Have you ever complimented a girl in person?
"You're beatiful"
to my gf an hour ago
she's sleeping so cute desu
nah but I've wanted to
butterflies in my belly always get me mayne
>>28012641
kv here
ive managed to do it a few times without it being horribly awkward and uncomfortable
most successful example was when i complemented my oneitis's hair and she briefly stopped ghosting me (for about a week)
most of the time my complements just end up being creepy tho, so ive kind of given up on that
>>28012641
sometimes. but then i remember that she gets compliments all the time likes its nothing. she lives in some fairy tail land where she thinks everyone finds her attractive and complimenting her is basically meaningless and on some notions considered creepy since you arent a Chad.
>>28012659
Don't you have a heart?
>>28012641
Ya I have had female friends in the past. I remember saying this he girl had fantastic teeth. They really were fantastic
I've received compliments from and even been asked out by girls (I generally don't give compliments non-facetiously), does that make me a chad? I've never really responded because I was too afraid.
>>28012757
>she briefly stopped ghosting me
What does ghosting mean in this context?
i've never complimented anyone directly
no, girls don't like receiving compliments from ugly people
they feel insulted pretty much
>>28012802
i guess ghosting is the wrong word, because it implies we were dating
i just meant completely ignoring and pretending not to know me
>>28012876
What does ghosting mean in relation to dating?
I guess I'm not up on the terms that kids are using these days.
Also why would she start ignoring you simply because you complimented her hair? Is she just that repulsed by you? If so I think you should move on.
If I ever did, I'd be charged with rape or some kind of sexual assault charge.
>>28012757
When I see a qt who really makes my heart beat faster, I have this urge to compliment her. Just my beta genes acting.
Never done that, tho, because I'm too afraid of being a creepy.
Only time I can remember is when I sorta went on an outing with a friend. At the end where we parted ways I told her she looked good today.
>>28012641
I told the back page escort I was fucking that she's the most beautiful girl I've ever had and will have sex with, and she seemed genuinely touched.
>>28012641
When an attractive person compliments a girl, it's flirting and cute. When an ugly person compliments a girl, it's creepy.
I've done it maybe 15 times since I started going to college. With a Mexican or Asian girl, her face will light up with a smile. But with white girls, they look at me like I called them a whore. I wasn't even being disgusting, I commented them on their shirts/dresses.
On the other hand no one ever compliments me. I don't know why though because I know I dress fairly well.
>>28012927
You didn't get it. Actually, she stopped ignoring him for a while after the compliment.
>>28012641
I've told a girl that she was terribly interesting. She seemed to like it.
Yeah just a couple days ago I told an acquaintance I liked her dress. Honestly like 95% of girls love compliments as long as you do it non-creepily.
>>28013063
>with white girls, they look at me like I called them a whore.
Shit, I didn't realize all whites are assholes. Well fuck me, I'm going to a uni that is 75% white next year.
>"y-your hair looks nice today"
HELP THIS UGGO JUST BREATHED AT ME
i got myself to compliment my crush on the unusual crocheted coat thing she had on.
>I like your robes...
and she says "thanks" in the most forced, uncomfortable way. fuck. I avoided her the rest of night.
>>28013103
>as long as you do it non-creepily
When you're ugly, everything you do is creepy. Existing is creepy.
>>28012932
*breathing heavily and staring directly onto her eyes with a grin*
>Y--- you.. are... beautif--NNNGH!
>>28013038
B-but why? All I want is to make them know they make life more beautiful, to honor my beta orbiter genes. It's not like I think I will fuck their pussies by complimenting them.
There was this 9/10 who shaved her head. I love shaved girls and I told her I really really liked how she looked shaved.
She actually said that made her feel better about having shaved which kind of gave me the hint that she actually cared about it
i say corny shitty compliments like
>oh every girl is beautiful
if a girl asks me if i think shes attractive or some shit. if they're actually attractive, i'd say yes
>>28013169
They want to be fucked and deeply impregnated by the chads, and the chances of that happening go up when they give out compliments. They don't want to be fucked by robots, and so they don't like compliments from us.
>"OMG Chad said he liked my shirt today!"
"WTF anon said he likes my shirt, is he trying to flirt with me? What a fucking creep, I'd never date him!"
And people wonder why school shootings happen, pic related.
now that I'm thinking about it, I don't think I've ever given a girl a direct compliment
it probably makes me look like a cold person. I want to give compliments and make them feel nice, but I'm afraid of them being unsolicited and annoying someone and causing the opposite effect.
>>28012659
dreaming sweetly of cucking you and taking it all from you
"your name is beautiful"
>thanks
literally never saw her again,her name was Aurora, tho
>>28013029
And was she really good looking?
>>28013342
this aurora goes to my highschool and she is fucking nasty and thinks shes hard shit
>be junior
>in algebra 2 class
>paired up with girl
>mention that her new haircut looks good
>she ignores me
>ree internally
I have not attempted to befriend or girlfriend a girl since then
complimented some scene whores bracelet. i said " i like your bracelet " while pointing at it with my right index finger fully extended. it was about 19 degrees outside, the sun was reaching its peak, you know when its that time of the day where its hard to tell if its still morning or its officially afternoon? thats what it was like outside. not that we were outside, we were actually inside a building when it happened.
she smiled and said thanks.
>>28013374
Damn, anon, I want to hug you.
>>28012641
Yeah, today in class. Girl wearing these tight fucking leggings. Told her they looked good on her, she giggled and thanked me.
>>28012815
Best post in the threadd
>>28013405
>t was about 19 degrees outside, the sun was reaching its peak, you know when its that time of the day where its hard to tell if its still morning or its officially afternoon? thats what it was like outside. not that we were outside, we were actually inside a building when it happened.
But what it has to do with your compliment?
i just say 'you look good' to people all the time, male and female, i think people like to hear it, and i don't usually have much other small talk to use
it's often true too, my fellow man is a really beautiful being
>>28013362
He was okay
>>28012641
No, why would I ever do that?
She would not react very well
>>28012641
Once said to this girl that sat next to me in a class back in high school that she was the prettiest girl in the class. She aww'd and was smiling a bunch.
Few weeks ago I told this 16 year old family friend that has a crush on me "are you just gonna stand there and look pretty?" and she aww'd also.
>>28013530
thought this was a voyeur thread, no such thing as too much detail.
I got roped into going to a party with a friend and we stopped by this house to pick up a girl who he worked with who was also going to the party.
My friend went to the bathroom and I was sitting on the couch.
The girl (who i never met before) asked me if her pants looked ok.
I just said "looks good to me"
And then the rest of the night she was coming on to me but I was too stupid to realize it.
I missed my chance
>>28012641
Nope. Not that I wanted to. It doesn't even cross my mind in regards to women I like.
>>28013531
But I would feel so uncomfortable doing that.
I have problems giving/receiving compliments.
>>28013651
>I have problems giving/receiving compliments.
iktf dude
>>28013618
I see. Sorry for asking, then. Feel free to share more compliment stories and give all the details you want!
>>28013617
>Few weeks ago I told this 16 year old family friend that has a crush on me
Are you a Chad? How old are you?
>>28013651
well, I'm the same guy and I have terrible problems saying people's names
I cannot do it, hardly even referring to someone to someone else, i am very uncomfortable using names period
i mostly address people as sir, mam, man, babe, or dude (the latter being gender neutral these days) even when i know their name or have known them for years.
i have this horrible fear of saying the wrong name or making someone uncomfortable by using their name and seeming possessive.
>>28013739
>are you a chad
Personality and cockiness of one but still a virgin. So many chicks slipped away from my spaghetti
22 familia, kinda wierd but 6 years ain't too far apart. My grandparents are that far apart
>>28013766
It's hard for me to use names and shit like that also. Formality in general freaks me out
>>28013766
I don't mean to offend you, but that is weird. Never heard of someone who was like that.
"Your forehead is very shiny, I can almost see myself in there"
And yes, I am legitimate autist.
>>28013841
i'm not offended, it is weird. i think i've always had that problem but never really noticed it till my late teens, which thinking about it and acknowledging it has only made it harder to say names.
when someone asks me a question ending in 'who' i have a bad time
to wrap this up, i also have a hard time asking someones name or introducing myself by name to people. i feel like i always say my own name wrong when someone asks what it is
>>28013978
>i feel like i always say my own name wrong when someone asks what it is
Now I begin to know this feel. I have an English name even if I live in a Latin America (yeah, I hate it, it's so fucking retard). I'm not used to speak in English, my pronunciation is really bad, then I always think I'm saying my name in a weird pronunciation (I probably don't do that, just my self consciousness tricking me ). I also feel like I say it in a different tune.
I also feel like I'm going to say my own age wrong when people ask me. I need to stop for a second before answering.
>>28012641
No. how do you do it?
Yeah, I once asked a qt cashier if her eyes were her natural eye color.
You know, because of contacts and all. She said yeah, and was really caught off guard. Her eyes were actually gorgeous. Probably one of the most beautiful pair I've seen in my life.
I didn't feel uncomfortable about it at all, but I think she might have. I'm not creepy or anything, but maybe I came off that way.
>>28013651
I know what you mean.
I think it's because I'm insecure and I get embarrassed when I'm complimented, so I kind of project those feelings onto other people and assume they don't like to be complimented publicly either.
I wanted to tell some iranian girl that she was beautiful. she was bored in checking train tickets at the exit of the train station at birmingham UK.
I thought of coming back in the train station and pass by her again, but then I am lazy.
>>28014339
I don't know how to receive a compliment because I don't actually believe in them.
If someone says I'm intelligent I just think "yeah, sure".
It's not that I think they're lying. I just think they are too dumb or they don't know me well enough, that's why they compliment me.
>>28012641
THAT PICTURE<3
https://luxuryelite.bandcamp.com/album/1017-wave-ii
>>28014337
ew gross. total creep.
>>28012641
yes and they tell me i'm pretty too it's nice mfw to awkward to pursue women
>>28016007
This was not creepy.
>>28012641
Nope, and its the reason to this day that I don't have a gf.
I can get a date easy, no problem, but can't show interest ever. I act as if I'm hanging out with a male friend. Just can't get intimate for some reason, and then the girl loses interest. Oh well.
>>28015974
She is one of the best qt 3.14's out there.
Good music, btw.
>>28013089
>finding a woman interesting
Spotting you normalfags is too easy now
>>28012659
When I was like 10, I complimented a girl on being able to run fast. That's the only time I remember. (Unless my sisters count)
>>28012641
Sure, who hasn't?
>/r9k/
Oooooh, wait. I get it.
>>28012927
The way I've heard it used is when you're talking to someone via telecommunication of some kind and they just suddenly stop responding. Like if you're texting regularly with a girl and suddenly she stops and never replies again.
>>28013936
Been a while I've laughed this hard over a post on r9k
>>28015254
>I just think they are too dumb or they don't know me well enough, that's why they compliment me.
I feel the same way. Nobody who knew me well would think about complimenting me so they must be wrong. I wouldn't want to think I'm intelligent when I know it isn't true.
Never felt I had any reason to.
>>28012641
I told a 9,5/10 girl from my class I think she would be a great mom and she loved it because she knew Im honest and I didnt compliment on her looks because every single guy did that before me so it would be meaningless
>>28012641
na lad, I'm not a normie
i did
usually they say nothing as if i didnt say anything
or a thanks
im pretty sure they know very well they are attractive, regardless what they tell you
>>28016845
But did you say that because she is kind, sweet and good hearted?
>>28012641
Yeah, had a convo with a girl in a bar.
I was feeling the alcohol and we were chatting and smiling. So I go
>you're really beautiful
>"i dont feel beautiful"
>what do you feel, cute instead?
>"i dont feel beautiful or cute, let me ask you a question, do you consider yourself attractive? handsome?"
I could feel myself shrinking
>>28016956
Before that I complained to her about something and she was like "awww I feel so bad that that happened" and usual shit that would make you feel good and than I told her "name, I like how whenever I complain about somwthing to you, you dont try to give me advice, but you just feel compasionate instead. I think you will be a good mom". From talking to her before I knew she wants to have kids in future and because I was 100% honest while complimenting her she loved my compliment.
>>28016956
>But did you say that because she is kind, sweet and good hearted?
why everyone is kind, sweet and good hearted anon... from a certain point of view.
https://youtu.be/pSOBeD1GC_Y
>>28016986
should have responded; no because i'm not you
>had dinner together w/ this girl and a couple of friends
>basically a double date
>girl drives me home
>"come on anon, at least a compliment"
>I want to tell her how beautiful and sexy she looks tonight, but I'm afraid I'll sound stupid
>mind freezes, cannot utter a single word
>she drops me off at my place, with an awkward goodnight kiss on the cheek
Just fucking kill myself already
OP here.
I really appreciated reading your compliment experiences, robots. I'm so fucking lonely that I really enjoyed reading your trivial interaction with women.
But I felt bad after a while, knowing that even trivial interactions with girls is something I have never done.
>>28016986
What you responded?
>>28017026
That was really nice, anon.
My friend used to work with me in a different section of a store and after she left she got replaced by a girl with a great ass. My friend also has a great ass. To her at the bar:
>"And this girl in the Bakery? Amazing ass. It's like you need a great ass to work in that section."
She laughed and said thanks, we clinked drinks.
>>28017244
I went on a tangent about I base my attractiveness just on how I'm feeling. It was just stupid and rambley.
I should have said this
>>28017040
I gave her my number and she never reached out etc.
>>27999999
lelelelel originalo
>>28017077
It seems like something would happen to me if I ever managed to get on a date.
>>28017444
I don't even know if that was an actual date... aren't girl supposed to tell you? It was kinda awkward when the other couple was kissing or doing couple stuff
Checked those trips
>>28012641
Yes
And I got arrested for it
Don't be a straight non Chad male in 2016, lesson learned
>>28019158
That sucks man... How did it happen?
I was told I'm smart and well adjusted all the time.
>was jock's buddy but quit bullyiing so they turned on me
>easily got into fights before high school
>loner
I just avoided girls all the time. I fear the unknown now. Don't know what to expect from them or talk about.
Doesn't help I never behaved like a normie. Took 3 years to start talking. Took 6 years to quit asking parents what's my name. I also usually never introduce myself or never really care about the name of another person, find it easier to learn about them then the name.
Girls I like frighten me and I can't quite tell why precisely. Of course I never complimented one because I felt like they get it all the time and being someone too removed from reality wouldn't make my compliment worth anything, there's nothing to be gained or so I thought. I simply have too low an opinion of myself and don't want to bother someone with my baggage as well as let down their expectations.
I'm honestly lonely and know I should be trying different things to change that but I had enough of suffering and seek to avoid any more of it entirely.
