What is your relationship with your mom and dad like?
my mom is very loving and clingy, calls me every day when i'm away at uni
I hardly talk to my dad, despite my parents being together
its ok. just pretty normal i guess. they send me money, i call and go home sometimes
My mother and father lost me to foster care>tfw orphan
I get on fine with them. My mom dotes on me and my siblings which makesm e feel bad, but I'm pretty similar to my dad so we get along well.
>>28034773
I'm pretty sure they killed my dog
>>28034773
my dad just died and my mom left me when when i was a kid
i'm suffering please help
>>28034773
It's pretty okay.
Mom is a clingy fuck with OCD so that's annoying. Me and my dad are pretty much the same person minus the 40 year age difference.
Theyre pretty cool. They never charged me rent. And they disowned my meth smoking chad brother and made me their 100% heir. A free house and free cars and a free business. Fucken life on easy mode. I get to watch normies struggle to not get foreclosed on lmfao
I wish my mother was dead. She's nothing but trouble.
>>28034841
It gets better.
>mom left 22 years ago and I haven't seen her since
>dad died 7 years ago
>brother killed himself 5 years ago
You get used to the emptiness eventually.
>>28034860
Why is that man?
tell me about her
>>28034773
They love me but I get furious because they are constantly sentimental and touchy. I know I'm being unreasonable but I get extremely angry when they say nice things. I'm fucked up.
>>28034877
how? i've literally been drinking myself to sleep daily for the past two months. i'm living at my best friend's parents' house, in the attic. i quit my job and lost my apartment. i hate everything
>>28034913
I don't really know. I just kept doing what I always did and eventually it wasn't as bad.
>>28034800
Me too. Technically unless they're dead you/we aren't orphans. Oh, and I live with mine because free room and board.
>>28034773
My mom is neurotic and I stay in my room to avoid her. My dad is a normie who left because he couldn't stand my mom anymore and I don't blame him one bit.
Neurotic mom. Dad is WAY too easy going. They both like me the best out of my siblings. Although I'm not quite sure with that on my mom's side, since my oldest brother had a kid.
>>28034773
I just realized it's pretty poor
They taught me nothing so I learned everything myself. Now they try to act like real parents and I can't fucking stand them. My mother is an emotional wreck with a ton of mental problems and my dad acts like a fucking 18 year old most of the time and then turns into the fucking Hulk if you tell him he's objectively wrong. You can't have a conversation with him because he always assumes he's correct even though he knows fucking nothing other than what MSN tells him to think.
My mother's house is going to start falling apart and I just told the cunt that I'm not going to fix it for her right after her boyfriend left who was the only one that could fix it.
At least if they were fucking dead I wouldn't be pestered with their awfulness and I would have some money.
>>28034945
On second thought, my dictionary is from the 50s.
I barely know my mom. Haven't spoken to her in years. I like to blame my girl problems on that. I've lost the ability to interact with any women and affection makes me really uncomfortable.
>>28035106
>affection makes me really uncomfortable
I know that feel. I'm used to being abused, but when someone's nice to me it confuses and frightens me, and sometimes I start to cry.
my mom is okay, she supports me and gives me advice but it's never good advice
my dad is one of the worst people I know
>>28034773
My dad and I have a pretty strong relationship. Although I need periods away to cool down. I love him, but he's a bit too much sometimes, especially being all weird and shit.
My mom and I are still close but I've been distancing myself away in recent years. When she asks about my life I feel like she's prying, even though I know she isn't.
Overall it's pretty good, could definitely be worse.
>>28035151
This. It just feels so weird when anyone is being loving. I was abused by both my parents while growing up. Now that I'm older they try and act loving or caring, but it feels impossible. They're trying to be my friends, like all those years of abuse never happened.
I think it would be nice to have a loving relationship with them, but I'm so jaded that it's probably impossible.
>>28035339
It was pretty much everyone with me. Parents obviously considered me a mistake, and I was bullied and things like that. So when somebody's nice to me, I kind of just lock up.
>>28035339
I was never abused or neglected and I still get actually angry and uncomfortable at affection and sentimentality. I don't know why.
I live in an attached house with my mom, its pretty miserable I am almost 30 she realizes I am a failure, she was divorced, so she naturally hates men, she's always telling me how I am not helping her and being selfish, I pay my own bills, I pay majority of the house bills, how is not being a disabled retard or criminal not helping her, I am sorry I cant send you on vacations like your successful friends children send their kids. I am just trying to survive
>>28035378
>>28035454
I still don't know how you're supposed to react to a compliment.
>>28035151
>had abusive boyfriend
>by the time we started dating I was already used to being insulted and hit and emotionally abused
>stuck with him because I was used to it and it didn't seem that bad
>he decided one day he wanted to change and started being nicer to me
>hugging me and holding my hand in public and telling me he loves me
>get confused and uncomfortable because I'm so unused to being cared for
>>28035473
I think the "right" reaction is to thank them. Nobody compliments me so I just go by what I see other people do.
>>28034773
>What is your relationship with your mom and dad like?
Mom in the front, dad in the back
>>28034773
My mother and I usually get along pretty well, despite the fact that she occasionally goes ballistic with almost no provocation. But other than that we're fine.
My father is generally nice but sort of a helicopter dad in the sense that he calls me almost daily to ask about random shit from my daily life, right down to what I ate for lunch. But I guess that's nicer than no contact.
Also, he gets mad at me for swearing even though I'm 19.
But they're fine.
>>28035504
Did you break up with him?
>orginalllll
>>28035593
Eventually, yeah. His new, nicer persona didn't last. I was still more comfortable with him beating me and talking down to me than when he was trying to be a good boyfriend. I have been seeing someone new, though. It's taking a while to get used to him being good to me, too. Like we'll watch tv on his couch and he cuddles up next to me and puts his arm around me and stuff and it just unnerves me.
>>28034773
Mom slaves away as a wageslave and dad gambles and drinks it all away. Neglected me for 18 years too and mom is too scared to divorce
My dad is a liberal faggot now after med school. He played college ball, dropped out of his bachelors, then joined the navy for a few years before "getting serious".
My mom just wanted to have a shitload of kids. She insisted on calling every day during my first year of engineering school, but these days I usually hear from her once a week. I don't talk to my dad often, but we're on good terms.
>>28034773
I hate my dad to hell and back. Sure he's the typical white collar/family oriented guy who always "loves" his family.
He's a fucking literal faggot who's cheating on my mom. All he does is jack off to gay male porn in the kitchen on the family laptop. My mom is a ditz and my sister is too aspie to put the pieces together. I'm extremely smart with subtle clues. Plus I caught him on accident six years ago and I want to kill myself, that's when my hatred of him started, aka age 16. He's away on a business trip but I don't trust him. I always knew he was gay since I was a kid, I'd always joke how he acted girly and feminine. Turns out there's a word for it: gay. My grandpa just died and I'm afraid that when my grandma does he'll come out of the closet and leave us.
I'm average with my mom, not best friends like my friends are with theirs though.
>>28035797
>hating gays because you're christian
The real abomination is a /r9k/ user.
>>28035797
>gay dad
I'm picturing him as this scrawny shouldered white male with a pink tie on. Am I correct?
>>28035872
Well, anon,
>I don't hate gays
>I'm not a Christian
>>28034773
I live with my dad but don't really talk to him or my mom.
>>28035797
>jerking off to gay porn in the kitchen
>"subtle clues"
Am I being hornswoggled?
>>28034773
My dad is an abusive and severely paranoid asshole. Left with my mom at 13 when they divorced after years of abuse. I kind of miss him.
Endured a minimal amount of neglect as a child. Not as severe as folks who are completely traumatized by it, but it was still there. My mother raised two kids by herself for the several years my father was deployed.
When my father retired from the army and moved back home, my mother became passive and my father turned into a fucking alcoholic PTSD dictator for the entirety of my teenage years and a few of my adult years.
They went to individual and couples' therapy, my Dad got sober, their marriage was saved. Apologies were given all around, and the past 3-4 years have been pretty awesome. They've been incredibly supportive and good to me, it just sucks that it took them 20+ years to get to that point.
So yeah. I had an incredibly shitty relationship with my parents for the first 20 years of my life. It's been fucking awesome since then though.
Op here. I've notice that we're all pretty much in the same boat.
Do any of you have younger siblings?
How do your parents treat them, compared to how they treated you at that age?
>>28034800
This. My dad has been gone since age six, left home voluntarily at 15. Been in foster care since. Getting my own state-paid apartment tomorrow. Good thing the welfare state is willing to steal other people's money through "taxes" (robbery) to pay for me to have lavish living.
>>28036107
I AM the younger sibling, and my father's only child. He saw how badly my mom fucked up with my sister (cops called, shoplifted, went to jail, drugs, pregnant as a teenager, etc) and said "aw hell naw my son ain't ending up like that.
So, compared to my older sister, my parents were incredibly strict with me until I turned eighteen.
>>28035912
>posting jesus pic for no reason
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