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what's the point of having sex if I'm going to last
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what's the point of having sex if I'm going to last less than 2 minutes?

probably way less than 2 minutes if shes hot and there has been foreplay
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probably less than 1 minute if shes Asian (Asian pussy is 2x tighter than white pussy)

white girls are the most fun to fuck.
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>>27948186
>>27948186

Because you'll last longer after cumming the first time.

Cum from a tit job, 10 minutes of foreplay and then fuck her, you'll last longer.
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>>27948234
A tit job would already take forever to get me off she would def get tired. I can last a long time for anything but and fuckies, blowies I can last pretty long too ;(
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>>27948186
there is no point... you will never satisfy her and she will always be wishing for more and will get bored and move on and forget about you.
sorry man shit sucks not too much you can do.
maybe you can take solace in knowing youre not the only one who has to suffer this shit
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>>27948325
Good words, they really do that
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>>27948186
if there's foreplay she should be getting off on at the same time. way i figure with my looks and below average to average at best dick 90% of her orgasm will be attributed to oral
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>>27948398
I could never do oral
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>>27948186

You obviously have no idea what your doing if sex last 2 minutes.
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>>27948512
okay help me then
>kiss
>grab/touch parts on body
>get hard
>maybe handie
>probably blowie
>fuckie time
>put dick in and out
>it feels super fucking good on my dick plus her sounds and facial expressions (if I can see them)
>mere moment later I have the STRONG urge to cum

WHAT DO HUH?
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>>27948208
Asian here.

The tightest girl I've ever fucked was actually a white girl, and I've fucked Asian girls before. I think height has more to do with tightness. The white girl I fucked was barely 4'11", ~95lbs, while the Asian girl was 5'7", ~115lbs. You'd be right about white girls being more fun to fuck though.
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How to attract a female so that she will have sex with you?
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>>27948512

I think he means the benis fugg portion of the sex
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>>27948463

Why, unless she has a nasty as fuck pussy there's no reason not to
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If you are super desperate than many antidepressants can pretty much take away your ability to cum altogether. There are also condoms designed to slightly reduce your sensitivity. Other than that you can just keep on fucking even after you bust. If you just keep thrusting you'll probably stay hard, and girls can't really tell unless you pull out or make a big show of coming.

Most importantly though you should recognise that the average endurance is actually pretty low when it comes to the continuous dick in vag thrusting part of sex. Being anxious about it is guaranteed to make you finish early though. Anxiety causes increased physiological arousal, and the evolutionary response to anxiety during sex is to finish fast so you can get your seed in before being interrupted by whatever you are anxious about. So chill the fuck out about your premature ejaculation and have some confidence that you'll be able to please her anyway.
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>>27948629
what does it taste like
where do I lick? her clit?
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>>27948398
Regardless of your dick size, roughly 80-90% of women can't get off from purely penile penetration.
However much /r9k/ loves to yell how giving oral is beta and how a woman will cheat on you if you go down on her because obviously virgin robots are the go-to experts for anything related to women's sexual aspects, clitoral stimulation is often a very big part of the overall sexual stimulation for women.
(If anything, not getting her off because you're afraid that going down on her might be seen as "beta" by anonymous imageboard posters, is "beta" as fuck and more likely to have a woman cheat on you to try and find orgasms elsewhere - assuming the woman is inclined to cheating to begin with.)

Getting her close to the edge of an orgasm through foreplay and then go for fucking can be tricky depending on how well she can hold that edge and how quick you're inside her. Chances are the edge fades and the orgasm gets ruined, and fucking her then won't suffice to get her over the edge.
Another method is to go for foreplay, eventually go for oral and make her orgasm, and right after that enter her for sex. More guaranteed for her to get off as well during the "session", which should lead to a more satisfied woman and in turn makes it more likely she'll look forward to a next session. (Not to mention the satisfaction of making her orgasm, but that might just be me.)

A lot of porn shows women getting orgasms like mad from dicking them hard and fast enough with big dicks, but suffice to say porn is easily 90% fake in all things; from camera angle to make penises look bigger, to women screaming during sex, to their orgasms, to the idea that women don't need some warming up to get aroused or else get some lube before penetrating, let alone entering them completely in 1 quick go rather than being at least somewhat careful.
The average woman won't be happy with that stuff. Nothing wrong with giving oral and such, whatever /r9k/ claims.
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>>27948689
I just think it's gross
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>>27948533
The "penis in vagina" part of sex is just a part of it. If that part is something you're quick to orgasm with, either prolong the foreplay and focus some on the woman instead of just receiving (your story mentions nothing you do to/with her, only what she does to/with you), or consider brief breaks during the PIV part. Also, you don't have to continuously put dick in and out at a specific rate, you can slow it down or go for more shallow thrusts to try and last longer with it.

Another possible method is to try and work on your pelvic floor muscles, in other words do kegel exercises. This is said to improve your blood circulation around that area, increasing strength of the erection, strength/intensity of your orgasm, and possibly help with premature ejaculation problems.
Even if the latter turns out not the case for you, it also has benefits of increasing bladder and bowel control. Of course like with any muscle, make sure not to try and overtrain it to the point where it's continuously sore and whatnot by pushing it too far, rest and such are important as well.
Might be worth considering.
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>>27948863
thank you kind anon robot for giving me info

as far as to/with part, I was mostly pointing out what leads to my cummies

i haven't been laid in like 3 years and the girl I fucked was my gf and ever since we had sex the first time and I did very poorly our relationship IMMEDIATELY went to shit she started treating me like shit
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>>27948730
That's a valid thought. Sex in itself can be seen as quite gross, exchanging bodily fluids and whatnot.
There's still clitoral stimulation and such you can do with your fingers/hands though, to get a similar thing going. Fingers are a lot better at caressing, building anticipation by touch, reaching specific places/spots you want to hit, etc., than a dick. I dick is pretty much limited to what you can hit/touch while penetrating her.
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>>27948903
No problem at all, Anon.
>as far as to/with part, I was mostly pointing out what leads to my cummies
orgasms*
I assumed as much but figured adding some emphasis on some focus on her in between breaks and during foreplay wouldn't hurt just in case it was a wrong assumption.

That does suck, yeah. Bad sex can cause a serious strain on the relationship.
If she expected the very first time sex wold be great and things went to shit over it not being great, it sounds like she was still quite young. Losing your v-card will practically always be awkward as fuck.

But even when you aren't a virgin, a first few times sex with a new person will be somewhat clumsy at times, simply due to the fact that different people have different things that get them off better. Some women will go crazy by merely trailing your finger over their nipples, some require some pinching, other don't care much for it at all. Same goes for all other erogenous zones; for men goes the same thing.
It takes some exploring and experimenting whenever you're with someone new. (Communication is important as well, of course; either during or after, either verbal or non-verbal, as long as it's clear enough for both.)
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>>27948186

I also PE. you should seriously do what i learnt do.

>average body size
>doing missionary. stick full length in
>use pelvic bone to grind her clit
>make sure shes not a fatty or you won't be able to grind clit

seriously i went from making girls come once. to 10-20 times in a session. there is no dipping in and out like a machine gun so you will last a whole lot longer.
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>>27949690

Also. insecurities absolutely KILL sex. if either party isn't comfortable with their body, it will never be as complete as it should be
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