>someone finally messages you
>have no idea how to converse
Just think of some banal inane shit and let the chat ebb and flow. This is what all conversations are, shooting the shit.
You will only talk about something meaningful if you are drunk
>>28045980
Just do what comes natural. Then apply a mental filter over that and make sure that you're showing the best side of yourself. That's what normalfags mean where they say jus b urself.
>>28046046
>Just do what comes natural
What do when nothing comes natural?
>>28046093
I don't know, man. Make up something or let them do them the talking if they're eager too, most people love talking about themselves. If I were qualified to give advice, I wouldn't be stuck here.
>>28046093
You gotta retrain the subconscious region of your brain responsible for socialization and speech. You can use drugs to get kickstarted.
Most people just talk without thinking about what they're going to say, and if they do it's usually a split second summation while the final response is automated, you don't actually reflect on what's been said, then pick each individual word and string it into sentences for a response.
>>28046093
You shouldn't really listen to someone who needs so much attention that he tripfags on an anonymous board.