I've had oneitis for ten years. Ask me anything.
>>27943731
When did it start? Is she married? What's your relationship with her over the years?
>>27943822
High school.
No.
I orbited her like crazy for a semester, declared my love, got friendzoned repeatedly, then cut off all contact to hide my shame.
Since then, she's tried to contact me once every few years, sometimes through friends, but all her messages are pity-coated apologies.
It is pitiful that I've thought about her every day that I've been an adult, so I don't blame her for feeling sorry for me. I just stalk her passively.
>>27943731
Who the fuck cares about these oneitis threads? There's so much shit to talk about, but you just want to talk about some bitch Stacy.
>>27943953
post your face and a pic of hers pls anon do it
>>27943995
I talk about other shit with everyone else. Only bots can understand my lifelong love for Stacy.
>>27944004
I bet she'll get 2/10'd here because she doesn't look like a cheerleader.
haha. i've had that for more than 10 years. she got married and left the country too AND kept on nagging me until i told her again to leave me alone ur such a little kid
>>27944258
Teach me your ways.
Do you still beat off thinking about her?
>>27944229
I would squirt my white power into her manhole
>>27944292
i never did that to begin with, because this was TRUE, PURE, INNOCENT love
when she got married i just stopped "stalking" her over facebook. i stopped at once. it was just too much. i still think about her daily or so, but i'm not in love anymore. i think i mostly think about how much i resent her. what's your thing like?
>>27944345
That's OK, I now beat off to the thought of her fucking other guys and somehow telling me one day.
>>27944432
Go see a shrink dude. Memes are fun and games but being an actual cuckold man is no pain anyone should suffer
>>27944391
I tried stopping the stalking. I think I made it more than a year once. Not sure how much good it did to stop stalking her, though. I still think about her daily.
I don't resent her, though I think she thinks I do. I idolize and fear her.
>>27944488
No, no one's ever actually cheated on me, so I don't see how I'm a cuck. I just know this particular woman won't ever touch me, so thinking about her fucking other guys and telling me about it is at least a plausible scenario.
>>27943731
So have I.
>>27943953
>just passive
I was the same. Then finally she had a baby with someone I never knew. Just like my other oneitis before.
>>27944539
Cuckoldry and cuckold fetishism isn't about other men fucking your wife or someone cheating on you. It's about you internalizing it by subconsciously lowering yourself to a level where other men take your what you want where you are lacking, and thus creating an escapism to your internal failure
in other words, what you got there is cuckold fetishism
>>27944580
Did you ever find a cure?
>>27943731
Have you dated at all? Are you handsome/fit? Are you otherwise successful? Has she dated at all? If so, how did that make you feel?
>moving away from hometown
>oneitis announces she's moving to the same place
I was hoping to leave this behind...
>>27944229
Yeah, she's definitely cute.
What do you like about her? Is she nice, fun to be around, smart, etc?
Have you tried to get interested in other girls? Is there anything about her that sets her apart from other women?
>>27944607
But I don't want to be humiliated like in cuck porn. I hate the thought of being degraded in any way and take great care to hide any shameful behavior on my part. Just, you know, if I can't enjoy something, can't I at least watch someone else?
>>27944610
No. I've read that the only cure is to have another oneitis. I don't think that worked in my case.
>>27944676
It takes different forms on different people, naturally. Porn takes it to very exaggerated amounts that are very rare in real life
By watching other people take your prize, you are subconsciously admitting that they are better men than you will ever be, and that they deserve the evolutionary goal of reproduction
I told you, man. It would really help if you would get help, counselling very much helps with this sorta shit.
Don't believe /r9k/ when they say shrinks don't work, it's a meme
>>27944621
Yes, probably an average amount. I'm skinny and have an effeminate face. And I'm a broke Web designer.
I became friends with her ex-fiance so I could hear about her romantic life. At first, he told me about her dating betas, but not fucking them. I liked that at the time.
Then, after a while, her ex-fiance said that she was no good for us and told her never to talk to either of us again. I kept hanging out with the guy for another 7 years in hopes that he'd bring her up again. He didn't, so I ghosted him.
Right now, I have no idea if she's single. I mostly hope she's getting fucked so at least I can think about her turned on and happy.
>>27944675
Nice, fun to be around, smart, funny, nerdy, and everything else bots claim to want.
Yes, I have a girlfriend now and love her, too. But I still think about my One to cum.
My One is all of my favorite features combined. The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
>>27944682
Too bad. I've gotten a milder version of it since then, but it just stacked on top of my primary Oneitis.
>>27944757
Do I need to be cured? What's so bad about this fetish?
>>27944967
>Yes, I have a girlfriend now and love her, too. But I still think about my One to cum.
how does this meme work?
how can you say you love her?
how ca you sleep at night?
>>27945350
What meme?
I do love my girlfriend. And I don't always think about my One to cum. Who am I hurting? I'm sure my girlfriend has her own fantasies.
It takes about half an hour.
>>27945063
It's not about the fetish per say, it is the problems that create it as a symptom.
Don't you ever feel like you are less of a man?
What kinds of faces do you imagine the people fucking your girl with? Are they familiar to you
>>27945417
yourself I would think. it's not that I'm accusing you of being a bad person, but how can you live with that?
>>27945651
Less than what? Not less than the omegas posting here.
Mostly, I just imagine her telling me about her sexual exploits. But yes, when I think about her fucking guys, they have blonde hair, blue eyes, and are Chads. Point taken.
>>27945756
>Not less than the omegas posting here
"Omegas" are caricatures. Nobody compares their wealth to the homeless, if they do, they lose.
You know exactly who you compare yourself to
>>27945682
Because it would be worse to dump my girlfriend, who I love and who loves me back, than to just accept that I have incurable Oneitis. I can still be faithful to my girlfriend and take care of her even with this specific form of insanity.
>>27945800
bodegas, krakas, delpas, muh!
real alphas dont use scales to discern between what is below them, because they dont need too and here is why:
there are two types of people in this world, those who are alphas and those who arent.
>>27945809
I don't understand why you got her in the first place
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>>27944539
Dear god, just when I think you people can't get any more pathetic you manage to surprise me.
>>27946823
This
