Any of you robots ever had one or currently have one?
How did it go?
Have one, it's going well.
It's fine, but don't expect faithfulness. Just treat it like a 2.5D relationship.
She's not real if she's not in your arms.
used to have one with a girl i met on /r9k/
the pain does not make up for the happiness, just forget about ever having one anon
>>28009644
What happened? Did it end badly?
>Start talking with a girl abroad, when you have a gf.
>Hide it.
>Gf is gone.
>Online qt is there.
>As well as the new online qties you found.
I am thinking of going on a kind of eurotrip, where I visit one of those qties each day.
t. yurop
>tfw to afaid to write a women
>>28009644
I already have one actually I'm just curious about other people cuz it's my first one
>>28009706
it ended horribly. after she broke up with me i literally couldn't eat anything without throwing it all up 5 minutes later. i had tears in my eyes for days ready to break down at any second. surprisingly, this only lasted for a few days until i was able to somehow get over her. but goddamn those few days were fucking miserable and i never want to experience anything like that again.
im kinda sorta in one currently with a guy i met here. we've been talking for around 4 months now, and we're both pretty serious about meeting up, but the distance/money thing is sorta challenging... do you guys think its not worth the effort? i live in the midatlantic area, and hes in the mid south. do you think that even the few times a year we'd be able to see each other wouldnt be worth it? should we just not get serious and date other people until we could actually be together? i really only want him though :/
>>28009992
did you exchange pics? is he qt? r u qt?
I'm close with a girl, but we're not dating. She may be interested in it if I brought it up though. I sort of think she knows it wouldn't work though. Are these threads going to be a regular thing now? This is the second one this week.
>>28010031
yes, exchanged many pics, many phone calls, many conversations...
he seems to think im a qt, and of course i think hes so adorable and attractive in a nerdy way
>>28008546
I did 160km or 100 miles for about two years. Pretty much the perfect distance for two independent people. Meant you had a gf on weekends and could do whatever you wanted Mon-Fri.
The relationship ended because I figured if you haven't said "I love you" for two years, you probably never will.
In hindsight the whole concept of a weekend gf is pretty casual and wouldn't have helped with that...
>>28009869
Damn dude. Do you not think about her at all after that?
>>28010617
i mean sometimes i see something that reminds me of her and reminisce over the memory for a few seconds, but other than that i don't think about her at all. it's crazy how you can go from being unhealthily in love with someone for months to not giving a shit about them in a few days.
Broke up with her 3 months into the LDR. I feel suffocated as she would not stop checking up on me. Kept on hinting how she was worried that I'd cheat when I'm back home for a year to catch up with friends and family considering I've been abroad for 3 years.
Funny thing is I've been good. She was the one that had 'accidents' on her girls night out with guys. Claiming she was drunk and didn't mean to grind and flirt with guys to the point that she felt bad for turning down their offer to go home with them. I mean if it was once, understandable. 3 times and I've forgiven her like a jackass and kept on saying 'have fun' when she goes out. Guess she's having fun.
Figured I didn't need that shit, home is doing me good, happy to be with my friends and family. My friend came out to me about how she's been into me since she was 13 and we've been going out since. We're both 23. So far it's been great. Not the LDR tho. She was a good girl, uncontrollable mess when drunk though.
>>28010760
Does she miss you?
>>28010146
Similar situation with me, although we've been together for a little over two years now.
>>28010760
>it's crazy how you can go from being unhealthily in love with someone for months to not giving a shit about them in a few days.
Yes, crazy. Literally. You have Borderline Personality Disorder. Normal people can't do that shit.
>>28010798
hasn't talked to me since the break up so i guess not, but that's a good thing
I used to think that an LDR was the only way I'd ever have a gf, but witnessing some online friends of mine go through it has brought me to the conclusion that LDR's wont and will never work.
>>28010918
If she did end up talking to you, I feel like that would at least somewhat hurt you based on what you've said-- I would be hurt in that situation, anyway. Love is scary.
I've had one with a fellow robot for the past 3 years. Everything is still going just fine
>>28008546
Don't bother with it. Robots like us don't deserve relationships, not even fake online ones. It'll always end in disaster.
>>28010982
Have you met IRL?
>>28009992
>kinda sorta
Fuck off. How the fuck can you even say that, are women really this amoral?
>>28010904
I've been talking to mine for a little over 4. We probably passed 5. I started talking to her in late highschool, but I can't remember when exactly. We're not dating, but I often think about it. It's a bittersweet feel.
tried a few times, shit sucked the two times it went anywhere.
I'd rather be alone and fapping than worrying about some girl I'll see a few times in a year.
Had one
>Know eachother online for a year and a half
>Eventually get feelings for him, confess
>He feels the same but was afraid to say it
>4 months later we meetup for a week and its incredible
>2 months later when its his turn to fly, he calls it off 10 days before the flight
>Cry alot
>>28011304
Try not being a Chadwhore maybe?
>>28011333
He was a pretty chubby borderline fat NEET, 180lbs at 5 foot 8. He didn't leave for anyone else, all he does is sit at home all day playing MMOs.
>>28011433
Be my gf instead, then. Make him jelly.
>tfw no ldr gf
I-I'd come to you
>>28011237
i only said kinda sorta because he didnt want to call me his gf until we met and actually saw each other face to face...
>>28008546
I did until my IRL boyfriend told me to stop talking to them.
>>28011585
Then you're in a "relationship" with an emotionally stunted dude who just wants his ego stroked and a steady source of masturbation fodder you send him.
>>28011624
Not that anon but I think its reasonable to wait until meeting in person to make a full decision. People in reality are alot different from just a few pictures you see online, they could be very different. When I was in one, I was careful not to say "I love you" before meeting because I wanted mean it.
>>28011661
If you're going to be a heartless calculating turd, sure. Just carefully measure the "love" you give or the machine on the other end might overload, right?
>>28011707
Can you explain why its a problem rather than just throwing insults?
>>28011264
ever thought about going to visit her? We plan on meeting up after he's out of highschool (he's 17 and I'm 18).
I've been in a long distance relationship with someone I met here for a little over 2 years. Ask me anything.
>>28011941
Have you met her? What is she like?
Free bf here
Fags not welcome
>>28011941
We've met twice so far, each time for around 2 weeks. It was the best thing that has ever happened to me. Planning meetings are a bit harder because of complications and the fact that we live halfway across the world from each other.
>>28011969
Sorry, this:
>>28012103
was supposed to be your reply.
>>28011845
Why is acting like a sociopath a problem?
>>28012103
>because of complications
What complications?
>>28011905
Of course. I think about it all the time, but school takes up all my time. I have no job right now and there's no way I could do school and a job. I plan on setting up a gofundme since several people said they'd donate. People seem to get touched whenever I talk about us in more detail. I've posted this picture many times before, so sorry if you've seen it already. I don't have many on my phone ready to go.
>>28012409
Just how expensive tickets are and some shit happening with her family.
>>28011585
You sound incredibly fragile, I want to ravage your vagine
>>28011845
It might be because the one less reserved with their feelings but think the other doesn't feel the same way if "I love you" isn't said. I'm of the opinion that it'd be smart to withhold that phrase until you do meet or are very confident otherwise. It's hard to take back once said and doing so could make things worse if you just aimed to humor them once they uttered it.
There are cons for both decisions I feel. There's your explanation and not some butthurt anon not elaborating his frustration.
>tfw haven't updated OKCupid profile in two years
>>28012522
She lives in Japan? Yeah, I imagine without a job that trip would be expensive. I'm sure you guys will be able to meet some day though.
>>28013073
As much as I hate begging like a faggot and the gorillian stupid gofundme campaigns, I think it'll actually work. I have seen other peoples' raise a good amount of money for stupid shit. At least mine has a mildly interesting story to it. It'll just take time. The girl is cute and the nicest thing so I'll get the money somehow. I've had two friends straight up offer 2 grand, but that was too nice for me to take it on the spot.
>>28013234
I would ask for the link to the gofundme but I don't want to get you banned for the self advertisement. Still, I really hope you raise enough.
>>28013299
I haven't set it up yet anyway. I'll probably do it this weekend. Maybe I'll spam it on reddit somewhere since I don't give a shit about getting banned there. I have to figure out how to use reddit first.
Currently. Am scared to meet them in real life. Didn't really expect to get into an online relationship so it's very strange and I don't know how to deal with it
>in a long distance relationship
>girl involved suddenly stopped messaging me
>her last message was a week ago
>the day before my birthday
I tried to get the illusion that she was busy with her college work, but I've pretty much given up. I'm not really surprised but still, she seemed like the only chance I had at love in this world. Whatever. I'm used to being alone.
>meet some girl from yurope last month
doing a study abroad thing
>really hit it off
>been alternating weekends at her dorm and at my house
>basically are bf/gf without the label-we go on dates, we fuck, we're monogamous, we talk to each other 24/7
>have developed feelings for her in a way that I have not felt in a very, very long time
>she's leaving on may 16
>she says she's cant do an LDR and wants what we have here to stay here, but stay in contact just as friends
>tfw
easy for her to say, she gets to leave
I'm still stuck where "here" is
e-relationship here
I know it's not going to last or end well, so I'm just enjoying it while it lasts
It's not bad as long as you're not delusional
How to find an e-gf? I don't care what she looks like, I just want someone nice.
itll fail. my encounter was scary af. but yeah they never work out. unless she is a NEET she will find somebody really soon. its magical and unique sure, but once you meet the exotic feeling stops and so does her interest
>>28014441
it was possible back when forums were around. it isnt anymore. the offchance you meet in some chatroom she frequents is possible. i have a friend who used to go to kik chat groups (no longer possible, kik removed the feature) and just pull in lots of girls wanting to meet him. this was recent just a few months ago he was on a role
>>28008546
Still dating girlfriend from high school. We were each others' firsts. been almost four years now. Mixed amount of distance depending on the time of year and whatnot. Pretty good.
>>28008546
It's hard to meet people on OkCupid who would be interested in an LDR.
What's the point of ldr? So you are just chatting with a girl (who might actually be a guy) +you can't fuck her.
>>28014789
I would, post your account.
>>28008546
I have. If you're looking to feel loved, I wouldn't recommend it.
>>28014911
To eventually meet, and do that. The goal of LDR is to move in together.
Currently 3 months into a LDR with a girl I met last year. It's okay. We talk every day despite being 6000 miles apart, mostly about how much we miss and what we want to do to each other. It probably helps that we had been living together before I had to leave for work. Anyway, I'm taking vacation soon and we're going to fuck like rabbits.
>>28015037
I deleted my OkCupid and pledged not to join again until I'm in my target weight range. I'm about 85 pounds more than what I should be, and I don't think that'll be fixed until next year. I appreciate your interest, though.
>>28011707
You complete fucking moron, he means he wants to wait until he knows it's true before telling someone he loves, you fucktard. Roasties man, I tell you.
>>28016009
>more than what I should be
For what? Are you an astronaut?
>>28008546
Yes. Married. 3 years. Met IRL 4 years ago. She lived in Kazakhstan and we met O/L on proto/last.fm-myspace in 2005. Don't ask me why I'm here on /r9k/, just passing through and wondering what kind of supreme gentlemen pass by here.
>>28008546
>Met mommy gf on /r9k/ in a ">tfw no mommy gf" thread
>She left her Kik
>Suspected it was a troll but was desperate from a lifetime of no gf that I went for it
>The other anons who were interested never did, according to her, so they probably thought it was bait
>Was super cautious and not very talkative at first
>Couldn't believe how immediate her responses were, she was waiting for every message I sent, and she'd reply quick, felt like she was giving me so much attention
>Still paranoid that it was a ruse, and it wasn't until I had her prove her identity to me that I opened up a lot more
>Talk to her on the phone for the first time
>Was mostly just listening to her because I was embarrassed that she knew my secrets and didn't know what to expect and how long it'd be until she got bored of me or found me disgusting
>Talk on the phone for five hours a day every day for months
>Watched some online movie streams and animus
>She knew I was paranoid about her abandoning me and promised me she wouldn't, and that she wanted me to trust her completely, she'd ask this a few times and I eventually did, no girl has ever given me the time of day before so maybe this was really real
>She mailed me Pampers Cruisers that I've always wanted since I was like six years old
>Mailed me more diapers as well as candy and a handwritten letter about how much she loves me and stuff for Christmas
>We have a six hour time zone difference so I usually stay up late so I can talk to her when she wakes up, to which I then go to sleep and she'd talk to me before I head off to work
>I was a NEET when we met and I probably would still be one if I hadn't met her, she gave me motivation to try
>Seven months in, she got super busy with work and school and she hasn't really said much
>Woke up at like 2 AM like two weeks ago and she said she wants to just be friends until we meet IRL
>Only talked to her once since
>Not sure if broken promise
>>28008546
I've had at-least five.
Three/or more of those were when I was 11-14. It wasn't anything to think upon without cringing. It was an awkward weeaboo autism phase coupled with equally awkward autistic weeaboo communities. Had my first experience calling girls between it though and developing a bit of romance feel. It had its merits.
Another was at 16 and she was the first and only LDR I met in real life, but that was a mess considering she was suffering heavily with loads of unchecked mental disorders and I let her manipulate me like a fucking cuck. It actually made me develop a lesser opinion of women, especially since her friend group (all women) behaved the same way.
My last ended about 3 months ago. We had good chemistry, we challenged each other, made plans to meet with tickets already ordered and to potentially get a place together, gained new interest through each other, and our sexual and romantic tension was pretty high. It was the most normal relationship in general that I've ever had. However, she just completely blocked me one day and didn't even leave me so much as a goodbye or an explanation. Kind've leaves bad feels to think upon.
Dunno if I'll date again. Thanks for reading my blog.
>>28016295
I want to have a "normal" BMI.
>>28016381
I'm an ABDL myself, and I just want to say that you are this close to winning the metaphorical lottery. Don't blow it.
>>28016507
Oh well, good luck with Chad.
>>28016381
>she got super busy with work and school
lol
In one now.
I'm confused about why he likes a piece of shit like me but I'm just enjoying it until he sees how I'm a mean leech. We met once and it was really nice, though.
>start talking to her after some random chance from 4chan
>wait until 2 months after she first offered her skype to add her
>we bond over an incest fetish, she's basically me with a vagina and large tits
>we both consider ourselves loser weebs who like 2D porn too much
>find out we're both the same age (i'm a little older)
>basically the ideal relationship
>but she's like 2600 miles away on the other end of the US
>JUST
>FUCK
>etc
>realize immediately it's one big meme and we're both going to get burned
>still flirt with her every day and talk over skype
>don't have the heart to break it off completely, and tell her it's never going to happen, i'm used to being alone and have accepted it while she still has some hope
>today she said she'll accept me no matter what
H-heh... kill me.
>>28016577
I'm not sure what you mean by that. I'm not trying to become a stud, I just want to not be fat anymore. I was just a bit chubby last year, but then I started college, and I bought all my meals every day there..
>>28016702
Get a freakin' plane ticket ya goof
I met a girl on /r9k/ and we've been dating about 2 months now.
My only problem is when she goes to talk to her friends I kind of get out of control. I don't message her about it but on the inside it drives me crazy she doesn't give me attention. Also she plays League of Legends and I can't fucking stand that game at all.
I guess other than me being an obsessive faggot its pretty ok though.
>>28017043
>I met a girl on /r9k/
HOW
>>28017242
Steam friends thread.And yeah it's an actual girl.
It's been over a year. He's wonderful.
Believe me, I've fucking tried. But you know what? Being a robot extends to your online persona. Somehow, people know and I instantly become undesirable. It's like an aura of sexual repellent.
It's not that no one likes. I am unlikable
>>28016702
>Americans literally fly to yuroop to meet qts (see interpals threads on /int/)
>You cry about the landmass of Northern America seperating you
I don't even you colossal faggot, you could walk there if you wanted. Other people meet with oceans between them and you cry about this.
i think everyones first relationships are supposed to end horribly, but once you find out what kind of girl you are really into, it gets better and better. been happy with mine for about 3 years now, though she's super annoying a lot, you get used to it, as they say, all women are crazy, you just need to find the crazy you are willing to put up with
>>28016809
I'm poor.
>>28017372
Fuck off. LDRs are meme anyway, they work out about %1 of the time. The other %99 are for two retards who never actually met thinking they'll get along just fine when in fact real life is still completely different from the internet. Unless you can start living there immediately it will always end in a disaster, humans need to be near each other and having sex constantly to be satisfied in a relationship.
>>28017527
Looking forward to the
>I had a chance with a great girl but I was a retard and blew it and now i'm foreveralone ;_;
thread
>>28017527
>The other %99 are for two retards who never actually met thinking they'll get along just fine when in fact real life is still completely different from the internet.
But how is it different?
>>28017317
then maybe find some other shit to integrate into your personality
>>28018691
Like what? Give me some examples please.
>>28008546
A woman I met in world of warcraft says she loves me and wants me to come to california (I'm a new zealander) to be with her
but I keep refusing because if we meet she'll realize how dumb and boring I really am and then I'll be stuck in a foreign country dependent on someone who hates me
>>28018712
cultivate a skill or something, drawing, music, animation, or maybe knowledge or some other kind of craft, or get a pullup bar and go from there.
The discipline it takes to keep yourself to stuff that takes time to see returns on shines through in a positive way.
Fatalistic thinking is a deadly comfort.
>started LDR with a girl in high school
>went to see her the summer before I started college
>ended up getting her pregnant during that time
>dropped out to be with her
>she left me with the kid a few years ago
just
>>28018739
Ok, I play two instruments and I'm doing motion graphics and graphic design. Now what?
I've been talking to a "girl" online for two years and though I adore her, I'm not sure if they feel the same.
One thing that tears me up is progression. Sometimes I consider asking for a photo, or to meet up. But I'm just so scared of her reacting badly and losing what we have. Or what if she sees my real face and is instantly disgusted?
Any advice, good people?
>>28018842
Now we wait
just a matter of time
>>28008546
I had one with a girl for a bit recently, it was nice but I decided to break it off since it's easier to get along with boys.
A LDR is a lot better if you two share hobbies and stuff.
>>28018846
If your toilet isn't flushing and you don't have the oppurtunity to open up the back and see what's wrong, you can just pour a pitcher of water from a decent height into it to make it flush in a pinch.
>>28018846
What is she like? Why do you adore her?
>>28018787
Haha normalfag. You got what you deserve.
>>28009992
>should we just not get serious and date other people until we could actually be together?
Fembots just can't contain their urges to have a genetically superior fuckfest too. Amazing.
>>28018864
I have to do that every day you dolt. Hardly novel.
>>28018866
She's very lewd and accepting of my fetishes. She's also very mature and great to talk to. Has good taste in anime and games, is funny, is caring, is clever...
My first (and only) LDR was when I was 14. We met in an online RP forum and eventually hit it off really well. I dated her for 3 and a half years, she sent me a ton of pics of someone that she wasn't. When she turned out to be a Hamsolarsystem I freaked out, cussed her out and excommunicated everyone in my life and became a hermit for the next 6 years. I never spoke to her (or anyone from my old life) again She is now a complete emotional wreck and I have homicidal thoughts towards women because in my mind if all the real ones hadn't rejected me it would have never come to this.
>>28016702
>we bond over an incest fetish
same here
>>28018898
How is she clever? Name something clever she had done or said.
>>28018937
Well it's tough to quote, but whenever we play the same game she always helps me out with strategies and stuff.
>>28016702
>'I'm used to it! I'm not a fucking moron, I know it won't work'
>Girl says one nice thing
>'P-Pls marry me'
Wew
I'm talking to someone currently, it's shaping up that we fit very, very well together.
Even stuff that usually bothers me like her hipstershit doesn't. Wish I could just fly out and meet her now but that creeps people out with being too forward. Waiting so long for an email hurts desu.
>>28008546
I'm not that big of a loser. What's the point of having a girlfriend when there is no physical contact, waste of time.
And what kind of girl would settle for an online romance? The ugly ones without beta orbiters;
enjoy getting catfished by an overweight black lady in her 40s.
>>28019052
anon did you really just delete your post just to add something dumb onto itdo you have autism
>>28019120
There was quite a huge grammatical error present in my previous post, and then I also decided to add something more while I was at it.
I have quite the OCD when it comes to perfection.
>>28019052
>>And what kind of girl would settle for an online romance? The ugly ones without beta orbiters;
>enjoy getting catfished by an overweight black lady in her 40s.
I'd be really happy to get someone like that, without the catfishing part. They all have other options though.
>>28019152
So yes, you're autistic.
it must be rough for you anon,cuz bb, nothing is as perfect as u
>>28019202
Being a perfectionist doesn't equate to being autistic. Am I an "autist" socially? Sure. Am I autistic as in diagnosed with it? No, kek.
>>28008546
I am or was in one and >>28015083 is pretty much it.
A man I've known for over a year and a half spent months trying to be all flirty and lovey-dovey with me, but as soon as I told him how precious he was to me and he finally called me his girlfriend, he pretty much stopped and we haven't talked much in the past two months.
He was the first guy I've ever had the feels for and had so much in common with. I'm not sure if he became bored because I'm inexperienced with relationships, he found someone else better or he became scared and overwhelmed by feelings.
I miss him teasing me while we played video games together.
>>28019244
Stop flocking to bored Chads and this will stop happening.
ITT: Desperate people who fall for failed normie girls
>>28008546
No female is EVER going to take that shit seriously
Expect to get cheated on, you fucking idiot
Best case scenario you get some ERP out of some fat girl who gets off to cheating on her boyfriend virtually and you don't get attached.
THEY DON'T WORK
>>28019344
How do you know someone is a Chad? I didn't find him very attractive physically until months later from getting to know him.
He also has interests that I wouldn't think a Chad would have. Playing hundreds of hours of games from RTS to Japanese boobie girl games and he's in college to become a 3D modeler. He doesn't have many friends and most of them are online, too.
Have had two. One ended badly, the other I'm still in and have met up and stuff. Here is the lowdown: LDRs have all of the problems a regular relationship does, - 90% of the positives you get out of a relationship, + extra problems unique to LDRs. LDRs could be done if it was the right pair of people, imo, but love and relationships in current western culture is hard to keep up with online.
Basically: they aren't at all worth it, unless you consider yourself an extremely lucky person. The one I'm currently in is probably going to end soon, and afterwards, I'm probably not going to date again.
>>28019433
I just know. How do you not have a Chadar? Give me any person and I'll tell you if they are Chad or not.
I had to leave my steam bf because he was to clingy & too horny for me
I still feel bad about it, I think he might of killed himself
>>28008546
i've been in two, first one was mostly just sending lewd pics etc etc, second one lasted for about 1/4 of a year, was kind a nice just talked mostly on skype, played games etc
But it gets kinda boring real fast
>>28008546
My best friend has one
He actually got 3 online gf's in 2 years
The last one "broke up" with him 2 days before he could meet her.He got another one since then hes always on his phone talking to her.He barely talk to me when were together Feels pretty bad desu
>>28011987
>no reply
friend zoned again
>>28011987
>Fags not welcome
>actually choosing to be in objectively inferior relationships
>>28014266
move to urpe you cuck
>>28019530
>How do you not have a Chadar?
I don't talk to people or go out at all and have never been in a relationship before. I have no experience with people in general.
I'm not quite sure what to throw at you to test your Chadar either.
>>28008546
>be 14
>add qt on facebook
>she lives 10 mins away but we never meet
>both get the tingles
>make it official
>after awhile hear word that she's cheating and posting it on myspace
>go check
>bitch is cheating on me with some redneck hick
>end it in rage
I check her facebook a few years later and now she's a single mom with a black kid kek
LDRs DO NOT EVER work. Under no circumstances should you ever get yourself into one, keep it at a friendship and save yourself the heartbreak. Unless you can see each other at least every weekend you should get any thoughts of a relationship out of your head. Even weekly visits are pushing it.
Wouldn't mind a long distance girlfriend if she lived in America. I plan to move there someday anyway, and the more people I'm close to who live there, the better.
>>28019554
I've never understood why being clingy is viewed as a bad thing.
>>28019780
Because women are animals, anon.
>>28019780
I don't consider it a bad thing, I just can't give out the same amount of affection he does & speak for hours on end
>>28019780
When I hear clingy, I think of someone wanting to talk to you every single second you're online, gets pissy with you when you're not on every day, constantly wants to be told how much you love them and feels neglected if you don't.
You don't think that would be obnoxious?
>>28019856
Obnoxious? try adorable.
>>28019856
I would absolutely love that.
>>28019856
That would literally be my perfect gf.
>>28019876
>>28019880
>>28019891
Okay. I guess some people are clingy types and others like to have their space. I'd feel completely smothered if I was in that kind of relationship, but I've grown up alone and I enjoy having a good amount of alone time because of it.
>>28019891
>clingy
>gf
Anon at most you're gonna get a girl that pretends she misses you while tyrone laughs at you with his dick in her mouth
>>28019905
i fugged a korean girl who got mad if i didnt look right in her eyes while we did it. nevr agen
>>28019675
Im severely tempted, but I worry that would drive her away or scare her or something. If she asks me to, I will
>>28008546
Had one with a swede guy till recently, but then
>conversation shifts to politics
>i mention supporting Trump
>'omg anon why u so racist'
>i decide to be honest, give the full 1488 talk but nicely
>sweden being sweden, he gets massive butthurt
>i say some stuff i regret
>he blocks me forever
And thats the end of a 1,5 year internet love
I had one when I was 14
It was okay I guess, probably the only six months of my life I've felt wanted by someone. She was a cunt though, and she still seems like a cunt now.
I'm sort of in one with this girl. We exchanged pictures after she brought it up and she even asked me if i'd be willing to visit her, so i'm visiting her on saturday. She lives 200 miles away but since both of us live with our parents, staying together for longer periods of time could be expensive.
Lots of money wasted, and it was pretty much all talk and nothing else. Never met her in person, just talked through video chat sometimes.
>have a chat every once in a while
>maybe 3 times a week at most
>maybe play a game together
>always ask me for money
>felt like I was becoming some kind of sugar daddy at this point
>we didn't even break up, I just stopped talking to her and that was it
>tfw it didn't even feel like we were in a relationship
Never again. Had the exact same interests as me which was great, but was too needy
Online relationships are not worth it, specially if it's with immature people like my15/16/17y/o "ex" (I was 18/19/20).
>Nice at first, see her twice a year
>Chubby but beautiful, 10/10 blue eyes and got much thinner over the time to the point of 9/10 body.
>Slowly get redpilled into relationships and women due to 4chan.
>She complained all the time time about her lame city and strict parents, and made it worse by shouting at them, insulting them, throwing tantrums, etc...
>She complained all the time about how bad is at school and how she would be held up a year if she stills like that, and despite that she still studied less than a week before the exams, she didn't go to class some times just because period / parents / she just didn't feel like going.
>Paranoid as fuck with her friends, as she thinks all of them hate her when they do something that doesn't revolve around her.
>Compained about how boring I am now (After being depressed about that all my online friends of three years kicked me out of the group for some - literal - autistic bitch) and how she wanted go back to the first days of the relationship, but still most of the time I have to be the one who iniciates and lead the conversation.
>She complained when I went out with some friend (First time in ten years) and started passive-messaging me "I feel alone", "You are ignoring me" and all that, even if I told her days before.
>She got jelous when I had some female - online - friends (She knows their boyfriends too) and started actively hating some animu just because I talked about it with my females friends.
>She almost cucks me with some english Tumblrino who lives much more far than me.
>Reads my private MDs talking with my friends about all this and breaks up with me because "She can't trust me anymore".
>An much more.
I know, she's still a teenager and all that, but geez, that was a living hell and I wish I could have rejected her when she asked me to be an online couple.
>>28008546
not directly but seeing what happens to my friends it looks like it's a risky practice to be a part of.
there is always a greater risk for either party to bullshit situations it seems. I've always seen the dating game as you being a representative/avatar of yourself and not the real you but Online/LDR's seem to encourage that concept to levels where either my friend was going into a panic attack because he oversold himself for a chance at tail or like what kept happening to my other where every girl it seem was nothing like what they claimed and were just saying what ever it took to keep them around/get a ring on the finger. Yes this can happen irl but it seems distance removes a lot of time together so a lie is both easier to sell and maintain.
Another issue I saw arise with my friends was when they had the LDR where affection amplified and they wanted to go to that person more. The biggest issue was the distance starts to make the whole thing feel empty or no flavor when hard times hit. One friend lost his dad to a freak accident and we were there for him but his LDR of 3 years couldn't feasibly come see him or help him during the funeral due to her school and work (they had a 2500+ mile distance and 3 time zones) this eventually killed the relationship because my friend realized that he can't get better then fair weather friend out of his LDR.
I get if the temptation is it seems "safer" to hook up with online/LDR but both personal feelings of wanting a real person in the room and witnessing the tragedies that befell friends I feel it's no better than irl and just has less good things about it.
I don't understand LDRs. Unless your dick is 1000km long, how are you going to have that pissy on lock down? baka
>>28021929
well the base argument is you love them for more than that.
the heavier reality is they can't find good tail locally and having no gf kills them enough that they at least want an online one because then they can feel like they are no longer one of those "no gf" losers
It's on the same path of retardation that thinking getting laid once will be an improvement over never when your life will stay about the same.
>>28021998
tru tru.
But if you love them, you're gonna want to have that pussy on lock down. And you have the key. Protip: your benis is the key
>>28021668
>Online relationship
>living hell
Everything you typed there is no less fantasy than an mmo. Don't ever complain about this irl, it would be a devastating revelation of your power level, from which you would never recover.
>>28022162
I'd just have them move in with me, given the opportunity. But it seems I have too much self-respect to attract anyone as I'm not quite ready to tripfag or shamelessly contactfag all the time
I got a qt bf online recently and it's going pretty well.
>>28008546
Yep.
6 years of fucking nothing.
>>28022258
Come on, pal. How else u gonna get succ?
>>28022383
Well, ideally, you'd only contactfag if there is some purpose to it and/or the other party is interested instead of shoving [email protected] at the end of every post, but the situation doesn't actually arise.
>>28022442
Your purpose is to get da poosee on lock down. That would be bury nice.
>>28016542
I know. Seems like it's about game over to me. It's like I did win the lottery and someone stole the winning ticket.
The only time we talked, she said she still loves me. So I don't know. Hearing that after nearly two weeks of silence has me feeling a little better, but skeptical at this point.
