>tfw 30 and never had a gf
>>28041184
I know this feel, I'm a 31 khhv...
I'm turning 40 next month and I've never had a girlfriend. I'm more sad about being so old though.
Feels like I have 20 yesterday, how time flies.
I'll kill myself when I hit 30. I hate being alone. it's awful.
>>28041184
>>28041230
>>28041275
Do you know where it all went wrong?
>>28041307
>Do you know where it all went wrong?
The condom broke.
>>28041275
Any sage advice, senpai?
>>28041275
This makes me feel real bad man
Dis makes me T.T
>>28041275
shit nigga how is that even possible
>>28041407
not wizanon but
How is it possible to pass through highschool virgin? College?
Exactly.
>>28041349
Not really, honestly. I'm just a random old guy.
I'd like to say it gets better but I don't want to lie to you. The loneliness does numb out over time but then you'll just feel empty.
>>28041322
30 khhv here, this tbqh
even though intention. still an accident.
>>28041463
Have you tried doing like, anything else?
>>28041435
Literally though it's pretty hard to get through highschool and college without lading in some pussy somehow
>>28041515
>this is what normalfags actually believe
No kid its pretty easy when you are a social reject
>>28041230
I'm 31kv.I feel outranked.
I've never been happier with my life, though.
>>28041407
Girls just didn't like me. I was socially awkward and quiet when I was a spry lad but I did try to ask girls out. They were never interested though. I'm neither handsome, nor tall, nor rich, just a regular guy. Even the "ugly girls" always aimed far higher than I ever could live up to.
Then time just passes before you even know it and you're in your 30's. Suddenly that girl who coldly rejected you in freshman year of college is interested in you but she's divorced, is a single mom and has 2 kids. You can tell she's just looking for any old shuck like you to pick up the slack. Now you're 35, have a stable decent paying job and women are looking at you now but they're all 30+ year old single moms or ex-party girls who wanted to get it out their system first before settling down with you, champ. Aren't you a lucky guy? Then one day you're desperate enough to go on a date with one of these single mom ex-party girls and she's so entitled and barely considers you a man that it's completely dehumanizing.
Then you reach where I am now, it feels like all this happened yesterday but it's been over 20 years of your life and you've given up. Sorry I rambled a little.
>>28041463
>loneliness
http://uk.askmen.com/news/sports/loneliness-linked-to-massive-increases-in-risk-of-stroke-and-coronary-artery-disease.html
>>28041569
The words of a jaded man right here.
>40 years old
>still posts pictures of animes on the internet
lmao
>>28041515
Highschool is based around "companies" of friends - the class splits in smaller circles that may interact with each other but usually stick together.
While in those the chance for relationship will eventually appear.
If you are outside, if you are the outcast of the class, then your only chance is to do the impossible - stop being an outcast, or rape someone.
College is nearly identical besides the fact that the circles are not as rigid.
I know you are shitposting but some normies are that dumb.
>>28041569
Tell us more about the date. What did she do or say exactly?
>>28041565
What makes you happy?
>>28041569
Good on you, man. Sticking to your principles and not letting yourself get cucked.
Better to die alone than as some used up damaged good's beta bucks.
I'm 26 so I'm sure I'll be where you guys are in the blink of an eye if I don't end it first. Life is pretty bland as is but I think with money you can probably just drown yourself in hobbies.
>>28041569
It's so depressing knowing this is my future.
>>28041617
>What makes you happy?
Well, it'll sound crazy and perhaps scary to someone who doesn't understand, I suppose - but I'm waiting for the resurrection of the dead, and the new life freed from my body, in God's presence.
I realise that there's nothing shameful about being a virgin, in fact if anything - to the small degree that it was my 'choice', it says something good about me.
>>28041569
There's nothing wrong with dating single moms.
>>28041569
I really don't like giving the reason attitude as why people are lonely, but like shit nigga theres a lot of people out there in the world.
I remember back when I was a damaged youth in high school I literally felt that it was impossible for people to see me as an attractive person. Nobody liked me, I never got flirted with HHKV status.
Looking back on those times I realize that a lot of that was just in my own head. I felt like I was unlikable so strongly that In my head I'd completely blockout any positive interactions I'd have.
Sounds like you need a hella big dose of self compassion my mang
>>28041680
Theres also nothing wrong with dating someone with past sexual partners
who gives a fuck
>>28041680
There is if the single moms are just looking for a meal ticket and settling for you because they can't do better.
>>28041680
willingly raising another man's spawn makes you a literal cuckold. Not even memeing.
>>28041680
>wasting away your life for a ripped cunt and the offpsring of someone else
>>28041569
What about younger girls, any luck?
>>28041680
They are single mothers for a reason
Either their judgment is so poor that they had a kid with a Chad who flew the coop or they're so unbearable to be around that their husband had to call it quits and leave. And do you really want to be in that awkward "stepdad" position?
There are widows of course but they are so rare its not worth bringing up.
And I was raised by a single mother so I can tell you from experience just how shit they are.
>>28041515
>>28041407
Are you kidding?
You just don't talk to anyone or do anything social. I've never asked a girl out or anything, and girls don't ask guys out unless they're megachads.
I'm a slightly below-average male, so my value is almost nothing. I wasn't really bullied in high school or college, but there was no reason for girls to want to be my girlfriend or have sex with me or any of that. I just casually chatted to them in classes, and that was it.
I've had a lot of female friends, and I think most of them just assume I've had sex at this point in my life. I'm 26 and it embarrasses the shit out of me that I've never even been kissed, and I hope it never gets brought up, because I'm a shit liar and I hate lying in the first place.
>>28041435
By being in an engineering class with precisely zero girls and being too much of an introvert to bother with parties or other social gatherings outside of school.
>>28041706
Who said anything about raising the kid? Just stick your p in her v.
>>28041783
Oh, well yeah just some meaningless sex is nothing. If you start dating her then you're a cuck though.
>>28041595
I suppose. I'm just tired and worn out, honestly.
>>28041616
What didn't she do? She had the worst sort of attitude. She expected me to pay for everything and was disgusted when I suggested otherwise. She was looking at her phone pretty much the entire time. She criticized pretty everything about me including but not limited to my income, my clothes, my car. She wasn't interested in hearing about me but was eager to outline everything about her and what she wants in a man. Among many other things. It was difficult to stay polite and nice when you're getting picked apart.
>>28041617
Yeah I've resigned myself to being alone, I'm actually not that upset with it.
>>28041685
I've dealt with many many women, that was just the short version of it. The dating market for a guy like me is disgusting unless you're into selfish single mothers which I'm not. I gave it a chance but never again.
>>28041723
Not really. Younger girls aren't interested in a guy like me, I'm not handsome and I make a modest salary. All the girls that gravitate towards me are the worst sorts.
>>28041826
>It was difficult to stay polite and nice when you're getting picked apart.
Then don't stay nice.
Swallow the /r/theredpill.
Every year the 40yr Old Virgin becomes less funny and more terrifying.
>>28041826
You need to stop dating white women, fool.
>>28041806
If you never even see the kid, and just use her for sex, how is that in any way being a cuck?
Keep waiting for your pure virgin waifu who will never come.
>>28041826
Are single moms that picky?
>>28041855
I'm just too passive and polite, I wasn't really interested in getting into an argument with that hag. I did bail on her though once it became clear she was a harpy.
>>28041882
Maybe. I don't think I could get an Asian girl or something though.
>>28041906
Surprisingly so. They don't have a shortage of guys going out with them though, I was dumb enough to.
>>28041945
If you're a white guy that's not hideous with a job then you can get an asian girl senpai.
>>28041826
>tfw handsome 35 year old
>tfw I pull girls 10 years younger with ease who wouldn't give me the time of day when I was their age
Feels good man.
>>28041184
26 year old KHV here. I've already given up. Reaching past 25 as a virgin means that you will never, ever have a relationship with a woman. How would you even start one? Where would you meet a woman willing to date you?
Add on top of that that I'm a NEET that never worked at all and I'm literally worthless as a person. And an ugly manlet.
>>28041569
I'm 32 soon and I just know this will be my future. I'm strangely not upset by it though, because I've grown to accept it and to like myself as a person. I hope you (and me) find happiness anon.
>>28041569
>Suddenly that girl who coldly rejected you in freshman year of college is interested in you
I'm in my 30s now, and this has never happened.
>>28041755
You have few options, though:
>Get drunk and do it with a hooker so you don't have to lie to all these girls
>Don't mention the topic, if they reject you for lack of experience they are cunts anyway
I suggest you to get drunk as fuck and try to strike up conversations with girls in bars. Don't be afraid to fail, I am sure you are a lot more intelligent and interesting than most guys in the bars anyway.
I understand all these motivational and anxiety problems, but a change of perspective can help you overcome the issue. For example, drop the hope that girls are princesses, start to think of them as whores and don't be afraid to be rude. When it works, you can back down with that attitude slowly, but I have personally discovered that number 1 method to get any girl interested in you is to be super cocky and condescending to the point of being almost hostile, but eventually backing it down and being nice to her. When she gets bored, make a comment like "let's go to my place my balls are getting itchy from sweating" or stupid Chad stuff like that and she is excited again about you.
Good luck anon, why let Chads have all the fun when you can become a Chad yourself!
>>28041992
Every girl in your age range has has 5+ relationships. How could you possibly please her? 15 year olds are the only ones with your level of naivete and experience, but that can't work for obvious reasons.
>>28041569
You have realized women are shit.
>>28041992
Go for the asians.
They are pure waifus, submissive, more likely to be virgins and untainted by the western degeneracy. This is not a guarantee, but if you aren't absolutely poor - consider this.
Western women are beyond salvation. They are nothing but used, degenerate whores who will divorce rape you if you are crazy enough to ever marry one.
Fuck whatever /pol/ says, get an asian gf. White women are not worth your time.
>>28041906
Yes they are you naive fool.
>>28041991
Literally why are you here? Of all places on the internet why would you choose this place to spend your free time? Literally makes no sense. I mean I'm not going to tell you to leave but you're just wasting your own time...
>>28041275
What are your plans for the future, anon?
>>28042050
Probably to laugh at us. That's the reason normies and females come to this board, they probably think virgins are just a meme like Pepe or Wojak.
>>28042050
I am not the guy you replied but I for example like to come here when I feel like shit so I can read about other people who have it even worse, such as being virgins, morbidly obese and NEETs, or even worse, 40-year-old virgins, and it makes me feel better that I am just a 22-year-old non-virgin, average looking, who is just not having much luck with ladies, but at least I have not completely lost in the race of life.
>>28042044
I honestly think about killing myself 3 times a day. There's just no hope for the future. A woman my age and like me can literally get a Chad. Why would she even speak to me?
Even if I did things to improve myself, I'm already at the age where you can't really meet new people and even if I did, I'd still be too strange to be around.
>>28042101
I'd like to buy a house somewhere quite and surrounded by land with good internet. Then just live out the rest of my days in peace.
>>28042135
You sound pretty pathetic 2bh
>>28042136
Trust me man. Go for the asians, Thailand, Philippines etc.
Many western men who have failed with the local women, have found their luck in south east asia.
You have nothing to lose. Go to a dating site specializing in waifus in those areas and look for what they have to offer.
Go for it. If it fails.. /r9k/, vidya and anime will always be here for you.
>>28041515
>it's pretty hard
Glad I've achieved something...
>>28042176
You do realize that you would only get the butt-ugly, lower class girls right?
>>28042050
Didn't you read what I wrote? I was a pathetic virgin at 25. Now I am totally different. Just saying that it does often get better in your 30s.
It helps that I now have my shit together and have a nice career and well-paid job.
>>28042144
Nope, my life is going pretty good actually (working as a full-time designer, planning to go to a really big art institute to study liberal arts in the future to meet cool hipster chicks and improve fine art skills), and I actively make plans for self-improvement. I am not really that pathetic at all compared to 90% of this board's population.
>>28042292
>nice career and well-paid job
Good for you, I dropped out of college due to mental health problems that I have since overcome, but I will still spend the rest of my life doing minimum wage bullshit jobs, because I have no money to get an education and I'm 30 fucking years old anyway.
Some people try their hardest and still fail due to plain bad luck or a bad dice roll in youth or at birth.
>>28041230
>khhv
What does this even mean.
>>28042350
It means: Kissless, hugless, handholdless, virgin
>>28041184
35, at this point it'd just be humiliating to get into the whole dating and intimacy stuff anyway.
>>28041275
Kanpai senpai! Time is rushing by for sure, used to think 40 was ancient, now I haven't got all that many years left either. You doing ok health wise?
>>28042419
I lost my virginity years ago and I don't think I held hands with somebody 'til like 3 weeks ago.
I got everything except handholdless anyway. Sorry you guys are like this.
>>28042339
It's never too late to try to get your shit together. I returned to uni at 28 to finish my degree.
>>28042596
It is too late for me unless you want to float me 30k$
>>28042302
I'm in the same spot anon.
Liberal arts, working as a stage designer + writer on the side.
No luck with ladies here either.
>>28042623
Feels good to have free European education.
>>28042302
Coming here only to feel superior about other peoples life sounds pretty pathetic desu.
>>28042703
I'm European, it's free for the first time, if drop out, that was your chance, now get fucked loser.
>>28042703
Europe should be forced to accept American refugees instead of brownies.
>tfw no money is a much worse feel than tfw no gf
>>28041569
Muh Fellow African American!
Is there a worse compliment than when women say "you seem responsible"? Has a pussy ever gotten wet because a man seems responsible?
>>28042836
>Is there a worse compliment than when women say "you seem responsible"
"You have nice hair."
Holy crap, how are you guys KHHV at 20,30,40? I am an ugly male and lost everything except V by the 8th grade.
>>28041904
Well I would like to get married and have a family one day. I don't care if she's a virgin but I would really prefer her to not have a kid beforehand.
>>28043409
>being a normie in elementary/middle school
>thinking robots can relate
>>28041184
>tfw currently 54 years old
KHV, a-at least not handholdless
>>28043687
>tfw currently 54 years old
>tfw don't believe you
>tfw there are no old people on the internet
AARP card or gtfo. I don't even know.
>>28043706
>assuming I live in america
>assuming I even have a camera or cellphone to take pictures with
>>28042339
>because I have no money to get an education
You have no excuse when there's many free online courses out there. They even give you certificates if you finish a course so that you can put that on the resume.
>>28043838
That doesn't actually exist for anything but IT and I'm too dumb for programming.
>>28042350
It's a meme, no one is truly so pathetic that they haven't held or hugged a non-related female.
I'm 30 and had sex finally with a prostitute last year. Felt like a huge burden lifted off my shoulders.
Now I don't even worry about it anymore. Got my job and my home and a couple of autist friends from work and that's all I need.
I managed to lose virginity a month ago to my gf. I'm 28. Not going to be a wizard,thank god.
>>28043881
I must be a meme then because I haven't.
>>28041307
Not OP(s) but similar situation.
The main thing with me was avoidance, being around women or in social situations was stressful so i avoided it.
If you think you are on this path, you need to take more risks and put yourself in uncomfortable situations, even if you end up getting hurt.
31 here.
I lose my virginity with a whore when I was 24, seven years late and nothing has changed.
I don't regret it, because curiosity was bigger than anything.
I am not really sad for never had a gf, what make me sad is never had friends. Loneliness hurts.
>>28042135
>feeding on other peoples sorrow
You're actually worse than them tbqh. At least I try to help them.
>>28044422
I can tell you with absolute certainty that belittling someone has never in the history of anything ever helped the person being belittled. It's a poor excuse to let out your ugliness on others. Grow the fuck up already.
>>28043687
You're not a 54 year old virgin, get the fuck out of here.
I mean, I want to believe, very badly, but you're full of fucking shit.
Wealth is everything.
>>28042339
Sounds like you are me.
I'm not that hurt by being alone for life. Sometimes I do feel lonely, but when I think about it rationally it is clear that even if I did try to date a girl it could never work for long. I'd have to totally fake who I was while we were dating and thus I'd always be acting when I was around her.
I could never keep that up for long. The true me would come out and she'd find me very boring. I'd also find another person extremely suffocating. When I have free time I don't want to have to constantly satisfy someone else's needs.
Can any of you robots tell me what you did wrong so I don't make the same mistake? I wanna get with this girl that is into anime and some nerdy shit, but I have never really talked to her in a full conversation. Her weird autistic weeb friend is easy to talk to, so maybe tell her first?
>>28044967
>Can any of you robots tell me what you did wrong so I don't make the same mistake?
Perhaps the simplest way to explain it is to say this:
I was too afraid of being hurt.
>>28044933
I think I could be an okay boyfriend. I'm kind, affectionate ,calm and openly talk about my feelings and thoughts. I'm reasonable and understanding.
But I will never find a mate, because I am ugly and socially inept. No person will ever like me. I am boring, poor and worthless in the eyes of both men and women.
It feels so unfair. Much worse people find love and friendship. Why not me? I started from a terrible place and overcame more than normies can even imagine, but it doesn't matter. All that hard work and pain is meaningless. I'm still nothing. Completely alone. And that will never change.
>>28045060
>I think I could be an okay boyfriend. I'm kind, affectionate ,calm and openly talk about my feelings and thoughts. I'm reasonable and understanding.
That's not enough. You have to actually DO interesting and fun things WITH the other person. Otherwise you will just be existing together but not really connecting or bonding.
>>28045089
Obviously I'm talking about my character here.
>>28044967
>Can any of you robots tell me what you did wrong
Being born.
>>28045111
I know, but the point needs to be driven home for everyone else.
>>28044967
Wait, you mean you're going to tell her friend that you like her? Don't do that. That really gives off vibes of passivity and lack of confidence. You've gotta just buck up and talk to her.
You've already got one foot in the grave here because you're invested in this particular girl, and that's bad, because statistically you're probably going to swing and miss, and you've gotta be willing to cast a wide net and move on, not go after that one girl.
>>28045160
It's not even a point, it's like barging into a conversation about furniture with the comment that you need to water your plants. Well, duh.
Just 27 so far, but 30 is just around the corner with no prospects of getting a girl who will love me and vice versal.
>be fembot
>30 yo
>never had a bf
Sucks to be an ugly woman
>>28041650
>I'm waiting for the resurrection of the dead, and the new life freed from my body, in God's
Bottom line: you'll be dead, and you're not going to wake up anywhere. But if that's how you can convince yourself that you're happy, great for you.
I have felt the awakening of my wizard powers. Lately I randomly catch streams of thoughts from random people.
This is an addition to my omniscience. Bad thing is they both work at random times.
I can't control it, it just happens. In any way, it feels good to be rewarded for my loyalty towards the cause.
Turning 68 in a week, handholdless, huggless, touchless, talkless, seenless virgin reporting in.
>tfw 27y.o kissless handholdless virgin
at this point im convinced sex isnt real. girlfriends are probably real, but sex? it's just a ruse i bet.
>>28041184
>tfw i want to fuck your brains out
where are all the sexually frustrated men at, besides r9k.
>>28041569
Jesus Christ this post makes me glad I'm 25 and have a gf.
>>28045209
A man can be a virgin his whole life without being ugly; all he needs are poor social skills.
Men are expected to do all the work socially where-as women can be passive. You must be really really hideous and you probably stay secluded away from society completely or else low-tier men would at least be hitting on you.
>>28045427
Some robots are reasonably attractive physically. But they are virgins because they are hopeless spergs.
>>28041569
I feel you man. Going on 36 myself, and while I'm not a virgin, I've never had an actual GF either. After 3 decades of insane work and effort I got laid a few times during my 30's, and even hung out with a few for a couple of weeks or months, but never in an official capacity. By official capacity I mean it was made plainly clear to me that she did NOT consider me her BF.
But I gotta ask, are you depressed by this? Because I used to be, depressed as fuck. But the experience I got with a few women, all of them being selfish, rotten fucks desu, changed that. I mean I literally now know what it's like to spend a lifetime being the good guy, working your ass off and pooling all your energy and resources to show the women you like how much you care, while they don't put a single ounce of effort back. And then eventually, they just throw you to the side and go with another guy anyway.
I don't hate women, I've no need to go strawman on an entire gender. But my experience has been very clear that I could never bring myself to trust or care about a single one ever again.
So you know, for my part I've accepted that this is the only way it could ever have been. I'm perfectly happy with myself, my career, my ethics and my behavior. So I've no need to be ashamed or blame myself for their mistakes. In all honesty, I feel more balanced and at peace than I ever had before realizing this.
So again, how do you feel?
>>28041595
Fuck you, you fucking asshole. I'm sick and tired of people, good people, coming here to share in the shit that they could never say in real life, and then lonely ass virgins like you come out to project on them by insulting them here. This is our place, this whole fucking board is MEANT for guys like us. So either get with the program and be a bro, or make like a goddamn tree.
>>28041569
>I was socially awkward and quiet when I was a spry lad but I did try to ask girls out. They were never interested though. I'm neither handsome, nor tall, nor rich, just a regular guy. Even the "ugly girls" always aimed far higher than I ever could live up to.
This.
If you aren't handsome, athletic or rich and you're awkward and/or slightly autistic, that's the game over right there. The literally only one time I was approached by a girl was when I went to college for one year majoring in something that 1:10 men to women ratio among students, and EVEN THEN she stopped after the first few sentences I spoke.
Also some blog:
>have an ugly older cousin
>he gets desperate in his 30s
>marries a woman with a kid
>she gets fat and obnoxious (though you can't tell how bad she is if you just chat with her for 10 minutes or so)
>they have two more children - one is retarded and the other will be almost certainly ugly
Fuck this, I won't even try to go for that shit, I don't want to end up like himor my parents.
>>28041880
I'm sorry anon
original comment
>>28042302
desu you're worst, you have no reason to be doing bad with women. At least robots have plenty of valid reasons that women aren't interested.
How can you fail on easy mode?
