>you will never be anyone's type
>if you ever find love, they will be settling for you
>>27985855
>true
>but I'll be settling for someone too, because there isn't a chance I get my oneitis crush to date me
>women don't care about anything but your social status and other success metrics
>they never care about you as a person beyond how cooperative you may be
>even if you find someone you like, they don't like you back for the right reasons
I know I, as a guy, is capable of love. So I want to be gay. But I can't.
I failed at birth. Wrong gender.
I'm sure someone's type is "ugly timid loser"
>>27985855
love is about eventually settling for someone. You'll only meet 60-90% of her requirements, and so will she. It's eventually a matter of compromise, and dealbreakers not mattering.
>>27985855
>nobody will love you
>when they look at you, all they will see is the trail of relationships and life choices that led to them settling for you
>>27985855
>false
>probably true for me
Though everyone seems to forget that you CANNOT get that perfect person. Reason is nobody is perfect, everyone's still a human being.
>>27986395
I don't want the perfect person I just want someone to like me how I like them
>not only am i ugly but i also have trust issues and virtually no social skills
>>27986406
Damn, I feel you.
If I ever manage to get anyone, the relationship will be imbalanced as fuck because I'm likely just the most convenient option at the moment.
I'd just like to have someone that enjoys my presence and is happy to see me like I am to be with them.
>>27985855
i know anon. best to give up.
>>27986406
Realistic and very possible then. You can find it but you have to realize that you can't just fall in love with someone simply like that.
>>27986476
>Realistic and very possible then.
you don't understand
I'm an unattractive person inside and out
>>27986643
well, the inside can change. And that will absolutely bring ur status up.
Being charming and funny can override many people's natural aversion to bad looks.
3DPD is a waste of time and effort.
>>27986643
obsess over stand up comedy for a year or two. study the greats and your favorites, and figure out how they mold jokes. Once u do that, u can disarm just about any woman who isn't 100% vain.
>mid twenties now
>friend sets me up with a girl she knows for a date
>within the first 15 minutes she is already subtly probing into me about stuff like income, how great my housing is, and what kind of car I have.
You know at this point I'd probably let a chick mooch off me if she expressed the slightest interest in ME and not my quality of life.
>>27986857
That's a cute Megumin senpai
>>27986684
I've never been kissed by an anime girl so how aren't they a waste of time?
>>27987341
they'll never ever leave you
>>27987373
They don't want anything to do with me either.
>flashback block
Who will ever 'settle' for you OP?
girls always have a better choice, unless you're already THE best choice (aka Chad)
>>27987373
that's because they'll never be with you in the first place
anime girls cannot satisfy in the same way a physically present human being can
>>27987341
They will melt your heart unlike 3DPD.
>>27987481
no reason a real girl couldn't do the same
in fact they have
anime is a cheap substitute without any real feedback or interaction
too one-sided for my tastes
>try to think about my type of girl
>all my mind can think of is static
Hmm, I don't even know what I'd want. Or who'd stand such a stiff person.
>>27987472
>that's because they'll never be with you in the first place
anon
they'll always be with you
>>27987613
they exist on a screen I can't hug them or hold a conversation with them or wake up to them
it's fucking pointless
>>27987649
real love transcends physical wants and needs
it's not always the best to be someone's type.
i'm currently embroiled in a 6-way love triangle/directed graph with me and this korean qtpi in the middle liking each other, two korean guys sperging out wanting to date her b/c she's their type and two other girls wanting to date me because i'm their type. the guys are pouring all this korean racial purity stuff at her and the girls are pouring all this asian fetishist stuff at me.
it would be much similar if me and this girl just idiosyncratically liked each other.
>tfw average looking white guy
>>27987669
no it fucking doesn't
love has to be mutual and a drawing isn't capable of reciprocating it
I want to love anime girls and have in the past but they won't love ME back
don't you see that it's a waste of time? they'll never have a thought or feeling of their own
a real girl will love you and tell you, and you two can talk about whatever you want, go anywhere, do anything
there's really no comparing the experiences
>>27987732
>don't you see that it's a waste of time?
security and unconditional affection, sounds like a good time to me
>they won't love ME back
they do though
>>27987725
wow three girls who think you're attractive, that must be so terrible. praying 4 u.
>>27987764
please show me how to get them to love you back
because it hasn't happened with me and I'm starting to think that maybe I'm not delusional enough for this place
>>27987819
>please show me how to get them to love you back
you're supposed to fill in the blanks in your head
it's like an imaginary friend, except there's already a template of how they look and act, and you just fill in the rest with your imagination
eventually she feels real and her affection feels real. and that's a bond that can never break.
damn right. not even the most desperate female would consider a guy like this as their ideal bf
>>27987859
Shut up chad, you aren't even a virgin.
>>27987857
I don't want to date an imaginary friend I want a real person I can speak to and support
what the fuck is wrong with you?
you can't love anime
this sounds like that tulpa shit
>>27987893
you control what's "real" and what isn't
it's all in your hands
>>27987926
so tell me about your waifu, then
do you consider her for family?
what do your parents think of her?
will you guys be buying a house? thinking of a dog or maybe even kids?
I can't imagine a fate worse than being complacent with an anime girlfriend
>>27987859
>tall
>white
>long hair
>has a deep interest in something (trains)
>cooks
>accent
>chosenpeopleblood
Many femanons list these traits sometimes in those ideal threads.
>>27987968
>I can't imagine a fate worse than being complacent with an anime girlfriend
you play the cards you're dealt
>>27986043
>not knowing how to green text
Fuck off, please. :^)
>>27987998
this is a choice, not fate
why did you choose this?
>>27988083
why do you think
take a swing
>>27988102
I don't know
I refuse to believe you've given up
for all your delusions you seem like a good person with a lot of potential
>>27988172
I have given up
I refuse to disappoint someone or ruin someone's life and trick them into an unhappy relationship
so I have removed myself, and I am happy
>>27987973
I doubt women pursuit men interested in trains
>>27988215
How would you ruin somebody's life?
>>27988279
fuck you
I think trains kick ass
>>27988317
by existing
my boring, bitter personality, my complete lack of any sort of ambition, and my mental issues aren't something that someone else deserves to deal with
>>27985855
oh my god this hit a little bit too close to home
>>27988405
I don't think people hate others just for having problems
In my experience, being able to support somebody is always rewarding
I'd go on a date with you just to prove you wrong
>>27988455
>being able to support somebody is always rewarding
I refuse to put that burden on someone else
I'm a person teetering on the edge, I won't make someone think that they need to walk on eggshells around me or stay with me to keep me alive, that isn't FAIR to them
my father ruined my mother's life, and I will NOT do the same. it's me and my waifu from here on out.
>>27985855
>tfw all the girls who dig you are totally repulsive
>tfw the thought of them thinking they have a shot at you is litterally adding insult to injury
WHY LIVE
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>>27986857
You can know a person for what she ask from you and what he gives to you when you ask.
Just go ask her about what she likes, etc.
Go dating, no commitments and be grateful.
>>27988499
No dude you don't understand
sometimes what a person wants and needs is another person to help and make them feel wanted or needed
it's to mutual benefit
nobody carries burdens if they don't want to
you're clearly a responsible person or else you wouldn't be trying to "protect" others but I think people like you deserve way more than you think
>>27988558
I'm not a "fixer-upper" I'm a person not a dumpy house
I can't rely on someone else to make me feel wanted or needed I have to sort out my issues on my own and I'm not capable of doing that so I have dropped out and given up
>>27988725
you're gonna make me cry
how can you pick anime over me?
>>27988725
i feel you anon. when you're incapable of change you should keep to ourselves.
it'd be nice if i could get a job, though. i feel bad for being a burden on my grandad.
>Had friend in highschool
>friend was the same height as me
>Friend was average looking
>He somehow got hit on by girls
>He would regularly complain about gay guys complimenting him
>Tfw never been approached
>tfw There is something wrong with me which repels others
Even online it seems I am an implicit eunuch to others
>>27989357
what's your favourite anime girl?
>>27989389
Asuka, but I've only watched one anime, NGE, and my affection is not based in Sexual desire. I just like her character
>>27989525
hey me too
I think asuka is a cool dude, I'd party with her
>>27987725
weighted or non weighted graph?
>>27989326
are you able to get even a shit minimum wage job?
something like that will make your loved ones proud, even if it's not a great job
you people are delusional
relationships nowadays are a contract for easy casual sex, nothing more
Everyone is always settling with someone and then breaking up when it gets too annoying to deal with
Remember, even if you found someone that truly "loved" you initially, sustaining a relationship is not easy and you'd likely fuck it up within months
It's it possible to have little to no sentiments, to be so burned that you stop feeling things?
or rather, that you don't feel (arousal, excitement, happiness,sadness,etc) the same as your significant other in the same situation?
I get depressed or aroused every once in a while now but I always feel I should feel more.... Maybe I shut myself out after having no actual affection for a while?
>>27985855
All relationships are based on compromise, you do know this right?
>>27990061
there's a difference between compromising and settling
>>27985855
Not true anon, when girls get older and less appealing they seek out betas like you to provide them with money and to raise chad's bastard kids. If you're very good they might have sex with you every now and then.
Might be not related
NKJV
>1 Corinthians 13:1-8
>The Greatest Gift
>Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.
>And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
>And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.
>Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
>does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
>does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
>bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
>Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away.
>>27987613
>>27987669
>>27987764
>>27987926
You are pathetic. Please off yourself.
>>27986204
>>27986395
>>27990061
>accepting less than your best
Read some Pavlina http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2014/09/ones-and-tens/
>In order to get those 9s and 10s, you must risk creating some 1s and 2s. Many people fear the 1s and 2s more strongly than they desire the 9s and 10s, and so they settle for 7s at best.
>If you settle for 7s for too long though, you're bound to feel -- eventually -- that something is missing. You may find yourself in a room of friends and notice that you're still lonely or empty inside. You may feel that you'd rather be alone than go out with friends because you know that the connections will only satisfy you on a surface level and that your deeper cravings will remain unfulfilled. You may oscillate between wanting to be around people and wanting to be alone, but feeling dissatisfied with either option.
>>27990356
This guy gets it.
>>27990921
> She began sharing her strongly held beliefs about how stupid religion was and how the world would be better off without it. I was also an atheist at the time, and I really resonated with what she shared.
This is what hurts the most.
I wish ugly people were just attracted to ugly people.
In the end, if I ever find anyone willing to settle for me, it'll just be another ugly person who's being settled for.
It's incredibly sad for both parties.
>>27991153
>I wish ugly people were just attracted to ugly people.
They are. They just get turned down by said ugly people.
DUDE JUST LOVE YOURSELF LMAO
I find that really chipper energetic girls like brooding edgelords like robots
>>27991065
>2016
>Still believing in god.
Look at this retard.
>>27986719
are you sure?
are there any comedians you would recommend? any other tips? i feel like a good joke or two is a good way to break the ice for sure.
>>27989197
because you're not real either
>>27989886
i really do think this guy is telling the truth. im an ugly boring black guy, and the last girl i was "dating" broke up with me when she found out i was a virgin.
>You will never find a non fat, non boring, non mental illness girlfriend who enjoys outdoor activities and various adrenaline inducing things
>You will never get to ride together straight into the sunset
Worst feel.
>>27989886
>nothing more
hence a reason no male likes getting married these days.. they dont last and you get fucked up.
>>27986427
Welcome to the Club my sad Friendo
>>27991994
>finding a woman who enjoys activities
Already as rare as white dogshit, even for a chad.
>>27992193
what are activities you average female does?
>>27992273
lots of things, very similar things to men, /r9k/ has just convinced itself that all women are boring with no hobbies
>>27992434
Why is it taking so long for me to find my qt?
>>27992485
maybe you're ugly
>>27992492
I'm average, look after my hygiene and lift weights.
>>27992501
>I'm average
has a woman ever told you this, or are you just assuming
>>27992485
just give up and embrace solitude
>>27992513
I got called a qt once. That MUST count for something.
>>27991237
It's true. I was turned down by a balding 5'3 man with an average face and weighed almost 300 lbs because I was also fat and he didn't like fat chicks.
It was a weird moment, but it made me lose weight even harder than I had been.
>>27992692
because fat women are fucking disgusting and you reek on shit
Once I get an shitload amount of therapy out of the way and get my life back on track I'll be definitely someone's type.
>looking forward to the future where I'll grab up a kinky /jp/ loser and make him my waifu
