Is anyone else scared of their family knowing they want a gf or have sexual urges? I can't really do normal things without having this fear. Like if I get a haircut they will think I am doing it to impress girls, or if I go out somewhere I must be meeting with a girl etc.
Is this normal or am I fucked up?
>>27949773
Who are you trying to impress by making threads like this?
Any girl you know that browses this board?
You can tell us OP :P
ayy is that yung lean?
>>27949773
It's not normal anon.
1. Your parents are probably happy if they thought you were talking to girls
2. They don't think you are just because you are getting a haircut
Let me guess, your family likes to give you shit about every little thing. They like to throw a spotlight on everything you do and giggle like retards about it right? I'm the same way as you and it's because I was raised on shit like that and I bet even if you don't think it happens to you it probably does.
>>27949773
Yep, I am exactly the same. I don't like my family knowing I want to go to a gym, or that I like girls or whatever.
>>27949773
Yes absolutely. Although if I actually got a gf then I would be glad to tell my family. But without one, every single move to better my looks (going to the gym, haircut, etc) just looks plain pathetic.
>>27950169
YES. Both of my parents break my balls about everything. If I'm looking at my phone and smiling they make a big deal about it like I'm texting a girl, when really I'm here on r9k posting traits of my ideal gf.
>>27949773
Yes, have been like that all my life
>>27949773
Same fucking fear, its like im still a child afraid if being bullied for liking girls
My dad always feels the need to ask me if i found a girlfriend yet. Sad thing is Im a faggot.
>>27950169
I fucking hate this feeling so much. Fuck, dude. What the FUCK.
>>27950169
Ugh, my family is like this too, and I'm the same way as OP.
My parents were never even trying to be mean to me or anything, I think they were actually being nice and assuming I was a decent functional human being, and I just hated it because I felt so ashamed of myself for not living up to it.
I'm almost 30 now, and to this day I have trouble dealing with my mom because she always seems to find exactly whatever thing I'm feeling insecure about and bring it up, too.
>>27950343
My dad started doing that when I was probably 4 years old
>>27949773
I am so deeply ashamed of my love for women. I know my family would prefer I was single my whole life but I can't help these urges to go out and procreate. WHATS WRONG WITH ME!?
>>27950376
Why does family just feel the need to have expectations. Just let me live my life.
>>27950169
Not so much now because I don't do anything, probably for that reason. But yeah.
don't get honor killed OP, wait until marriage
