who here /fitbot/? >was chubby from ages 10-16 >started
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who here /fitbot/?
>was chubby from ages 10-16
>started lifting and cardio at 17
>22 now
>catch glances from girls of all ages and rate of attractiveness literally anywhere i go
>from 17-22 i was basically in isolation. not much social contact
>still don't know how to talk to girls
>still don't know how to carry a conversation
>girls don't make the first move and i don't know how
nobody?
this is pretty original
one more bump
i know some of you bought the /fit/ meme
>/fit/: the post
>>27952416
>tfw calisthenics fag
>tfw I do most of my workouts in nearby park with street-workout gear there during summer
>tfw I often get glances from girls passing by
>sometimes I do my workout shirtless to avoid sweating too much
>some girls who see me shirtless during workout lip-bite while passing by
>tfw all girls just see my relatively attractive physical appearance and not my autistic personality
This is literally /fit/
>>27952613
I keep myself fit, but I don't browse that shit board that's referred to as /fit/
>>27953623
As you shouldn't, it's basically /r9k/ in denial, they claim they don't lift for women but then all they talk about is how they can't talk to or approach women
Was skinny my whole life. Until one day i decided i wanted to be strong and /fit/. Been working out for about 8 months now (i am 22 years old). Been filling out, getting gains, getting strength gains and even family i haven't seen in a long time doing nothing buy complimenting me and telling me how thick my chest / shoulders are now.
Have women looking at me especially when i wear tank tops. I still cant talk to women or know how to handle conversations and still shit myself internally when approached by one.
Hell even talking to women over the microphone on Skype makes me weak even though i'd bench her for 10 reps with ease.
/fitbot/ here m8
>used to drink at least 1L of cola everyday along with cheetos while playing counter strike source
>stopped drinking cola, eating cheetos and counterstrike overnight
>got into kick-boxing on a friend advice
>been autisticaly focusing on improving my kick-boxing skills ever since
>started lifting this year to get more strengh
>doing an insane amount of high intensity cardio
>eating like a snorlax to stay in the same weight category
The autism is so strong that I can now destroy this friend who got me into kick-boxing
I'm not yet 100% /fit/ but I did grow up fat as fuck, never spoke to any boys due to fear of being turned down or mocked, always tried to be the funny one and build a personality so nobody would notice I was fat (didn't work, obviously).
Hit the gym, turns out I have some kind of decent body shape naturally when I'm not stuffing my face with shit and actually exercise. Suddenly guys give me attention but I'm just as much, if not more, of a social fuck up than I was as a teenager.
If a guy ever talks to me with even a slight suggestion he's down to fuck, I just spill my spaghetti all over and end up walking off. If there's no suggestion they're interested, I'm absolutely fine.
So yeah, I have it so easy I'm on practice level and I'm still a huge fuck up. Feel free to hate.
>>27953884
>Feel free to hate.
Why would i hate someone in my predicament?
>>27953915
I don't know, it pisses me off a lot. It's like I've put all this work in and I read so often on r9k about women having it on easy mode, yet I feel like I have that in front of my and I still can't manage meaningful interaction with the opposite sex.
Yeah someone can check me out and approach me but the second I start blabbering on about cats or how they've made a mistake by saying hi because I'm not that great, they're soon put off. It's like an automatic protection thing, as though they're not genuine, they're just mocking me.
That said, I'm not a special snowflake and don't suffer from any kind of actual social anxiety, so I think I'm just making a big deal out of nothing.
>>27953975
I'm a guy in your situation.
I'm now objectively aesthetic and surprisingly have good facial aesthetics now I'm single digit body fat. However, I think too much and struggle to form relationships.
I posted because I recognize your thought pattern about social anxiety: I don't actually have social anxiety so it's just me blowing something out of proportion again. But I think if we're even having these thoughts then we probably do have some type of social anxiety. Almost like we're gaslighting ourselves.
>>27952416
/fit/ here
Posts like yours are posted every fucking day
You're not special, you faggot
>>27953975
>I don't know, it pisses me off a lot. It's like I've put all this work in and I read so often on r9k about women having it on easy mode
In some aspects of life women generally do have an easier life, though i for one as well as many others believe women can be social rejects / robots just like the rest of us males. People here do nothing but regurgitate what others say without thinking for themselves.
>Yeah someone can check me out and approach me but the second I start blabbering on about cats or how they've made a mistake by saying hi because I'm not that great, they're soon put off. It's like an automatic protection thing, as though they're not genuine, they're just mocking me.
Sort of sounds like myself, except if i ever get approached by women which is rare these days unless i am in my bike gear (And they are out for my material possessions). I'm a mute and just say yes and no answers. And have found myself to say NO to a lot of questions that may be true just so i can get out of there while screaming internally.
>That said, I'm not a special snowflake and don't suffer from any kind of actual social anxiety, so I think I'm just making a big deal out of nothing.
Who knows, probably stems from when you were younger and fat and still have that very same mentality you once did it seems.
Big deal or not, this is the place to get it off your chest.
>falling for the /fit/ meme
when will they learn
>>27954252
Never if anything facial aesthetics matter when it comes to men, now i only lift for the following;
-Don't want to lose my strength gains i worked hard for
-Gives me something to unleash my anger on
-Have nothing else to do so i may as well do something productive outside of feels posting
All in all, it's alright.
You cant lift away the autism anon, try killing yourself instead
>>27954061
I know these feels too well. I was at work last week and a guy I work with came up to me and kind of hinted he was interested in me. I laughed, said something so cringeworthy my brain has blocked the details completely and just span round to get on with my work.
Every other time he has spoken to me about movies, games or work, I've been absolutely fine and managed to have a really involved conversation with him...it's just that added interest that makes me nervous.
I find it almost impossible to think that anybody could find me attractive, never mind as attractive as somebody who has always been slim. I always feel like the last choice (as I did when I was younger) and I can't shake that feeling. If someone has approached me, it's obviously because they're desperate, not because they think I'm attractive.
A sad state of affairs really. Hopefully you'll work it out, anon.
Enough of treating this as my personal blog for now, though. We should all be proud that we have the discipline to turn our lives around and become healthier.
>>27954375
>>27953975
>i dont have easy lyf
>but i keep getting hit on
>i have it as hard as you guys trust me i dont even have to initiate
die bitch