dudes
>>28046941
>Geeky
Always has to have the latest iPhone, MacBook, etc. And yes, you're paying for that.
>Independ[A]nt
Doesn't care about your opinion
>Freedom loving
"You can't tie me down anon, I want an open relationship. We should have sex with other people."
>Adventurous
Will require 3 VACATIONS per year MINIMUM. You guess it, you're paying for that.
>Social drinker and 420
Who even mentions alcohol and drugs in their bio? Avoid this hippie.
>>28047805
I don't really expect much from tinder, but it's better than nothing. If I do go out with a girl, I'm not gonna spend a lot of money on her unless she's a keeper (ex. She offers to split/pay for the next date) I understand they're playing with multiple dudes, buy I have to put myself out there one way or another
>>28047757
Utah. That picture she's in was definitely not taken anywhere in this state. There is nothing happy here.
>>28047787
Oh well she seemed cool to me.
>>28047819
>probably
She IS talking to other dudes right now. I'd be surprised if she wasn't a bot. Still, I'd rather wait and not come off as needy than have her talk to boys who I'm competing with anyway.
>>28047805
Yeah but what about the point where you're messaging 10 girls at the same time. Is it then okay?
>>28047728
She would be cute if her facw wasn't long as fuck
>>28047805
It's funny, with your last sentence there it almost makes it seem like your entire post is bait?
And yet, everything before that was actually the truth? Explain yourself Anon.
>>28047728
>Virgin
sounds about right
>>28047659
>>28047671
>OCAD
what did you expect
go after mousy uoft girls man
>>28047805
Maybe you're right. Maybe I should just unmatch her.
>>28047098
>>28047475
>9.5/10
R9k seriously has some low standards. Judging on the 2 pics alone, it is obvious it's an angle that took her best side, she has make up on and we don't klnow if it's filtered. She is more a 5. Her body is plain and she has brown spots on her collar bone.
Disgusting how low your standards are. It's the standards of normalfags.
Vagina aside, aren't girls fucking boring?
>>28047671
>I like chicks better
>focuses her bio on potential males
Wut
>>28047983
I only see girls through anime, so I don't know that yet.
>>28047560
You do realize she is being flooded with messages from 1000 Chads right this instant right? Every second you lose, you're 10 messages behind fag boy
>>28047029
>smoking weed = being a slut
Lmao, enjoy the sermon tomorrow morning, faggot.
>>28048084
>get a message from a guy I just barely matched with
>seriously? He must be pretty undesirable if he's messaging me so quick
>unmatch
It doesn't matter how many guys she's talking to if I don't play my own cards right.
>>28048132
>seriously thinking this is how tinder works
You're seriously retarded aren't you?
>>28048164
This is how women work. I know this for a fact.
>>28048216
>I know this for a fact
Is that why you're still a virgin?
>>28047880
No, I was just made a prophet by god. So I take every opportunity to spread the faith.
>>28048246
Just because you are doesn't mean we all are.
>>28048270
I legit met someone who told me he had a vision that he was to be God's prophet.Met him in jail.
What are the chances of an ugly black girl getting a decent relationship off Tinder without getting pumped and dumped? Is Okcupid better if you don't want to have sex until you really like them?
asking for a friend..
>>28048283
Could have fooled me. I'm not the one that's so incompetent in talking to a girl that I have to ask /r9k/ of all places WHEN to fucking do it. I might have actually given you some real advice but you're an autist so you would blow it regardless. Having fun dying alone bruh.
>>28048357
Your advice is "QUICK! STEAL HER BEFORE CHAD GETS TO HER!" No thanks.
>>28048352
About 50/50.
>>28048352
I suppose okcupid would be better. Tinder is for casual hookups, its just faster to respond and match with people
>>28048352
roasties come on tinder and post shit like "I dont fuck on the first date" and "not here for hook ups" to filter out betas who want to waste their time.
Real chads try to fuck them and dump them anyways and succeed.
