What do normies do in relationships anyways? Just live together and have sex? What would you talk about with another person you see constantly? It sounds exhausting.
>>28034637
lolsum41op
Like how are you suppose to carry on with that without the other person getting completely bored with you?
>>28034669
By doing more than just have sex together. Go on vacations, go rock climbing, visit the beach, cook meals, shop, take post-uni classes together, go with the other person on business trips, the zoo, arboretums and gardens, museums, brewery and vinyard tours, bicycle together, do martial arts classes together, etc. etc.
Basically, it's only boring if you're both already boring. If all you would do otherwise is sit around and masturbate, all you'd probably do in a relationship is sit around and fuck.
>>28034765
Pretty sure you've never seen a relationship before m8e
>>28034765
I don't see a lot of couples doing activities though. Like I probably do constant activities while my relationship friends have a curfew and complain about not getting to go out with the boys anymore. Besides, if they are a couple that does that, how do they keep the spark alive? I get tired of hanging out with me best friends after just a few days nonstop hanging out?
>>28034786
I'm married in a decade-long relationship. So, I have.
>>28034822
I guess it depends on how much you liked each other to start with. I'm not sure what it is that keeps couples together, but I know we've never lost ours. Life doesn't get boring, because we're both the type of people who take on an interest, obsessively master it for a year or two, then find another thing to improve on.
Anyway, you don't do that stuff constantly. You have the whole work week to get through, which means you aren't talking to each other for most of each weekday. I imagine that keeps a lot of couples "new" and "fresh" at least somewhat.
My parents mostly talk about issues related to running a family/household, or talk about what they thought of a TV show they're watching (usually reality TV - housing renovations, antique/pawn shops, dating shows).
>>28034765
Sounds like they'd be trying hard to distract themselves from the fact they're mutually boring.
>>28034882
I still don't understand how it works in the day to day because I've never been there for longer than a month before a girl "didn't feel the spark anymore" and neither did I, but i'm happy for you
testwara
>>28034929
What even makes a person not boring? I've always accepted I'm relatively boring. I have grandma-tier hobbies and my knowledge is too specialized.
>>28034986
This. I'm not special in any way and I'm not good looking but Women in the past liked that I had ambition in my job but otherwise, what the fuck are we suppose to talk about ?
Thought I'd ask here for the other virgins.
The underside of my dick is bleeding. Why? Please help
>>28035049
Excessive jacking off most likely friend
>>28035049
Stop fapping so roughly. Don't wear rings either if you do.
>>28035049
Lack of sex is making your dick fall off.
>>28035103
>>28035076
I haven't jacked in 3 days. Doing no fap.
>>28035183
Are you wearing really tight/coarse pants/underpants?
>>28035219
... I think I figured it out. I bought new underwear... It's red. It's bleeding off on my wee wee
>>28034669
If the other person likes you they like you because of who you are not because of what you do. Relationships are not some bubble you two live in where you only interact with each other, you share the experience of living. If you are not enjoying your life alone you wont be enjoying it in relationship. You do things you enjoy doing but with someone else, even if its something most people would find boring. If the other person finds the way you live your life boring, you are not a march and should even be together.
>>28035726
So literally
>Just b yurself
?
>>28035919
Yes. Obviously this does not mean that you shouldnt improve yourself if you happen to be depressed social fuck up, with little interest in the world around you.
>>28035183
That old meme
>>28034668
that pic was from a couple of years ago just before he got liver failure from being an alcoholic and went to rehab, he looks better now and they're back on tour with most of the original band.
>>28036087
>Dude just improve your depression and lack of personality lmao
>>28036311
Well I would say fixing your depressions would be huge improvement, and would probably fix your lack of personality too.
>>28034637
Married people rarely have sex, after you fuck the same pussy for years and years it becomes a chore than anything.
>>28036515
Unless you have a pregnancy fetish.
>>28036395
>fixing your depressions would be huge improvement, and would probably fix your lack of personality too.
That's not really how it works, I can try and have been but it's not a matter of effort.
