Why is it that some days I want a gf so bad I can barely breathe
But other days the thought of having to constantly feed someone else attention and having to change my life to fit theirs makes me almost physically repelled at the idea?
Is anyone else like this?
>>27970102
1. because you're weak
It isn't an insult, just an observation. It takes strength if not just apathy to be able to stave off if not just not develop these kinds of desires at all.
Is anyone else like this?
Of course.
But some situations vary, though my former statement is usually the explanation commonplace.
>>27970225
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nice try buddy
>>27970266
U know itt.
It's because you're selfish. You want something but would be unwilling to do that thing in return.
Lots of people are like this.
Same, OP.
>scour Tinder for girls one day - message every girl I've ever matched, desperately looking for some attention
>wake up the next day, have no urge to talk to any girls for the next three days
>think it's all pointless and there's no point in trying since I'm happy enough on my own
Happens at college too.
>meet attractive mutual friend at party
>get closer to her over the next few weeks
>find out she's interested
>suddenly lose interest
>suddenly have zero desire to sustain a relationship
I just need a gf who's as introverted and apathetic as I am.
Brain chemicals driven by instincts.
That's all it is.
this is called being human you retards
you have "moods" sometimes you feel like fucking sometimes you just want to sleep
its unrealistic to have a relationship where you are hopelessly in love 24/7
sometimes you just dont wanna talk to the bitch